55 M, always drawn to women 20+ years younger, is this perverse?

[tim33]

My wife is 64, behaves like 70, and is totally sexless. All her female friends are 55+ and totally sexless. Its a sad sad world. But am I a pervert lusting for younger sexy women?

 

[stiv837]

I think a lot of us are in the same boat

 

[willi1796]

My wife is 64, behaves like 70, and is totally sexless. All her female friends are 55+ and totally sexless. Its a sad sad world. But am I a pervert lusting for younger sexy women?

It is in the nature of men that you long for younger active women to have sex with

 

[ericrodman101]

My wife is 64, behaves like 70, and is totally sexless. All her female friends are 55+ and totally sexless. Its a sad sad world. But am I a pervert lusting for younger sexy women?

No, and some of them will want you just for acting your age.

 

[ASUAsh]

Lol, I don't think that makes you a perv.

 

[Older_Pervert]

My wife is 64, behaves like 70, and is totally sexless. All her female friends are 55+ and totally sexless. Its a sad sad world. But am I a pervert lusting for younger sexy women?

Yes, but don’t be ashamed of it - embrace it, I have!

 

[Sweet_b19]

we are sexual beings! no shame in having desires

 

[AnnyMouse28]

I think men in their 50's dating woman in their 30's is a little perverse. But if all parties are consenting what does my opinion matter?

My personal rule is I won't date anyone young enough to be my child or old enough to be my father.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I once fell hard for a man 20+ years older than me.
I called him Daddy.
It was fun.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

To answer your question... LoL..
As long as she's 18... Fantasize away my sexy man!!

 

[Peaker44Redeux]

If you are so am I. I’m 57, wife is 56 but you’d think she was 86. I think it’s most likely because she was way more sexual when she was in her 30’s so that’s why that age group is appealing to me.

 

[Easyvirtue]

Fuck I’m 50, wife 47 and she acts like a nun.
Anyway I work with young women, 18 to 30 and they are so fucking sexy, even the plain Jane girls are sexy in their own way.
My mind races and fantasies start to penetrate my mind, then I get to run home to jack off rather than seduce my wife! Oh well! Anyways I love sex with my wife when it happens but my drive is 100 times that of hers and well, I’m a little at odds. I can divorce her or cheat on her, I love her but a man has desires and that’s something that can’t just be ignored, can it?

 

[Tayloroc]

Fuck I’m 50, wife 47 and she acts like a nun.
Anyway I work with young women, 18 to 30 and they are so fucking sexy, even the plain Jane girls are sexy in their own way.
My mind races and fantasies start to penetrate my mind, then I get to run home to jack off rather than seduce my wife! Oh well! Anyways I love set with my wife when it happens but my drive is 100 times that of hers and well, I’m a little at odds. I can divorce her or cheat on her, I love her but a man has desires and that’s something that can’t just be ignored, can it?

No, it can’t. And I’m old and find older women just as electric!

 

[Easyvirtue]

Sure I find all ages fuckable and hott!

 

[Islander55]

It is certainly not a perversion as long as they are of legal age. How easy is it for a 55 year old guy to hook up with a 25 year old girl? Of course if you have enough money, it is not hard at all. I would think in the 50's, the 40 something woman would be the best target. Been married awhile, perhaps some marital issues. I know I felt a bit neglected in my 40's. Personally I think the older woman is the best choice. If they are into it, there is no game playing and they know what they like. You just have to hang on for the ride.

 

[tim33]

63yr old wife is behaving like she was 83.
Yesterday two 35 yr old gorgeous women were flirting with me, they would fuck with me immediately. They are so fascinating.

 

[gtnlynn]

Not unusual. When my wife was 40, she had a lover who was 60+. He was one of her best lovers.

 

[Creative_Juices]

I’m sure many (most?) women have some similarities, but I think as guys the older we get just the window of interest gets wider. At 60 I can’t say that I don’t appreciate hot 20 somethings any more. They’d have no interest in me, but I still find them attractive. (I lack the ridiculous amounts of money that might drum up a little interest, ha)…
Now your 35 - 50 age group is still a decade and decade plus younger but at least somewhat possible for some reciprocity and filled w beautiful women. However, the older I get the more I find myself desiring my own age group and older. So, in other words, I can easily say, I am capable of carnal thoughts for the 25-75 or so age bracket…sorry, got a little off topic.

 

[hulvamulva]

Nothing wrong with what you described here. It may be helpful to come to an awareness of why you’re attracted to younger women. But there’s nothing wrong with it per-se. Perhaps it’s just a natural attraction to youth and health and vibrancy. Or it’s just because the particular women more your age that you are familiar with are as you say, “sexless”. That’s your experience, and not necessarily true of all older women. Depending on how you’re wired, your situation could make some men desire and seek out sexually adventurous older women.

 

[hulvamulva]

I’m in my late 50’s and for a while now, my attraction to women between the ages of 45 and 65 has become stronger.

 

[Filipinawife]

When I escorted most of my clients would’ve been in the 50s. In most cases, they were just frustrated sexually because their wives didn’t enjoy sex anymore. I came to prefer being with older guys. They tend to be more confident mature. And experienced. My husband is 44, 17 years older than me.

 

[DrewM88]

I'm 35 and lately i've been finding myself really attracted to 19/20 years old. my whole life up until recently i was really attracted to older woman. I don't know. I don't think there's anything wrong with it.

I also grew up in a family where my dad and mom have an age difference between them and they've been married since like 1978

I mainly just fantasize about exploring younger women's bodies. Eating their pussy, etc.

 

[tim33]

For me, for a very long time the MILFs were extremely hot, and that was the reason for meeting my current wife who is 10 yrs older than me. But 2 years after marriage she reached menopause, and since then she has completely lost interest in sex and it never came back the last 10 years. I often meet older women who I find very attractive, but they seem to be totally sexless, and happy that way. While trying to stay a faithful hisband I detected porn, and there i have seen that I am extremely drawn to younger women now.

 

[BackwoodsMama]

Not perverse at all. I find it really fucking sexy. I have always had a thing for older men!!

 

[tim33]

No, it can’t. And I’m old and find older women just as electric!

Yes there are hot ones. But do they still fuck?