5 questions for the sub girls and boys

[cellis]

Would you....

1. Have intercourse with a PYL male or female that you were not attracted to?

2. Perform oral sex on PYL you were not attracted to?

3. Could you be in a long term relationship with a PYL who did not fuck you in your ass/ pussy or other orifice?

4. Which do you consider more intimate... the ass ? the pussy? or the mouth?

5. Which is more important to you... the mental aspects of bdsm or the physical?



1. yes

2. yes

3. yes

4. the ass

5. both but mental wins by an edge....

 

[spankableBelle]

waves hello from the shadows

1. Have intercourse with a PYL male or female that you were not attracted to?

If we're speaking not physically attracted to, yes.

2. Perform oral sex on PYL you were not attracted to?

A bit more discerning here. Yes, however the mental attraction would have to be monumental.

3. Could you be in a long term relationship with a PYL who did not fuck you in your ass/ pussy or other orifice?

No. Probably going seem that i am rather contradictory here, but my submission is as much sexual to me as it isn't. For me, it goes hand in hand, and being used sexually is one of my essential needs...ass, pussy, and mouth.

4. Which do you consider more intimate... the ass ? the pussy? or the mouth?

All are intimate in their own ways and i can't say which is more or less so to me.

5. Which is more important to you... the mental aspects of bdsm or the physical

For me, mental fuels the physical, though again, it works hand in hand, or it doesn't work.

 

[shy slave]

Would you....

1. Have intercourse with a PYL male or female that you were not attracted to?

2. Perform oral sex on PYL you were not attracted to?

3. Could you be in a long term relationship with a PYL who did not fuck you in your ass/ pussy or other orifice?

4. Which do you consider more intimate... the ass ? the pussy? or the mouth?

5. Which is more important to you... the mental aspects of bdsm or the physical?



1. yes

2. yes

3. yes

4. the ass

5. both but mental wins by an edge....

1. No

2 No (but have in past)

3. No (but have in past)

4. The ass

5. Intrinsically linked but the mental has upper hand if have to choose.

 

[dragonlace]

1. Have intercourse with a PYL male or female that you
were not attracted to?

Depends whether you mean physical attraction or mental, they do not have to be physically attractive to be attractive mentally. I think there would have to be some kind of attraction unless of course i was told then it would be a task so i would do it.

2. Perform oral sex on PYL you were not attracted to?

Yes, i have done it in the past just because i wanted to and would probably do it again.

3. Could you be in a long term relationship with a PYL who did not fuck you in your ass/ pussy or other orifice?

No, as belle said it goes hand in hand with me, sex and submission, its what makes it enjoyable for me. Its not that i need it all the time but its definitely a part of it for me.

4. Which do you consider more intimate... the ass ? the pussy? or the mouth?

The ass, as much as i enjoy it, its not something i would want to give to just anyone.

5. Which is more important to you... the mental aspects of bdsm or the physical?

Mental definitely tweeks me more than the physical, without the mental stimulation and control i wouldn't be as physically wanton as i get at times. Stimulate my mind and my body follows.

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

1. Have intercourse with a PYL male or female that you were not attracted to?

Depends on the context. If he ordered me to, I'd have intercourse with whoever he put in front of me. Intercourse with someone else isn't a limit, and being attracted to them definitely isn't a limit.

If I weren't in this relationship, however, all bets are off. No. I'm not interested in getting it on with someone I'm not attracted to.

2. Perform oral sex on PYL you were not attracted to?

See above. Same answer

3. Could you be in a long term relationship with a PYL who did not fuck you in your ass/ pussy or other orifice?

Yes, it wouldn't bother me a bit. If I had a preference, I'd have to say, I like being used orally the most, but pain and control are what does it for me. Needless to say, I take what he dishes out, and like it *grin*.

4. Which do you consider more intimate... the ass ? the pussy? or the mouth?

The mouth, absolutely. Being choked by a thick cock is the ultimate in intimate in my book.

5. Which is more important to you... the mental aspects of bdsm or the physical?

That's a hard call. I can't live without either one, really. He owns my mind, first. But both of us would be miserable without the sadistic/masochistic elements of our relationship.


Cool thread.

~anelize

 

[Xelebes]

1. Have intercourse with a PYL male or female that you were not attracted to?


No. I don't think I could keep it up for her.

2. Perform oral sex on PYL you were not attracted to?

Maybe. Probably, but I'm gonna leave it at a maybe.

3. Could you be in a long term relationship with a PYL who did not fuck you in your ass/ pussy or other orifice?

Yeah. I think I could.

4. Which do you consider more intimate... the ass ? the pussy? or the mouth?

M'lady's pussy. Oral and anal just don't appeal to me. Giving oral on the other hand....

5. Which is more important to you... the mental aspects of bdsm or the physical?

Mental. Definitely.

 

[DarkLadyOfDeath]

1. No, Unless I had a Dom that I trusted saying otherwise. Unless I'm makeing hate to someone... and well thats just evilness and used for rare instances.

2. No, I'm simply not keen on haveing sex of anykind or fashion with someone I do not find appealing. again though as in answer one, right Dom who knows?

3. No, I'm not just into kink I'm quite the lil' nympho. Could I do it with being allowed to have a "lover" on the side.. yes.. BUt then again there are always exceptions to the rules. BUt a rare few there are.

4. Ass, I'm still a virgin in that sense. Of the others.. toss-up... but anything is intimate if you hold the others eye contact.

5. Mental... Though I am a pain slut.. it's a more thorough job in my mind and well by my body's responses that the mental aspect of bdsm appeals to me.. a visual of words over the phone..describeing something can be more stimulateing to my body then physically doing it to me.

I'm just weird...

 

[snowy ciara]

1. Have intercourse with a PYL male or female that you were not attracted to?

Er, I think so. Take my ex for instance. (insert obligatory, please take him! joke here.) Towards the end of our relationship, even though I wasn't particularly attracted to him any more, I slept with him. I think if a Sir or Ma'am told me to, I would.


2. Perform oral sex on PYL you were not attracted to?

Er, I don't know. Oral sex seems so intimate that it would be hard to. Depends on why I was doing it, I guess. If it was a "hey baby, lets do it.." No way.

3. Could you be in a long term relationship with a PYL who did not fuck you in your ass/ pussy or other orifice?

I think so. It's not just about sex, y'know.


4. Which do you consider more intimate... the ass ? the pussy? or the mouth?

Mouth.



5. Which is more important to you... the mental aspects of bdsm or the physical?

Mental, or emotional, rather. I could fuck just about anyone, I think. But really giving of myself in a submissive manner is more than cocks and cunts and orgasms, oh my!

 

[Bandit58]

Would you....

1. Have intercourse with a PYL male or female that you were not attracted to?

2. Perform oral sex on PYL you were not attracted to?

3. Could you be in a long term relationship with a PYL who did not fuck you in your ass/ pussy or other orifice?

4. Which do you consider more intimate... the ass ? the pussy? or the mouth?

5. Which is more important to you... the mental aspects of bdsm or the physical?

Great questions, got me thinking.......

1. Like ciara, I have done it with my ex, but hated it.....if Master ordered me to though, and it was a friend of His, I would.

2. Have done, in the past. Now I don't think I could., but again, if Master ordered it and it was someone He knew, I would.

3. Yes. Master has times when He is not able to, because of His health. During those times we play with toys, or He watches me masturbate. The relationship we share is far more important to me than the ability to fuck.

4. The ass.....Master is the second person to enter me that way. It took me a long time to get the courage up to let anyone near my butt, because of a bad experience I had.

5. Very hard question.....I am new to BDSM, the physical is very important to me because I am still learning so much and still have so much more to experience. But the mental......how the tone of His voice can put me in that place, ready to serve Him......the look in His eyes, the way He says "My slut".....oh hell yeah......

 

[tythisredheadup]

Would you....

1. Have intercourse with a PYL male or female that you were not attracted to?

2. Perform oral sex on PYL you were not attracted to?

3. Could you be in a long term relationship with a PYL who did not fuck you in your ass/ pussy or other orifice?

4. Which do you consider more intimate... the ass ? the pussy? or the mouth?

5. Which is more important to you... the mental aspects of bdsm or the physical?



1. no, there has to be some attraction.

2. no, same as above

3. no

4. the mouth, I don't just put anything in my mouth! I blame the OCD.

5. the mental, absolutely

 

[Anna Sue]

Would you

1. Have intercourse with a PYL male or female that you were not attracted to?

2. Perform oral sex on PYL you were not attracted to?

3. Could you be in a long term relationship with a PYL who did not fuck you in your ass/ pussy or other orifice?

4. Which do you consider more intimate... the ass ? the pussy? or the mouth?

5. Which is more important to you... the mental aspects of bdsm or the physical?




1.Normally I would say No because I need some kind of attraction.

But I go with Ciara and bandit on this one, That I have still sex with my man but the attraction is down to zero.

2.yes, I could

3.Yes

4.There is none which is standing out when i think about intimacy but I am not used to be fuck in the ass and had one bad experience so that one had to be used more carefull.

5. I think both but for me, one does not go without the other.

Anna Sue

 

[Justina123]

What does PYL mean?

-justina

 

[AvaAdore]

What does PYL mean?

-justina

yea...i cant figure it out either.

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

What does PYL mean?

-justina

Thank AA for this one.

PYL=Pick your label

Sub/Dom/Switch/Bottom/Top/Slave/Whatever

Personally, it drives me fucking crazy, it's an affectation of this board, no offense to AA meant.

~anelize

 

[sadunai]

Would you....

1. Have intercourse with a PYL male or female that you were not attracted to?

2. Perform oral sex on PYL you were not attracted to?

3. Could you be in a long term relationship with a PYL who did not fuck you in your ass/ pussy or other orifice?

4. Which do you consider more intimate... the ass ? the pussy? or the mouth?

5. Which is more important to you... the mental aspects of bdsm or the physical?

1. Yes
2. No
3. Yes
4. Mouth
5. Mental

 

[ghosst_K&H]

1. Have intercourse with a PYL male or female that you were not attracted to?

Yes I could, but dont have to

2. Perform oral sex on PYL you were not attracted to?

Yes

3. Could you be in a long term relationship with a PYL who did not fuck you in your ass/ pussy or other orifice?

Yes, as long as there were other stimulation involved, there would have to be some sort of Domination.

4. Which do you consider more intimate... the ass ? the pussy? or the mouth?

Myself, it would be my ass, on a Domme it would be her pussy.

5. Which is more important to you... the mental aspects of bdsm or the physical?

Mental

 

[BrightFlower]

1. No
2. No
3. Yes
4. Mouth
5. Mental

 

[cellis]

What does PYL mean?

-justina

Sorry Ladies.... just a little something that I caught from AA.....

It simply means Pick Your Lable....

You will also see it used as pyl to denote submissivs or bottoms as well...



Thanks you Aneliye for explaining this... You do a great job as always!

 

[redelicious]

Would you....

1. Have intercourse with a PYL male or female that you were not attracted to?

Yes, depending on the situation. I could see myself doing this for someone.

2. Perform oral sex on PYL you were not attracted to?

Harder, but again I think I could if the situation required it.

3. Could you be in a long term relationship with a PYL who did not fuck you in your ass/ pussy or other orifice?

Well considering I'm in a vanilla relationship like this (ha)... yeah, but I'm currently in "there's more to life then sex" mode.

4. Which do you consider more intimate... the ass ? the pussy? or the mouth?

Ass

5. Which is more important to you... the mental aspects of bdsm or the physical?

I was going to say mental, because without it the physical stuff is just play. But I really need the physical stuff, and hey, playing is fun. So I don't know.

Hi Belle

 

[Technodivinitas]

Would you....

1. Have intercourse with a PYL male or female that you were not attracted to?

2. Perform oral sex on PYL you were not attracted to?

3. Could you be in a long term relationship with a PYL who did not fuck you in your ass/ pussy or other orifice?

4. Which do you consider more intimate... the ass ? the pussy? or the mouth?

5. Which is more important to you... the mental aspects of bdsm or the physical?

1. If my Master ordered me to, probably. But then, there'd be a serious turn-on factor there, so does that count?
2. See #1.
3. Have been. Don't care for it, but could deal, if the Domliness factor was excellent. (My master's recently taken to treating my cunt as strictly a reward, except on the occasion when he wants me and my other holes aren't up to it, health-wise, and then he makes sure to scold me, and remind me how generous he's being. ) A former Master, (My first, actually,) spent about 3 months of our relationship fucking my face nightly, with no other sexual contact- and that wasn't what split us up.
4. My ass, definitely. It's taboo, plus it requires ultra-dilligent hygiene on my part to be prepared to take him there any time he pleases. (I'm pretty hard-core on the hygiene anyhow- borderline OCD, so attention to going that extra mile keeps me on my toes!)
5. I have to choose!? I love them both so very much- I think more than anything the importance isn't one or the other, but the balance. Still, if I had to pick one, I'd say the mental.

 

[Technodivinitas]

Re: Re: 5 questions for the sub girls and boys

4. the mouth, I don't just put anything in my mouth! I blame the OCD.

Uhmmm... Are you telling us that you would put just anything in your pussy or your ass?

~ducks the various smacky implements aimed her way~

 

[Etoile]

The only one I feel comfortable answering is #4. I feel that the mouth is the most intimate hole to fuck, because a person's face is who they really are. I find it easier to dissociate from my nether regions, but if I'm being fucked in the face, I can't escape what's happening.

 

[bridgeburner]

Would you....

1. Have intercourse with a PYL male or female that you were not attracted to?

2. Perform oral sex on PYL you were not attracted to?

3. Could you be in a long term relationship with a PYL who did not fuck you in your ass/ pussy or other orifice?

4. Which do you consider more intimate... the ass ? the pussy? or the mouth?

5. Which is more important to you... the mental aspects of bdsm or the physical?

1. Yes, provided that the level of non-attraction didn't stray to vehement disgust.

2. Harder, but yes. Also see #1

3. Not an exclusive one and if I found someone who could give me both I'd transfer my affections. Platonic love is all very well, but I have a need for the physical. --- I'd last longer in a better frame of mind carrying on with a purely physical relationship that didn't involve emotional intimacy.

4. Mouth. definitely the mouth for the reasons Etoile stated.

5. Can't really say, I don't see how they can be separated. If you can't top me mentally/emotionally then you're hardly able to top me physically short of outright rape and that's mental/emotional as well. Could I live a mostly vanilla sex life with someone who was mentally/emotionally dominant? Probably quite happily, but this is an uninformed opinion so take it with a grain of salt.


-B

 

[A Desert Rose]

Would you....

1. Have intercourse with a PYL male or female that you were not attracted to?

2. Perform oral sex on PYL you were not attracted to?

3. Could you be in a long term relationship with a PYL who did not fuck you in your ass/ pussy or other orifice?

4. Which do you consider more intimate... the ass ? the pussy? or the mouth?

5. Which is more important to you... the mental aspects of bdsm or the physical?

1. No. There has to be an attraction for me or it's a no-go.
2. Again, no. (See above.)
3. Yes and I have been in the past.
4. My mouth and others have articulated the reasons why already. No need for me to be redundant.
5. Mental, by a nose.

 

[spankableBelle]

Re: Re: 5 questions for the sub girls and boys

Hi Belle

hiya red