3Some Advice

[Guest]

Ok,
Hubby and I have decided we want to have a 3some with another women, this turns me on just to think about it, but am not sure what to do, we have contacted an escort by email now what? What if I freeze up and look stupid, also, I am not happy with my body right now as I just had a baby, should I wait until I lose all the weight or go for it now?
Thanks

 

[SexyChele]

I've never had a FFM, but I have been involved with an MMF. I do know one of the factors is that everyone involved should feel comfortable with themselves and with each other, or it will not be the full experience it can be.

I've also heard from several bi-women that a woman's first experience with another woman should be something done between the 2 of them. I think women, on average, are less harsh when it comes to what another woman's body looks like. Heck, we have all been in the situation of having to lose a few extra pounds to feel comfortable! But it just makes sense to me that if you are alone with another woman first, then it is bound to make you feel more comfortable when your husband joins you at a later date.

Of course, if your husband gets jealous at this thought, then that is another issue. Also, if you are going through an escort service, then I imagine you are paying for this woman's time, and that can get expensive.

Another alternative might be to try to meet another woman who is open to the idea of a 3some with you and your husband, but who understands that it is only a "one time deal". Believe it or not, there are women out there who are into this! This way, you can meet with her either alone or with your husband, get to know her first and see if everyone feels comfortable and if there is a "spark" of interest. This way may take a little longer, but you may find it more rewarding in the long run.

Just my thoughts, however...

 

[SilverVeil]

My advice is to make sure whoever your prospective partner is going to be is aware that this is your first time with another woman.

If she has done this before, then she should know how to go about putting you at your ease.

Wear something that makes you feel sexy. And let your husband know how much you are relying on his support.

Being with another woman is a wonderful, warm, loving experience.

And I hope it is everything you hope it could be.

Let us know how it goes ok ? I would love to know.

 

[icameforxmas]

i have a similar desire and fear...i would like to try this out, also...but am anxious about freezing up, as well...i have been involved in two heterosexual men and me...but never with a woman...and it REALLY makes me hot to think of sharing my man with another woman...

 

[SlyFox]

3some Advice

Just caught this thread, but thought I'd respond anyway. I noticed that almost all of the replies were from women (and I thought most, if not all, of the advice was right on). So I thought maybe a contribution from a male might be helpful as well.

I "accidently" introduced my wife to a 3some with a mutual female friend when we first began going together. I had known that "Roseann" was bi for sometime, but it never occurred to me to mention it to my wife - for all I knew, she knew as much about "R" as I did.

At any rate, I had invited Roseann to my apartment for dinner with my g/f and I. She was single, living alone and usually lonely and readily accepted the invitation.

After dinner and several drinks, the talk turned to "matters sexual" and the "girls" said that they would really like to see some of my "porno tape" collection. Well, it wasn't long before we were all of us out of our clothes and enjoying each other. At first I thought it would just be me fucking the two girls, but Roseann had other ideas and she was so gentle and so sensitive that "G" hardly realized that she was being made love to by another woman until she responded in kind to Roseann's "ministrations"... All in all it was a great night and a good time was had by all.

"G" still swears that she is NOT bi-sexual, but has to admit that she can get off from a woman's touch as readily as with a man. And since she always believes in giving as good as she gets her female "playmates" are rarely, if ever disappointed...

I don't know if that is any help or not, but the point is to just relax and go with the flow as much as possible. And if you just concentrate on trying to give pleasure TO both of your partners, lo and behold, you will no doubt enjoy some of the most exciting and wonderful sex you could imagine...

Good luck and have a blast...

SlyFox

 

[funwdi]

Relax, go with the flow, and enjoy! You may want to meet ahead of time so it's just a bit easier. Don't forget...if you are uncomfortable with your body, you might have jealous thoughts toward your hubby interacting with another woman. You MAY want him to just watch to start. Think of all of the consequences before you do this. Make sure that you know that you want him to focus on YOU. The escort won't care...she's getting paid. He could make comments in a positive way to you while you are experiencing another woman. Woman to woman sex is unbelievable and intense. Good luck and I hope it turns out!