Hmmmmaybe
Elder Millennial
- Joined
- Apr 22, 2025
- Posts
- 11
Hi Lit,
I’d like to meet people closer to my age (+\- 10 years) for chatting and generally being very horny online with. Open to M and F. I’m on eastern standard time, and would prefer late night chats. A good sense of humor and non-insane politics are a must.
General spelling and punctuation are going to be a big thing for me too.
Bilingual, so we could do this in Spanish too.
I’m an academic, very nerdy about music, movies (aka
cinema
) and the environment. I love (and get turned on by) connecting with others on shared interests.
I’m a feminist and I would very much like to take control of my sexuality and find a way to squirt again. But I can’t seem to get there on my own…I need the right encouragement and inspiration (a Dom - see below - pretty much took that away from me).
(Apologies if this next part is against the rules, I can delete, just let me know…)
I was recently ghosted by my first ever Dom, and I still don’t know what I did wrong. Even though he described himself as gentle and pleasure oriented, I think he was annoyed by my limits and inexperience.
He never set clear emotional and sexual boundaries. He pushed limits I asked him not to, didn’t provide rewards for the (many!!) tasks I completed, signed out of our play sessions after he came (while I was still not finished) and ghosted me when I asked for some aftercare. I told him I was upset and feeling abandoned. He blocked me and deleted all of our channels of communication overnight. He said it was out of concern for my wellbeing and disappeared.
It was so humiliating.
We had established what seemed like a pretty fun dynamic. I was so turned on by the fucked up mental connection we had. But he really did a number on me. The more I think about it, the worse he was at being a Dom.
So while I have a submissive streak in me, I’m not really looking to play with BDSM dynamics after that.
A well placed “good girl” will get you so far, though.
Feel free to DM, help me get over this shit!!
I’d like to meet people closer to my age (+\- 10 years) for chatting and generally being very horny online with. Open to M and F. I’m on eastern standard time, and would prefer late night chats. A good sense of humor and non-insane politics are a must.
General spelling and punctuation are going to be a big thing for me too.
Bilingual, so we could do this in Spanish too.
I’m an academic, very nerdy about music, movies (aka
cinema) and the environment. I love (and get turned on by) connecting with others on shared interests.I’m a feminist and I would very much like to take control of my sexuality and find a way to squirt again. But I can’t seem to get there on my own…I need the right encouragement and inspiration (a Dom - see below - pretty much took that away from me).
(Apologies if this next part is against the rules, I can delete, just let me know…)
I was recently ghosted by my first ever Dom, and I still don’t know what I did wrong. Even though he described himself as gentle and pleasure oriented, I think he was annoyed by my limits and inexperience.
He never set clear emotional and sexual boundaries. He pushed limits I asked him not to, didn’t provide rewards for the (many!!) tasks I completed, signed out of our play sessions after he came (while I was still not finished) and ghosted me when I asked for some aftercare. I told him I was upset and feeling abandoned. He blocked me and deleted all of our channels of communication overnight. He said it was out of concern for my wellbeing and disappeared.
It was so humiliating.
We had established what seemed like a pretty fun dynamic. I was so turned on by the fucked up mental connection we had. But he really did a number on me. The more I think about it, the worse he was at being a Dom.
So while I have a submissive streak in me, I’m not really looking to play with BDSM dynamics after that.
A well placed “good girl” will get you so far, though.
Feel free to DM, help me get over this shit!!
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