3 Doms, 1 sub?

[WriterDom]

I've been approached by a guy who says his friend has this sub, and they like to Dom her together, and sometimes invite a third to participate without telling her. I'd have to meet with the guys first. He is serious enough to give me his phone number. Not sure what the rules are yet.

It seems to me to be a lot of Dom for just one sub. Has anyone been in on a 3 to one? If so, how did it go, and did you enjoy it?

 

[wolf2002]

Damn, this girl must be pretty tough... I'd say... go and find out...

Wolf

 

[shelleb4]

3 2 1 blastoff!

Well i havent a clue to the correct answer, but outside of the bdsm scene, id say this girl is not so much tough - just shopping for a better lap to rest her head in.

 

[WriterDom]

Re: 3 2 1 blastoff!

Well i havent a clue to the correct answer, but outside of the bdsm scene, id say this girl is not so much tough - just shopping for a better lap to rest her head in.

From what I understand she is his slave and this is something they all enjoy.

 

[Moxy Irish]

Lots of choices

Dear WriterDom,

I'm a spanking enthusiast female. I've been topped several times by two Doms at once and a few times by three. It was utterly HOT. I look forward to those scenes every time.

If the Tops are familiar with each other and use complimentary styles of dominance, and if they can get to the point where they simply communicate with each other via expression and quiet words, it really heightens the experience for the sub.

As well, if the Tops are good enough at what they do to be subtle, you have all sorts of choices. I've been bent over a chair arm, kneeling in the seat with a straight backed chair in front of me. The Top working on me was strapping the stuffing outta me...*grin* while the second Top sat in the chair in front of me with my head in his lap (wasn't sexual). He would be nurturing and stroke my head or do something that would make me melt, then he would lock down and pin my arms, or manhandle me a bit. It was totally arousing. I've watched and participated in scenes where two different Tops held wrists and ankles while a third worked on the bottom. They would switch off as they chose, the Tops doing the holding would put the girl into different positions, according to what they felt like. I can say as a bottom chick, being held in place by strong hands and arms beats any kind of equipment bondage any day.

The two Tops I play with doing this kind of thing really know each other. When a third is involved that I don't know as well, he follows the lead of the other Tops. They have styles that are different enough to keep me on my toes, but that fully compliment the other.

AND I know without a doubt that all of them are greatly enjoying themselves. For me, that's an important thing to know.

I have no idea what makes the slavegirl hot or how she likes to be treated. She may love verbal abuse and gang rape for all I know. I'm sure you guys have all the pertinent info concerning that. But for me, I know alternating rough treatment and nurturing is hot, and the dynamic of two or three tops focusing their attention on me and working smoothly as a unit makes me crazy hot.

Take care,
Mox

 

[slaveskinky]

I am sorry. Chuckles

I am sorry but i couldn't help but chuckle. It just hit me funny and here is why. First let start by saying. i don't see how a sub could follow clearly, three Doms ordering her about.. (Confusion Abounds) what struck me funny though was the idea of its not thought uncommon for a Dom to have many subs, but try reversing that and see how quickly a Dom/Master might reject the notion rigourously. Sure sounds like a sub could sure enjoy herself though. Again sorry i didn't think it out.

Mind working overtime here.

 

[ownedsubgal]

I've been approached by a guy who says his friend has this sub, and they like to Dom her together, and sometimes invite a third to participate without telling her. I'd have to meet with the guys first. He is serious enough to give me his phone number. Not sure what the rules are yet.

It seems to me to be a lot of Dom for just one sub. Has anyone been in on a 3 to one? If so, how did it go, and did you enjoy it?

if it's a service or play type of thing, then of course it can work. especially since i get the message this submissive is owned by only one Dominant? in that case, she is pleasing her Master by her service to/use by others, and i'm sure she gets her own fulfillment from it as well. my Master regularly has me serve other Men, Dominants included. i have served up to 7 Dominant men at once, with my Master there guiding everything and keeping me centered, but being directed by all the Dominants present. there was never any confusion or any contradictions, they worked as one. and it was actually a somewhat spontaneous thing...i was offered by my Master to serve the Men in one (very limited) capacity, but once we arrived things quickly escalated and took unexpected turns. i became their little ragdoll. but it was good for me, good for my growth as both a submissive and a slave, good for my experience, good training, and there were moments where i actually physically enjoyed it as well. but of course that is not what it's about. i hope if you decide to proceed down this path, your experience will be as good as all of ours have been.

 

[slaveskinky]

Personal note

Biker enjoys other females,but is very territorial when it comes to sharing me in anyway with other Dom/Masters. So i have little experience with understanding how submitting to more than one Dom even in play would work. Sure sounds interesting though *giggles*

i am enjoying the thoughts i have having.

 

[catalina_francisco]

We have spoken about the possibility sometime in the future of him sharing me with other Dominants, both in a one on one basis, and a shared experience with himself and/or others, but never is it in the context of the Dominants all being on equal footing where I am concerned, or my being allowed to become an unresponsive plaything throughout the experience.

At all times, if and when it happens, as in any situation in which we are involved I am his owned property, and only his, and as such any other involved, Dominant or otherwise, then becomes a tool in his scene, not an equal so to speak. That being said, I may be required to serve them or follow orders, but they will always be subject to his approval and/or suggestion, never as a scene where I am receiving independent orders from others which may or may not conflict. I am not sure how it would work to have more than one issueing orders as they saw fit without a lot of pre-planning which would then risk getting to the point of over orchestrating the whole scene and losing much of it's value for fun and experience IMHO.

Also understood is that I will respond in the manner which he wishes, not passively laying back and being a plaything who makes no effort to please. Whenever I am to be shared, I am expected to do my utmost to please first him, and then whoever else is involved, which does please him....in other words, he wants only those involved who will push me to the limit, will require participation from me....passively accepting it without responding in some manner would be too easy in his opinion.

Catalina

 

[ownedsubgal]

i believe there is a difference between serving multiple men at once, and simply "passively accepting" the situation. either way it is difficult, without question. but as my Master's property, when he presents me to other Men, my place is to serve and serve to the very best of my abilities, always. i must do my best to please them all, as that is what will please my Master. the night of the gang bang with the 7 other Dominants, though i was indeed their ragdoll, their cock recepticle (sp?) and their punching/whipping bag, there was hardly any opportunity for me to simply lie back and let things happen. i paid close attention to all the desires of the Men around me. and above all i kept in mind my Master's firm training, all the things he had taught me. for instance, my Master taught me practically from day one that i am to always make it clear to Men i serve that all my holes are available, all ready to open and spread immediately for use. so, although i was blindfolded throughout the experience and could not see anything or anyone, whenever i sensed the physical presence of one of the Men near my face, i would automatically open my mouth wide, with my tongue flat against the bottom of my mouth and sticking out slightly as my Master taught me. the only words i uttered throughout the evening were "thank you, Sir" whenever any of the Men either caused me a great deal of pain or emptied their fluids onto or into my body (again, what my Master taught me). and instinctually, there are some things that i just never do, such as resisting a Man, even slightly, with either my body or my attitude, which the other Dominants seemed to think were rare qualities in even a submissive female. several times my Master was praised for having such a well-trained slave. it was hardly an easy time for me, but the pleasure i gave my Master and the other Men were immensely gratifying.

while no other Man, Dominant or otherwise, ever has true control over me, my Master has taught me that my place is below ALL Men, that i am to do all i am able to serve any Man who wishes to make use of me in any way. so when i am in a situation where i am serving multiple Dominants at once including my Master, none are "equal" to him, but all are far above me, and i defer to them all. when including others, Daddy always makes his ways and rules and limits clear, and if conflicts ever developed he would have absolutely no issue with grabbing me by the neck and taking their little toy away.


(edited to add, there is nothing wrong with passive acceptance, and in certain circumstances, it is the best course of action)

 

[shelleb4]

Catalina and Slaveskinky, what a wonderful insight into something i know hardly nothing about. And from two perspectives i can see how individual styles colour the flavour of the sub.

Nice, honest. I like it a lot.

 

[lassarina]

i play on a semi-regular basis with 2 Doms and 1 Domme. It didn't start out that way but the relationships between the four of us have evolved and grown and so have we. i'm not sure if they discuss how i am to be handled beforehand but there have been very few occasions that i've felt in like i was in conflict about which orders to follow. i serve them all sexually in whatever ways please them. Each time is a new mind-blowing experience for me because they all take me beyond my current limits. It would not be acceptable for me to be passive-that wouldn't last long! i am expected to show all of them the same courtesy and respect. And, of course, the use of my body. i truly enjoy our time together and always look forward to the next session! i still play with each individually as my schedule permits but truly crave the challenge of pleasing all three of them. Recently we did have an unexpected fourth Dom that was invited to join in and did so. That threw me for a short while since i didn't know him well but i trust the other three completely and was guided by them.

 

[Mr Blonde]

This thread has made for interesting reading. Thanks to everyone for their honest comments!