2 piercing questions

[JohnnyA]

1.) If I got a tounge ring would that enhance my girlfriends fun when I go down on her?

2.) This is the the question I am very curious about. What kind of pierceings are there for my penis that would help me be a better lover and stimulate my girlfriend more?

Thanks in advance.

 

[Rrrosyn]

Not that I have tried a man with many piercings... but I did enjoy a reverse Prince Albert for facing each other. Position is as much a factor as the jewelry.

Never really noticed much difference with the tongue. Except he can keep the ball near my clit while the tip of his tongue runs along my opening. Not like he can properly stimulate both and the tip of his tongue is plenty on my clit.

I used http://tattoo.about.com/cs/beginners/a/blmalegenp.htm when looking. But there are better sites also, just didn't bookmark them evidently.

 

[JohnnyA]

Are there vibrating attachments that I could put on my penis after it heals?
Will it cut open condoms?

 

[Etoile]

Are there vibrating attachments that I could put on my penis after it heals?
Will it cut open condoms?

I don't know about vibrating attachments for the penis; it might depend on the type of piercing. Keep in mind that anything that vibrates probably won't be insertable - the insertable vibrators are usually too big. There are some tiny ones that are insert-safe though.

You could, however, get a TongueJoy. It's a little mini vibrator that attaches to a tongue piercing. (If you don't have one, there's a strap that goes around your tongue.)

 

[JohnnyA]

(If you don't have one, there's a strap that goes around your tongue.)

Fantastic, thanks, that sounds like a lot of fun.

 

[Etoile]

Fantastic, thanks, that sounds like a lot of fun.

I don't know how well it works - if it actually stays on your tongue or not! LOL.

 

[Rrrosyn]

Are there vibrating attachments that I could put on my penis after it heals?
Will it cut open condoms?

j had some trouble with his cutting condoms because it had an inset jewel. It was easily handled by replacing the ring to the RPA with a plain ball or occasionally just turning the jewel around. Penis takes a longer time to heal though. So you're not even looking at masturbating for 2 weeks, 6-12 weeks for sex. (And I advise against getting on a plane two days later. Peassure changes can cause some very messy and inconvient bleeding.)

I wasn't with j when he did his tongue. Both he and my sister say they were eating right after and had no swelling. We've never used a TongueJoy, but we've considered it. Theoretically, if you have a straight penis piercing, it should be able to use the TongueJoy. It would ahve to be lined up right to feel effective and would increase risk of rejection.

 

[CadenThais2]

Piercing question (female)

How long does it take for a clit or hood piercing to heal? Can a padllock be set between them right away??

 

[Kierae]

How long does it take for a clit or hood piercing to heal? Can a padllock be set between them right away??

Clit/hood (assuming hood since nobody really pierces the clit these days) heal very quickly due the amount of blood supply to the area. Most folks I know (including myself) had no issues with any stimulation to the piercing - just have to keep it cleaned. I am not sure what the hell you plan on padlocking regarding the hood piercing (other than for decorative purposes since it wouldn't close off anything) - I have seen padlocking between labia piercings (and also running a ri") bbon/string thru and tieing the labia lips together and shut). I would say you shouldn't apply the pressure of the weight from the padlock on top of the healing process and wait for about 4 weeks.

Bottom line is some folks heal very quickly and others don't - dependent on lifestyle and health. Also you really don't want to risk having the piercing reject so its best to make sure it heals properly.

 

[CadenThais2]

Piercing

my bf pierced both my labia months ago and wants to try using a chain connecting both labia to my hood. He isn't my master but we play master/slave games every once and a while.

 

[Kierae]

my bf pierced both my labia months ago and wants to try using a chain connecting both labia to my hood. He isn't my master but we play master/slave games every once and a while.

awww then the "linking" will work without a problem - depending on how you heal (you are a better judge at that, ie not stinging when you clean etc) than you should have great fun linking all the piercings together. I really would wait for a month unless the lock is light weight (which I have never seen a lightweight one yet).

Have fun

~kierae

 

[warrior queen]

1.) If I got a tounge ring would that enhance my girlfriends fun when I go down on her?

hell, YES!!!

2.) This is the the question I am very curious about. What kind of pierceings are there for my penis that would help me be a better lover and stimulate my girlfriend more?

Thanks in advance.

you could have a 'jacob's ladder' which is essentally a row of straight pierings along the top of your penis.... they act much like an ultra-ribbed condom.
(no - they don't tend to tear condoms.. in fact, i recommend the use of condoms until the piercing is fully healed - about 4 to 6 months)
the PA is a little different - it does tend to tear the condom... don't use 'ultra-thins'!
then there's the 'guiche' piercing.... it's generally done for more aesthetic purposes... but can be fun (check BME)
and then there's the myriad of other penis piercings out there.... have a bit of a look thro the internet - that should give you a few ideas!

wq - piercer extraodinaire

 

[warrior queen]

Are there vibrating attachments that I could put on my penis after it heals?
Will it cut open condoms?

have a look for 'rattlebells'.... they're kinda like 2 balls - a small heavy metal ball inside a larger titanium one, attatched to a hollow titanium bar (the movement of the ball inside the other one resonates thro the hollow bar) - no batteries required.

made by wildcat.

 

[Etoile]

I saw an interesting dildo in the vendor's room at MAL (Mid-Atlantic Leather, 2nd largest leather contest in the U.S.) yesterday. It was silicone, moderately realistic (but black like coal), and it had a PA "piercing" carved right into the silicone. Pretty wild!

BTW, since we're talking about piercing, if anybody is on IAM please look me up - link in my sig.

 

[Stegral]

1.) If I got a tounge ring would that enhance my girlfriends fun when I go down on her?
2.) This is the the question I am very curious about. What kind of pierceings are there for my penis that would help me be a better lover and stimulate my girlfriend more?Thanks in advance.

I will agree with Rrrosyn.... Never really noticed much difference with the tongue.
My "b/f" at the time had his tounge done (actually for the one he was doing behind my back) & I noticed no real difference... if anything he was quite annoying in trying to "make" me feel the ball on his tounge which just didn't do a damn thing, which was a shame as his oral skills were normally awesome... I got frustrated & asked him to stop as I wasn't feeling anything... (in hindsight I realize now he had someone else on his mind..)

as to being a better lover...... PAY ATTENTION to what makes her moan & do happy twitches.... learn to read her body & her sighs.... but that is just how I would like mine to read me in order to please me...
I hate asking...

 

[warrior queen]

I will agree with Rrrosyn.... Never really noticed much difference with the tongue.
My "b/f" at the time had his tounge done (actually for the one he was doing behind my back) & I noticed no real difference... if anything he was quite annoying in trying to "make" me feel the ball on his tounge which just didn't do a damn thing, which was a shame as his oral skills were normally awesome... I got frustrated & asked him to stop as I wasn't feeling anything... (in hindsight I realize now he had someone else on his mind..)

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your bf had to have issues...
1. he didn't have his head in the right space.
2. he absolutely did not know how to use his tongue bar!

used correctly - as an extension.... - he should have been able to send you into subspace.

 

[mlady_france]

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2.) This is the the question I am very curious about. What kind of pierceings are there for my penis that would help me be a better lover and stimulate my girlfriend more?

Thanks in advance.

this is the one my ex had. He usued to put a 10 gauge ring in it that closed with a ball. When he had me doggy style it would rub the gspot and was just amazing. And he actually did it himself, so that sort of tells you a bit about the pain factor.

 

[warrior queen]

this is the one my ex had. He usued to put a 10 gauge ring in it that closed with a ball. When he had me doggy style it would rub the gspot and was just amazing. And he actually did it himself, so that sort of tells you a bit about the pain factor.

NOTE: i would never advocate doing a self-piercing such as this one.
the structures of the inside of the penis are extremely delicate, and a self-done piercing that is done incorrectly can permanently damage a man's ability to have and maintain an erection.

 

[Stegral]

your bf had to have issues...
1. he didn't have his head in the right space.
2. he absolutely did not know how to use his tongue bar!
used correctly - as an extension.... - he should have been able to send you into subspace.

I will agree the now EX was somewhere else.... don't know if it my loss or his... oh well, the new S/O does quite well without it...

 

[southernsky]

my ex had an ampadravya (I think I just butchered that spelling). Anyways, it went all the way through the head of his penis. I had to hold him down to the piercing table when he got it done. We NEVER had a problem with condoms, and oh my god it felt like heaven

 

[mlady_france]

NOTE: i would never advocate doing a self-piercing such as this one.
the structures of the inside of the penis are extremely delicate, and a self-done piercing that is done incorrectly can permanently damage a man's ability to have and maintain an erection.

I'm sorry, I never ment to sujest that some one would do it themselves. Infact for the first 3 months I called him an idiot for doing it. I told him that if he really wanted it done he should have it done by some one who knew what they were doing. It was his own insecurities that made him risk injery to do such a stupid thing. It worked out for him, but he was very lucky.

I am very sorry if my statement in anyway sounded like I was sujesting doing this yourself.

 

[Etoile]

Actually, a lot of guys do their own genital modifications. Not just piercings, either, but subincisions and meatotomies and so forth. I don't understand that, personally: without a thorough understanding of the anatomy and the process, you are undoubtedly putting yourself at great risk. So why on earth would a guy voluntarily cut or pierce his dick if it puts it at risk?! I thought they were more protective of them than that.

BTW, mlady_france, your ex's piercing was called a frenum piercing.

 

[warrior queen]

I'm sorry, I never ment to sujest that some one would do it themselves. Infact for the first 3 months I called him an idiot for doing it. I told him that if he really wanted it done he should have it done by some one who knew what they were doing. It was his own insecurities that made him risk injery to do such a stupid thing. It worked out for him, but he was very lucky.

I am very sorry if my statement in anyway sounded like I was sujesting doing this yourself.

it's not that you sugested anything - that was pretty much the standard disclaimer that i put in when i hear that anyone self-pierces.

not you at all, mlady

 

[warrior queen]

Actually, a lot of guys do their own genital modifications. Not just piercings, either, but subincisions and meatotomies and so forth. I don't understand that, personally: without a thorough understanding of the anatomy and the process, you are undoubtedly putting yourself at great risk. So why on earth would a guy voluntarily cut or pierce his dick if it puts it at risk?! I thought they were more protective of them than that.

BTW, mlady_france, your ex's piercing was called a frenum piercing.

as always, i can do nothing but agree with you.

you're beautiful