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[astralkiss]

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[Ms_Lilith]

when you find out, let me know. My so is 'nilla, and he and I have talked about it and talked about it, and he says he wants to eventually become more dominant, but I think... I don't think it's in him. And I love him to death, and I won't let that ruin what I have with him.. but now and again, I get caught in a submissive fantasy, y'know? Now and again, I do crave it.

One day, I hope he will learn dominance.. I have hope that he will.

Best of luck to you!

 

[Hecate]

Maybe sone inspiartion can be found there:

How do I tell my hubby ....

How do you introduce Bondage into.....

Training Doms

and then of course there is always BDSM Talk Library

Last but not least: I have written an itsy-bitsy essay about that topic on my web page if you like to have a look (click on the little link to www below that post , and have a look in my "Lifestyle" section)

Most of all - it is ok to have kinky BDSM-flavoured sex without any other BDSM issues like submitting, serving, owning etc. in your "out of bedroom" schedule. But if you venture along that road and want your SO to complement your submissive needs be ready to find that he too may have submissive needs ... be ready to return the favour!

 

[Ebonyfire]

Re: Maybe sone inspiartion can be found there:

How do I tell my hubby ....

How do you introduce Bondage into.....

Training Doms

and then of course there is always BDSM Talk Library

Last but not least: I have written an itsy-bitsy essay about that topic on my web page if you like to have a look (click on the little link to www below that post , and have a look in my "Lifestyle" section)

Most of all - it is ok to have kinky BDSM-flavoured sex without any other BDSM issues like submitting, serving, owning etc. in your "out of bedroom" schedule. But if you venture along that road and want your SO to complement your submissive needs be ready to find that he too may have submissive needs ... be ready to return the favour!

Great post, Hecate! Your website is very interesting and informative. Maybe more folk will check it out.

Eb

 

[Hecate]

as we have had little busy elves bumping the interesting though a bit older threads I thought this might be going a bit too far down the page for astralkiss to find it again - so here a bit of bumping on this one too ....