10 Questions

[Netzach]

You ladies are all so nice.

Lightweights.

(but I know Luna's just sitting out this one and could be real nasty -- good to see you back)


C--

What's the most embarrassing of these little assignment thingies you've had to get through?

 

[im_a_voyeur]

You ladies are all so nice.

Lightweights.

(but I know Luna's just sitting out this one and could be real nasty -- good to see you back)


C--

What's the most embarrassing of these little assignment thingies you've had to get through?

Hello Netzach, thanks for the question.

I can't say that I've had any embarrassing assignments but I have had some embarrassing experiences that Marquis has put me through.

I would say that the most embarrassing experience so far has been the time he had me blindfolded, duck tapped my mouth, handcuffed and took me upstairs to the gay couple that lives in his building for a visit. At the time, I was still in the "getting to know you" phase with this couple and I was afraid of the taunting that I was going to have to endure. One of the guys actually did make a couple of jokes but for the most part they were pretty cool about it. Even snapped off a couple of pics and printed them out for us. I pretty much was left to sit by myself and Marquis would come and check on me occasionally to make sure I was ok. The cat took an opportunity to attack me while I was in a vulnerable position but other then that, no harm was done.

(That was question #4)

 

[Marquis]

That was the most humiliating thing I've put you through?

Oh man, I gotta step it up.

*shadow boxes in a corner*


By the way, since your pm box is ever full, I will say hear that your av is great Netz, and you make the best "Yes, I am sitting on a man, and I am rather comfortable, what of it?" face I've ever seen.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Wow. We have never discussed what names we would like for our kids. We make general comments about what our kids might be like but the idea of having kids anytime soon scares us both. We haven't even made up our minds if we definately want to have kids.

Knowing Marquis, he would want the final say on what the child's name would be. Actually, now I'm curious about what names he would like.

(1 down, 9 to go...)

Didn't have time last night to post here, but when I read the question, thought perhaps if you have 3 (at least 1 male) they could be Marquis, De, and Sade? Nice to see you here...perhaps we can persuade Marquis to order your presence more often.

Catalina

 

[FurryFury]

Okay, maybe I shouldn't ask this but it keeps coming up in my mind as what I am most curious about.

What was it really like being in a poly relationship, what was great about it, what was hard and anything else you want to tell us?

I would have been somewhat insecure, (I always am,) and jealous too. but I got the sense that you two ladies enjoyed one another in some ways that frankly, I would like to do with another female.

Fury

 

[Marquis]

*chuckles madly*

 

[im_a_voyeur]

That was the most humiliating thing I've put you through?

Oh man, I gotta step it up.

*shadow boxes in a corner*

I had a feeling this was going to get your wheels turning. That was the most humiliating thing publicly that you made me do. What happened Friday at the fetish party was pretty bad too but I didn't want to make a big deal about it since you were so proud of me.

 

[im_a_voyeur]

Okay, maybe I shouldn't ask this but it keeps coming up in my mind as what I am most curious about.

What was it really like being in a poly relationship, what was great about it, what was hard and anything else you want to tell us?

I would have been somewhat insecure, (I always am,) and jealous too. but I got the sense that you two ladies enjoyed one another in some ways that frankly, I would like to do with another female.

Fury

This was the question I most dreaded and that is why Marquis is enjoying me squirm.

I wasn't a fan of the whole poly thing and I had to be persuaded to give it a try. Killi in many ways was the ideal person to try this out with. But the fundamental problem was that even though we liked each other and were pretty friendly with each other, there wasn't any real chemistry between us. What I mean by this is that we probably wouldn't have been close friends if it wasn't for the fact that we were both dating Marquis.

One of the main aspects I liked was being able to watch Marquis and Killi have sex. It was pretty hot (yes folks, they don't call me a voyeur for nothing).

I did have some jealousy issues. I don't have a problem with sharing Marquis physically with other women but sharing his heart was a big problem for me. I had a lot of guilt with the whole thing because Killi was such a great girl but I was having a hard time with how fast his feelings were developing for her.

Another complication was that I felt like I was living a life of secrecy. I couldn't tell people about what was going on in my relationship. I told one of my "liberal" friends and she talked about me so badly that I knew that if I told my other friends or family (who are definitely more conservative then this one particular friend) it would create more problems then I was ready to deal with.

There were things that I learned from the situation that were definately beneficial. Would I rule out poly in the future? I don't like to say never but the situation would have to present itself very favorably in order for me to consider it.


(Noticed how I added my own question at the end? That was a bonus since you guys have been so great, lol. Anyways, that's #5)

 

[Netzach]

Hello Netzach, thanks for the question.

I can't say that I've had any embarrassing assignments but I have had some embarrassing experiences that Marquis has put me through.

I would say that the most embarrassing experience so far has been the time he had me blindfolded, duck tapped my mouth, handcuffed and took me upstairs to the gay couple that lives in his building for a visit. At the time, I was still in the "getting to know you" phase with this couple and I was afraid of the taunting that I was going to have to endure. One of the guys actually did make a couple of jokes but for the most part they were pretty cool about it. Even snapped off a couple of pics and printed them out for us. I pretty much was left to sit by myself and Marquis would come and check on me occasionally to make sure I was ok. The cat took an opportunity to attack me while I was in a vulnerable position but other then that, no harm was done.

(That was question #4)

Nice, fairly wicked and wrong.

 

[im_a_voyeur]

Didn't have time last night to post here, but when I read the question, thought perhaps if you have 3 (at least 1 male) they could be Marquis, De, and Sade? Nice to see you here...perhaps we can persuade Marquis to order your presence more often.

Catalina

Please, Catalina... don't give this man any ideas, lol.

 

[snowy ciara]

Drive by posting here, as I'm getting ready to go to PT...

Hi C, nice to meet you...

I've always got the feeling that Marquis is (beggin' pardon in advance) a demanding hardass with a work hard/play hard sort of 'tude. (I actually understand the "work hard/play hard" thing.) He also comes across as a really sadistic sort of guy who likes to push buttons. So, have you ever had to say no to him because he's wanted too much? Or had to safeword? I mean, in my limited experience, I've had a really really hard time saying "no" even when I KNEW I was in over my head. I'm probably not saying this well, but Marquis is a volatile personality and that makes safewording (or just saying no to something in a generic sense) very very frightening. Can you do it? Is it hard to do? And how does he handle it?

This is all one question, btw.... Just to be a hardass. I can't be a hardass to say, the same level as Netz, but I can try. And, as shy said, you can ignore any or all of it.

 

[bridgeburner]

Voyeur,

My brain is tapped so I will pose no questions but it's lovely to "meet" you and I wanted to apologize in person for misspelling your name repeatedly for months for no damn good reason except feeble-mindedness. ;->

-B

 

[FurryFury]

This was the question I most dreaded and that is why Marquis is enjoying me squirm.

I wasn't a fan of the whole poly thing and I had to be persuaded to give it a try. Killi in many ways was the ideal person to try this out with. But the fundamental problem was that even though we liked each other and were pretty friendly with each other, there wasn't any real chemistry between us. What I mean by this is that we probably wouldn't have been close friends if it wasn't for the fact that we were both dating Marquis.

One of the main aspects I liked was being able to watch Marquis and Killi have sex. It was pretty hot (yes folks, they don't call me a voyeur for nothing).

I did have some jealousy issues. I don't have a problem with sharing Marquis physically with other women but sharing his heart was a big problem for me. I had a lot of guilt with the whole thing because Killi was such a great girl but I was having a hard time with how fast his feelings were developing for her.

Another complication was that I felt like I was living a life of secrecy. I couldn't tell people about what was going on in my relationship. I told one of my "liberal" friends and she talked about me so badly that I knew that if I told my other friends or family (who are definitely more conservative then this one particular friend) it would create more problems then I was ready to deal with.

There were things that I learned from the situation that were definately beneficial. Would I rule out poly in the future? I don't like to say never but the situation would have to present itself very favorably in order for me to consider it.


(Noticed how I added my own question at the end? That was a bonus since you guys have been so great, lol. Anyways, that's #5)

Thanks for your answer.

I'm sorry I asked the question you were dreading.

I am certain I would have been extremely uncomfortable as well.

I do think it would help if the other person were someone you were more in synch with on many levels.

From what I can tell you are a very beautiful person inside and out, with a wonderful brain and heart. I think Marquis is lucky to have you in his corner and as well as giving yourself to him the way you do.

Fury

 

[im_a_voyeur]

Drive by posting here, as I'm getting ready to go to PT...

Hi C, nice to meet you...

I've always got the feeling that Marquis is (beggin' pardon in advance) a demanding hardass with a work hard/play hard sort of 'tude. (I actually understand the "work hard/play hard" thing.) He also comes across as a really sadistic sort of guy who likes to push buttons. So, have you ever had to say no to him because he's wanted too much? Or had to safeword? I mean, in my limited experience, I've had a really really hard time saying "no" even when I KNEW I was in over my head. I'm probably not saying this well, but Marquis is a volatile personality and that makes safewording (or just saying no to something in a generic sense) very very frightening. Can you do it? Is it hard to do? And how does he handle it?

This is all one question, btw.... Just to be a hardass. I can't be a hardass to say, the same level as Netz, but I can try. And, as shy said, you can ignore any or all of it.

Hi Snowy.

To answer your question, yes, there have been times that I have said no initially and then after a discussion, I would change my mind or we would come to a compromise. I know that Marquis gets frustrated sometimes by this because he would like me to do as I'm told and not ask any questions. This doesn't happen a lot but it usually happens when we are at fetish parties for some reason. I get really nervous at those things. I feel like everyone's eyes are on us and it makes me feel very self-conscious.

For the most part, I'm pretty obedient. At times, I'll jokingly say no knowing damn well I am going to do what I was told but I do it just to be fresh to get a rise out of him.

I think there is a thread somewhere about the safewording issue. I'm not really a masochist so there are times when I will have to safeword when the pain becomes too intense for me. I'm trying to work on my pain tolerance but it seems that it's usually higher when I'm angry. I don't like safewording but sometimes it gets to the point where I feel like I am going to go insane if I let it continue. I feel pretty guilty afterwards because I know I've dissapointed him but he has let me know that as long as he sees me putting in a good effort then he is okay. I'm sure he says this to try to put my mind at ease because I know this frustrates him greatly. I guess we both have areas that requires the other person to exercise a lot of patience.

(Alright, this is #6. Things are moving pretty quickly today.)

 

[im_a_voyeur]

Voyeur,

My brain is tapped so I will pose no questions but it's lovely to "meet" you and I wanted to apologize in person for misspelling your name repeatedly for months for no damn good reason except feeble-mindedness. ;->

-B

Hello Bridgeburner.

I didn't realize you were spelling my name incorrectly much less even mentioning my name, lol. Thanks for the apology even though it wasn't needed.

(Now, I'm going to be racking my brain trying to figure out where you spoke about me. Am I going to have backtrack and stalk your posts to solve this mystery?....hmmmmmmm.)

 

[im_a_voyeur]

Thanks for your answer.

I'm sorry I asked the question you were dreading.

I am certain I would have been extremely uncomfortable as well.

I do think it would help if the other person were someone you were more in synch with on many levels.

From what I can tell you are a very beautiful person inside and out, with a wonderful brain and heart. I think Marquis is lucky to have you in his corner and as well as giving yourself to him the way you do.

Fury

How sweet of you to say this. I truly am touched. Thank you.

You see, this was more dangerous then I thought. You guys are all being so nice to me trying to woo me into posting more.

I wonder if that was Marquis' intent afterall....

 

[FurryFury]

How sweet of you to say this. I truly am touched. Thank you.

You see, this was more dangerous then I thought. You guys are all being so nice to me trying to woo me into posting more.

I wonder if that was Marquis' intent afterall....

*L*

He's a sly one. You never know.

You are very welcome. I've admired you for a long time just from the few posts I've seen and of course your pictures.

Fury

 

[babiesmiles]

Hi im_a_voyeur , I have no questions at the moment but I wanted say you hello and express my hope you can post more often on here .

 

[leavessnailtrails]

?????

 

[im_a_voyeur]

Hi im_a_voyeur , I have no questions at the moment but I wanted say you hello and express my hope you can post more often on here .

Hey there, Babiesmiles. Thanks for the kinds words.

 

[NemoAlia]

Howdy, im_a_voyeur! Here's one:

What addictions do you (fear you/fear you may eventually) have?

 

[im_a_voyeur]

Hey sexy,

I didn't realize that I am actually a bit sadistic until you provided us with this thread, and therefore the tools to explore. So here it is:

What would you like Marquis to do (to/with you) that you never let him know that it is your wish or desire; because you would be embarrased to ask and afraid that even He might be shocked?

Wow, that is some ugly sentence.... couldn't fix it sorry.

LOL, that's cool. I get what you're asking. Thanks for submitting a question.

Sorry to dissapoint but there isn't anything that I desire that I haven't told Marquis. Even things that are embarrassing I have told him. He makes me feel very comfortable about talking about my fantasies.

He's indulged most of my fantasies but there's a few that we haven't touched yet. We'll hopefully get to a point where everything on my list gets checked off but I'm sure by then I'll have new interests to add.


(That takes care of #7)

 

[leavessnailtrails]

??????

 

[im_a_voyeur]

Howdy, im_a_voyeur! Here's one:

What addictions do you (fear you/fear you may eventually) have?

Hello, NemoAlia.

I don't have any addictions that I fear. I guess I should be afraid of being a sex addict because in the past I've stayed in a relationship longer then I should have because I don't like to go a long time without having sex. The sex between me and Marquis is pretty hot so it's quite possible it could get to a point where things were pretty shitty between us but I would stick around for the fabulous anal, LOL.


(That's #8)

 

[im_a_voyeur]

Aaaaaw, shucks!
Thanks for answering my question luv, and yes, a bit disappointing indeed.... Was hoping for something that might tickle my mind for a little while.
However, I am glad to see he's got you covered! Maybe I should have known that and decided on a better question...
If I go back and erase it, does that mean it never got asked, I wonder...

(see how carefully I formulated that as to not being a question, so not to lose your presence too soon...)

LOL, I guess you're a bit more sly then I thought, you naughty thing you!