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[Shi_One81]

Need advice? Are you good at giving advice? Post ‘em up here!

 

[Diosax]

Don't really need help anymore but my FWP today was that I couldn't figure out how to stop all the files on my laptop from syncing with dropbox. I spent way too much time solving that instead of things I actually had on my to do list

 

[Shi_One81]

I’ll start, unless someone hits post before I do.
I’ve posted many times about my local FWB and y’all I need help! We’ve been seeing each other since November and it’s still pretty much just texts, movies, cuddles, and bjs. We still haven’t had sex because he thinks it would be disrespectful. My vanilla man toy does not understand ethical nonmonogamy at all!
Friday when I was at his house, he was calling me babe a lot which is kinda new and he mentioned how he’d like to rent us a hotel room with a hot tub. We’ve never discussed taking our “relationship” beyond the walls of his house. I’m just confused. I don’t know if it was the beers he was drinking or how he really feels.
I’ve also developed some feelings for him which I’ve never had happen. I just don’t know what to do or where to start. This is unchartered territory for me.

 

[Diosax]

I’ll start, unless someone hits post before I do.
I’ve posted many times about my local FWB and y’all I need help! We’ve been seeing each other since November and it’s still pretty much just texts, movies, cuddles, and bjs. We still haven’t had sex because he thinks it would be disrespectful. My vanilla man toy does not understand ethical nonmonogamy at all!
Friday when I was at his house, he was calling me babe a lot which is kinda new and he mentioned how he’d like to rent us a hotel room with a hot tub. We’ve never discussed taking our “relationship” beyond the walls of his house. I’m just confused. I don’t know if it was the beers he was drinking or how he really feels.
I’ve also developed some feelings for him which I’ve never had happen. I just don’t know what to do or where to start. This is unchartered territory for me.

It's totally normal to start developing feelings for someone who is your FWB if you're spending so much time with him doing nonsexual things.

I'd say first have an honest conversation with yourself about what you feel and what you want and then communicate that to him!

Also tell the man is not disrespectful if you want it

 

[Shi_One81]

It's totally normal to start developing feelings for someone who is your FWB if you're spending so much time with him doing nonsexual things.

I'd say first have an honest conversation with yourself about what you feel and what you want and then communicate that to him!

Also tell the man is not disrespectful if you want it

Right? Like come on dude, get it in already! Lol

 

[Shi_One81]

I accidentally used Worcestershire sauce instead of soy sauce while cooking
HUGE mistake! Lol