🏡PLP's B&B for Deviants, Darlings & Dorks: The Sequel

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Yes. The comments under those pictures are upsetting. Everyone says ignore it but it's very difficult. If you don't have to face it, you'll never really understand.
 
Yes. The comments under those pictures are upsetting. Everyone says ignore it but it's very difficult. If you don't have to face it, you'll never really understand.

I've mentioned before and elsewhere, my Ex got so bad with her body dysphoria that she had to be admitted to help. A year and a half total between in house treatment and half-way house treatment. It made me so much aware of how I contributed, and now I strive to not contribute by being careful of how I say things. It really hurts when you see someone you care about a lot struggling with this.
 
I've mentioned before and elsewhere, my Ex got so bad with her body dysphoria that she had to be admitted to help. A year and a half total between in house treatment and half-way house treatment. It made me so much aware of how I contributed, and now I strive to not contribute by being careful of how I say things. It really hurts when you see someone you care about a lot struggling with this.

So true!!

Now... can I see some sexy bodies???
 
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When I took this, it was the hardest pic to share with anyone. I knew people would judge me for it - either for my chubby tummy and big thighs or just because I chose to show so much of myself on a public forum. And I did catch some hate over it, but you know what - I don't feel beautiful most days, but I did this day. So fuck them.
I think this is a great pic. and that is a beautiful woman's body. I think you beautiful and sexy.
 
When I took this, it was the hardest pic to share with anyone. I knew people would judge me for it - either for my chubby tummy and big thighs or just because I chose to show so much of myself on a public forum. And I did catch some hate over it, but you know what - I don't feel beautiful most days, but I did this day. So fuck them.

That’s because you ARE beautiful, Indie. And I’ve seen you without makeup, without poses...you are a natural beauty. 💜
 
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When I took this, it was the hardest pic to share with anyone. I knew people would judge me for it - either for my chubby tummy and big thighs or just because I chose to show so much of myself on a public forum. And I did catch some hate over it, but you know what - I don't feel beautiful most days, but I did this day. So fuck them.


And I would pay between $1,000 and $1,000,000 to look as gorgeous as you.

Love you :heart:
 
Amen to it all, Pulpy. Well thought out, passionate, and accurate. Hella on point.

It’s so easy to compliment everyone else but their compliments to you make you very self conscious. It’s hard to accept them. And I’m SO happy to see more women of every size in advertising. Hell, a SoulCycle ad on FB had a bigger girl. Which is funny because their clothes only fit tiny people.

As someone that works out a lot (and I means lot), it really pisses me off that weight = level of laziness. I know many thin people that never work out and many heavier people that do. Lazy is a character trait, not a size trait. Now, plenty of people use ‘self love’ as an excuse to be lazy and plenty of larger women take it personally if you’re larger and work out a lot (like you somehow don’t like yourself). It comes from every side. Don’t even talk to me about going to a doctor! Odds are they couldn’t live as much as I can, but they sure can just me by what the scale says.

It’s an often ugly, contradictory, and mean world. Self care has taken to meaning manicures and mimosas not a walk with a friend (plenty of articles about self care being a new market for consumerism). Bah I’m off topic but I completely agree with you.

You are - and the ever girls here I know - lovely women. Smart, passionate, honest, and sexy. That’s without even seeing all of you. And THATS the shit that matters and lasts.
 
Bah I just do this because I’m a total masochist. And I like proving people wrong. I was sick for almost 4 months and took a back slide but am not back to it even coughing up a lung in the back of the studio. Don’t mind me, just partially dying if the consumption over here!
 
Thank you for the post PLP! I fall into the plus/curvy size range myself, but I think body positivity is something that a lot of us struggle with to some extent regardless of our size due to media only representing the supermodel body type for so long. I think what Gillette did was great, and I wish more things like that had been around when I was younger to encourage me to go out, be active, and live my best life regardless of how I looked (or thought I looked) at the time. I feel like I have a good self body image these days and feel good rocking my cutout swimsuit without a cover-up, but it has been a journey to get here, and I know I have further to go still. So on that note, on with the beautiful bodies!!!

https://i.pinimg.com/564x/34/32/a0/3432a0e12308648f7b683e941439b930.jpg
 
Fyi I follow some pretty good body and gender inclusive IG pages and they’ve really informed me in a positive way. As in, way better than any ‘plus size’ clothing company where everyone has a flat stomach but a thick ass
 
indiesoul; When I took this said:
I remember that picture and how much I liked how you looked in it. Its a beautiful picture of a real live beautiful woman. And for what its worth I still believe that its a beautiful picture and that you are rocking confidence and sexiness in it.

As for my sentiments on body positive. Beauty comes in all shapes, colors and sizes. Naturally curvy women are more the biological norm than overly thin women. Our Mother's and their Mother's didn't have the access to professional trainers, nutritionists and modern gym equipment evident today. They took care of families, worked in gardens and jobs for extra income. Being too thin was an aberration then. So the bottom line, curvy is good, plus size is good. As long as your body is healthy and your doctors not telling you that you need to be doing something different then just be you.
 
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When I took this, it was the hardest pic to share with anyone. I knew people would judge me for it - either for my chubby tummy and big thighs or just because I chose to show so much of myself on a public forum. And I did catch some hate over it, but you know what - I don't feel beautiful most days, but I did this day. So fuck them.
Fuck em, is right! It’s a gorgeous shot of you, the real you and the beautiful you. 💋
 
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