“How is this even sexy?” - The kinks that don’t make sense to you

[Yarglenurp]

I recently learned about this kink called “plapping,” in which a guy will cage his cock and then “plap” it with a dildo (often black, always big) until he orgasms, usually while watching porn. It’s apparently popular with the sissy chastity crowd.

This makes me think that porn availability and porn addiction have really warped people’s minds on what they find “sexy.” Truly we are living in the future…

Anyone else here have had one of those “what even is going on here” types of moments? Ideally, paired with a “ok, I know a kinky dude(tte), but I never considered this within the realm of possible kinks.”

 

[cdstefi]

God there are so many! Anal gaping, just why? Likewise anything scat (although I don't mind golden showers and have enjoyed a bit of pee play).

 

[Mypssypls]

Choking

 

[Mypssypls]

Fisting

 

[jd_sw]

Scat. Doesn't the awful smell just turn you off?

 

[UnexpectedLuggage]

Scat, fisting, choking, gagging, feet, SPH. I'm sure there are others. If people enjoy them, more power to them, but I just don't get it.

 

[LMWM321]

Yes to all the above with the subtraction of feet. A top view of pretty, feminine feet excites me (gotta be clean, short nails.)

Add to the above list Spitting. Fucking gross. Especially dude spit. Uck.

Makes me glad I can still get very excited for plain ole lights-off missionary position sex, if that is all my wife is into that night. I'd be afraid that all these kinks would mean the baseline for enjoyment becomes untenable. ..And having to explain them to new partners? Ugh...

I'm not judging, I'm just saying I'm happy for my middle-of-the-road tastes

 

[StrongMaster7]

To each his own.

I understand a thread like this, but it serves no positive purpose.

 

[AG31]

I understand a thread like this, but it serves no positive purpose.

What is your understanding of it?

The purpose is to broaden our understanding of the variety of humans there are around us.

 

[strongnsensual]

Next up - "the threads that don't make sense to you..."

Back to this thread:

Bully related kinks. Just no.

Orgasm denial. I mean, arousal about not being able to compete the conclusion of arousal?

Politics. Can we please leave @$^#$ politics out of SOMETHING?

The father does daughter in law or son humiliates father stuff is beyond unappealing.

And I've always found the BBC genre in general just awful.

Maybe I'm pretty vanilla. All I want out of sex is a closet nympho in a teal french maid costume who's hot for me alone, is left handed and trying to get me so seduced and turned on that I'll agree to her identical twin joining us for a threesome trip around the world, all taking place in a treehouse in an oak tree during a thunderstorm on a deserted island in the southern hemisphere. Is that so much to ask?

 

[Mypssypls]

Scat, fisting, choking, gagging, feet, SPH. I'm sure there are others. If people enjoy them, more power to them, but I just don't get it.

Agree with feet. Pretty feet, yes. But most feet are not pretty

 

[Mypssypls]

To each his own.

I understand a thread like this, but it serves no positive purpose.

For the purpose of discussion.

I dont understand the whole politics section of this forum. Unless anyone finds trump sexy. But hey, to each their own right?

 

[Yarglenurp]

For the purpose of discussion.

I dont understand the whole politics section of this forum. Unless anyone finds trump sexy. But hey, to each their own right?

I think it’s so there is an outlet at all. Without it, political talk would inevitably come in, since porn/erotica is inherently political simply by existing and there’s a large swathe of people who are always trying to ban it (even when they are the primary consumers of it).

 

[svengali_decL]

Conversely, soft and sensual arousal, foreplay and long awaited mind blowing orgasms, always seem to work out.
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Or has the world changed that much and I really am an 'ol dog' now...?

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

I recently learned about this kink called “plapping,” in which a guy will cage his cock and then “plap” it with a dildo (often black, always big) until he orgasms, usually while watching porn. It’s apparently popular with the sissy chastity crowd.

This makes me think that porn availability and porn addiction have really warped people’s minds on what they find “sexy.” Truly we are living in the future…

Anyone else here have had one of those “what even is going on here” types of moments? Ideally, paired with a “ok, I know a kinky dude(tte), but I never considered this within the realm of possible kinks.”

Incest save for maybe an aunt or cousin.

 

[SPARTAN047]

I recently learned about this kink called “plapping,” in which a guy will cage his cock and then “plap” it with a dildo (often black, always big) until he orgasms, usually while watching porn. It’s apparently popular with the sissy chastity crowd.

I've seen that, I didn't know it had a name. Thanks. Or riding huge black dildos in chastity.

This makes me think that porn availability and porn addiction have really warped people’s minds on what they find “sexy.” Truly we are living in the future…

Yes, it has, and I'm proud of it.

Anyone else here have had one of those “what even is going on here” types of moments? Ideally, paired with a “ok, I know a kinky dude(tte), but I never considered this within the realm of possible kinks.”

I used to but I'm getting more open minded.

 

[calmlikeabomb]

Food. I guess because I'm the kind of guy who eats to live, not lives to eat. It's just messy and usually not in a good way.

Also, anal gaping, rosebud, or whatever the fuck is it that the kids call it these days. Feels like a fucking horror movie, and I'm a fairly kinky guy by any metric.

 

[Davidwa1]

I don't understand golden showers or skat. But I love cuckolding, chastity, and most things related. I know most people don't understand that either. So I just ignore the things I'm not into.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

Plenty of " weird" stuff that people get off on. I think calling it a kink makes it seem all right for people.

 

[live4thebj]

Bodily fluids. Dressing like a baby. Bonding. But I have bonded woman before. That was fun.

 

[SPARTAN047]

I don't understand golden showers or skat. But I love cuckolding, chastity, and most things related. I know most people don't understand that either. So I just ignore the things I'm not into.

Our fetishes are the same except I like some of the ones you don't.

 

[Liquor_Starfish]

Feet. Not judging, but feet?

 

[lily_wall_]

Scat

Someone sent me a video of a guy cumming in a woman's eye... What the fucking fuck is going on in Japan!!???

Most people would agree these two are bit out there. The unpopular opinion would be... Cuckold. I get sharing, but not why anyone would want to be a cuck. I want to see my husband with other woman, but I do want to join them at some point

 

[strongnsensual]

Something else I don't get - joining a discussion about a fetish just to say "ewww, that's gross!"

I see threads about fetishes that really turn me off.

I stay out of those threads.

 

[bobb_sledd]

Something else I don't get - joining a discussion about a fetish just to say "ewww, that's gross!"

I see threads about fetishes that really turn me off.

I stay out of those threads.

I get what you mean -- and generally I agree. However, sometimes the way the topic/title is posed, and the introduction is written, it reads like an invitation for dissenters to also chime.