self incriminating tapes

hello everybody,

i am a submissive male who just got one of these digital camcorders and a tripod. it has always been one of my fantasies to be taped while "doing stuff" and to be blackmailed to do even more humiliating/submissive/daring stuff because of these tapes. (and of course be taped while doing it, kind of entering a vicious cycle). since i now have the equipment to do a bit more than just to fantasize, i was wondering if anyone has any suggestions for making tapes like this. what kind of humiliating and self incriminating tasks would you have somebody do to gain control of him? any ideas and suggestions are appreciated. thank you!

subatomichub

best advice I can give don't do it.

If you're in a job that requires "morals" or will find laws/rules to bust you for the lack of, don't do it.
Otherwise- I'd say go for it and keep the ONLY copies yourself in a password protected file on your puter.

Your PYL can threaten you with making you share them with others but you're still safe from them ending up heaven only knows where.

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thank you for your replies. i am very thrilled about the prospect of going through with this. i am just trying to figure out what 's the best way to getting started. maybe the personal forum will help?!

It worked really well for Pammy and Paris.

They come in handy during a divorce too!

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I'm curious, why do you suggest that? It didn't seem like a logical jump to me.

I thought it was a personal ad at first, too.

subatomic, what do you find personally humiliating? Some people are humiliated by urinating in front of someone, preferably into a non standard container. Some people do it as a symol of submission and some people have no problem with it. Some people hate ass play, some people thrive on it. These aren't really suggestions, these are just examples.

Look at what you personally find to be a humiliating turn on, and a humiliating turn off and go from there. You may want to do the "yes, no, maybe" thing that I've seen in some bdsm books. That's where you take a sheet of paper and subdivide it into three columns and then list every possible evil, sexy or humiliating thing that you can think under the appropriate headings for you. If you need inspiration, peruse the library above or Google "limit lists" and "bdsm" or some thing like that.

My first thought when I read your post was "I don't know" and it seems that a few of us have the same reluctance. Be careful what you put on tape as it may get on the Internet and then VOILA other people (who are important in your life, be if SO, boss, etc) may "accidently" find it.

Oh and you do not mention your age. What if you want to be president of a firm, a judge, a lawyer, governer, etc. These tapes will be found.

Miss Diva said:

My first thought when I read your post was "I don't know" and it seems that a few of us have the same reluctance. Be careful what you put on tape as it may get on the Internet and then VOILA other people (who are important in your life, be if SO, boss, etc) may "accidently" find it.

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For pornography in general, I have the opposite approach. I've already appeared in public pornography (print) and I'm expecting to do more (pay web) in the upcoming months. I don't hide the fact that I've been in porn. Now granted I wasn't doing anything particularly incriminating, but it's still the type of thing that makes people say "she'll never be a politician."

Personally, I don't care. I am a sexual person, and part of that is manifested by having appeared in the pictures. If an SO, friend, or relative can't handle that, then they can't handle who I am, fundamentally. I don't need to share that part of me with a boss, of course, but if they find out on their own then it's their doing. I was rather surprised to hear that my biological father had seen my pictures (my parents got divorced when I was a baby, but I found his phone number recently and contacted him) but it still didn't really upset me...then again, he's not really anybody important to me either. I was a little embarrassed when my mentor from high school mentioned having seen them, but he's a cool guy and I know he took it well, so it doesn't bother me.

If the point is to be humiliated, as it is for subatomichub, then I do agree it's inappropriate to do this in any manner in which somebody could find out. Things like this should be consensual, and "accidentally" showing these tapes to an uninvolved party is completely non-consensual. I do realize that the humiliation needs to truly be shameful in order for it to truly feel humiliating, but that doesn't mean you have to fuck with other people who aren't part of your sex life. Perhaps an alternative is to share the tape with a swingers group or another person with whom you are comfortable sharing your sexuality. Anybody you're not and could not be sexually involved with should not become an unwilling participant in this. (And no "accidentally" returning the wrong tape to the video store!)

also begs the question of what my boss was surfing to have found me.

Netzach said:

also begs the question of what my boss was surfing to have found me.

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very true...

Netzach said:

also begs the question of what my boss was surfing to have found me.

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This reminds me of my Senior year in high school. The entire senior class was taking a trip to Disney World on charter buses, with different groups of kids signing up under different group names to be seated together. I chose the name "Ron Jeremy" for my group.

Inevitably we were called down to the office and everyone in my group was screaming at me for getting them in trouble and all I could think was "If they're so fucking pristine, why do they know about Ron Jeremy?"


I've been very paranoid about sex tapes I've made in the past. Then again, I didn't really have the privacy to keep such sensitive material at the time. Sometimes I even wonder about the pictures and details I post in this forum, and if I'll regret it one day.

I may have to reincarnate at some point to protect my identity.

Marquis said:

This reminds me of my Senior year in high school. The entire senior class was taking a trip to Disney World on charter buses, with different groups of kids signing up under different group names to be seated together. I chose the name "Ron Jeremy" for my group.

Inevitably we were called down to the office and everyone in my group was screaming at me for getting them in trouble and all I could think was "If they're so fucking pristine, why do they know about Ron Jeremy?"


I've been very paranoid about sex tapes I've made in the past. Then again, I didn't really have the privacy to keep such sensitive material at the time. Sometimes I even wonder about the pictures and details I post in this forum, and if I'll regret it one day.

I may have to reincarnate at some point to protect my identity.

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perhaps another student informed the administration who ron jeremy was? Just a thought

Everyone knows who Ron Jeremy is.

Who is he?

Surely you jest.

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Who is he?

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Please, you can't be that naive.. Get thee to Google, dear. lolol

??? off to google..

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Ok now I know, I have to admit being slightly disappointed about who he is

But he can suck his own dick! At least he could before he got fat.

Ron Jeremy is the coolest guy alive. Ultra-confidence shines through any exterior.

Etoile said:

But he can suck his own dick! At least he could before he got fat.

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I missed that when I googled, he must have been supple or very well blessed

shy slave said:

I missed that when I googled, he must have been supple or very well blessed

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I saw it on a late-night episode of Showtime. Apparently he's also a champ at cunnilingus.