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How should I punish?????

FreeBloke

FreeBloke

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My sub, last night told me to "fuck off"!

It was meant in jest, but I had set it, in my mind, as something she should say, to her cost!

We are into mild BDSM, with obedience, ties, spankings and discipline involved. Nothing too extreme.

I already have an idea what higher level of punishment I will impose, but I am interested in any ideas others may have!

The Bloke
 
Denial. Don't let her have an orgasm until she has served you in some appropriate fashion... i.e. made you cum three times, cleaned the house, whatever turns your crank...
 
LiterBug said:
Denial. Don't let her have an orgasm until she has served you in some appropriate fashion... i.e. made you cum three times, cleaned the house, whatever turns your crank...
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Make her do all that while full of cocks, real or fake.

There's always the ever so fun spanking too.
But since she said "fuck off" I'd probably find something appropriate to that. Like making her write "I will not tell Sir to 'fuck off.'" a few hundred times while being fucked/spanked herself. leaned over the couch, writting on the coffee table.
That might drive the point home.

I'm truely sorry for any inane spelling errors- tis 7am, so bear with me a bit.
 
FreeBloke said:
My sub, last night told me to "fuck off"!

It was meant in jest, but I had set it, in my mind, as something she should say, to her cost!

We are into mild BDSM, with obedience, ties, spankings and discipline involved. Nothing too extreme.

I already have an idea what higher level of punishment I will impose, but I am interested in any ideas others may have!

The Bloke
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Seriously dude, did she know she could be punished for a joke? I mean, are you planning to punish her for something that she didn't even knew was wrong? Something "meant as a jest" and something you had "set in your mind" indicates that. Add a "higer level of punishment" to that, and it sounds like bad voodoo to me.

Well, that said...

She told you to "fuck off". She is a sub, and a she. I bet she gets off on making you come. Unless you have trained her to come when you come, you could go on as usual, then back off. Telling her that you will do as she asked. Either walking out on her or making her watch you come, before you walk out. Leaving her depraved. Fuck off - wank off- walk off...
 
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sadunai said:
Seriously dude, did she know she could be punished for a joke?
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Thank you all for your input.

BUT, she can be punished for anything I damn well please!

She is my slut and I do with her as I want!

She will be punished for her words, as she is if she refuses me.

Sometimes she cannot comply to my commands due to circumstances beyond her control. No matter, she gets punished regardless. It is my law and how she expects it!

If she refuses me due to being reasonably unable, no matter. She gets punished. It is part of the play!

This however is a seperate line. One she didn't know existed.

It is still no matter. She will be punished more severely!

I make the rules, I decide!
 
Ok... your first post said mild BDSM and sub. What you say in your second post, well that's not my defenition of it. My bad. As long as it is what she wants, it's not my business...
 
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FreeBloke said:
Thank you all for your input.

BUT, she can be punished for anything I damn well please!

She is my slut and I do with her as I want!

She will be punished for her words, as she is if she refuses me.

Sometimes she cannot comply to my commands due to circumstances beyond her control. No matter, she gets punished regardless. It is my law and how she expects it!

If she refuses me due to being reasonably unable, no matter. She gets punished. It is part of the play!

This however is a seperate line. One she didn't know existed.

It is still no matter. She will be punished more severely!

I make the rules, I decide!
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Yes, you are right, my love. You make the rules and I obey them.

I told you how very sorry I was and I will prove it you. I will grovel and take whatever punishment you see fit.

I made a mistake. I didn't know I was crossing a line, I merely said it in jest, after you said it to me. BUT, that is no excuse. If I did wrong, I did wrong, I accept that.

I am your slut and I will just accept whatever you give me, willingly, because it is what you want that matters. I am to please you, always.

Yours.
:heart:
 
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FreeGal said:
Yes, you are right, my love. You make the rules and I obey them.

I told you how very sorry I was and I will prove it you. I will grovel and take whatever punishment you see fit.

I made a mistake. I didn't know I was crossing a line, I merely said it in jest, after you said it to me. BUT, that is no excuse. If I did wrong, I did wrong, I accept that.

I am your slut and I will just accept whatever you give me, willingly, because it is what you want that matters. I am to please you, always.

Yours.
:heart:
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Ha ha ha!!!

Now THAT, is what you call sub!

Heh heh heh!

And punished you will be my love!

Wholly and completely!

And it will be bliss for us both!
:kiss: :rose:
 
CutieMouse said:
So essentially you've decided even though YOUR communication skills are poor (you knew "fuck off" was unacceptable any time any place but apparently didn't seem to feel explaining that out loud was important) SHE gets punished? And this is totally seperate from play?

I may be very new to accepting myself as submissive, but that just seems rather fucked up. If I walked around getting punished for breaking rules I didn't even know existed I wouldn't be horney/happy to be serving the person who was topping me... I'd be an anxious mess!

Am I just a bratty inexperienced novice or does this make no sense to anyone else?:confused:
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Each to their own Cutie, each to their own!
:devil:
 
CutieMouse said:
Am I just a bratty inexperienced novice or does this make no sense to anyone else?:confused:
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In my neck of the woods this is acceptable when a slave gives up all control and all rights. It is then consesual, even though it seems abusive for an outsider. Him making up rules and new ways of punishment, would be something that she knew of and consented to when she got into the relation with him. In my eyes that would be a master/slave relation, but the beauty of bdsm is that we all have different defenitions on the different terms.

If she didn't consent then it is abuse and if it is so, well, then I hope he get to spend some time with big bubba and the boys, before he does any real damage.
 
FreeBloke said:
I already have an idea what higher level of punishment I will impose, but I am interested in any ideas others may have!
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Put her in the vanilla world for 24 hours without your presence.
  • No toys,
  • No playing,
  • No O's,
  • No you.
 
sadunai said:
In my neck of the woods this is acceptable when a slave gives up all control and all rights. It is then consesual, even though it seems abusive for an outsider. Him making up rules and new ways of punishment, would be something that she knew of and consented to when she got into the relation with him. In my eyes that would be a master/slave relation, but the beauty of bdsm is that we all have different defenitions on the different terms.

If she didn't consent then it is abuse and if it is so, well, then I hope he get to spend some time with big bubba and the boys, before he does any real damage.
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It is consentual. I am his sub, and I go by his rules, nobody else's.

I can understand why you have said what you have, but you are also right in saying that we all have different definitions on the different terms. I don't see myself as his slave, but I do give my all to him. I am his to do with as he sees fit and as he pleases. It's as simple as that, in my eyes.

In no way is he ever abusive towards me. I have more self-respect than that, for one thing, and for another thing, he is a very caring Dom. I trust him, implicitly.
 
CutieMouse said:
Hmm. I guess what confused me was the idea that they are into *light* BDSM, and what he wrote seems *to me* more like an ownership/no rights/slave thing. Which is cool if both parties understand that, but being punished for crossing a line you didn't know existed, especialy in jest did not compute at all with "light BDSM". :)

Oh well. If it works it works. I'll go back to running my brain hamsters ragged on other more personal BDSM issues. ;)
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well it seems that posting here is part of their play, and that changing rules and punishment for both Dom and subs pleasure is also. *shrug* everyone does it their own way.
 
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FreeBloke said:
Ha ha ha!!!

Now THAT, is what you call sub!

Heh heh heh!

And punished you will be my love!

Wholly and completely!

And it will be bliss for us both!
:kiss: :rose:
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Thank you.

Yes, it will be, my love.

:heart:
 
I think, you have to understand the entire situation. It is not 24/7.

Only when we can/want.
 
FreeBloke said:
I think, you have to understand the entire situation. It is not 24/7.

Only when we can/want.
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thats what i was getting from reading the thread. if its fun and works for you go punish her good....but make sure you come back with the details :D
 
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FreeBloke said:
If she refuses me due to being reasonably unable, no matter. She gets punished. It is part of the play!
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Ah there is the rub. If you make it part of the play, you are encouraging her to misbehave. And if you both enjoy that, well, who is to say it is wrong.

But if you are really wanting to correct behavior, and know her well enough, you punish her with things you know she hates. That is my philosophy anyway. Each sub picks her own punishment by what she reveals about herself.
 
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WriterDom said:
Ah there is the rub. If you make it part of the play, you are encouraging her to misbehave. And if you both enjoy that, well, who is to say it is wrong.

But if you are really wanting to correct behavior, and know her well enough, you punish her with things you know she hates. That is my philosophy anyway. Each sub picks her own punishment by what she reveals about herself.
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shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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