how to make men with extreme stamina cum?

What a delicious question :D

Speaking as a man whose stamina cums and goes I have a question:

Why does your guy have such stamina? Is it because he thinks holding out and waiting makes him a better lover? I mean, if you'd like him to cum sooner then maybe you just need to talk about it. For me if I hold out it's usually a conscious choice.

On the other hand maybe he isn't relaxing and let himself get as turned on as he could? What turns him on? What fantasies does he have? How does he like to be touched or stroked :D

It's all so individual that I find it hard to give a definitive answer ... hope that this is some food for thought though,

Cheers,
TSG
 
for me its all about position, like oral if she sucks and gives long strokes or fucking i make long slow strokes, thats the only way i can cum
 
Let him control the rythym - just like some women only come when they're on top (and hence in control of the rythym), if he's having trouble coming, make sure he's the one doing the "driving".

Also, don't prolong foreplay quite as long - sometimes, after so many preliminaries, your penis forgets what it's supposed to be doing...

Oh - and tickle his scrotum as you give him a wicked smile. Sends ME over the edge every freakin' time!
 
Well to say im the Guy in Question ill just point a couple of things out.
Its not really a problem as such it just does take me a hell of a long time. Even by myself i rarely manage it in under 15/20 min. And no its not a medical problem. I have no trouble gettin hard/horny etc or anything like that.

Doesnt seem to matter what i try it just takes me along time...usefull for fucking but not really that great for me lol.
 
Tell him to! Be graphic.
No man can resist a woman in passion saying things like
"Cum! Shoot it in me! Give me your hot cream, baby......"
 
nikki_uk said:
has anyone tips or tricks to make a guy with a extreme stamina cum?

i can sometimes last for hours and hours, and mostly that's because... i want to last for hours and hours! it may be a weird fetish, but i really love how it feels to have my cock in a semi-erect state - sort of hanging in there, swinging from side to side, gliding across her lips, breasts, pussy, ass... even when i am hard, i sometimes last for a while because i am uncut, and when i'm wearing a condom, the foreskin slides over my head and then i feel absolutely nothing... grrr! i wish i were circumsized!

BUT the upside is that when i do cum, it's usually A LOT! well, some girls like it, some don't...
 
crazybbwgirl said:
try anal - works every time!

actually, true... i love anal, just thinking about it turns me on like crazy... i realize that some girls are not into it, so that works alright - anal to me is a fantasy that's just fine remaining a fantasy.

but i still love it!
 
I've always considered long staying power as a way to please my lover longer. Hey, she can have multiple orgasms with the right attention and time span, why not give them to her.
Now, when she starts to get a little tender, if it's gone to long, then it's time for her to really talk dirty. I find the mental stimulation stronger than anything physical she does.
 
There are times when I take a long time because I want to enjoy the moment, then there are times like early morning when it is hard for me to cum. That's when my girl helps out by talking dirty, sharing one of her fantasies with me, or using her vaginal muscles to milk my cock and that usually sends me over the edge. Just my 2 cents :)
 
sex in the morning sucks! that's the one time when i absolutely won't do it. i don't know about others, but i just don't do mornings very well. until i get up, caffeinate, and run my daily 5 miles, i don't like the way i look. the fewer people i have to deal with before the morning routine is over, the better!

sex is for when it's dark, anyway!
 
Give the guy a little bit of anal stimulation while he's inside you, or while you're giving him a BJ.

If I'm in the mood to get off and get off quick theres nothing that gets me off faster than a finger in the ass while I'm masturbating.
 
sobesundevil said:
sex in the morning sucks! that's the one time when i absolutely won't do it. i don't know about others, but i just don't do mornings very well. until i get up, caffeinate, and run my daily 5 miles, i don't like the way i look. the fewer people i have to deal with before the morning routine is over, the better!

sex is for when it's dark, anyway!

But that's my absolute favorite time for sex! Or self sex for that matter. I prefer sex in the sunlight myself! lol
 
Sometimes it can take me way to long to cum,part of that is due
to allways making sure I please my wife first.And part of that
is due to my age and the fact that we still have sex almost every
day and 2 or 3 times a day on the weekend we are both in our
mid 40's.Kids moved out a year ago and we been having some
fun.

She is not satisfied if I don't get a nut off-these things allways
work for us-fingers in my ass I will cum every time,oral sex never
fails.Morning sex I love the weekends!!!Sex outdoors!!!!!!!!
Sex while being watched bi others!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
we're most definitely entitled to our own opinions, but i find morning sex pretty gross. messy hair... sleepy faces... ugh. maybe i'm just too vain, but that's how i like it...
 
crazybbwgirl said:
But that's my absolute favorite time for sex! Or self sex for that matter. I prefer sex in the sunlight myself! lol


I'm with you on this one crazy :) ... and sleepy sex - either middle of the night or first thing in the morning - mmmmm :D
 
Just a Q...

Does the 'cum for me baby... I want you to fill me with your cum'... work with cyber?

My relationship is becoming kinda *yawn*. It's been 18 months of hearing the same words. As an ex phone-fuck op, I'm finding it kind of insulting that he takes so long, even though I try new techniques all the time... :confused:

Maybe I just need to find a guy in real to fuck.

Frustrated!!

I don't know if he realises, but he hears me cum up to fuck knows how many times... if he thinks holding back during cyber is doing anything for me... pffffft!!

Guys, don't hold back during cyber. For me, it drives me over the edge that one last time... not saying there's any stopping if the girl has anything left to give... just DON"T HOLD BACK!!!!!

Okay, going back to my little cyber corner... carry on :D
 
Being a man in his 40-s who takes forever to cum, I have found a couple of things that make it easier. One is when she takes it out and puts it in her own ass. Another is when she details for me how it feels or what is going on with her body as I fuck her. Also, when she reaches back and slides a finger into my ass, or tells me she would like to be giving head or eating pussy while I fuck her from behind. Just little mind trips to help things progress. May not work for others, but I came in her ass twice the other day with same hardon and with out pulling out. Not bad for an old fuck like me.
 
nikki_uk said:
has anyone tips or tricks to make a guy with a extreme stamina cum?

Wow, this kinda sounds like my man, but most of the time I don't really worry about how soon he will cum as it makes it lots of fun for me...the sex last longer, and I can get off multiple times. Usually, I can do something to him like playing with his ass or myself that brings him over the edge.

I don't see it as a problem tho, cause he almost always cums!
 
buttmaninohio said:
Being a man in his 40-s who takes forever to cum, I have found a couple of things that make it easier. One is when she takes it out and puts it in her own ass. Another is when she details for me how it feels or what is going on with her body as I fuck her. Also, when she reaches back and slides a finger into my ass, or tells me she would like to be giving head or eating pussy while I fuck her from behind. Just little mind trips to help things progress. May not work for others, but I came in her ass twice the other day with same hardon and with out pulling out. Not bad for an old fuck like me.

Now you do sound a lot like my guy...course all you guys who say anal works for you do. It is something that I learned from him tho. ;)

He really likes it when I stick a finger in his ass or ask for it in the ass. But I am only a one person at a time, so don't very often think about sucking someone else's dick or eating pussy while getting it in the ass...

BTW, welcum to lit!!!
 
i have the same problem.....mainly with a condom...if i have a condom on i can usualy last till my legs or arms give out....or sometimes i just go limp from not being able to get enough sensation ( damnit i hate condoms) but theres even times when i take the condom off and ill fuck her for like an hr all diff positions and ill stay rock hard but i wont even get close to cumming....yea its great for her but she also feels shity that i didnt get off and it sux for me 2:(
 
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