BDSM software

cleverdevil76

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I heard about this software that helps schedule your slave's life. she or he has a schedule on the puter which they log into and mark off the assigned tasks etc Doesn't sound too complex, but I've only heard about it. I wonder what else it has. Anyone know about it? I did find this:http://www.dominatesoftware.com/ which sounds like it, but it's a pay thing, and I always try to find a way around pay things.

If anyone has any info, that'd be jazzy. Much obliged.

-Jerry
 
I'm a bit confused by why this would be sought or desirable. It's seems to me that any schedule type thing would do. There are many that are free or come bundled with your software. Surely these could be altered to your tasks?

I don't see why you'd have that many things in a given day that you'd want her to have to do but I think even a simple word doc would take care of that situation, wouldn't it?

Personally I love to mark things off of my to do list but I don't like being micro managed. This sounds like it could be micro management to me. I'd also rather send a pm, e-mail or im about it then use some sort of management software that seemed less responsive but that's me.

*shrugs*

Is this a keep her busy with busy work thing or a I want to run a stable of online submissives but don't want to really do any work on it myself sort of thing? I'm seriously asking because I don't get it otherwise.

I will say I was happiest when I had a moderate number of things to do each day for him. However I also knew these things were doing me and my relationship some significant good as well.

Fury :rose:
 
Umm... why reinvent the wheel? If one wishes their submissive to complete XYZ tasks, either tell them, or write it down (or have them write it down). By involving some computer software something-or-other, it just adds to the complication of the job at hand (PYL thinks up a series of tasks, logs them into the software, informs pyl of the list; pyl logs into the software, reads the tasks, completes the tasks, logs her completed work; PYL goes back to the software and checks to see if pyl had done the job, waves a magic wand and everyone is happy), and (IMO) creates an environment where communication is done through a software program, instead of through personal interaction.

If something is to occur daily, it needs to be clearly stated as a "From this point forward ___ is just the rule, and I expect it to be followed" thing. Occasional checking to make sure said rule is being followed, can be easily done through face to face communication/email/etc.

If there is a specific task assigned, then tell the submissive, and make her reporting of XYZ task part of the assignment.

*She who looked at the website and thought "What lazy-ass Dom thought this up?"*
 
If you want a free way around it and you want to keep a check on what she completes within the day or within a time frame, you could use outlook express.

If you both have access to the same outlook express but are in different locations you can use the task list and when she completes something she marks it off, or writes up why she has not been able to complete the task.

If it has to be done by 10am, you check at 10.10 to see if it is crossed out or incomplete.

Simple, effective and easy to monitor regardless of where you both are.
 
Making things interesting?

Here is a way that BDSM software might be interesting: Have a "wild card challenge" assignment built in. I imagine that even in good dom/sub relationships, things might get predictable. What if, every 6 assignments or so, the program would throw in an assignment that wasn't thought of by the dom-perhaps a "guest doms" could submit assignments to the "wild card challenge"
 
cuklet said:
Here is a way that BDSM software might be interesting: Have a "wild card challenge" assignment built in. I imagine that even in good dom/sub relationships, things might get predictable. What if, every 6 assignments or so, the program would throw in an assignment that wasn't thought of by the dom-perhaps a "guest doms" could submit assignments to the "wild card challenge"


The problem with that idea, is that the "wild card" assignment would:

A) need to fall within the submissive's limits- there are way too many variations of what a person considers a limit, to tailor a generic assignment to fit the general submissive population.

B) be achievable- what if the "wild Card" assignment needs materials or supplies that are not available, or involves activities that are impossible due to the location of the submissive?

C) would be a generic form of "dominance", rather than a manifestation of the relationship formed by that personal relationship of the Dominant and submissive, in question- thus (IMO) the "dominance" of such a "command" would be watered down to the point of being laughable.

I said it in white in my first post, but I'll say it more boldly here...

What lazy-ass Dom thought this software up? :rolleyes:
 
probably not a good idea, but...

I think you are right, CutieMouse. In a way, it would be BDSM without a relationship. On the other hand, there was this computer program that imitated a psychotherapist: http://www.manifestation.com/neurotoys/eliza.php3

Couldn't a computer program be invented that would take over some of a dom's work? (I am not saying I would want such a thing, just whether it would be possible and compelling? After all, the supply of subs might naturally exceed the supply of doms.)

A real dom would have to "check in" often enough to reinforce the feeling that there was a real person there.
 
This is about the dumbest thing I've ever read about. If a dominant is too busy to invest any more time than this into a relationship with me, he ain't worth my time, either.
 
cuklet said:
I think you are right, CutieMouse. In a way, it would be BDSM without a relationship. On the other hand, there was this computer program that imitated a psychotherapist: http://www.manifestation.com/neurotoys/eliza.php3

[warning- CutieMouse is about to use language publicly, that she normally does not use]

There is no fucking way some idiotic computer program, could ever possibly come *close* to the personal interaction necessary, to help a troubled person work through their issues. Jesusfuckingjosepheandmary. Have we as a society become so self centered, that we turn to keyboards and computer screens, instead of the genuine warmth of another human being???

Couldn't a computer program be invented that would take over some of a dom's work? (I am not saying I would want such a thing, just whether it would be possible and compelling? After all, the supply of subs might naturally exceed the supply of doms.)

A real dom would have to "check in" often enough to reinforce the feeling that there was a real person there.

Would it be possible to create such a device? Probably. Would it be compelling? I fail to see any redeeming qualities in such a thing.

Honestly- I can not comprehend the allure, or interest, in handing my soul- naked, unfettered, and unquestioningly- to Another, who can't even be bothered to give his most Cherished posession his fullest attention.

Being flogged, then shat upon, by a chimpanzee wearing a little red fez, would be more erotic and fulfilling, than dealing with some asshat who need only take 2 minutes to tick off a few checkmarks on a computer screen, jerk off, and consider himself a "Dom". Ew.
 
Careful, cutie mouse, you're going to make someone feel sad. You, of all people wouldn't want to do that, would you? :kiss:
 
A Desert Rose said:
Careful, cutie mouse, you're going to make someone feel sad. You, of all people wouldn't want to do that, would you? :kiss:

I dunno... DVS said the other day that I bite.

Somewhere else it was assumed submissives are meek.

I'm so confused!

*sob*
 
CutieMouse said:
I dunno... DVS said the other day that I bite.

Somewhere else it was assumed submissives are meek.

I'm so confused!

*sob*

Just bite meekly then. All bases covered. :kiss:
 
I don't know whats wrong with the people whom posted previously to me . I happen to think its a brilliant idea and embrace it ( pix elated type embrace styling ) wholeheartedly.

In fact I have been a member since this wonderful opportunity was availed to us.

Much to my total joy I received a letter from my soon to be ( fingers crossed submissively ) bestest new friend 'wench tami'.

wench tami of Sir Leonard
<wench_tami@dominatesoftware.com> to me
More options Sep 17 (1 day ago)


wench rebecca,

My name is wench tami and my Master, Sir Leonard has instructed me to contact you because you have registered with the Guild LifeStyles. He (Sir Leonard) has told me to offer any help i may be able to provide you, and to attempt to answer any questions you may have. For a few reasons, that are not important at the moment we have even extended your trial period for a few days already He also says that he likes your name rebecca and has modified it to wench rebecca as we do all our submissives. Sir Leonard has also decided that you will be required to fill in your diary on a daily basis. We can not see the text that is for your review. We can see the mood you select, the number of times that you masturbate and the total number of orgasms you had since last entry. (On this first entry assume that means for the last day.) The diary will now come up automatically when you first log in. If for some reason it does not just click on


It is noted that you too are a submissive and that further you have registered on your own rather than being registered by your Master. This classifies you as what we call a "Free Bird" submissive and will be listed in our free bird section. Please go to the

and fill in further details about yourself.


http://i100.photobucket.com/albums/m14/rebecca222_2006/luckywenchrebecca.jpg

Awwwwww..........smilesgigglesswooshesskirtgigglesmore

See I have been chosen by Sir Leonard to be one of the special 'free birds'.....glows and all I have to do for the privilege is share my mood , how often I masturbate and how often I orgasm.........smilessweetly. Seems he must be very wise because he just knew from my name I would automatically submit to him with no contact what so ever , therefore of course he has the recourse to change my name to wench Rebecca .........oops I meant wench rebecca.....glows more.

My correspondence from wench tami continues...........

Be sure to fill in all the fields (boxes)

By the way, submissives NEVER capitalize their names - so i have adjusted yours in our records

We are developing a "Lifestyle Help System" and are now including it with a link from the "Lifestyle" page - just click on "Lifestyle Help Page". Please understand it is only about half completed but even so it has a lot of information that will be of use to you. - Please check it out
Is it that you are looking at this website as a gift for your Master? If so we need to communicate so that i may set this up properly for your Master.

Or is it that you are alone? i was once alone without guidance and direction and i am well aware of the pain you suffer. << :D Please contact me - i'm sure i can help. We can supply on-line training as well.

There are a few formalities involved

* since you are a declared submissive your name must be in all lower case
* when you write of yourself you must use all lower case i.e. i, i'll i'm
* since you do not yet have a Master your title needs to be something like wench tami, slave tami, slut tami - these are temporary until you get a Master at that time He will assign you a "given name"

Since, being submissive you are not allowed to modify your record please tell me what you would like for your temporary name. I will then change it accordingly. I have already lower cased your current name.

Dominate Software

Have you explored the web application and if so do you have any questions?

Feel free to contact me, i am charged with the daily help desk service. If you wish to know my schedule, examine the "Sample #8" under "Task Master" on the "Lifestyle" Page. That schedule is actually mine, subject to Sir Leonard's modification.

How may i serve you today? (Feel free to reply to this email address)

wench tami of Sir Leonard


Well my friends you may not be hearing from me as much these days as I endeavour to be trained by Sir Leonard ( I just bet he knows Sir Stephen ) ........swoons. Anyhow I am sure he will permit me to return to this thread and keep you all up to date with my stunning transformation into a real submissive...... :) :rose: :cool:

bows humbly to all and grovels a bit as well but quite demurely

@}-}wenchslutslaverebecca------
 
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Rebecca, please..please tell me your post is a joke and you made all of that up!

BTW, does this oh so useful software include analysis tools? What if the software Dom wants to run an daily average of orgasms and masterbation. Hmm.. yes, a regression comparing masterbation, orgasms, and barometric pressure would be most important.
 
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Ohhh ........Update......

Staff at the Guild
<Guild@dominatesoftware.com> to me

This is going to cost Us money because of the increased bandwidth that will be required because of all of the submissives that will be logging on every day, but because of requests We have added a button labeled "Daily Requirements" so that all submissives will get a feel for the nature of their submission. Many Dominants have asked Us to provide some examples of desired behavior and We have decided to do this by example.

So from now forward All submissives are required to view and do as instructed, on a daily basis, instructions found on the "Daily Requirements" page. All Dominants are asked to enforce this requirement.


Phew........good thing I read this just in time. Hmmmn however I am thinking if Sir Leonard can dictate 'All Dominants are asked to enforce this requirement'. He must be like the Grand Poobah of Dominants or something............giggleswithsheerdelight. Wowa !!!

Ohh before I go I am going to submit my new temporary name with the Guild today . I am thinking uppercaserebeccaslut......awwww :rose:

@}-}uppercaserebeccaslut------

ahuh yes looks good hope it impresses Sir Leonard
 
callinectes said:
Rebecca, please..please tell me your post is a joke and you made all of that up!

BTW, does this oh so useful software include analysis tools? What if the software Dom wants to run an daily average of orgasms and masterbation. Hmm.. yes, a regression comparing masterbation, orgasms, and barometric pressure would be most important.

:eek:

I didn't make it up !!!

How could you say such a thing about my wonderful Sir Leonard and his charitable organisation to save the sluts of this world from being in pain and alone sniffffffff

..........scowlsdemurely

Its been over a day and I tell you I have this 'feeling'. I may be collared by tomorrow and who will be laughing then huh huh ? Then you will be sorry !!!

Now please excuse me I need to Google...some velcro suppliers/turkey basters :) ;) :rose:

Everything in Navy font is cut and paste directly from the emails I am receiving from the Guild
 
Gads... I so want to believe this domination software thing is a parody site...

Rebecca you subvbersive little submissive you! If you aren't careful, Lord Whozeewhatsit is gonna stand you in the cyber-corner.
 
@}-}rebecca---- said:
:eek:

I didn't make it up !!!

How could you say such a thing about my wonderful Sir Leonard and his charitable organisation to save the sluts of this world from being in pain and alone sniffffffff

..........scowlsdemurely

Its been over a day and I tell you I have this 'feeling'. I may be collared by tomorrow and who will be laughing then huh huh ? Then you will be sorry !!!

Now please excuse me I need to Google...some velcro suppliers/turkey basters :) ;) :rose:

Everything in Navy font is cut and paste directly from the emails I am receiving from the Guild

*Hangs head in shame* What was I thinking? This unworthy sub will have to beg Sir Leonard's forgiveness. I am so envious of your potential collaring. sigh
maybe someday I will be so fotunate. :rolleyes:
 
callinectes said:
*Hangs head in shame* What was I thinking? This unworthy sub will have to beg Sir Leonard's forgiveness. I am so envious of your potential collaring. sigh
maybe someday I will be so fotunate. :rolleyes:

Yes you really need an attitude adjustment , if your very good I might let you look at my newest collar when I get it.

Meanwhile..........

Today's Requirement

You may not sit on any chair or sit/lay on any couch. If you are owned then it will be your master's choice if you may serve Him on the bed, but after you have given service you will then sleep on the floor. Food may be eaten while standing or you may sit on the floor while eating.


Oh well looks like I'll break out the sake set today.........gigglesNgigglesNgiggles

Tip For The Day
First thing different is that this time the submissive stares into the eyes of her Dominant for the entire duration.

The only time she does not look at her Master's face is as she adds the lubricant.

Then she begins to pump him and uses her facial expressions only she tries to convey just how much she wants Him to ejaculate.

Although she never puts his cock in her mouth she rubs it on her cheeks and with her eyes shows she worships his dick.

She looks at him pleadingly as she continues to pump at a slow but steady pace.

When He tells her she speeds up and may use both hands or swap back and forth as her hands tire.

She now begins to be sure that as He comes it will be pointed at her face and open mouth.

She becomes obcessed with his orgasm and can now think of nothing else.

What do you think happens next <smile>


Well I guess thats most of my day 'covered'...........now all I need is to find me a Dom so I can find out what happens next. Yep there will be no cheating on this assignment thats for sure. I mean not that I would cause my cute little brain wouldn't well you know.......... :rose:
 
Oh Lordy missed a bit..............

This is a game of chance.
The basic idea is that you enter the name of the submissive you are going to "play" with and who has agreed to participate in whatever activity "comes up". Then you select (or un-select) the activities that are acceptable. Finally click the Play button.
Then You and your submissive will act out whatever Activity and in what mode suggested.

The selection is made from the acceptable activities (see below) then is partially random and partially derived from your preferences listed in the "Tenets Filter" section of this application. Enter your submissives name then mark up your activities then Hide Setup and finally have your submissive watch as you click the Play button


Okay finding out my destiny Wowa...............



Activity

Genital Sex - Lay down and spread those pretty legs uppercaserebeccaslut, your about to get fucked.

:eek:

Mode

You know you need control, uppercaserebeccaslut. Now we are going to turn it up a little more. Steady now, this might hurt.

:(



shrugs... Guess forced bondage is for another day :rose:
 
Rebecca, you are the bestest submisive on the planet. I bet you knelt at your desk to write your post, just like a good submissive who isn't worthy of a chair would.

*gazes upon Rebecca in AWE, but quickly averts her eyes for fear she'd be mistaken for worshiping Rebecca, instead of a manly domly dominant master type man*

(Wait... averting is normally done because mine eyes are not worthy to look upon a Dominant... but Rebecca is a submissive... )

*Three brain hamsters form a firing squad- the most befuddled hamster is put out of his misery.*
 
CutieMouse said:
Rebecca, you are the bestest submisive on the planet. I bet you knelt at your desk to write your post, just like a good submissive who isn't worthy of a chair would.

Excuse me its uppercaserebeccaslut now and I like all perfect submissives have only a laptop so that I may electronically accommodate or 'otherwise' any unreasonable ( my personal fav ) thing required of my cute little self :rose:

lays on the floor , chin on hands .......kicking toes about and flicking pencils across the room
 
catalina_francisco said:
The ultimate tool for lazy Dominants who wannabe but just can't get around to it!! :rolleyes:

Catalina :catroar:

sighslaughs Your just jealous Cat because you can't have this very special online training that Sir Leonard has chosen me for above all others and all because he liked my name ( which he promptly changed)........:D

Meanwhile your stuck with the F man and I bet he didn't give you a collar within 24 hours of not meeting........Now excuse me please I have some Velcro colors to choose from :rose: :)
 
I guess I am feeling a bit sad , its been two days and I have not heard from Sir Leonard or wench tami. Perhaps I have displeased them . Maybe I am not submissive enough. I practised the thing with my eyes over and over so that I can perfect a hand job as per their instructions......long drawn out wilting sigh

They promised me a Dom would Mentor me. I was so looking forward to his highly appropriate instructions on 'sex stuff' and I knew his instructions would make me a better submissive for another completely different Dom altogether because as you know just like submissives we are all the same thankfully............sighs more

I think I should go now and write some poetry or something.

Alone.......... alone......... alone ......... :rose:
 
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