the fantasy of anonymous sex?

does the fantasy of anonymous sex hold any appeal to you?

  • i didn't read the circumstances so my vote doesn't count...you insensitive clod!

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silverwhisper

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OK, one poll before i depart for the rest of the week.

assume for the sake of argument that: 1) all participants are clean, 2) there's no risk of pregnancy, and 3) you are for the sake of the question single and/or otherwise free to participate.

under those circumstances, would the fantasy (not the reality) of anonymous sex be appealing to you?

ignore the previous one, please: i screwed up the poll options.

ed
 
I've never been one for one-night stands. I need to feel more chemistry with a woman so I can really anticipate and enjoy the sex.

On the other hand.... there's something about the fantasy of a masquerade party -- where everyone's face is hidden by a mask. Now that could lead to some fun, guilt-free anonymous sex. You can't ID them, they can't ID you. No chemistry/connection is expected, other than ravishing each other's bodies.

That's the anonymous sex I picture when I respond "hell yes" to your poll.
 
BigM said:
I've never been one for one-night stands. I need to feel more chemistry with a woman so I can really anticipate and enjoy the sex.

On the other hand.... there's something about the fantasy of a masquerade party -- where everyone's face is hidden by a mask. Now that could lead to some fun, guilt-free anonymous sex. You can't ID them, they can't ID you. No chemistry/connection is expected, other than ravishing each other's bodies.

That's the anonymous sex I picture when I respond "hell yes" to your poll.

What immediately comes to my mind then is a (porn) movie from Wicked called Sex Party. I don't remember which one (there's part 1 to I don't know; at least 7), because it's a series, but in this one guests arrive at a castle or so, all masked and dressed up kind of fancy, like in a traditional Ball Masque. That's where the storyline ends, so to speak... :D
 
I've been thinking about my response, and I realize there's just something raw and... brazen? ... about the prospect of sex in which nearly all identity is hidden. It's the complete opposite of what usually fascinates me about sex. Thus the allure, I suppose.
 
BigM said:
I've been thinking about my response, and I realize there's just something raw and... brazen? ... about the prospect of sex in which nearly all identity is hidden. It's the complete opposite of what usually fascinates me about sex. Thus the allure, I suppose.

Exactly. I think I would NEVER do this in the end. Even with all the securities and being single scenario etcetera as SW put it. But it's a great fantasy. I like your attitude towards having sex with someone. I'm the same. There needs to be the chemistry first. I'm more the 'making love' kinda girl although I can have 'plain' raw sex just for the sake of that with my partner once we know and trust each other.
 
fantasys can come true

to answer your question yes and why not sounds like a lot of fun.i once was at a bar and two girls ask me to go have some fun and man it was a blast .one was licking the other while i was pounding the other. this went on for some time every body got what thay wonted. but me i liked it some much that once was not the end. i need more more more.
 
I'm not sure I even understand the appeal of this fantasy...doing something incredibly intimate with someone you don't know is supposed to be hot?

I mean, for most fantasies, I put romance and all that aside, but, I just don't understand this one. *shrugs*
 
bi: while i'm normally at least as interested in the chemistry as the physics of love, sometimes the sex act itself, devoid of context, can be really hot. the fantasy of anonymous sex therefore is a truncation of that idea, at least for me. beyond being uncomplicated or even simple, it simply is.

now, it's possible that others for whom the fantasy holds appeal may feel differently. i was kinda hoping that some of those who voted along the more positive lines might provide some insight.

ed
 
I fantasized about anonymous sex just once in my life and it only lasted the length of time at a red light. I'd been celibate for 7 years and a man pulled up next to me on a motorcycle. His face was masked by his helmet, but his thighs looked good in his jeans. Damn you Levi Strauss, damn you. For that briefest of moments, I wished I was the type who could roll down the window and say "Right here, right now, I want you!"

Not much of a fantasy when it only lasts a minute or two.
 
silverwhisper said:
OK, one poll before i depart for the rest of the week.

assume for the sake of argument that: 1) all participants are clean, 2) there's no risk of pregnancy, and 3) you are for the sake of the question single and/or otherwise free to participate.

under those circumstances, would the fantasy (not the reality) of anonymous sex be appealing to you?

ignore the previous one, please: i screwed up the poll options.

ed


if thats the case, then of course i would be interested in anonymous sex :)
 
BigM said:
I've never been one for one-night stands. I need to feel more chemistry with a woman so I can really anticipate and enjoy the sex.

On the other hand.... there's something about the fantasy of a masquerade party -- where everyone's face is hidden by a mask. Now that could lead to some fun, guilt-free anonymous sex. You can't ID them, they can't ID you. No chemistry/connection is expected, other than ravishing each other's bodies.

That's the anonymous sex I picture when I respond "hell yes" to your poll.
BigM said:
I've been thinking about my response, and I realize there's just something raw and... brazen? ... about the prospect of sex in which nearly all identity is hidden. It's the complete opposite of what usually fascinates me about sex. Thus the allure, I suppose.


Denae said:
I fantasized about anonymous sex just once in my life and it only lasted the length of time at a red light. I'd been celibate for 7 years and a man pulled up next to me on a motorcycle. His face was masked by his helmet, but his thighs looked good in his jeans. Damn you Levi Strauss, damn you. For that briefest of moments, I wished I was the type who could roll down the window and say "Right here, right now, I want you!"

Not much of a fantasy when it only lasts a minute or two.
Yep, these posts tap into the idea behind the fantasy for me. I've never had a one night stand, the idea of it hold no appeal in the real sense. But that 'Right here, right now' idea Den mentioned kind of rattles my cage; actually wrote a story about it.

Fantasy is fun, I have them all the time but I think mine lean to daydreaming, but there are those occasions when... that switch is flipped.
 
I wouldn't want a steady diet of it, but under the circumstances listed, I have to say, "Hell yes!" The anonymity of it leaves only the raw physical, animal side, & under the right circumstances, that can be hot, very hot.
 
The pure excitement of that encounter ~~ the chance taken ~~ WOW :nana: :p So remember, as you drive or ride down the highway the guy or gal smiling at you from the other car ~~ may be thinking the same thing!! :devil:

Donna_Ann said:
I wouldn't want a steady diet of it, but under the circumstances listed, I have to say, "Hell yes!" The anonymity of it leaves only the raw physical, animal side, & under the right circumstances, that can be hot, very hot.
 
i think that in a perfect world and having to have no worries of catching anything including becoming pregnant would entice most of the population from what i have seen in studies and online readings.

for me... i think sex should be more intimate. its about the passion and i am not saying that there could be no passion invovled in such a fantasy because if thats what you want and or need at the time then you would thrive on passion at that moment of sexual encounter.

i like to prey on my partner and learn as much as i can about them... what pleases them, what they want and need sexually, whats going to make them cum so hard that it fucks with their mind.

so i would have to say... for me. maybe about 2 years ago yes, but now... no, not for me!

just my thoughts~
 
It's a great fantasy, which I actually did once, many years ago. I fucked a woman half an hour after meeting her. It was fun, but we didn't know the right buttons to push, so it wasn't great sex.

So it's more fun thinking about it (writing this is getting me hard), than actually doing it, at least for me.

But I would do it again, under the right circumstances...
 
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i voted "depends on the situation". i wouldn't now (being married), but even if i were single, i'd be scared of STDs and/or resulting pregnancy.

ed
 
If no prego, std, or SO, then you betchya!

The kind where you spy a nice looking man from across a crowded restaurant who keeps eyeing you with sultry signals. You get up to visit the powder room and notice that he is headed the same direction. Without saying a word, he grabs your hand and pulls you into the ladies room (thankfully empty). No words exchanged but ......others things are.
 
no, but I'm sure this is a pretty standard fantasy.

*ahem* okay......some stories, but none like that.
 
what's surprising to me is that i've often felt that it's more common for men to have that fantasy than women. live & learn, i guess.

ed
 
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