big d fantasy

hi everyone,

heres my question, mostly for the ladies, but chime in if you want. i dont have a big dick, but i do think its got its advantages. some of them being a girls reaction to seeing it, a girl telling you how big you are, stuff like that. like i said, i dont have a big one, but how would you react if your bf asked you to pretend (for lack of a better word) that he was impressively endowed? What would you really think about him and about the request?

this isnt a how to, but im posting it here cause i like the people here. you can move it i guess.

-dan

*biting my tongue real hard*

I'd look him in the eye and tell him he was huge, bigger than I'd ever had.

If I loved him, I'd then tell him over and over how much I loved what he did with his dick and how amazing he felt inside me, and how much I loved the way he licked me and touched me, hoping that he'd one day get it how much more important that was to me than his size.

I want a big one. I don't care what women think I want a big one.

human_male said:

I want a big one. I don't care what women think I want a big one.

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"You can't always get what you want
But if you try sometimes you might find
You get what you need"



Rolling Stones

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Basically, its a fantasy to stroke your ego. Tell you how manly you are.

You don't need to pretend - a girl can compliment you on your oral techniques, or go on and on about what a great lover you are.

Is "Oh god, you feel so good, you feel so wonderful...I just love the way you feel inside of me."

Really different than "Oh god, you feel so big, you feel so wonderful...I just love the way you feel inside of me." ?

I don't get it. I mean I honestly don't get it? How would a woman pretend yo have a big dick and why would you want her to? I don't mean to ridicule your fantasy but this one just doesn't make sense, and has the potential to be damaging.

We've been throught he whole cock-size thing before aorund here, and one thing always rings true. WOMEN DON'T CARE! It seems that the only one's worried about how big our dicks are is us guys, which seems awfully wierd to me. I mean I've had a lot of women tell me nice and nasty things about my dick, but never how big it is, and you know what, I'm ok with that. Sure I'd like to have a horse cock just for the novelty of it, but what's the point? I'm not getting any complaints at home.

The whole fantasy thing just throws me though. If it were me and my girl started telling me how big it was, then I looked in the mirror and it wasn't, I'd get awful depressed. I guess I just don't see what you're hoping to get out of this fantasy.

it's only a matter of time before eilan shows up...

dude, seriously, i'm w/ kahuna here. i don't get it.

ed

Dude, unless your cock is only about the size of your pinky finger, don't worry about it.

I've said it before, and I'll say it again: The biggest sex organ that anyone possesses is their BRAIN.

So, stop worrying about the size of your penis, grab some books on sexual techniques and positions, and learn how to satisfy a woman with something other than your cock. Because, if you're doing it right, your cock should only come into play 10-20% of the time per sexual encounter.

phoenix1224 said:

Dude, unless your cock is only about the size of your pinky finger, don't worry about it.

I've said it before, and I'll say it again: The biggest sex organ that anyone possesses is their BRAIN.

So, stop worrying about the size of your penis, grab some books on sexual techniques and positions, and learn how to satisfy a woman with something other than your cock. Because, if you're doing it right, your cock should only come into play 10-20% of the time per sexual encounter.

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I'm not sure he's concerned about the size of his cock, that's what confuses me. Unless he has some issue I can't see the point of this fantasy. I mean, I'm not into the whole spanking/bondage scene but at least I can see what some poeple might find arousing about it. This one I just can't figure out.

TBKahuna123 said:

I'm not sure he's concerned about the size of his cock, that's what confuses me. Unless he has some issue I can't see the point of this fantasy.

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That's what I was figuring... One HAS to be insecure about not having a John Holmes cock to even want his woman to act as if he DOES. *shrugs*

TBKahuna123 said:

I'm not sure he's concerned about the size of his cock, that's what confuses me. Unless he has some issue I can't see the point of this fantasy. I mean, I'm not into the whole spanking/bondage scene but at least I can see what some poeple might find arousing about it. This one I just can't figure out.

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Well...... maybe it is in the same category as women who like to hear they are beautiful, while they know very well they are only average... or women wanting their men to tell them their butt does not look big it all, just to be able to say "Yes! It is! I know it is but it's sweet you like it anyway!" .....?

M's girl said:

Well...... maybe it is in the same category as women who like to hear they are beautiful, while they know very well they are only average... or women wanting their men to tell them their butt does not look big it all, just to be able to say "Yes! It is! I know it is but it's sweet you like it anyway!" .....?

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That's kinda what I was thinking when I replied. But bisexsplicit has it right..."I love your hard cock" should do just as well as "I love your big cock."

The fantasy probably stems from thinking that women are impressed and turned on by big cocks, so he would like to feel like he's one of those guys in the heat of the moment. A big cock isn't what impresses or turns me on, though, so I can't really get into his fantasy.

I will say this, though - right before a guy comes, he can feel bigger and harder, and I have told guys: "You feel sooo big and hard right now," and then they go off. They seem to like that.

LadyJeanne said:

That's kinda what I was thinking when I replied. But bisexsplicit has it right..."I love your hard cock" should do just as well as "I love your big cock."

The fantasy probably stems from thinking that women are impressed and turned on by big cocks, so he would like to feel like he's one of those guys in the heat of the moment. A big cock isn't what impresses or turns me on, though, so I can't really get into his fantasy.

I will say this, though - right before a guy comes, he can feel bigger and harder, and I have told guys: "You feel sooo big and hard right now," and then they go off. They seem to like that.

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I can certainly understand wanting to have the magnificence and prowess of one's phallic hero acknowledged, and to hear the words of passionate recognition flowing from one's lover's cherry lips. It is however, a meloncholly man who wraps his manhood in the size of his manhood. It is not the length of his sword arm, but his strength and skill by which a soldier it measured.


OK, so maybe Sun-Tzu didn't say that, but I felt the need to wax poetic for a bit. It's that kind of day. I agree, hearing your lover compliment you like that is defintely hot, but there's a point where it gets ridiculous. Having a woman say something like "i can feel you throbbing and selling inside me" is going to work. Hearing her say "you're so huge, I've never been stretched like that before" is just going to make me giggle.

I'll put it in perspective with M's comment. So let's say you have a big butt (Not you personally, just theoretically ). You ask if your butt looks big. If I say " no hun, you have a tiny ass" are you going to take me seriously? No, you're going to give me that look that tells me you think I'm being condescending. If I say "Nah, I think your ass looks great in that" you're going to feel complimented because I'm being truthful. Sure, you may have a big ass and we both know it, but that doesn't mean it can't look good in a pair of tight jeans, right? It's the same thing here. Don't condescend to me and tell me I have a huge cock, just tell me how good my average cock feels and how much you love it the way it is.

After all, we all just want to be loved for who we are, right?

I'm totally with you, TBK. I'd much rather have my lover tell me he thinks my ass is hot than that it's small or whatever. If he's grabbing and squeezing and rubbing it while he's telling me, even better.

For the record, my ass is on the small to medium side, size 6 to 8 in Levi's.

Have you even been kicked in the nuts? Because that's the only thing I can think of that might help you understand what it feels like when a big dick bottoms out against a woman's cervix. Not all women get off on that kind of pain.

TBKahuna123 said:

You ask if your butt looks big. If I say " no hun, you have a tiny ass" are you going to take me seriously? No, you're going to give me that look that tells me you think I'm being condescending.

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I'm gonna also say that you obviously haven't read the handbook.

just tell me how good my average cock feels and how much you love it the way it is.

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Oh, baby. Poke my haystack with that big needle of yours!

Eilan said:

Have you even been kicked in the nuts? Because that's the only thing I can think of that might help you understand what it feels like when a big dick bottoms out against a woman's cervix. Not all women get off on that kind of pain.

I'm gonna also say that you obviously haven't read the handbook.

Oh, baby. Poke my haystack with that big needle of yours!

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Damn, you're mean!

i believe this may be the very first time the word haystack has been used that way in world history.

ed

silverwhisper said:

i believe this may be the very first time the word haystack has been used that way in world history.

ed

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Sounds to me like someone needs a trim.

i want to make a comment about hedge clippers but my superego won't let me!

ed

TBKahuna123 said:

Damn, you're mean!

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Nope. Just speaking straight from the cervix.

Eilan said:

Nope. Just speaking straight from the cervix.

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WOW, talk about throwing your voice! I never even saw your lips move, if you know what I mean.

no idea why guys think all women want huge cocks!

I slept with a guy who was very well endowed, and it was the worst sexual experience of my life!

DanHarr said:

hi everyone,

heres my question, mostly for the ladies, but chime in if you want. i dont have a big dick, but i do think its got its advantages. some of them being a girls reaction to seeing it, a girl telling you how big you are, stuff like that. like i said, i dont have a big one, but how would you react if your bf asked you to pretend (for lack of a better word) that he was impressively endowed? What would you really think about him and about the request?

this isnt a how to, but im posting it here cause i like the people here. you can move it i guess.

-dan

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I don't think I've ever told a guy how big he is, and I really react similarly to every cock. What I truly love is how it gets bigger and how it feels. I've seen the same average sized (though I really think it's "perfect") cock just about everyday for the last seven years, and I still marvel at the whole arousal/erection process. I don't need to pretend my husband's or a lover's cock is impressive because I actually believe it IS impressive. And for the record, I've experienced a wide range of sizes, from very small to pretty damn big, and I've loved them all for a variety of reasons.

So, I do tell men their cocks are impressive and all of the reasons why, but that's always the truth. I will elaborate on what I like and boost egos (e.g. tell him he feels big, I love how his cock fills me, etc.) but I won't pretend/lie and say things I don't believe at all. The only exception I can think of might be during very heavy role playing, but even then I can imagine it would sound so hollow that it might ruin the role play for one or both of us. I'd be concerned about his mental and emotional wellbeing and our relationship if asked to do so. I'd also be confused and perhaps upset about him preferring lies over my genuine opinions and compliments.

Dan, I'm curious if you've been in a relationship where your partner loves and is impressed by your cock for what it is, does, and because of who it's attached to. If not, do you think the desire to pretend would go away once you were? If so, did you believe her/their feelings and words were genuine?

SweetErika said:

What I truly love is how it gets bigger and how it feels. I've seen the same average sized (though I really think it's "perfect") cock just about everyday for the last seven years, and I still marvel at the whole arousal/erection process. ?

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You know, it frightens me how much you sound like my wife at times. She's also said that one of her biggest turn ons is feeling me grow and harden.

SO hijacking this thread a bit, do you other lovely ladies find this experience arousing as well?

alternately, you could create a poll...

ed