Abrasion Therapy : A Brush With Bite

catalina_francisco

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We seem to discuss many things on the board from whippings, through spanking, bondage, orgasm denial, but rarely do I see much focus on abrasion. Maybe it is overlooked and could do with a little more focus and exploration. Being the thoughtful slave I am, I have submitted to Master's renewed interest in this form of therapy the past few days....and thought it could be an opening for discussion of experiences, likes and dislikes, etc.

For us, he has been using mostly the wire brushes I brought from Australia....metal bristles that make you go OUCH!!, then groan and beg a lot as he applies pressure while scraping across tender flesh. Mmmmm, well he says he has removed the top layer of skin from my butt, which I believe just from feel alone. Do I like it? Hmmmm, don't know...I get wet, very, and I must admit it adds another dimension when the flogger, cane, or bullwhip are applied afterward....and it certainly keeps me focused continuously on him, especially while trying to sit comfortably....think perhaps I need more time to think it over. Anyone else find it an interesting and regular part of pain play and want to share their experiences?

Catalina :rose:
 
Catalina - I have enjoyed abrasion long before I realised I was a slave by nature. It appears to heighten the sensations of anything that follows. It depends on the pain as to whatI like but submission to wire brushes is, for me, a true pleasure
 
shy slave said:
Catalina - I have enjoyed abrasion long before I realised I was a slave by nature. It appears to heighten the sensations of anything that follows. It depends on the pain as to whatI like but submission to wire brushes is, for me, a true pleasure

Cool....must admit it was a bit more demanding in certain more delicate places he decided needed to feel the brush up close and personal, but is does heighten sensation as you say.

Catalina :rose:
 
I bought a new brush recently. It's huge and has boar bristles.
 
Had my first real experience with a boar bristle brush. :D Very enjoyable. Especially when He flipped the brush over and used the wooden back to spank where the bristles had been.
 
Have tried similar to the boar bristle and use a variety of hairbrushes, but they pale in comparison to the wire ones which I think are made from copper wire. Not sure if it is worse to be spanked with them or have them ground in and dragged over the skin. Anyone tried other things such as sandpaper, gravel. etc.?
 

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I like exploring with different textures. Found some large rubber gloves on sale for less than 2 dollars. Very different feel to them. I guess a sticky feel is the best description I can come up with. I like texture play with bondage, blindfolded. Everything from abrasion to feathers.
 
WriterDom said:
I like exploring with different textures. Found some large rubber gloves on sale for less than 2 dollars. Very different feel to them. I guess a sticky feel is the best description I can come up with. I like texture play with bondage, blindfolded. Everything from abrasion to feathers.

LOL...brought a good collection of latex gloves from Oz. I'm sure the shippers wondered what was up when they began getting attacked by rubber gloves slipping out of boxes. Toothpicks have also been well utilised here for both abrasion and sensation play.

Catalina :rose:
 
There is a lot of variation possible too. The texture can vary so much from a simple soft nylon brush through much harsher materials. Progression through these can be very stimulating ... very stimulating indeed :D

Alternating between extense cold and a few bristles is highly recommended.
 
anoher good abrasive toy, albeit a bit on the "wimpy" side for some, is a wash mitt that is found at Bed, Bath, and Beyond... It is terry cloth on one side, and a knitted twine on the other. (picture attached) I too am very much into whay I consider "sensation play" with my repetoire ranging from feathers at one end, all the way to floggers, canes and the like at the other. http://www.tnrdgrnr.com/woody/texture_mitt.jpg
 
Mmmmm, well I have discovered another stage of abrasion....still trying to decide whether it is good or bad. Since the new skin has replaced the old which was removed by the brushes, it has become obvious it is far more sensitive to pain than I ever remember. Spanking is no longer a joyful 'walk in the park', and caning is way up there with almost, if not, unbearable 'OUCH' factor. Guess we need a wearing in process. :D

Catalina :rose:
 
Seems we are back into the abrasion phase again, only this time with the fibreglass type velcro which fastens our cuffs. Who would think something so innocent looking could leave long cuts over various parts of the body.....and who was silly enough in her fluish state and trying to feel better, to generously spray perfume over her body?!! For moments there I don't think I was on this planet, at least not consciously.:eek:

Catalina :rose:
 
i saw a BDSM clip where the Dom was dripping wax on the sub, on her breasts and nipples as well as down below.... then he took a wire brush and brushed the dried up wax off... :eek:

i was told after that that i should add a wire brush to my toybag :eek:
 
SierraMoon said:
i saw a BDSM clip where the Dom was dripping wax on the sub, on her breasts and nipples as well as down below.... then he took a wire brush and brushed the dried up wax off... :eek:

i was told after that that i should add a wire brush to my toybag :eek:

Have you tried it out as yet? I have found after the big abrasion session we went through with the wire brushes, removing the skin on my butt etc., I have not regained my former pain levels. What once was only mildly painful can now send me through the ceiling. Guess it stands to reason after growing a whole new layer of brand new skin.

Catalina :rose:
 
catalina_francisco said:
Have you tried it out as yet? I have found after the big abrasion session we went through with the wire brushes, removing the skin on my butt etc., I have not regained my former pain levels. What once was only mildly painful can now send me through the ceiling. Guess it stands to reason after growing a whole new layer of brand new skin.

Catalina :rose:
No, unfortunately i'm in an LDR with my Sir, so it may be awhile before we get to experiment with it. i suppose i could do it to myself, at His direction of course, but i don't think it would be as good ;)
 
Ok, I think I am a bona fide non-maso sub. Just reading this thread has made my skin tingle (or crawl - I'm not sure which, yet) in places it never has and I'm not, altogether, sure it's pleasurable.:eek:

But as I am also in an LDR, I will keep an open mind. I know when I do return to r/l, physical submission, I will have to find one who is willing to work with me; to begin slowly and be patient as He/She works me from where I am to where they want me to be.

Esclava :rose:
 
Esclava said:
Ok, I think I am a bona fide non-maso sub. Just reading this thread has made my skin tingle (or crawl - I'm not sure which, yet) in places it never has and I'm not, altogether, sure it's pleasurable.:eek:

But as I am also in an LDR, I will keep an open mind. I know when I do return to r/l, physical submission, I will have to find one who is willing to work with me; to begin slowly and be patient as He/She works me from where I am to where they want me to be.

Esclava :rose:

LOL, that can be an interesting feeling. I think for most it is best to start slowly, even sometimes in cases where the submissive longs for it....and remember you are allowed to have limits and that they can change. I love looking back and seeing the things I once thought I would never do or enjoy, and now crave with a mixture of need and perversity. :p

Catalina :rose:
 
SierraMoon said:
No, unfortunately i'm in an LDR with my Sir, so it may be awhile before we get to experiment with it. i suppose i could do it to myself, at His direction of course, but i don't think it would be as good ;)

I agree with you here, it is never as good to do it yourself, even through expressed orders and direction. It will be worth the wait to experience it together. Hope you enjoy it.

Catalina :rose:
 
<----------Still cringing in abject astonishment of the kind of pain tolerances displayed by the respondents to this thread. :eek:

My hat is off to you and the Doms you serve!

Esclava :rose:
 
Esclava said:
Ok, I think I am a bona fide non-maso sub. Just reading this thread has made my skin tingle (or crawl - I'm not sure which, yet) in places it never has and I'm not, altogether, sure it's pleasurable.:eek:

But as I am also in an LDR, I will keep an open mind. I know when I do return to r/l, physical submission, I will have to find one who is willing to work with me; to begin slowly and be patient as He/She works me from where I am to where they want me to be.

Esclava :rose:

Esclava,

I am in the same boat as you. Pain isn't the biggest part of what "gets me going" and is rather low on the list of things I consider important in my BDSM relationships. For now anyway. As Catalina pointed out...it is okay to have limits...and maybe I will explore those more fully someday. I don't rightly know....I suppose it depends on the Sir.

But yeah...reading this makes me want to just run away LOL.
 
We found a new hairbrush a few weeks ago and it was good for abrasion, but couldn't handle the heavier stuff.:D Spent an age trying to pull the bristles back out to a useable length only to have them disappear again.....new brushes were bought!!:rolleyes:

Catalina :rose:
 
LOL, as we haven't done any abrasion play for awhile, I was feeling a little nostalgic a couple of weeks back when I saw some wire brushes in a shop. I decided to buy them for when he was next in the mood. Hmmm, might have been a bit hasty....I picked one up today and accidentally touched my finger with it which immediately began to pour blood! Given these pics are from obviously much less sharp brushes, I can imagine my butt being destroyed in 5 seconds, especially if he used his usual force behind it and then flogged it as he likes to do to spread the blood around. :D

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Catalinahttp://www.world-of-smilies.com/wos_gewalt/zzwhip.gif
 
No more wire brushes! Couldn't resist...

We do a LOT of abrasion play, but prefer to keep my skin ON, so no wire used here. We have several pretty rough ones from a horse tack company, in different levels of firmness that do quite well-my husband prefers to alternate soft and hard bristle ones to keep me guessing.

Another find was a scrubber mitt also from the horse tack place, much more abrasive than those shower mitts. And from a fishing supply company, we have these descaling gloves that CAN take skin off if you're not careful. They are among my favorite toys.

We also have some other unusual sensation toys-a plastic mini-slinky dragged across your back pinches in an interesting way, feathers, silk fabric-not all of it need be rough to be fun. Oh, and for some interesting fun, use the business end of a garden weasel (don't attach the pole). They make a nice tinkling sound and poke and pinch interestingly.

We do LOTS of sensation play here-the toys themselves are quiet (kiddos on the premises) and they do indeed make impact play go up a notch.
 
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