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twodogs

twodogs

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You know i've allways wondered what younger women wanted with older men .
I know from experence we are very proud if we are able to have a young thing by our side and to look after .
But it still makes me think why , is it money , experence or what ?
A woman today can have about anything her little heart wants,and she will chose a older man , now don't get me wrong i think it's a very good thing and would be proud to have one .
I did once when i was 50 and she was 24 and she kept me feeling young .
Boy the women of today will just cause a old man to sit down and cry , they are so soft and sexy it's not fair they were not like that when we were young , why i'm like a blind dog in a meat house just nipping and licking at all the things that smell good.
 
This is a subject that's close to my heart. I'm married but for reasons to involved to list here, I'm active elsewhere. For years I thought me sex life was over because I was impotent due to the medication I took for blood pressure. Two years ago, I met a most wonderful woman on line who at that time was 37. (I was 65.) We became friends, then lovers. Why? Because I didn't lie to her, didn't play an games with her and she didn't play any with me. She knew I couldn't satisfy her the way she wanted but she proved that I was still able to send her flying. She is multi-orgasmic, extremely passionate, and the best thing to happen to me in years. There have been two others, one 25, and one 42 and they both told me the same reason. I love women and it makes me feel fulfilled when I can feel and hear them orgasm whether I get anything else out of it or not. I think the fact thagt I truly respect them and their feelings has a lot to do with it too. Maybe it's just the extra maturity maybe not but I study the female body and what satisifies them. I truly care that they have as many orgasms as possible and they know it. They also know I don't expect anything in return, just their happiness.
 
good to here

You said it the way it needs to be said thank you
As a older person i always thought of the woman i was with what it was for me to do to make her happy , then and only then i thought of myself .
By seeing that she was happy i was happy and only wanted her more.
Now i've had that a few times in my life but on the most part it was just going through the games we play .
I feel that in todays world a lot of women are taken advantage of and it leves a bitter taste in there mouth.
I have let myself get in a rut and telling myself i'm to old to look for happeness and just ride it out ,but i do miss the sweet women and all the good times we had .
I liked the part of going at things like the cold slow and easy .
It's good to here you have found your happeness and she is very happy .
Thank you for the respond.:cool:
 
Glad to hear you two gentlemen talking about this subject. I'm in my mid-40s now and find myself thinking about younger women more and more. Maybe it's my midlife crisis. I haven't been lucky enough to find a younger woman to share my bed with yet, but am glad to hear that there are some out there who do enjoy being with an older man. I feel like I have things to offer her that a younger man wouldn't. Like a selfless side that is more concerned with her needs than my own. I am perfectly happy spending hours in bed with a woman giving her pleasure. My needs don't seem important when I can satisfy hers over and over again.
 
Being an older man myself i would like to think that i know how to please a woman better than most younger guys from years of experience . I also think older men are nicer and more respectful
than a lot of younger guys . I know that when i am lucky enough to be with a sweet young woman i am definatly on my best behavior! also i think older guys can apcreciate romance a little more and in my case my sex drive hasnt gone down much as i have gotten older so they get the best of both worlds :D
 
I just thought i'd add a younger woman's view on this thread. I'm 21, and my first real sexual experience was with a man over twice my age - i was 19 and he was 40. We dated on and off for about a year. I have to say money had nothing to do with it. It was just that he seemed to offer me everything that men my age couldn't - although i had no previous experience at the time, he was an amazing lover - generous and took the time to make me enjoy it! (previous fumblings with men my age told me that they just wanted sex for what they could get out of it.) But it wasn't just the sex it was everything about our relationship - places we went together, the conversation... its hard to put it into words. But he definately gave me something that a man my age couldn't. I have to admit it was also nice to be treated like a lady - he opened doors for me, walked on the outside of the pavement that sort of thing. Reading this back it seems my interest in older men is a bit superficial but the truth is... experience counts.
I loved reading the thread and the other people's replies - I'll def look again soon to see if anything else has been added x
 
twodogs said:
You know i've allways wondered what younger women wanted with older men .
I know from experence we are very proud if we are able to have a young thing by our side and to look after .
But it still makes me think why , is it money , experence or what ?
A woman today can have about anything her little heart wants,and she will chose a older man , now don't get me wrong i think it's a very good thing and would be proud to have one .
I did once when i was 50 and she was 24 and she kept me feeling young .
Boy the women of today will just cause a old man to sit down and cry , they are so soft and sexy it's not fair they were not like that when we were young , why i'm like a blind dog in a meat house just nipping and licking at all the things that smell good.
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then later, :

" "Because I didn't lie to her, didn't play an games with her and she didn't play any with me. She knew I couldn't satisfy her the way she wanted but she proved that I was still able to send her flying. She is multi-orgasmic, extremely passionate, and the best thing to happen to me in years. " "



I am much more attracted to older men, part of the attraction is right here. No kid's going to think thru my fem mind, and fuck me like I need to be fucked.

A mature man is confident, stable, financially secure, emotionally safe......

:kiss:
:rose:

p.s. I'm up for adoption.
 
Being an older man of 54, I have had several experiences with younger women, and I love it. I enjoy the younger mind and body and love to take all night to please them and its a new experience for them usually. The money sometimes is important although they never admit it and do love to be spoiled as do I:rose: :rose: :rose:
 
Not that young....

...old enough to know that money related struggles are bound to come with a younger man.

I like a man to have his shit together.

Money is a fact of life, so choose your "young thing", at least mature enough to get past that stage first.



:devil:
 
The money is a real part of life and a huge reason that women stay with idoits because they cant afford to leave them. Money is a poor bedfellow and it cant french kiss you! and it needs to be discussed asap!

its so true, no bullshit and just honest talk from older men is a good thing and also, knowing when the buttons are to push and lick!!! for sure lick! :devil:
 
Years ago, a friend of mine said it in a way I've always liked.

As we get older, we go from being sprinters to distance runners.

I love taking my time. I truly enjoy staying in bed to cuddle and talk until it is time to go again...and again. I appreciate my partner's beauty (and, no, she doesn't have to look like a supermodel). I think women of all ages appreciate this.

50 and proud of it.
 
OldestMotive said:
Years ago, a friend of mine said it in a way I've always liked.

As we get older, we go from being sprinters to distance runners.

I love taking my time. I truly enjoy staying in bed to cuddle and talk until it is time to go again...and again. I appreciate my partner's beauty (and, no, she doesn't have to look like a supermodel). I think women of all ages appreciate this.

50 and proud of it.
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Just a little more about the age thing.

I'm as old now as the "older men" in my life use to be. I can find maturity in my own age group now.

Not ugly, so I get hit on by the younger crowd too.

While the "guys" are alot of fun; I'd still trade two twenty year olds for a forty year old, in the sack.

40 and also proud of it!





:rose: :rose:
 
fnnyworld,

As a female in her mid 40's I am with you on the trading in the two twenty-somethings for a older, more mature man.

The thing about older men is that they are not going to be intimidated if I say to them that something is just not doing anything for me.

They like to hear what pleases me and aren't afraid to try things my way most of the time.
 
Re: Not that young....

fnnyworld said:

I like a man to have his shit together.
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I think this is what I like most about older men. I like that they appreciate the finer things in life. The style, the class. They seem to know how to treat a lady. I like when I don't have to do all the work. When I can take the time to look good and find that my lover has taken care of the other details.

A little bit ago (though too long!), I had a lover look up at me and say "Who's in charge here?" I can't even tell you the jolt that went through me. He knew what he wanted to do to me AND how he wanted to do it. It was sweet agony to have to WAIT for him to take his sweet time about it. Oh but the payoff... Needless to say, I can't wait to be with him again.

And I get off on the fact that he's about 15 years older than me.
 
Not that young....

SecretKeeper said:
I think this is what I like most about older men. I like that they appreciate the finer things in life. The style, the class. They seem to know how to treat a lady. I like when I don't have to do all the work. When I can take the time to look good and find that my lover has taken care of the other details.

A little bit ago (though too long!), I had a lover look up at me and say "Who's in charge here?" I can't even tell you the jolt that went through me. He knew what he wanted to do to me AND how he wanted to do it. It was sweet agony to have to WAIT for him to take his sweet time about it. Oh but the payoff... Needless to say, I can't wait to be with him again.

And I get off on the fact that he's about 15 years older than me.
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All fine! Add to that knowledge and the attention that you receive; such as gentlemanly manners...ahhhhhh.

Opening doors, and escorting me tenderly are among the many mannerisms that my friends of age offer.

I love the way my 50 somethin' lover can pleasure me, even those times when the cock may not cooperate. I'm never left needing.

:devil:

:rose: :rose: :rose:
 
Re: Not that young....

fnnyworld said:

I love the way my 50 somethin' lover can pleasure me, even those times when the cock may not cooperate.
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Not cooperate?? That's interesting...

I have noticed that there is a bit of a difference in...denseness, for a lack of a better way of putting it. They aren't as rock hard solid as my younger lovers, but that's never been a real problem.

What I have noticed though, is that they're up and running again a lot faster than my younger lovers. They have staying power, not only of 'cock' but of attention. Someone said something about liking to cuddle...
 
I Like to cuddle

I am not 50 only 41. But what Fnnyworld says holds true for me. I find personally that I am more attentive before and after sex than when I was a young buck. What do you think, does this go hand in hand physiologically with age? Or maybe it is a change in the way older men emotionally handle themselves. I have been around this type of chatroom and webboard for years albeit I am new to Lit. But, If you pay attention to the chats and the posts there certainly seems to be more focus on lets get it on and get off by the younger chatters. I won't say this is always true only a tendency. As for the more mature lovers? Fucking is great but the sincerity can make all the more pleasurable.
 
How very right all of you are. I think that is what makes the difference in a younger man and an older man. The attentiveness, the willingness to take their time and not rush, the attention to the little things.

It all adds up to something that just stops me in my tracks.
 
So right,

it has become enjoying each freckle, every turn and curve, the
shallow breathing and the "sigh" that tells it all!
Each time I remember a wonderful experience - I relive it.
Yes, wanting to be able to do all again, but understanding that every encounter she will have in the future, at some point or feeling, she will also remember our moment...& smile:D

"The love you take is equal to the love U make!!!:kiss:
Albin30
 
as a 54 year old man, just the curve of the hip, and long kiss and the wonder of the female, some of us learn to love all of it more and more. Perhaps thats the magic of women, they become more misterious, more intense, more a deep mystery NOT less. and for me, thats the allure, the come on. just to explore their mysteries, Im lucky to have my health and my sexuality still, as its a gift and not forever, but it does change, somehow, slowly and dont ever think that its not an issue for an older man. It is at the center of their being, at least for me. I love the discussion here, its helped me to know we are loved still and thats so lovely!:rose:
 
emeraldman said:
as a 54 year old man, just the curve of the hip, and long kiss and the wonder of the female, some of us learn to love all of it more and more. Perhaps thats the magic of women, they become more misterious, more intense, more a deep mystery NOT less. and for me, thats the allure, the come on. just to explore their mysteries, Im lucky to have my health and my sexuality still, as its a gift and not forever, but it does change, somehow, slowly and dont ever think that its not an issue for an older man. It is at the center of their being, at least for me. I love the discussion here, its helped me to know we are loved still and thats so lovely!:rose:
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Now how could we not love you older men?
 
how come you guys are always
talking about me
like i'm not even in the room? :D
 
TheOlderGuy said:
how come you guys are always
talking about me
like i'm not even in the room? :D
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Because we want you to know what we are thinking about you.
 
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