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T.H. Oughts
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Well I know my fetish for men wearing stockings is from watching the Rocky Horror Picture Show too many time in my teens. 
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MechaBlade
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I would call Bondage a subfetish, because it seems to be generally shared with people who also have the more general BDSM (Bondage Domination/Discipline SadoMasochism) fetish. To be bound is fairly synonymous with submitting: it restricts control and puts it in the hands of the binder.
It is possible, in my estimation, to enjoy the bondage without necessarily enjoying the submission; the feeling of being bound may just be exciting. Like a baby in swaddling clothes, being bound--especially in with certain types of bonds--can be warm and comforting. In a couple strips of the comic strip "9 Chickweed Lane" Edda's mother reveals that she sometimes wears a sexy leotard under her work clothes to make her feel more sexual. It could be just that she's wearing something sexual at work and that no one knows it, but I think the tight feeling of something hugging one's curves also would come into play. For sadomasochists, bondage is about the feeling, even if that feeling is one of rope. However, I imagine this type of bondage fetish is very, very rare.
For BDSM lovers, bondage is a great way to show who's in control. The bound lover is ideally powerless and when she or he is liberated is up to the dom(me). Bondage can be a great pathway to enjoy other fetishes. Since the bound person cannot move, they must participate in whatever the binder wants, be it pussy licking, receiving anal sex, tickle torture, scatplay or getting a good old fashioned spanking. However, bondage can be fun in it's own right, as the bound person waits in anticipation of being released. In this respect, they are little more than the dominant's toy, to be used again when the dominant feels like it.
The best thing about bondage is all the options. There have got to be literally hundreds of different methods of restricting a lover's movements, including: rope, shibari (Japanese rope bondage, an example is below),
http://www.mdeg.com/bondage/japanese_bondage/images/JBW2-03432.jpg
handcuffs, legcuffs, spreader bars, ballgags, muzzles and bits (restricting communication), chains, plastic wrap, collars, hooks (for suspension), stocks, pillories, chinese finger traps, crucifixion (more on this later), duct tape, straitjackets, latex body encasements, fist mitts, armbinders, belts, leashes, vacuum beds (see below)
http://www.mikoexoticwear.com/Merchant2/graphics/00000004/vacbed2.jpg
suspension bars, X-bars, yokes, posture bars, muzzles, O-ring gags, hoods and blindfolds (restricing vision) and more. There are way too many for me to list.
I'd like to put in a plug for jtstockroom.com here, and I'll mention that most the items I've listed are being sold there.
The MOST IMPORTANT thing to keep in mind is that bondage should be done carefully. Some positions or implements can restrict breathing or put force on weak parts of the body. You should move slowly (don't rush into complicated bondage) and, if possible, talk with an experienced bondage hobbyist.
Here's a site I found (that someone on the bdsm board posted) that had lots of good bdsm safety information: http://www.albanypowerexchange.com/ .
Remember to keep it Safe, Sane and Consensual.
http://brawlhall.net/images/0Rf51657.jpg
It is possible, in my estimation, to enjoy the bondage without necessarily enjoying the submission; the feeling of being bound may just be exciting. Like a baby in swaddling clothes, being bound--especially in with certain types of bonds--can be warm and comforting. In a couple strips of the comic strip "9 Chickweed Lane" Edda's mother reveals that she sometimes wears a sexy leotard under her work clothes to make her feel more sexual. It could be just that she's wearing something sexual at work and that no one knows it, but I think the tight feeling of something hugging one's curves also would come into play. For sadomasochists, bondage is about the feeling, even if that feeling is one of rope. However, I imagine this type of bondage fetish is very, very rare.
For BDSM lovers, bondage is a great way to show who's in control. The bound lover is ideally powerless and when she or he is liberated is up to the dom(me). Bondage can be a great pathway to enjoy other fetishes. Since the bound person cannot move, they must participate in whatever the binder wants, be it pussy licking, receiving anal sex, tickle torture, scatplay or getting a good old fashioned spanking. However, bondage can be fun in it's own right, as the bound person waits in anticipation of being released. In this respect, they are little more than the dominant's toy, to be used again when the dominant feels like it.
The best thing about bondage is all the options. There have got to be literally hundreds of different methods of restricting a lover's movements, including: rope, shibari (Japanese rope bondage, an example is below),
http://www.mdeg.com/bondage/japanese_bondage/images/JBW2-03432.jpg
handcuffs, legcuffs, spreader bars, ballgags, muzzles and bits (restricting communication), chains, plastic wrap, collars, hooks (for suspension), stocks, pillories, chinese finger traps, crucifixion (more on this later), duct tape, straitjackets, latex body encasements, fist mitts, armbinders, belts, leashes, vacuum beds (see below)
http://www.mikoexoticwear.com/Merchant2/graphics/00000004/vacbed2.jpg
suspension bars, X-bars, yokes, posture bars, muzzles, O-ring gags, hoods and blindfolds (restricing vision) and more. There are way too many for me to list.
I'd like to put in a plug for jtstockroom.com here, and I'll mention that most the items I've listed are being sold there.
The MOST IMPORTANT thing to keep in mind is that bondage should be done carefully. Some positions or implements can restrict breathing or put force on weak parts of the body. You should move slowly (don't rush into complicated bondage) and, if possible, talk with an experienced bondage hobbyist.
Here's a site I found (that someone on the bdsm board posted) that had lots of good bdsm safety information: http://www.albanypowerexchange.com/ .
Remember to keep it Safe, Sane and Consensual.
http://brawlhall.net/images/0Rf51657.jpg
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That was definitely worth the wait. Thanks Mecha!
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Where is the love for the marching band fetish?
Drumlines make me moist.
Drumlines make me moist.
MechaBlade
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npBBWetKitty said:
You mean like liquid latex, or what?stonedfox said:
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love you, mean it.MechaBlade said:
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Hey, I remember seeing a video of this guy getting kicked in the nuts. Here is a sample:
http://hotniss.com/page429.html
I did not know guys actually enjoyed getting kicked in the nads. Is this a fetish all in a catagory by itself, or is it in the genre of S&M?
http://hotniss.com/page429.html
I did not know guys actually enjoyed getting kicked in the nads. Is this a fetish all in a catagory by itself, or is it in the genre of S&M?
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love you more!BBWetKitty said:love you, mean it.
Good topic.Joaquin1975 said:
I definitely won't.Hester said:
I don't think I'm going to be able to find information on that, unless you are paint fetishist and could point me in the right direction.stonedfox said:
That's the point of this thread. And no, the point isn't to make you queasy.CrackerjackHrt said:
MechaBlade
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Ballbusting is definitely my least favorite out of consensual fetishes. Why? Because doing the research is painful. Even some ladies understand: watching men get kicked, punched and otherwised pummelled in the balls makes you feel like you're getting hurt in the balls.
And I guess that's why some guys find it so hot.
Ballbusting seems to have two? main groups. The submissive cbtees and good general ballbusting fans.
CBTees is a term I made up for fans of CBT (Cock and Ball Torture), a term I didn't make up. Cock torturees and ball torturees are like any good pain-loving masochist, but their focus is on the oh-so-frail male genital region. Why? From a CBT website:
Then many Cock/Ball Torturees like being dominated by a beautiful dominatrix (or a handsome dom, in the case of gay CBT fans) by kicking, stomping and punching balls. (Actually, this seems to be primarily populated by heterosexual men, since gay men lean toward more hardcore CBT. But I didn't do that much research "gay ballbusting doesn't always yield bdsm results.) The focus here is more on the humiliation than the pain. There is more a focus on the balls than on the penis, I think. And most light ballkicking and ballbusting fans (I hesistate to use the word "softcore" to describe this fetish) like to be kicked versus other methods of a domme hurting their balls.
Perhaps because this is the most efficient way to hurt a man's balls in real life. An angry woman can't just kneel to the ground and punch a man when he's not expecting it; it'd take to long and he'd guard himself. A swift kick to the balls is always unexpected. And the angry woman can be part of the fetish. At serial-ballbusters.com, in every video a man either somehow upsets a woman, or she is already angry at him and shows her fury by delivering a swift kick to his groin. I like porn with stories.
http://www.serial-ballbusters.com/thumbs/public-park-assault013.jpg
This brings us to stomping, where the men just lie on the floor and have the shit stomped out of their genitals. I seriously wonder about the danger of this type of activity. A female crusher (stomper) says:
Well, I guess. What's interesting about the section of ballbusting that deals with women kicking and stomping on men's balls is that it slowly begins to become another fetish: the foot/heel fetish. Hardcore foot fetish sites may have some stomping/crushing of balls on their site, just as domme-oriented ballkicking sites will have the woman dressed up in sexy heels and have plenty of foot-closeups, perhaps even when no balls are in the picture. But I learned long ago that fetish never fits into little boxes. It's a continuum of experiences, preferences, and sexual orientations.
As for more general ballbusting, these are the guys that likely watch America's Funniest Home Videos for masturbation fodder. They just like to recieve the pain and humiliation (and comedy) of getting hit in the balls by objects and/or women. They commonly discuss being "racked" which just means having one's testicles injured. I am sure this was started as a skating term.
This quote by a poster on a ballbusting board (whose name, incidently, is "AJ", hmmm) just about sums it up. He was answering a poster who asked: "Have you ever been kicked in the nuts by a girl or sexy lady in
public?"
And there you go... ballbusters. Mostly harmless, but I'll never forgive them for making me watch a video where this skateboarder just about splits himself into two pieces while trying to grind a rail. Fucking ow.
No word on whether any girls actually enjoy getting kicked in the crotch. I found a sub that let her master kick her in the pussy, but I don't think it was really for her pleasure.
A vidcap from that video Joaquin posted:
http://images5.pictiger.com/thumbs/86/795e542dfd5982f388d37227587c8c86.th.jpg
imageshack link (for those of you who know how to work it): http://img113.imageshack.us/img113/7624/justpunched8fd.jpg
And I guess that's why some guys find it so hot.
Ballbusting seems to have two? main groups. The submissive cbtees and good general ballbusting fans.
CBTees is a term I made up for fans of CBT (Cock and Ball Torture), a term I didn't make up. Cock torturees and ball torturees are like any good pain-loving masochist, but their focus is on the oh-so-frail male genital region. Why? From a CBT website:
CBTees seem to have a couple camps as well. There are those who like having their cocks and balls tortured with whips chains, clothespins and the like. Self-explanitory really. This can get dangerous when it's too hardcore, but it's like any painplay.
Then many Cock/Ball Torturees like being dominated by a beautiful dominatrix (or a handsome dom, in the case of gay CBT fans) by kicking, stomping and punching balls. (Actually, this seems to be primarily populated by heterosexual men, since gay men lean toward more hardcore CBT. But I didn't do that much research "gay ballbusting doesn't always yield bdsm results.) The focus here is more on the humiliation than the pain. There is more a focus on the balls than on the penis, I think. And most light ballkicking and ballbusting fans (I hesistate to use the word "softcore" to describe this fetish) like to be kicked versus other methods of a domme hurting their balls.
Perhaps because this is the most efficient way to hurt a man's balls in real life. An angry woman can't just kneel to the ground and punch a man when he's not expecting it; it'd take to long and he'd guard himself. A swift kick to the balls is always unexpected. And the angry woman can be part of the fetish. At serial-ballbusters.com, in every video a man either somehow upsets a woman, or she is already angry at him and shows her fury by delivering a swift kick to his groin. I like porn with stories.
http://www.serial-ballbusters.com/thumbs/public-park-assault013.jpg
This brings us to stomping, where the men just lie on the floor and have the shit stomped out of their genitals. I seriously wonder about the danger of this type of activity. A female crusher (stomper) says:
Well, I guess. What's interesting about the section of ballbusting that deals with women kicking and stomping on men's balls is that it slowly begins to become another fetish: the foot/heel fetish. Hardcore foot fetish sites may have some stomping/crushing of balls on their site, just as domme-oriented ballkicking sites will have the woman dressed up in sexy heels and have plenty of foot-closeups, perhaps even when no balls are in the picture. But I learned long ago that fetish never fits into little boxes. It's a continuum of experiences, preferences, and sexual orientations.
As for more general ballbusting, these are the guys that likely watch America's Funniest Home Videos for masturbation fodder. They just like to recieve the pain and humiliation (and comedy) of getting hit in the balls by objects and/or women. They commonly discuss being "racked" which just means having one's testicles injured. I am sure this was started as a skating term.
This quote by a poster on a ballbusting board (whose name, incidently, is "AJ", hmmm) just about sums it up. He was answering a poster who asked: "Have you ever been kicked in the nuts by a girl or sexy lady in
public?"
And there you go... ballbusters. Mostly harmless, but I'll never forgive them for making me watch a video where this skateboarder just about splits himself into two pieces while trying to grind a rail. Fucking ow.
No word on whether any girls actually enjoy getting kicked in the crotch. I found a sub that let her master kick her in the pussy, but I don't think it was really for her pleasure.
A vidcap from that video Joaquin posted:
http://images5.pictiger.com/thumbs/86/795e542dfd5982f388d37227587c8c86.th.jpg
imageshack link (for those of you who know how to work it): http://img113.imageshack.us/img113/7624/justpunched8fd.jpg
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MechaBlade said:Ballbusting is definitely my least favorite out of consensual fetishes. Why? Because doing the research is painful. Even some ladies understand: watching men get kicked, punched and otherwised pummelled in the balls makes you feel like you're getting hurt in the balls.
And I guess that's why some guys find it so hot.
Ballbusting seems to have two? main groups. The submissive cbtees and good general ballbusting fans.
CBTees is a term I made up for fans of CBT (Cock and Ball Torture), a term I didn't make up. Cock torturees and ball torturees are like any good pain-loving masochist, but their focus is on the oh-so-frail male genital region. Why? From a CBT website:
CBTees seem to have a couple camps as well. There are those who like having their cocks and balls tortured with whips chains, clothespins and the like. Self-explanitory really. This can get dangerous when it's too hardcore, but it's like any painplay.
Then many Cock/Ball Torturees like being dominated by a beautiful dominatrix (or a handsome dom, in the case of gay CBT fans) by kicking, stomping and punching balls. (Actually, this seems to be primarily populated by heterosexual men, since gay men lean toward more hardcore CBT. But I didn't do that much research "gay ballbusting doesn't always yield bdsm results.) The focus here is more on the humiliation than the pain. There is more a focus on the balls than on the penis, I think. And most light ballkicking and ballbusting fans (I hesistate to use the word "softcore" to describe this fetish) like to be kicked versus other methods of a domme hurting their balls.
Perhaps because this is the most efficient way to hurt a man's balls in real life. An angry woman can't just kneel to the ground and punch a man when he's not expecting it; it'd take to long and he'd guard himself. A swift kick to the balls is always unexpected. And the angry woman can be part of the fetish. At serial-ballbusters.com, in every video a man either somehow upsets a woman, or she is already angry at him and shows her fury by delivering a swift kick to his groin. I like porn with stories.
http://www.serial-ballbusters.com/thumbs/public-park-assault013.jpg
This brings us to stomping, where the men just lie on the floor and have the shit stomped out of their genitals. I seriously wonder about the danger of this type of activity. A female crusher (stomper) says:
Well, I guess. What's interesting about the section of ballbusting that deals with women kicking and stomping on men's balls is that it slowly begins to become another fetish: the foot/heel fetish. Hardcore foot fetish sites may have some stomping/crushing of balls on their site, just as domme-oriented ballkicking sites will have the woman dressed up in sexy heels and have plenty of foot-closeups, perhaps even when no balls are in the picture. But I learned long ago that fetish never fits into little boxes. It's a continuum of experiences, preferences, and sexual orientations.
As for more general ballbusting, these are the guys that likely watch America's Funniest Home Videos for masturbation fodder. They just like to recieve the pain and humiliation (and comedy) of getting hit in the balls by objects and/or women. They commonly discuss being "racked" which just means having one's testicles injured. I am sure this was started as a skating term.
This quote by a poster on a ballbusting board (whose name, incidently, is "AJ", hmmm) just about sums it up. He was answering a poster who asked: "Have you ever been kicked in the nuts by a girl or sexy lady in
public?"
And there you go... ballbusters. Mostly harmless, but I'll never forgive them for making me watch a video where this skateboarder just about splits himself into two pieces while trying to grind a rail. Fucking ow.
No word on whether any girls actually enjoy getting kicked in the crotch. I found a sub that let her master kick her in the pussy, but I don't think it was really for her pleasure.
A vidcap from that video:
http://img113.imageshack.us/img113/7624/justpunched8fd.jpg
Wow! That must of taken some research... I only found blurbs, pics and videos here and there. Thanks for the info...
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MechaBlade said:
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Our sexual nature is part of human nature, I have been curious about fetishes. I've heard of smoking fetish and clown fetish as well. I do think, wow, how does someone get into that. At the same time, hey, if it turns them on, why not? they should.
I have been into ballbusting for years (almost 30). I love to have women kick me in the balls. That used to be my favorite. Now my fav is laying my balls on a hard surface (coffee table, counter etc.) and having the gal step down and stand on my balls. In this position the gal can slowly add weight crushing my balls. I also love the threats of stomping or crushing in this position. I have taken some hard kicks and crushing over the years. The funny thing is I'm not into other fetishes like spanking, strap-ons and the like. So I would have to say it definitely is in a catagory by itself because I along with many others don't fit into the CBT ot BDSM catagory thus making it very hard finding play partners at times. When I mention a kick in the nuts on most BDSM forums most think I'm crazy. With 30 years of ball abuse, 4 children and a clean urology bill of health one could say that balls are tougher than most think however...
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I've been reading through this, very interesting. The feeder fetish I heard of on lit a few months back, very odd. I've heard of balloon fetish but lots more information here and clowns.
The ball busting thing, I've never heard of that. Wow, ooouch that seems painful. Each to their own though, I mean if they want it, and they're not harmed then I'm open minded. I mean if they aren't injured in terms of not being able to heal, or longterm affects. Magnum above says he's fine.
The ball busting thing, I've never heard of that. Wow, ooouch that seems painful. Each to their own though, I mean if they want it, and they're not harmed then I'm open minded. I mean if they aren't injured in terms of not being able to heal, or longterm affects. Magnum above says he's fine.
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Tentacle Porn
I want to say that the first fetish that I was exposed to in Internet porn (that wasn't already a fetish I possessed) was tentacle porn. However, calling tentacle porn a fetish, seems like a bit of a stretch.
"Hentai", a japanese word meaning "pervert" is erotic art drawn in a typical anime (aka "Japanamation") style. Tentacle hentai depicts women having sex with aliens or mutants with tentacles. Probably about 95% of the time these women are being raped by these creatures, and so this genre of art is just as often referred to as "tentacle rape" hentai, though some tentacle hentai is consensual.
My understanding of tentacle porn is that it started to get around Japanese censorship, which forbids showing penises or any other genitals. This is the reason given by Toshio Maeda, artist of the comic book "Urotsukidoji" and a pioneer in tentacle hentai art.
Japanese art depicting women making love and being molested by octopi does predate tentacle porn (see Wikipedia for a 19th century woodcut), but the connection between octopi bestiality art and tentacle hentai has not been determined.
These days, popularity of tentacle hentai seems to have subsided to an increasing amount of "normal" human-on-human hentai with pixelization of genitals, or even the occasional uncensored art. Mainly tentacle porn is notable for giving me an appreciation for Japanese culture when I was in middle school.
Two very old school bitmap-style uncensored pics:
http://Serv3.imagehigh.com/imgs/04/11669_alien1.jpg
I touched up parts of this one in high school:
http://Serv3.imagehigh.com/imgs/04/22755_alien2.jpg
See the Wikipedia page for more information.
What do you think of your god now, pastafarians?!
I want to say that the first fetish that I was exposed to in Internet porn (that wasn't already a fetish I possessed) was tentacle porn. However, calling tentacle porn a fetish, seems like a bit of a stretch.
"Hentai", a japanese word meaning "pervert" is erotic art drawn in a typical anime (aka "Japanamation") style. Tentacle hentai depicts women having sex with aliens or mutants with tentacles. Probably about 95% of the time these women are being raped by these creatures, and so this genre of art is just as often referred to as "tentacle rape" hentai, though some tentacle hentai is consensual.
My understanding of tentacle porn is that it started to get around Japanese censorship, which forbids showing penises or any other genitals. This is the reason given by Toshio Maeda, artist of the comic book "Urotsukidoji" and a pioneer in tentacle hentai art.
Japanese art depicting women making love and being molested by octopi does predate tentacle porn (see Wikipedia for a 19th century woodcut), but the connection between octopi bestiality art and tentacle hentai has not been determined.
These days, popularity of tentacle hentai seems to have subsided to an increasing amount of "normal" human-on-human hentai with pixelization of genitals, or even the occasional uncensored art. Mainly tentacle porn is notable for giving me an appreciation for Japanese culture when I was in middle school.
Two very old school bitmap-style uncensored pics:
http://Serv3.imagehigh.com/imgs/04/11669_alien1.jpg
I touched up parts of this one in high school:
http://Serv3.imagehigh.com/imgs/04/22755_alien2.jpg
See the Wikipedia page for more information.
What do you think of your god now, pastafarians?!
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