Are women attracted to a large penis.

What 'penis enlargement routine'?

Viagras,

You mentioned you've been working on a "penis enlargement routine," an intriguing comment that's been sort of overlooked in this thread. You suggest it works for you -- though everything else I've ever read/heard says such routines are bogus.

What magic method have you used? (A friend wants to know...)

well I have the very real pleasure of enjoying two very different cocks - my SO of twenty years is above average in length and girth, my fuck buddy ( an incredibly hot 24 yr old) is below average in girth and average in length. There really is not a comparision, I enjoy both cocks in my mouth, pussy and ass....they both feel yummy....it is all in how you use it

viagras said:

My wife thinks a large penis is more important to men than women.I have been on a penis enlargement routine for several years and have slowly increased to my current size of 8.75 inches bpel x 6.5 inches eg.
We are in a long standing relationship,still find each other attractive in many ways,have regular sex and are open and honest with each other.
Do other women share this opinion?.

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For me, I like a smaller cock. I guess I'm an oddball. I think 6 inches is the perfect size. I often wonder if men know the average size of the vagina, and if they want to knock our guts out

Freud got penis envy all wrong. . .

I thought that I'd posted in this thread already, but I guess that I posted on another size thread. Oh well, here goes. . .

When I met my husband, I didn't know anything about his dick. I didn't ask him about it, except for safe-sex purposes. I fell for him because of who he is, not what he's packing in his shorts. Turns out that his dick looks pretty much like all the other ones out there, and that's more than fine with me.

I've never encountered a really long dick. (Not one that worked properly, anyway, but that's neither here nor there.) My husband's dick bottoms out against my cervix. During the first half of my menstrual cycle, my cervix is very sensitive, so we have to use positions that don't allow for deep penetration. Occasionally, he slips up, and it's very painful (in a bad way). While some women might like that deep, hard, painful fucking, it's not for me, at least not until after midcycle. My husband's well within that average range, and I still experience discomfort, so I can't imagine what a longer penis would be like.

On a similar note, though I haven't seen the numbers, I would imagine that the length of the average penis corresponds to the depth of the average vagina. While vaginas are incredibly elastic, I'd imagine that the average man and the average woman (in other words, most people) fit together pretty well, as they're meant to. I've never tried measuring the depth of my vagina, so I have no idea whether it's shallow, average, or deep. I don't really care to know.

As for the penis-enlargement programs/gimmicks out there, I'm not interested in whether or not they work. If my husband decided to try that stuff, I'd laugh in his face and he knows it. Why risk permanent damage? Is a huge penis worth having if it doesn't work?

Yeah, there ARE size queens out there, but I would venture to guess that most women don't care all that much about dick size. I find it incredibly UNsexy when a man is preoccupied with his member. If I wanted a big dick, I'd forego the man and buy myself a large dildo. I'm more interested in the person that the dick's attached to.

It's all about stamina, anyway.

Don't mean to be rude, but

viagras said:

My wife thinks a large penis is more important to men than women.I have been on a penis enlargement routine for several years and have slowly increased to my current size of 8.75 inches bpel x 6.5 inches eg.
We are in a long standing relationship,still find each other attractive in many ways,have regular sex and are open and honest with each other.
Do other women share this opinion?.

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I wonder what bpel and eg mean?
What length did you START with in your enlargement quest? I would guess 8.70?
I have never seen any method here in LIT, or any studies in the real world where penis lengthing actually works!
Yes, you might gain 1/4" by hanging weight from it, or have surgery, but I don't know any other way.

I'm not calling you a lier, but I would really like to know your methods, and what you claim to have started with, and how long it took.
Please come back and tell us.

MintSoda said:

This topic is a total forum bad penny. That being said, I'm still going to participate.

Size matters, but not in the way a guy might think. There is definitely such a thing as too small, so if you're wondering if your 4" is going to cut it stop wondering, it won't...

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So unless you're grossly oversized or minutely undersized penis size isn't going to be the issue. Men should be more concerned about how long they can keep going and what they can manage to do while it's up.

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MintSoda, I was reading through the posts and think that the above two sentences from your post could/should pretty well sum up the penis size issue, honestly, directly, once and for all. Of course I'm sure someone will start another thread before I can finish this reply because we are all searching for support groups for our perceived inadequacies.

I find it agonizing when my husband bangs into my cervix. He's average size, so fortunately that doesn't happen too often, but I don't think I'd want a super-large guy. It would also make anal sex much more difficult to adjust to. Thanks, but no thanks! My guy's definitely a keeper. <wink>

as everyone else said, the important thing is what you do with it...

i must say i tend to prefer bigger ones, BUT i have had very good sex with small guys, and very bad sex with big ones... also, i often can't really tell if someone is big or small if they are in an average range - i don't go measuring the guys, i can only say if it feels good or not.

one friend whom i had sex with once and who is quite worried about his size, keeps asking me where he stands. now since we are friends i want to be honest with him, and said yes, he is maybe a little bit below average, but it felt very good and i enjoyed the sex with him and definitely want a repeat whenever we are on the same continent again - unfortunately i guess he'd have preferred i lied...

I think it's the wrong question. Don't ask if women are attracted to a large penis. Ask if your girlfriend is attracted to your penis. If so, then that's all that matters. Unless, of course, you want to attract more than one woman.

I'm jealous

This is to Jayzzzy - I'm sooo jealous. I wish i had two cocks to play with!!

RedIntense said:

It really does depend on the woman. I find girth to be better than length. But either way, it takes a very below average penis to not be pleasurable, You 6.5 would not have been an issue.

And as cliche as it sounds, it really does also depend on how you use it. Confidence is key. If you are more confident now then you were originally, then it would be more pleasurable.

The worst, though, is guys that think they are huge. You know the ones... they carry only Magnum condoms and all that. Not only is it obnoxious, but the denial puts the female at risk because as you very well know, using a Magnum condom when your size doesn't demand greatly increases the risk of the condom falling off...

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I agree with red on this. Most of it is ego.

Well, here is one perspective on the whole thing -

Current gf used to be with a close friend of mine who is KNOWN to have an enormous penis (the literal "baby's arm" kinda thing...).

She will tell people quite openly that it never did anything for her because she had so much trouble accomodating his size. So she prefers someone who is average to just above average in size (both length and girth). My own size (just over avg) seems to work pretty well for her and for every other woman I have ever been with so I had to force myself to stop worrying.

Although I must admit that knowing ahead of time that I was gonna be compared to his "monster" was intimidating for a while... but it did not take very long to get over that.

well said Darlin' as a woman I agree with your girl......just because its big....don't always mean its better.....*kisses*.......

Everytime a guy bruises your cervix you should be allowed to punch him in the balls. It really is only fair. If that rule was in place how many guys do you think would still be wanting an overly large penis? Probably still all of them, they'd just start complaining that they wanted smaller balls.

Jayzzzy said:

well I have the very real pleasure of enjoying two very different cocks - my SO of twenty years is above average in length and girth, my fuck buddy ( an incredibly hot 24 yr old) is below average in girth and average in length. There really is not a comparision, I enjoy both cocks in my mouth, pussy and ass....they both feel yummy....it is all in how you use it

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I, too, have two. Hubby is longer, boyfriend is fatter. Niether are that much different, though. I guess that the girth feels better. But I've only rarely been able to orgasm vaginally. For me it's the intimacy, the perfect ending for the foreplay. What could be more intimate than having a man inside you?

I think big ones hurt, and not always that good hurt. I can do more postions with one on the smaller side.

No, No, No!!!

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NO!​

It would be cool to end the penis size threads.

This thread is yet another example of the patience, tact and honesty of the wonderful ladies that make up Lit. This tread as some previous ones, have given guidelines about their taste in penis size which is probably not that different from all the other women in the world.

It would seem that if you are larger that 4 inches and smaller than 8 inches, you shouldn't have a problem. That probably covers more than 95% of the male population. They have also shown a minor preference for thicker over thin but without it being a show stopper. For the minimal percentage that is 4 inches or under or 8 inches and over I think that MintSoda's answers (out of context) pretty well sum everything up.

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"Everytime a guy bruises your cervix you should be allowed to punch him in the balls. It really is only fair. If that rule was in place how many guys do you think would still be wanting an overly large penis? Probably still all of them, they'd just start complaining that they wanted smaller balls."​

Thanks, MintSoda.

The problem is to get this information to the next person who wants to start a size thread before the fact.

wellnow said:

Thanks, MentSoda.

The problem is to get this information to the next person who wants to start a size thread before the fact.

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You're welcome, oh and it's MintSoda. I guess I could go put those posts on all the penis size threads that start, but that could be so tiresome. I really wish men would get off this size kick. As wellnow said the majority of the population of men in the world are probably in the right size range, so unless you're pathetically tiny or grossly oversized I think it'd be best for most men to focus more on their crippling emotional insecurities rather than their penis.

I am attracted.

I cant say about how it would feel in penetration - all my partners have been quite same sized (average I think, and not many). Need more data from that area

But as an idea it is a turn on. There's something masculine and powerful in large one. It kind of feels dominating. Especially as Im not big myself... I guess it makes me feel even smaller and vulnerable. Maybe Im slightly in for cock worshipping

MintSoda said:

You're welcome, oh and it's MintSoda. I guess I could go put those posts on all the penis size threads that start, but that could be so tiresome. I really wish men would get off this size kick. As wellnow said the majority of the population of men in the world are probably in the right size range, so unless you're pathetically tiny or grossly oversized I think it'd be best for most men to focus more on their crippling emotional insecurities rather than their penis.

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AMEN, MintSoda I apologize for the spelling error, BTW, it has been corrected. I agree that the posts should be added to every penis size post. I just hope it has an effect.

Have a great weekend

An English spelling challenged, wellnow

I really think its all in the technique and stamina....and if you love the person. Love for me is key. Love makes sex mindblowing. The best sex ive ever had has been with the woman i love. My size isnt small and isnt large, though ive got above average girth, for whatever that matters. Ive never had any complaints about my performance in bed. God gave me what i got so why bother about it really. And if some girl isnt going to sleep with me becuase of size well she isnt worth it anyway. Its just something guys have pounded in their heads so they worry about it.

Meh. Average size > larger

Average sized penises fit everywhere

Of Course Size Matters!

Size is very important. Men with bigger imaginations, deeper thoughts, greater patience, everlasting passion, wide range of knowledge and longer experience make better lovers. And if they will quit reading the penis pump enlarger instructions and read sites like this then they will enlarge their understanding of themselves and their partner so that they will see a significant growth in the pleasures they both give and receive.

Same thing applies to women. Unless of course they are reading the penis pump enlarger instructions and in your case Im sorry if I interrupted you, please just ignore me, forget my name, my real name is Bob, have a good day and last man out the door please double lock it. Run boys run!

I cant add much to the wisdom already expressed on the thread about the intended question. Some very wise observations and thoughts I read. The one important factor I do know is that great sex happens not because of what is between our legs but what is between our ears. Im pretty sure most people dont fully understand the significance of that concept but neither did I at one time. I think I knew it all along but didnt know I knew it. Im still leaning more and more about using whats in our heads to achieve new heights of pleasure that size or technique could never ever alone hope to reach.

Im lucky I guess because I was blessed with a normal or slighty larger than normal size. But I had sex of 20 years before I every knew I was suppose to measure that part of me. Im not sure why or what difference it was suppose to make since I didnt know what was average or where to exchange for one of the correct size. I dont carry a ruler with me to bed but I know for me, and I assume most men, that my hardon size does change an inch or more as arousal and lust levels change. Even if I did take a ruler to bed, if you think Im going to stop right before the big bang then you are crazy.

Us men and our weird insecurities about size, technique, stamina, performance and multiple encore's seem to distract us from the important issues as much as women may be distracted buy boob size, toenail color or new curtains for the bedroom. Its ok to take a serious look at the issues but also laugh at them and ourselves as well.

There are several long term members who have commented about this thread being a rehash of what was discussed many times before. Im new here but no rookie. The learning process happens not just because of reading old threads and listening to words of wisdom of others but by people participating in a discussion. Challenging our minds also broadens them. Besides sometimes out of the mouths of babes comes some wonderful insight and wisdom.

Please take my words with a grain of salt because the more I learn the stupider I find out I am. The more we learn the more we discover how much we dont know. Ignorance is bliss for a reason. Although at least learning about sex, even when I find out Im dumber than I thought I sure do enjoy the lesson.

Amen!