Younger women, older men

I am a woman in mid-twenties and do not connect well with men under 45. I've had the funnest times with older guys that know what they want. Yay for the middle aged seasoned guys. And yes, I don't plan to stop.
Mmmmmm! Cum to daddy!!!
 
I’ve been with older men, but mostly just a few years older than me. It wasn’t until last year that I spent time with a much older man, 30 years my senior.

This past summer, I returned to my hometown for a school reunion. It was a great event,

The night's highlight was running into my old high school shop teacher. Mr. Benura had just retired, but he always attended every year's reunion. Well, Mr. Benura had aged about as great as I could imagine. I hated shop class; I was a drama girl, and woodworking was not my thing.

However, Mr. Benura was a hunk, so all the girls took his class. He was laid back and cool, and we were allowed to call him by his first name, Reed.

Reed remembered me, and we caught up. He had retired two years ago and was now building houses for Habitat for Humanity—such a cool guy.

I was getting my Uber when Mr. Benura left, and he offered me a ride. As we drove, I asked to see the homes he was working on. He took me to a nice ranch-style home in an older neighborhood and gave me a tour. He showed me his work in progress, and I confessed to never liking woodworking classes. I just wanted to enjoy looking at him.

We got a few beers from a cooler, and I confessed to having a crush on him when I was in his class. He smiled and said he knew. Now I was embarrassed. He said he was pretty green and awkward back then, so even if somehow I had managed to get him to cross that student/teacher line, it would not have been memorable. How cute and honest, I thought.

I told him we used to call him Bruce because of his resemblance to the Boss. If you’ve seen Springsteen lately, he’s aged great for a man of 75. I mean, great (I just saw him in Vegas last March).

I confessed that now that I own an old home, I wish I knew more about woodworking. Yes, that was a come one, and yes, he understood what I meant.

So, I’m sitting in a half-empty house, drinking beer with my former teacher, who looks like Bruce Springsteen, on a hot summer night. I’ve just confessed my crush on him 30 years ago, and I've just dropped a sexual innuendo.

I would love to tell you we made love.

But the truth is it was hard-core fucking. Hot, sweaty, and not at all quick.

It was hard to believe a man of 70 could get it up as firm as he did. It was hard to believe a man of 70 could finish twice, but he did.

What was not hard to believe was the breadth of his routine. You learn a lot in 70 years, and my guess is he was as good a student of sex as he was at teaching woodworking. He certainly taught me that night.

He guided me in ways to please a man I had not tried before. But it was mostly about me and my pleasure. He admitted, as our sweaty bodies slid over each other, that his primary goal was my pleasure. He admitted my pleasure was an ego boost for him. Well, he pleased me several times, and in return, I fed his ego and a whole lot more.

We spent the night on some blankets on the floor, got breakfast at Denny's, and I headed back to my hotel, a little sore from sleeping on the hard floor and a lot sore from my lesson in woodworking.

So here’s to the older man who can Prove It All Night.
It’s true that as men get older their priority is a woman’s pleasure above their own.
 
Looking forward to flirting and playing with a hot young minx! Prefer 19-25 but happy to play with older women. I’m mid 50s, experienced ;) look a bit younger, fit, square jaw, salt and pepper hair, Italian/French, broad shoulders. Any nubile nymphs looking to chat or swap messages? I’ve got a very vivid imagination.
 
An interesting angle on this is that many women want a confident man who knows what he wants, takes control but is respectful and caring of a woman's pleasure. It's a form of domination but not the sort that porn sites portray where punishment, pain & degradation seems to be the norm. This type of dominant male is often known as a soft dom, care dom or pleasure dom - it might seem to harken back to more traditional male role models - not chauvinistic, arrogant males but strong, respectful, caring males.

There may well be a cultural reason for the fact that younger males grew up in a time when there's confusion about male roles & women are more empowered.
 
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I'm 27, but I've always had the curse of looking several years younger than I actually am, so right now I get mistaken for like 20-22 or so. When I was 21, I worked at a gas station and one of the customers had to ask me if I was old enough to be selling cigarettes to him 😅

I do think older men are attractive! I don't think I would go for a serious romantic relationship with anyone old enough to be my parents, but sex? Absolutely. The age gap is a bit of a turn on for me lol
 
I'm 27, but I've always had the curse of looking several years younger than I actually am, so right now I get mistaken for like 20-22 or so. When I was 21, I worked at a gas station and one of the customers had to ask me if I was old enough to be selling cigarettes to him 😅

I do think older men are attractive! I don't think I would go for a serious romantic relationship with anyone old enough to be my parents, but sex? Absolutely. The age gap is a bit of a turn on for me lol
The age gap is a big turn on for me as well! 😉 The exuberance of a young lady coupled with the experience of an older man results in fantastic electricity!!
 
An interesting angle on this is that many women want a confident man who knows what he wants, takes control but is respectful and caring of a woman's pleasure. It's a form of domination but not the sort that porn sites portray where punishment, pain & degradation seems to be the norm. This type of dominant male is often known as a soft dom, care dom or pleasure dom - it might seem to harken back to more traditional male role models - not chauvinistic, arrogant males but strong, respectful, caring males.

There may well be a cultural reason for the fact that younger males grew up in a time when there's confusion about male roles & women are more empowered.
https://www.loveemmaaustin.com/latest-1/what-its-like-to-have-sex-with-a-pleasure-dom
Older man pleasure dom here
 
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One of my Dad's friends lost his wife to cancer and was falling apart rapidly. Now don't get this wrong, despite being over twice my age I thought he was hot, I always had done, lean and athletic looking, physically fit, very distinguished with his full head of grey hair and really intelligent too. So that long Summer vacation I set about seducing him. The first time was dreadful, you'd think I was made of thin glass, I guess he didn't believe it and had all kinds of doubts and worries, still not enough so he couldn't get hard for me. The second time was loads better, I promised him we'd be discrete, we took our time and we enjoyed ourselves. The third time we had a long chat and I realised that I knew far more about the mechanics of sexual pleasure than he did. That day he let me teach him what I enjoyed and we had an amazing time, really pleasurable sex. OK I admit it, I got a real kick out of telling this far older and wiser man what to do. Well I certainly gave him his confidence back because the next time I went to see him he had a list of things he'd like to try all neatly written out. By the time I had to return to uni, despite ticking loads of stuff off, that list was a good bit longer and a whole lot kinkier.

That was the end, at Christmas he introduced me to his new 'girlfriend' who was only about twice my age. They are now happily married and my only interference was to let him know that if his new wife ever got curious and fancied a threesome I'd be there for them.​
 
One of my Dad's friends lost his wife to cancer and was falling apart rapidly. Now don't get this wrong, despite being over twice my age I thought he was hot, I always had done, lean and athletic looking, physically fit, very distinguished with his full head of grey hair and really intelligent too. So that long Summer vacation I set about seducing him. The first time was dreadful, you'd think I was made of thin glass, I guess he didn't believe it and had all kinds of doubts and worries, still not enough so he couldn't get hard for me. The second time was loads better, I promised him we'd be discrete, we took our time and we enjoyed ourselves. The third time we had a long chat and I realised that I knew far more about the mechanics of sexual pleasure than he did. That day he let me teach him what I enjoyed and we had an amazing time, really pleasurable sex. OK I admit it, I got a real kick out of telling this far older and wiser man what to do. Well I certainly gave him his confidence back because the next time I went to see him he had a list of things he'd like to try all neatly written out. By the time I had to return to uni, despite ticking loads of stuff off, that list was a good bit longer and a whole lot kinkier.

That was the end, at Christmas he introduced me to his new 'girlfriend' who was only about twice my age. They are now happily married and my only interference was to let him know that if his new wife ever got curious and fancied a threesome I'd be there for them.​
I really enjoyed your message. 72 m here and definitely a fantasy of mine.
 
I am genuinely considering an intimate relationship with a younger woman, intellectual or physical or emotional or all of it.
 
One of my Dad's friends lost his wife to cancer and was falling apart rapidly. Now don't get this wrong, despite being over twice my age I thought he was hot, I always had done, lean and athletic looking, physically fit, very distinguished with his full head of grey hair and really intelligent too. So that long Summer vacation I set about seducing him. The first time was dreadful, you'd think I was made of thin glass, I guess he didn't believe it and had all kinds of doubts and worries, still not enough so he couldn't get hard for me. The second time was loads better, I promised him we'd be discrete, we took our time and we enjoyed ourselves. The third time we had a long chat and I realised that I knew far more about the mechanics of sexual pleasure than he did. That day he let me teach him what I enjoyed and we had an amazing time, really pleasurable sex. OK I admit it, I got a real kick out of telling this far older and wiser man what to do. Well I certainly gave him his confidence back because the next time I went to see him he had a list of things he'd like to try all neatly written out. By the time I had to return to uni, despite ticking loads of stuff off, that list was a good bit longer and a whole lot kinkier.

That was the end, at Christmas he introduced me to his new 'girlfriend' who was only about twice my age. They are now happily married and my only interference was to let him know that if his new wife ever got curious and fancied a threesome I'd be there for them.​
Ah, very sweet 🥴
 
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