How can I have CMNF experience as a girl?
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Hello. Obviously, your first concern is your safety. Thatās primarily the āCMā half of the equation. If you are in a relationship, you might want to discuss it with him. You two need to understand in advance how things are going to play out.
This is very much like BDSM, actually, it might be considered a part of BDSM, with the same sort of rules and understanding. Trust is key. You need to feel safe at all times; excited is okay, hesitant is okay, but frightened means something has gone wrong. I wouldnāt say you need an actual safe word, like in bondage or BDSM, but you definitely need a way to āescapeā if you need it.
Like BDSM, CMNF (or CFNM, for that matter) is a power-exchange relationship. Oddly enough, it might ne you with the power.
Good luck.
This is very much like BDSM, actually, it might be considered a part of BDSM, with the same sort of rules and understanding. Trust is key. You need to feel safe at all times; excited is okay, hesitant is okay, but frightened means something has gone wrong. I wouldnāt say you need an actual safe word, like in bondage or BDSM, but you definitely need a way to āescapeā if you need it.
Like BDSM, CMNF (or CFNM, for that matter) is a power-exchange relationship. Oddly enough, it might ne you with the power.
Good luck.
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Kaushiki
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Also one doubt is whom to choose as the āCMā
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Of course. Not knowing Indian society very well, thatās something on you, sadly.
I suppose another question is one for you to ask yourself - why? In other words, what are you getting out of this, ideally? Whatās are your limits? Goals? Basic scene? How far do you see this going?
I suppose another question is one for you to ask yourself - why? In other words, what are you getting out of this, ideally? Whatās are your limits? Goals? Basic scene? How far do you see this going?
Camos1000
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Itās more common than you might think ! We go to parties where this is normal. They are there if you look for them I think. Good luckHi, this may not be very common, but I have been thinking about it for a long time and thought I could talk about it here and ask for advice.
missmixalot
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I have spent , in total, many months living a CMnf lifestyle. I echo what has been said here in that safety is the first concern. Take a long time getting to know and trust the person who will be leading the CMnf and walk away if you feel uncomfortable.
Then start of gently and work up to CMnf. Again safety is the important fact here.
When you are comfortable try longer, casual sessions and develop a feeling of it being natural and the way women should be. Its a beautiful experience.
Then start of gently and work up to CMnf. Again safety is the important fact here.
When you are comfortable try longer, casual sessions and develop a feeling of it being natural and the way women should be. Its a beautiful experience.
Lucy_Lastic
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I have been to a couple of parties where it happens. Iāve been taken to a fetish club by a trusted man where I was naked except for collar and leash.Itās more common than you might think ! We go to parties where this is normal. They are there if you look for them I think. Good luck
Supplyanddemand
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Interesting
As with all BDSM fetishes, more tend to appear as the R/relationship grows and evolves. My first wife of 15 years was a submissive/slave and wasn't allowed to wear clothes at home. However, due to sanity and safety reasons, when people came over she was clothed and without a collar. Safe,same and consent.
