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Chloe_Harper

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I thought I would start this thread because I always get asked about receiving and how much I probably love it and blah blah blah.

Look, receiving is nice sometimes. When it's been a while, then it's even better. I just don't actually love it. It's not a turn on for me to talk or think about getting eaten out.

However... I am a giver. I love to give him pleasure. I find it hot to hear his groans, the hiss through his teeth, the catch of his breath. Seeing the eruption or tasting it after all that hard work, gets me wet enough without receiving.

Am I the only girl like this? And, are there guys that like this in a girl? I can only seem to find those that insist I just haven't had things done properly. I have. I just prefer do things for his pleasure.
 
I thought I would start this thread because I always get asked about receiving and how much I probably love it and blah blah blah.

Look, receiving is nice sometimes. When it's been a while, then it's even better. I just don't actually love it. It's not a turn on for me to talk or think about getting eaten out.

However... I am a giver. I love to give him pleasure. I find it hot to hear his groans, the hiss through his teeth, the catch of his breath. Seeing the eruption or tasting it after all that hard work, gets me wet enough without receiving.

Am I the only girl like this? And, are there guys that like this in a girl? I can only seem to find those that insist I just haven't had things done properly. I have. I just prefer do things for his pleasure.
I love to go down on women but if I could never do it again, it wouldn't bother me. Now getting sucked off? That's another story. I wish my wife would do it but I've had to resort to other options. What you describe sounds like an unbelievably perfect trait
 
I love to go down on women but if I could never do it again, it wouldn't bother me. Now getting sucked off? That's another story. I wish my wife would do it but I've had to resort to other options. What you describe sounds like an unbelievably perfect trait
See, and I am like, go down on me like once a year. That's literally all I need.

Mmm, but I don't get why more women don't go down on men. Sucking on a cock is one of the hottest, most empowering feelings. It's insane how powerful yet completely submissive that action can be. Just that mix of emotions along with the sound of his pleasure, is enough to make me want to give one again and again and again.

Hand jobs have their own fun too. And I do enjoy giving those as well for similar reasons.

I am sorry your wife doesn't offer you that relief. I won't pry about what you've resorted to, but maybe one day she'll change her mind.

I'm glad you think so highly of this trait rather than trying to convince me it's not real or something.
 
See, and I am like, go down on me like once a year. That's literally all I need.

Mmm, but I don't get why more women don't go down on men. Sucking on a cock is one of the hottest, most empowering feelings. It's insane how powerful yet completely submissive that action can be. Just that mix of emotions along with the sound of his pleasure, is enough to make me want to give one again and again and again.

Hand jobs have their own fun too. And I do enjoy giving those as well for similar reasons.

I am sorry your wife doesn't offer you that relief. I won't pry about what you've resorted to, but maybe one day she'll change her mind.

I'm glad you think so highly of this trait rather than trying to convince me it's not real or something.
Please share this information with all women šŸ˜‚
 
See, and I am like, go down on me like once a year. That's literally all I need.

Mmm, but I don't get why more women don't go down on men. Sucking on a cock is one of the hottest, most empowering feelings. It's insane how powerful yet completely submissive that action can be. Just that mix of emotions along with the sound of his pleasure, is enough to make me want to give one again and again and again.

Hand jobs have their own fun too. And I do enjoy giving those as well for similar reasons.

I am sorry your wife doesn't offer you that relief. I won't pry about what you've resorted to, but maybe one day she'll change her mind.

I'm glad you think so highly of this trait rather than trying to convince me it's not real or something.
Part of the reason I love it so much is how powerless I feel. Knowing that she could have almost anything she wanted while I'm in her mouth. And I don't mind you asking. I've found my relief from a couple different places. Craigslist back when they had personals was one of them. And Ive also paid a woman that lives in our neighborhood multiple times.
 
Part of the reason I love it so much is how powerless I feel. Knowing that she could have almost anything she wanted while I'm in her mouth. And I don't mind you asking. I've found my relief from a couple different places. Craigslist back when they had personals was one of them. And Ive also paid a woman that lives in our neighborhood multiple times.
It's always interesting to hear different male perspectives on blowjobs. Some men feel extraordinarily powerful others feel like in that moment the power dynamic is laid at her feet. Just, interesting. Whereas, I find it makes me feel both all at once.

Well, I'm sorry you've had to work so hard to find a little blowjob relief.
 
I may be a bit of a perv but I love to go down on a woman, Given the choice between who goes down, I will always opt for it being me...not that I'd ever refuse the woman her pleasure, any time of course. I recall a professional once gave me the choice due to time restraints and I went down on her.
 
It's always interesting to hear different male perspectives on blowjobs. Some men feel extraordinarily powerful others feel like in that moment the power dynamic is laid at her feet. Just, interesting. Whereas, I find it makes me feel both all at once.

Well, I'm sorry you've had to work so hard to find a little blowjob relief.
There are times when I feel powerful, grabbing her by her head, using her mouth. But for the most part I just melt. A little work never hurt anyone. I've found the perfect blowjob queen
 
I may be a bit of a perv but I love to go down on a woman, Given the choice between who goes down, I will always opt for it being me...not that I'd ever refuse the woman her pleasure, any time of course. I recall a professional once gave me the choice due to time restraints and I went down on her.
I found that many guys are like you in that sense, love both, but prefer getting to be the one to go down. My husband is like that too. I just find that men that agree with me, girls that feel how I feel, are most definitely in the minority.
 
There are times when I feel powerful, grabbing her by her head, using her mouth. But for the most part I just melt. A little work never hurt anyone. I've found the perfect blowjob queen
Well, if you found the perfect blowjob queen, then congratulations. I take it back. Although, I do hope someone refers to me that way sometimes. Lol

I understand, when you take control, it is empowering for you. But, letting her do her thing makes it feel like she has the power for as long as she wants to be on her knees.
 
Well, if you found the perfect blowjob queen, then congratulations. I take it back. Although, I do hope someone refers to me that way sometimes. Lol

I understand, when you take control, it is empowering for you. But, letting her do her thing makes it feel like she has the power for as long as she wants to be on her knees.
The woman in my neighborhood does have the power and she knows it. She knows I'll always keep coming back, she takes full advantage of it.
 
The woman in my neighborhood does have the power and she knows it. She knows I'll always keep coming back, she takes full advantage of it.
What a fascinating situation it would be if she didn't know. If she felt like you held this power and you still felt like she did. Both drawn back in like magnets so that she can suck you dry, but both believing the other had the power.

Idk, I just thought that would make for an interesting case. Love that you two know where yall stand and it's a reliable source for you
 
What a fascinating situation it would be if she didn't know. If she felt like you held this power and you still felt like she did. Both drawn back in like magnets so that she can suck you dry, but both believing the other had the power.

Idk, I just thought that would make for an interesting case. Love that you two know where yall stand and it's a reliable source for you
Sometimes I try to pry it back, but I never can. Once I feel her, I'm done. I'm hers.
 
I thought I would start this thread because I always get asked about receiving and how much I probably love it and blah blah blah.

Look, receiving is nice sometimes. When it's been a while, then it's even better. I just don't actually love it. It's not a turn on for me to talk or think about getting eaten out.

However... I am a giver. I love to give him pleasure. I find it hot to hear his groans, the hiss through his teeth, the catch of his breath. Seeing the eruption or tasting it after all that hard work, gets me wet enough without receiving.

Am I the only girl like this? And, are there guys that like this in a girl? I can only seem to find those that insist I just haven't had things done properly. I have. I just prefer do things for his pleasure.
I like it in both...personally, I love to pleasure her and hear her moans of pleasure and her breathing as her pleasure intensifies...I likewise love to be pleasure as well and react similarly with groans of pleasure and heavy breathing...it's fun to be in tune with each other šŸ˜...
 
I feel it isn't as though I really have a choice, I'm captivated, I adore everything about it, the aroma, the taste, the texture, the intimacy... I worship it.
 
I like it in both...personally, I love to pleasure her and hear her moans of pleasure and her breathing as her pleasure intensifies...I likewise love to be pleasure as well and react similarly with groans of pleasure and heavy breathing...it's fun to be in tune with each other šŸ˜...
I understand, you and the majority of men like both. Not many, if any, could understand giving up giving that pleasure to a woman.

What I'm saying though is that giving him pleasure does give me pleasure. You will see me happier and wetter than when I'm played with.

That's what many people don't get though
 
I understand, you and the majority of men like both. Not many, if any, could understand giving up giving that pleasure to a woman.

What I'm saying though is that giving him pleasure does give me pleasure. You will see me happier and wetter than when I'm played with.

That's what many people don't get though
I get it. Just understand most women are not like you, unfortunately
 
I get it. Just understand most women are not like you, unfortunately
Yea, I know. I guess that's why I started this thread. Most guys don't fully agree and most girls are the complete opposite. I guess I was just hoping to find like-minded people or even people that would just be interested in discussing this. So far, everyone has been really nice and mostly open
 
I understand, you and the majority of men like both. Not many, if any, could understand giving up giving that pleasure to a woman.

What I'm saying though is that giving him pleasure does give me pleasure. You will see me happier and wetter than when I'm played with.

That's what many people don't get though
It's a difficult concept for some to understand. Giving pleasure and fulfilling their needs gives you pleasure. Only someone who truly wants to give and please can understand. For me, knowing that I am the sole source of her pleasure, that nothing else exists for her in that moment is absolutely erotic
 
I thought I would start this thread because I always get asked about receiving and how much I probably love it and blah blah blah.

Look, receiving is nice sometimes. When it's been a while, then it's even better. I just don't actually love it. It's not a turn on for me to talk or think about getting eaten out.

However... I am a giver. I love to give him pleasure. I find it hot to hear his groans, the hiss through his teeth, the catch of his breath. Seeing the eruption or tasting it after all that hard work, gets me wet enough without receiving.

Am I the only girl like this? And, are there guys that like this in a girl? I can only seem to find those that insist I just haven't had things done properly. I have. I just prefer do things for his pleasure.
I think I would consider myself a giver as well. There is something about daddy's sounds of pleasure that really has an impact on me. I know he is telling me I'm doing a good job, which always makes me so proud of myself. I totally understand everything you are saying.
 
It's a difficult concept for some to understand. Giving pleasure and fulfilling their needs gives you pleasure. Only someone who truly wants to give and please can understand. For me, knowing that I am the sole source of her pleasure, that nothing else exists for her in that moment is absolutely erotic
Exactly. And it is a difficult concept, I do get that. However, when you find someone who does and allows you to explore pleasure by giving way more than receiving, it's toe curling
 
I think I would consider myself a giver as well. There is something about daddy's sounds of pleasure that really has an impact on me. I know he is telling me I'm doing a good job, which always makes me so proud of myself. I totally understand everything you are saying.
Omg, exactly. I suppose many of the sub community would agree, but not all. I am a sub, but still find it difficult to find Doms that agree. Daddy's sounds or even his praise definitely make that experience hotter. I'm glad you have a Daddy who gives that to you
 
Exactly. And it is a difficult concept, I do get that. However, when you find someone who does and allows you to explore pleasure by giving way more than receiving, it's toe curling
There is a connection there, something very intensely passionate. A fulfillment of completeness that supercedes all other things. It's an emotional climb to a precipice of satisfying desires. Makes you want to do it over and over. Just being with them in whatever way they need. Mmmmm, sooo gratifying.
 
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