For his pleasure...

[collegegirlsub]

Omg, exactly. I suppose many of the sub community would agree, but not all. I am a sub, but still find it difficult to find Doms that agree. Daddy's sounds or even his praise definitely make that experience hotter. I'm glad you have a Daddy who gives that to you

Yes, exactly praise is such a wonderful thing from a daddy. Being told I'm a good girl is such a special feeling.

 

[Poeticwolf]

Yes, exactly praise is such a wonderful thing from a daddy. Being told I'm a good girl is such a special feeling.

The praise is like a beautiful song made just for you

 

[Chloe_Harper]

There is a connection there, something very intensely passionate. A fulfillment of completeness that supercedes all other things. It's an emotional climb to a precipice of satisfying desires. Makes you want to do it over and over. Just being with them in whatever way they need. Mmmmm, sooo gratifying.

Very well said. Exactly how I feel.

 

[Poeticwolf]

Very well said. Exactly how I feel.

No better feeling

 

[Chloe_Harper]

Praise certainly adds to the pleasure. But, the looks and sounds a man makes when receiving a blowjob make it all worth it even without the praise. Or handjob as well. Or simply watching him masturbate to you, something about you making him feel the need to stroke himself til he comes... that is also so fucking hot

 

[Poeticwolf]

Praise certainly adds to the pleasure. But, the looks and sounds a man makes when receiving a blowjob make it all worth it even without the praise. Or handjob as well. Or simply watching him masturbate to you, something about you making him feel the need to stroke himself til he comes... that is also so fucking hot

That is so arousing to read, it is so rare to find. To have someone want to watch you, want to express their adoration by masturbating to you. To be seen so exposed, without restraint. This is arousing me just talking about it hehe

 

[ClockworkFox]

See, and I am like, go down on me like once a year. That's literally all I need.

Mmm, but I don't get why more women don't go down on men. Sucking on a cock is one of the hottest, most empowering feelings. It's insane how powerful yet completely submissive that action can be. Just that mix of emotions along with the sound of his pleasure, is enough to make me want to give one again and again and again.

Hand jobs have their own fun too. And I do enjoy giving those as well for similar reasons.

I am sorry your wife doesn't offer you that relief. I won't pry about what you've resorted to, but maybe one day she'll change her mind.

I'm glad you think so highly of this trait rather than trying to convince me it's not real or something.

"Sucking on a cock is one of the hottest, most empowering feelings. It's insane how powerful yet completely submissive that action can be."

Chloe, I probably should read the whole thread, but don't have time right now, so the question is likely a non-starter, beg your pardon:

So, is it sub or dom for you, or both? Personally, I feel there is nothing more empowering for a woman than having a cock in her mouth. Forget all the femmo/pinko bullshit about disgraceful humiliation - it's the man who's being humiliated, if anyone is, and happily humiliated too, with the woman very much in charge. Man is at his weakest during his woman-induced squirt. Putty in her hands. Well, not putty, exactly, but you know what I mean. Smutty putty, sort of. ... I'll stop here ...

 

[Chloe_Harper]

That is so arousing to read, it is so rare to find. To have someone want to watch you, want to express their adoration by masturbating to you. To be seen so exposed, without restraint. This is arousing me just talking about it hehe

I had a friend back in college, and he was in med school, and we would video chat once in a while to catch up. Then slowly, during the video, he would start to stroke himself over his pants. I always found it so hot to see him doing that to me. So I would slowly strip for him, and he would release himself from his pants. I would put on a little show, telling him how much I wanted to worship his cock with my mouth while he pumped his fist. It was so erotic. We physically couldn't touch each other. I would never touch myself until he was cumming because watching him explode for me was a bigger turn on than anything.

 

[Chloe_Harper]

"Sucking on a cock is one of the hottest, most empowering feelings. It's insane how powerful yet completely submissive that action can be."

Chloe, I probably should read the whole thread, but don't have time right now, so the question is likely a non-starter, beg your pardon:

So, is it sub or dom for you, or both? Personally, I feel there is nothing more empowering for a woman than having a cock in her mouth. Forget all the femmo/pinko bullshit about disgraceful humiliation - it's the man who's being humiliated, if anyone is, and happily humiliated too, with the woman very much in charge. Man is at his weakest during his woman-induced squirt. Putty in her hands. Well, not putty, exactly, but you know what I mean. Smutty putty, sort of. ... I'll stop here ...

I am 100% sub. I like kneeling at the feet of a man and offering my mouth and tongue to please him. Knowing that he wants me though, tasting his arousal, seeing and hearing it, grants me power in an otherwise submissive state. I know I hold the power, but I like to play the game of him feeling like the one in charge in that situation. Especially since I want him in my mouth as much as he wants to be there. I want him to degradingly lay his cock on my face and make me suck and lick his balls. I know we both know I hold the power, but both of us pretending that he is in complete control in that situation somehow makes me feel more taken care of.

 

[Poeticwolf]

I had a friend back in college, and he was in med school, and we would video chat once in a while to catch up. Then slowly, during the video, he would start to stroke himself over his pants. I always found it so hot to see him doing that to me. So I would slowly strip for him, and he would release himself from his pants. I would put on a little show, telling him how much I wanted to worship his cock with my mouth while he pumped his fist. It was so erotic. We physically couldn't touch each other. I would never touch myself until he was cumming because watching him explode for me was a bigger turn on than anything.

I had a friend I met through an online game. We eventually chatted through video and she started wearing less and less, and then started having little accidents. She was an incorrigible tease. Every time she did this she would pointedly look down at my crotch area. Finally asking me to see it. And then asking me to stroke it for her. She absolutely loved to watch it grow as she got naked for me. We used to have so much fun. She was definitely a good girl

 

[ClockworkFox]

I am 100% sub. I like kneeling at the feet of a man and offering my mouth and tongue to please him. Knowing that he wants me though, tasting his arousal, seeing and hearing it, grants me power in an otherwise submissive state. I know I hold the power, but I like to play the game of him feeling like the one in charge in that situation. Especially since I want him in my mouth as much as he wants to be there. I want him to degradingly lay his cock on my face and make me suck and lick his balls. I know we both know I hold the power, but both of us pretending that he is in complete control in that situation somehow makes me feel more taken care of.

OK, best of both worlds. Why give up one when you can have both, and both are good?

 

[Chloe_Harper]

OK, best of both worlds. Why give up one when you can have both, and both are good?

Are we talking about giving up power or giving up receiving? If the power thing, that can switch back and forth every other blowjob if desired.

If talking about receiving, yes both are good... but I just dont find a man going down on me sexy. Fingers near my sex should just be to make sure I'm wet enough for him. I would happily give up being eaten out entirely, although that isn't what I said. I prefer to get my pleasure from giving him pleasure. I find it leagues more erotic than a man's head between my thighs. Idk why. I find that more anxiety inducing than hot. But, a man feeding me his cock or keeping my hand wrapped around his length until he shoots his release... I choose that everytime over the other. Hence why I created this thread. Not everyone gets it, but I guess I'm trying to explain and have that discussion with those interested

 

[Deadfreak]

Lol, faking, sure. But truly, unabashedly wants to make you cum, craves it, that is definitely better

I KNOW that's right

 

[Islander55]

Good sex is both giving and receiving. Generally I want my orgasm too but there are time when I just want to feel his lust and pleasure. Just let him use me as he likes so I can feel his need and desire.

 

[Britva415]

What I'm saying though is that giving him pleasure does give me pleasure

What about how going down on you gives him pleasure?

It might or might not be because he thinks he's getting you off like crazy. It could be just because planting his face in your crotch and eating is a top turn-on for him.

What if he's doing it for himself? Would that please you?

 

[Chloe_Harper]

What about how going down on you gives him pleasure?

It might or might not be because he thinks he's getting you off like crazy. It could be just because planting his face in your crotch and eating is a top turn-on for him.

What if he's doing it for himself? Would that please you?

Good question. Pretty much the only time I do that is because he wants to. But, he knows I don't love it, so he doesn't ask it of me often. Regardless, that's something that should be spoken about in any sexual relationship.

However, it's not really in the spirit of what my post is about. It is a common question I get when people try to make me "see reason"

 

[Britva415]

Well, that's not what I was trying to do. I just didn't know whether this pushes the "giving him pleasure" button for you.

 

[Chloe_Harper]

Well, that's not what I was trying to do. I just didn't know whether this pushes the "giving him pleasure" button for you.

Oh, I didn't think that you were. I just meant from other conversations I've had over the years. Sorry.

This does not apply to my giving him pleasure button. But it is a fair question, and might apply to other girls who feel similarly to me

 

[ClockworkFox]

Are we talking about giving up power or giving up receiving? If the power thing, that can switch back and forth every other blowjob if desired.

If talking about receiving, yes both are good... but I just dont find a man going down on me sexy. Fingers near my sex should just be to make sure I'm wet enough for him. I would happily give up being eaten out entirely, although that isn't what I said. I prefer to get my pleasure from giving him pleasure. I find it leagues more erotic than a man's head between my thighs. Idk why. I find that more anxiety inducing than hot. But, a man feeding me his cock or keeping my hand wrapped around his length until he shoots his release... I choose that everytime over the other. Hence why I created this thread. Not everyone gets it, but I guess I'm trying to explain and have that discussion with those interested

Yes, giving up the submission or giving up the power is what I meant. But I don't think you have to, as you say. The thrill of submission can be the frisson of power, or vice versa, and it is rather pleasant to think that ever the twain can meet.

Whatever the hell all the above means. I was about to edit it, and then I thought what the fuck, Fox, just leave it kind of foxy to fox them (I'm not really a fox, by the way, or clockwork either, but then again non-clockwork needs to be oiled regularly in some way or other, don't you think?)

 

[hulmule]

Over the years , havent found a lot of women that just want to pleasure people. I have a a couple, but not many. I love oral sex on me .Wife says it hurts her jaw so i dont get any more. Sexless marriage with menopause... I miss deep kissing, loved to be pleased like for a while for a warm lips of a woman.
A saying a was told. - Men love to have sex, Women have sex for love...

 

[ClockworkFox]

From the other side of things, I reckon pussy-eating is overrated too. I reckon most of us are too bloody lazy to do it right, and bugger me Bob with how long it takes to get any feeling back in your jaw if the girlie is a late responder or we simply aren't getting there. A bit of a lap, and then on to the rest, that's what I say. Plus we get lost with all the different flaps and recesses and mons and bugger knows what else. Jesus. Cocksucking is much easier. I mean, we have a glans with a spurthole, and a shaft, the balls, and that's your lot, much simpler, just get the laughing gear around it and get on with it, girl, good girl, fine girl, good, good girl, aah, yes, yes, I know you're in charge, good girl, aaah, that's the stuff.

 

[JohnsonLongwood]

I once had a girlfriend who would let me go down on her but she wouldn't let it go too long. Long enough for me to have the joy of doing it but never long enough to get her off. But she loved sucking my cock and I'd let her do it as long and often as she wanted. Or at least until I would cum. I think she liked that part the best. Even though she only tolerated being eaten a little bit it always got her very wet and very much in the mood and eager for cock fucking. I might have lamented letting her go except my next girlfriend was the queen of BJs that gave me even more pleasure than vaginal cumming. I married her. (And she loved having my face between her legs.)

 

[ClockworkFox]

Over the years , havent found a lot of women that just want to pleasure people. I have a a couple, but not many. I love oral sex on me .Wife says it hurts her jaw so i dont get any more. Sexless marriage with menopause... I miss deep kissing, loved to be pleased like for a while for a warm lips of a woman.
A saying a was told. - Men love to have sex, Women have sex for love...

Men love to have sex, Women have sex for love...

An old, old saying, I wager. That might have been true back in Victoria Regina's times, but not now. Things change. We move on.

Indirectly commenting on that era, one of Oscar Wilde's characters claims the great tragedy of women is that sooner or later they turn into their mothers, and the great tragedy of men is that they never do. Maybe that was true then, although I have my doubts, but women have progressed, and they like to be as happily slutty as we do, if not sluttier. The inner slut is here to stay.

 

[hulmule]

Men love to have sex, Women have sex for love...

An old, old saying, I wager. That might have been true back in Victoria Regina's times, but not now. Things change. We move on.

Indirectly commenting on that era, one of Oscar Wilde's characters claims the great tragedy of women is that sooner or later they turn into their mothers, and the great tragedy of men is that they never do. Maybe that was true then, although I have my doubts, but women have progressed, and they like to be as happily slutty as we do, if not sluttier. The inner slut is here to stay.

Boy i dont know where you live but i havent noticed that... I'm around younger people alot and the slutty part...dont see it. We have open discussions. I think their open to how people want their lives and dont look down or judge, but i think the 70', 80's were the best lol

 

[Chloe_Harper]

Well... to try to respond to a few different things here.

Not all women are like how a couple of you mentioned. However, old sayings are not necessarily wrong either. Boxing us up one way or the other, or making assumptions based on what we don't say in public, will get you nowhere fast.

To say that giving head is easier than eating someone out... perhaps this was a joke, perhaps not. I don't care *that* much, but this is circumstantial. And if you think women don't get lockjaw ever from this, you are so very mistaken.

If you find someone in life that compliments your sexual needs, I think that's amazing. If you're lucky enough to find someone even better, we'll that's the equivalent to winning the lottery. You're set. That's so great. It's interesting to hear that someone would let you lick her, but never to completion quite that often. Idk if that's better or worse for all those men that love that act.