Ladies, is your partner raising another man's child?

[Kasumi_Lee]

Let me first clarify that this topic does not apply to me personally. My kids all have the same father (as will any future ones who might come along) and we're still very much together.

Having said that, I'm curious about just how common this is here on Lit. I don't just mean having an affair and passing the baby off as your husband's, although that definitely counts, but any babies resulting from swinging or the cuckolding lifestyle, whether planned or unplanned, in which the couple are raising the kids regardless of how they were conceived. I know of at least one Lit user whose two daughters were apparently the result of gangbangs, and her husband is none the wiser.

There's also a site called cuckoldmarriage.info where couples who practice this lifestyle hang out and share stories and tips. I have no interest in this lifestyle personally, but those who do kind of fascinate me, and from time to time I like to snoop around their forums to see what they get up to. That's how I know that a few of these couples, a small minority to be sure, have actually taken the audacious step of having the bull father a child (or several) with the wife and have the husband named as the legal father. As far as I can tell, these couples knew what they were getting into and don't seem to have any regrets, although I suppose if they did, they probably wouldn't post about it.

There are some sensational statistics about how common "non-paternity events" are in human society, and most of them have been debunked. A lot of those figures tend to come from DNA testing companies who not only have a vested interest in playing up how common this is, but are also drawing on samples of men who already have reason to suspect that they've been cucked. More reliable scientific studies have put the true figure at around 1-2%; that is, between 1% and 2% of all kids have a biological father other than the man they think is their father.

So here's my question, ladies of Literotica, posed without judgment and with the assurance of safety behind the anonymity of the internet: have you ever given birth to another man's child, with or without hubby's knowledge?

 

[SpoiledDog]

I'll be curious to see response to this.
As a fantasy storyline it fits well for me and quite frankly its my first choice for a category search, but that's just me.

 

[Kasumi_Lee]

I'll be curious to see response to this.
As a fantasy storyline it fits well for me and quite frankly its my first choice for a category search, but that's just me.

I've published quite a few stories with this sort of thing and they're really popular. It's definitely not just you.

 

[PapaRomantic]

This is a bold (and well-stated) thread that I will be watching because I have doubts about one of my children, who is not very similar to their siblings.

 

[lc69hunter]

I am actually working on three different stories on this topic, one actually based upon a real event, and one that was based upon a couple's conversation. The other was just a fantasy interpretation of the of the outcome of the couple's conversation.

In fact there is strong evidence, based upon three different studies and surveys (all within the margin of error), that found that in long term marriages with multiple children, in 14-17% of those studied, at least one of those children was not the biological offspring of the husband, and most often it was the second child, and went into the reasons thereof.

 

[SavannaT]

My oldest is my ex husband’s, yes

 

[SmokingFap]

My oldest is my ex husband’s, yes

From when you were still married to him, I assume...

Also, what stupid sonuvabitch let you go?

 

[SavannaT]

From when you were still married to him, I assume...

Also, what stupid sonuvabitch let you go?

No and I left him, he was abusive, I was already remarried for the past two years to my current husband by then. I didn’t realize it was his until he started to look like my ex (from pictures I saw of when he was a kid), my husband is raising him and doesn’t know, sometimes I think about telling my ex though.

 

[SmokingFap]

Well, sometimes ignorance really is bliss. Seems like it all worked out for you eventually. And do not tell your current hubby. If it ain't broke, don't fix it.

 

[SavannaT]

Well, sometimes ignorance really is bliss. Seems like it all worked out for you eventually. And do not tell your current hubby. If it ain't broke, don't fix it.

Think I should tell my ex?

 

[Breastobsessed84]

Think I should tell my ex?

Nope. Let it be.

 

[Kasumi_Lee]

No and I left him, he was abusive, I was already remarried for the past two years to my current husband by then. I didn’t realize it was his until he started to look like my ex (from pictures I saw of when he was a kid), my husband is raising him and doesn’t know, sometimes I think about telling my ex though.

I'm happy you got out of that situation. Definitely don't tell your ex, he doesn't need (or deserve) to know.

 

[Kasumi_Lee]

I am actually working on three different stories on this topic, one actually based upon a real event, and one that was based upon a couple's conversation. The other was just a fantasy interpretation of the of the outcome of the couple's conversation.

In fact there is strong evidence, based upon three different studies and surveys (all within the margin of error), that found that in long term marriages with multiple children, in 14-17% of those studied, at least one of those children was not the biological offspring of the husband, and most often it was the second child, and went into the reasons thereof.

There's a book called Sperm Wars published in the 90s which argues that the rate is around 10%. A lot of the science it uses to back up its claims has been debunked (kamikaze sperm, anyone?), but it was an international bestseller and the marketing team must have had a field day with it: titillate men with the enticing secrets of women cuckolding their unsuspecting partners while playing on the nagging insecurity in the backs of their minds that it might happen to them.

I once read a well-worn 10th anniversary edition in which the author boldly claimed he didn't feel the need to change anything. If I recall correctly, he makes the opposite claim to what you posted: he said that the oldest and youngest children were more likely to have been fathered by another man, leaving the middle child most likely to be the husband's.

 

[Kasumi_Lee]

This is a bold (and well-stated) thread that I will be watching because I have doubts about one of my children, who is not very similar to their siblings.

If you don't mind me asking, any idea how that might have happened?

 

[Rob_Royale]

No and I left him, he was abusive, I was already remarried for the past two years to my current husband by then. I didn’t realize it was his until he started to look like my ex (from pictures I saw of when he was a kid), my husband is raising him and doesn’t know, sometimes I think about telling my ex though.

Think I should tell my ex?

I'm not going to argue about either situation, but with the availability of DNA testing, these situations can have repercussions down the road.

I received a phone call from an ex-Gfs daughter about three years ago. "Are you my father?"
Turns out she did a 23&Me and found out the man she'd always called dad, wasn't. Her mom wasn't any help, claiming the test was wrong. So she starts calling her moms friends, getting the names of anyone her mother dated around that time. The child was already a year old when I dated the mom, so it wasn't me. But I did give her the name of the guy before me, and I received another phone call a month later from my ex-GF who was irate that I had helped her find the bio-dad.

 

[SavannaT]

I'm not going to argue about either situation, but with the availability of DNA testing, these situations can have repercussions down the road.

I think one day I will tell my kid, I know my husband wouldn’t understand since he basically rescued me from my ex husband so the idea that in returning to see my family back home the first thing I did was get fucked hard by a man I should hate is a story that would make more sense to someone who didn’t know what him and I went through (though somehow made the sex even hotter) the brain is a crazy kinkster (or at least mine is).

 

[PapaRomantic]

If you don't mind me asking, any idea how that might have happened?

I have no doubt how it would have happened. We lived in a very small town at the time (under 600 population) and if she had cheated at home, the gossip mill would have caught her. But she was a nurse, working nights in a town over 30 miles away. I would always be at work by the time she got home so if she was late a couple of hours, I would have either not known, or assumed she had to stay and work overtime. There would be no way I would ever catch her unless something like getting pregnant by another man came up.

 

[Rob_Royale]

I have no doubt how it would have happened. We lived in a very small town at the time (under 600 population) and if she had cheated at home, the gossip mill would have caught her. But she was a nurse, working nights in a town over 30 miles away. I would always be at work by the time she got home so if she was late a couple of hours, I would have either not known, or assumed she had to stay and work overtime. There would be no way I would ever catch her unless something like getting pregnant by another man came up.

Find out that childs blood type. Certain blood types aren't possible based on the parents blood types. Check this out.
https://canadiancrc.com/paternity_determination_blood_type.aspx

 

[PapaRomantic]

Find out that childs blood type. Certain blood types aren't possible based on the parents blood types. Check this out.
https://canadiancrc.com/paternity_determination_blood_type.aspx

I'm aware of this, but finding out the blood type is easier said then done when all parties are now adults with their own rights.

 

[eric_erosfan]

I was a child from a NPE. But I always had my suspicions. You are not as similar to half siblings as you are to full siblings.

 

[Rob_Royale]

I'm aware of this, but finding out the blood type is easier said then done when all parties are now adults with their own rights.

It's pretty simple to ask. Say, "Hey, I gave blood today, and it got me wondering what everyone's blood types ended up being?"

 

[Kasumi_Lee]

I was a child from a NPE. But I always had my suspicions. You are not as similar to half siblings as you are to full siblings.

It's one of those topics that's titillating to write and read erotic fantasy stories about, but not so fun when it touches on real people's lives. Did you ever find out who your real dad is, or is ignorance bliss?

 

[PapaRomantic]

It's pretty simple to ask. Say, "Hey, I gave blood today, and it got me wondering what everyone's blood types ended up being?"

Yeah...that wouldn't be awkward at all...

 

[eric_erosfan]

It's one of those topics that's titillating to write and read erotic fantasy stories about, but not so fun when it touches on real people's lives. Did you ever find out who your real dad is, or is ignorance bliss?

I did find out. His family was very welcoming to me.

 

[Justcuriousisall]

No and I left him, he was abusive, I was already remarried for the past two years to my current husband by then. I didn’t realize it was his until he started to look like my ex (from pictures I saw of when he was a kid), my husband is raising him and doesn’t know, sometimes I think about telling my ex though.

How does it feel to know you carried your dirtbag ex’s baby to term instead of your husband? Does it turn you on? You know you fulfilled something primal letting him have your womb, don’t you?