Hugs and random non-sex chat aka Our Court aka Hoes and Bros who empower each other

[MiaBabe23]

Right now, a glass of rum would be worth its weight in gold to me! Lol

Well said, I don’t care about the time of day
Fair Wench, can I have whatever is going please?

 

[MiaBabe23]

i dont understand the thrill...the guilt, fear of rejection, and potential for a warranted scene have always kept me from trying anything like that...the thought doesnt even cross my mind. i have a pathological need to be wanted...if the attention isnt wanted or exciting to the person im giving it to then i dont want it.

So so true, and same. It’s never even occurred to me to do that. Wtf
I think it’s because they can. I already complained about him being aggressive, and was told “Oh, we’ve never had any complaints about him. I really like him.”
That kinda attitude just gives free rein to someone to do whatever tf they want

 

[MiaBabe23]

...And a good morning to all! I do enjoy the challenge put forth by @MiaBabe23! For today - I will attempt to do a "Murph" workout in under 50 min! I have been attempting this for some time now but I think with the help of the Queens of this Court and the Court itself...I will prove successful or die trying lol

Yes!! You can do it! Pace yourself at the start, you’ve got this!!

 

[Whiskeyjack]

Going to use part of my lunch break to swing by the library and sign up for one of their book clubs. Something I've been meaning to do for a while, but haven't gotten around to. First up, "Killers of the Flower Moon" by David Grann.
I hope this meets the criteria for the second challenge.

As for doing the thing that I don't think I can do... I'll have to give that one more thought. There are some difficult conversations I've been putting off. But it might just be less painful to attempt a cartwheel and crack my head open.

 

[MiaBabe23]

1-mile run, 100 pull-ups, 200 push-ups, 300 squats, 1-mile run

good luck with that...

one of my favorite events from the 2016 crossfit games...that it was won by a veteran in such a convincing fashion made it even cooler...

last section of this video is even better...

Oh shit that’s what it is???!!! Sub hour?!
*sideways glance and smile at our Confessor, thinking I should’ve given him a more revealing outfit*

 

[hairball18]

Have it in writing so that if something comes up again you have proof that you already raised concerns about this person.

 

[touchofthebeast]

Oh shit that’s what it is???!!! Sub hour?!
*sideways glance and smile at our Confessor, thinking I should’ve given him a more revealing outfit*

An outfit for me to complete my challenge?!?!

 

[MiaBabe23]

Going to use part of my lunch break to swing by the library and sign up for one of their book clubs. Something I've been meaning to do for a while, but haven't gotten around to. First up, "Killers of the Flower Moon" by David Grann.
I hope this meets the criteria for the second challenge.

As for doing the thing that I don't thing I can do... I'll have to give that one more thought. There are some difficult conversations I've been putting off. But it might just be less painful to attempt a cartwheel and crack my head open.

The book club sounds fantastic!
Hm don’t bounce yourself into conversations though, unless you’ve been wanting that push to do it. Maybe write down what you would say?

 

[HollyS]

So so true, and same. It’s never even occurred to me to do that. Wtf
I think it’s because they can. I already complained about him being aggressive, and was told “Oh, we’ve never had any complaints about him. I really like him.”
That kinda attitude just gives free rein to someone to do whatever tf they want

Makes one feel like being violent, doesn't it? I know that isn't appropriate, but sometimes I think it would be effective.

 

[touchofthebeast]

Makes one feel like being violent, doesn't it? I know that isn't appropriate, but sometimes I think it would be effective.

Sometimes there are some people who just need a fresh punch in the face

 

[MiaBabe23]

Have it in writing so that if something comes up again you have proof that you already raised concerns about this person.

Thanks Hairball, I sort of have, and took full notes of their response
And welcome to the Court!

 

[MiaBabe23]

Makes one feel like being violent, doesn't it? I know that isn't appropriate, but sometimes I think it would be effective.

Yeah, it does tbh. I do self-defense training to avoid this kinda situation as much as possible, yet there, it’s a situation where there’s not much I can do

 

[MiaBabe23]

An outfit for me to complete my challenge?!?!

I meant your Confessor outfit, but maybe I need to find one for your challenge, yes!

 

[MiaBabe23]

Sometimes there are some people who just need a fresh punch in the face

Yes!!!!
A fresh one lmao - we know he’s been punched, we know he’s gonna get punched in the future, rn I should be adding to the tally!

 

[HollyS]

Yeah, it does tbh. I do self-defense training to avoid this kinda situation as much as possible, yet there, it’s a situation where there’s not much I can do

Same. Self-defense is crucial, but it isn't the right approach for every situation. Even if it would feel good. There are a lot of aspects and ramifications to consider.

 

[TXRafe]

Yeah, it does tbh. I do self-defense training to avoid this kinda situation as much as possible, yet there, it’s a situation where there’s not much I can do

if it happens in class i would make the biggest scene..."kindly refrain from touching me inappropriately as you pass out assignments or enter my space, i do not appreciate your continued violation of my personal space and do not wish to make this a university issue. so please do the right thing"...so that everyone can hear me, haha.

 

[Boat1]

Well, I don't drink much rum at all. If someone has daiquiris I'll drink them - I think those use the white?

I've tried a couple times straight, and I liked the darker ones. They all tend to be a bit sweet for my taste.

I think white rum is typically used for daiquiris, but I typically don't dilute my liquor.

 

[HollyS]

Yes!!!!
A fresh one lmao - we know he’s been punched, we know he’s gonna get punched in the future, rn I should be adding to the tally!

An old bf used to say, "Just punch 'em in the throat!" if someone was giving me a hard time.

 

[Whiskeyjack]

The book club sounds fantastic!
Hm don’t bounce yourself into conversations though, unless you’ve been wanting that push to do it. Maybe write down what you would say?

It's a Banned Book Club. So they read books that have been banned from classrooms in certain parts of the country for one reason or another. Very few books are explicitly "banned," but plenty of school boards have made it clear what types of books could land teachers in some uncomfortable situations.

 

[touchofthebeast]

I meant your Confessor outfit, but maybe I need to find one for your challenge, yes!

I would love whatever my co-Queen gives me!

 

[touchofthebeast]

Yes!!!!
A fresh one lmao - we know he’s been punched, we know he’s gonna get punched in the future, rn I should be adding to the tally!

If you need a helping fist...please let me know

 

[MiaBabe23]

if it happens in class i would make the biggest scene..."kindly refrain from touching me inappropriately as you pass out assignments or enter my space, i do not appreciate your continued violation of my personal space and do not wish to make this a university issue. so please do the right thing"...so that everyone can hear me, haha.

That’s actually a very good idea

 

[HollyS]

It's a Banned Book Club. So they read books that have been banned from classrooms in certain parts of the country for one reason or another. Very few books are explicitly "banned," but plenty of school boards have made it clear what types of books could land teachers in some uncomfortable situations.

Yes!! That sounds like a fantastic choice.

 

[MiaBabe23]

If you need a helping fist...please let me know

*shocked gasp*
What did you just suggest to your queen?!

 

[TXRafe]

*shocked gasp*
What did you just suggest to your queen?!