Bi-curious? In the closet? Unsure…

[jp8155]

Mmmm gd I am getting hard thinking about it.

I'm getting hungry thinking about it

 

[jp8155]

I'm at the leaking lots stage.

Fill me with it

 

[Muddy91]

I'm getting hungry thinking about it

So im in ny, jp is in mich and where are you Knick?

 

[KnickersandPanties101]

So im in ny, jp is in mich and where are you Knick?

I'm in the UK.

 

[KnickersandPanties101]

I'm nearly the same as you and many of the other respondents to your post. You're not alone and it's more common than most guys want to admit. I was a late bloomer to this side of me (like in my 40s, 53 now). Sometimes I feel like I missed the boat a little and wish I would have gotten out of my own way when I was younger. That said, my wife is actually quite understanding and helps me explore this side of me so I'm lucky. However, I really want to sleep with a man even just if it's only once - even if it's on the sly. That doesn't feel great to me, but it seems to be really important. So we'll see.

You have not missed the boat - I'm 60! you have plenty of time.

 

[Muddy91]

I'm in the UK.

Ahh i see, across the pond as they say

 

[Bi_Guy50]

that is a very good observation. i think you are correct.

Things were viewed so much differently than they are today... very conservative then to very wide open today

 

[Bi_Guy50]

You have not missed the boat - I'm 60! you have plenty of time.

Very true... The trick is to find that one person for that one opportunity... that may lead to others

 

[KnickersandPanties101]

I had a nice encounter with a 35y male, I went swimming this morning and as I went in the changing room there was this male, we avoided glances, he was covered in just a towel getting dressed, I slipped off my swim suit and covered up with my towel and showered, after the shower we were facing back to back as I slipped on my panty and bra, he then went over to the mirror and I noticed he had got a good look at me in passing. I covered my top with a T-shirt but my panties were clearly showing, then he stood and spoke to me – nothing sexual! but as we spoke he kept looking down at the front of my panties, I lifted my T-shirt a little so he could get a better look and a minute later he then left. I hope we meet again and who knows.

 

[Deszos]

For real, or is this a nice fantasy? I am a bra and panty wearer as well, but I never exhibited a ploy like this. Hard to believe, but I'm happy for you.

 

[KnickersandPanties101]

For real, or is this a nice fantasy? I am a bra and panty wearer as well, but I never exhibited a ploy like this. Hard to believe, but I'm happy for you.

Yes It was for real, I've no reason to make it up! he said he was swimming today because of the wet weather so I'm looking at the forcast for the next few days.

 

[Deszos]

Thats terrific. I am happy for you for sure. Society where I am is not as open (yet). For me, cold weather requiring more clothes permits me to dress more provocatively. As in, with a plunging neckline on a sweater I can reveal my bra and cleavage like when I bend forward, say at a checkout. So often a glimpse of my 34-D breasts will catch the eye of someone. It is a little thrill, I admit, to see the immediate reaction from unsuspecting people. Maybe my biggest naughty is at doctor appointments. I won't wear bra and panty then (bikini mens undie and braless). When it's time for a doctor to put his or stethoscope on my breast it's a guarantee that they will linger for some time on my supple, smooth boobs. My cardiologist ( middle-aged woman and my Primary doctor a middle-aged man) both linger for quite a while on one boob then the other. Sometimes the woman, I swear, will gently fondle one breast then the other beneath the ruse of hearing my heart. It's a mini thrill for me haha. But I'm happy for you that you can dress in a men's Lockeroom.

 

[KnickersandPanties101]

Thats terrific. I am happy for you for sure. Society where I am is not as open (yet). For me, cold weather requiring more clothes permits me to dress more provocatively. As in, with a plunging neckline on a sweater I can reveal my bra and cleavage like when I bend forward, say at a checkout. So often a glimpse of my 34-D breasts will catch the eye of someone. It is a little thrill, I admit, to see the immediate reaction from unsuspecting people. Maybe my biggest naughty is at doctor appointments. I won't wear bra and panty then (bikini mens undie and braless). When it's time for a doctor to put his or stethoscope on my breast it's a guarantee that they will linger for some time on my supple, smooth boobs. My cardiologist ( middle-aged woman and my Primary doctor a middle-aged man) both linger for quite a while on one boob then the other. Sometimes the woman, I swear, will gently fondle one breast then the other beneath the ruse of hearing my heart. It's a mini thrill for me haha. But I'm happy for you that you can dress in a men's Lockeroom

I look and dress gender-neutral wearing bras panties and stockings under my male clothes, I've had female doctors and nurses see my breasts and one doctor even examined mine just to check their healthy as I happened to mentioned about mine lactating and have done so since 1999.

 

[Deszos]

Now I'm confused.

 

[KnickersandPanties101]

Now I'm confused.

Why? I'm a 60 years old male and would be regarded today as Transgender, I was on female hormones for over 10 years and developed a pair of D cup size breasts that can lactate a little.

 

[Deszos]

wow. i am happy for you.

 

[ZOEOHZOE]

how long did it take to taste your own cum while wondering about being with guys?

 

[Deszos]

gosh, 14? at 13, 14 or so i was so curious, but my two best buddies weren't. regrettably, i coerced them to me fondling their young, beautiful cocks, and surprised how quick and hard they became, then sucked them to completion. as for tasting my own, it happened after i sucked joey and charlie a few times.

 

[Uncut1969]

I shouldn’t have to jerk off constantly to get off when I have a partner, that’s the criminal part! I would get my partner off no matter how many times they needed but there is no reciprocation! Sure I obviously enjoy jerking off and cumming thinking about my fantasy for the day but it’s just not the same doing it solo!

Same boat very true!

 

[Jodaily]

Great topic here. Just found it and it has me hard reading about you all. Might have to take things in hand here to deal with some stiffness I appear to be developing. Sexless for many years, wife just not interested. Having watched porn for all my life I became curious, and decided about ten years ago to go to a glory hole. It was a gas. Sucked 5 or 6 cocks and loved it. If glory holes were safe I'd be there regularly. Instead I just have to jerk off thinking about it. A lot! Ah well. Fantasies.

 

[Just4u4562]

I’m a married male, only been with women. I still find women sexy and desirable, and I can still perform with my wife. But when I’m alone, all I think of is men and cock. I’ve almost exclusively jerked to gay fantasies and gay porn for years now. I never feel more alive and sexual than when I’m able to embrace this side of me. I’ve struggled at times trying to understand if I’m bi-curious, bi, or maybe one male sexual experience away from coming out of the closet. Ultimately I guess it doesn’t matter, I’m comfortable with my desires. But just curious to hear from anyone with similar feelings or insight. Cheers

Same here Buddy

 

[OnaTangent]

It chatting with guys here and elsewhere online has made me realize how intensely erotic it could be to make out with another guy. If the right situation comes around I will definitely take the plunge

 

[Muddy91]

Same here Buddy

I think this sentiment could be a huge echo chamber for many

 

[psmore6]

It chatting with guys here and elsewhere online has made me realize how intensely erotic it could be to make out with another guy. If the right situation comes around I will definitely take the plunge

It would be so hot to be naked, embracing and kissing you

 

[OnaTangent]

Tongues of course!