Younger women, older men

I am generally very comfortable striking up a simple conversation. Sure there’s a fine line between friendly or creepy but often this is perception which I can’t control so as I’ve gotten older I’m much more willing to shoot my shot so to speak.
What a coincidence! I did the same thing just yesterday. I saw a very handsome older man taking a seat across the aisle on the same train. I stared at him, caught his eyes, and merely smiled. He responded by saying, “thank God it’s Friday” and that’s how it started. It’s was brief and friendly. I know he was married based on the ring I saw on his finger but that doesn’t deter me from talking to someone I think might be interesting. That’s how majority of my sexual relationships have started.

*I do acknowledge the fact that men are more comfortable striking a talk or conversation with a random women then the other way around.
 
*I do acknowledge the fact that men are more comfortable striking a talk or conversation with a random women then the other way around.


Do you think that's just the way society is now?
 
Started liking Older men since last couple of years, it may be that one experience of a much older charming elegant man who knew how to talk charm and play the long game of knowing measuring someone of my age and very well knowing im marrued. Always look around to see if an Older man is eyeing me when Im out for shopping or anything for that matter. It’s more than something about older men to me, which can’t be easily explained in few words… they easily charm and they talk and write paragraphs on just a glimpse and their adoration’s are on a different level when compared with men around my age and in their 30s .
 
Started liking Older men since last couple of years, it may be that one experience of a much older charming elegant man who knew how to talk charm and play the long game of knowing measuring someone of my age and very well knowing im marrued. Always look around to see if an Older man is eyeing me when Im out for shopping or anything for that matter. It’s more than something about older men to me, which can’t be easily explained in few words… they easily charm and they talk and write paragraphs on just a glimpse and their adoration’s are on a different level when compared with men around my age and in their 30s .
Incredible
 
Started liking Older men since last couple of years, it may be that one experience of a much older charming elegant man who knew how to talk charm and play the long game of knowing measuring someone of my age and very well knowing im marrued. Always look around to see if an Older man is eyeing me when Im out for shopping or anything for that matter. It’s more than something about older men to me, which can’t be easily explained in few words… they easily charm and they talk and write paragraphs

Very few younger women have enough confidence in themselves to acknowledge that an older man's admiration pleases them. Many react with a show of indifference or irritation that they believe is more "ladylike". You are an exception, a breath of fresh air!
Started liking Older men since last couple of years, it may be that one experience of a much older charming elegant man who knew how to talk charm and play the long game of knowing measuring someone of my age and very well knowing im marrued. Always look around to see if an Older man is eyeing me when Im out for shopping or anything for that matter. It’s more than something about older men to me, which can’t be easily explained in few words… they easily charm and they talk and write paragraphs on just a glimpse and their adoration’s are on a different level when compared with men around my age and in their 30s .
 
Started liking Older men since last couple of years, it may be that one experience of a much older charming elegant man who knew how to talk charm and play the long game of knowing measuring someone of my age and very well knowing im marrued. Always look around to see if an Older man is eyeing me when Im out for shopping or anything for that matter. It’s more than something about older men to me, which can’t be easily explained in few words… they easily charm and they talk and write paragraphs on just a glimpse and their adoration’s are on a different level when compared with men around my age and in their 30s .
that's a delightful, flirty outfit ...
 
Started liking Older men since last couple of years, it may be that one experience of a much older charming elegant man who knew how to talk charm and play the long game of knowing measuring someone of my age and very well knowing im marrued. Always look around to see if an Older man is eyeing me when Im out for shopping or anything for that matter. It’s more than something about older men to me, which can’t be easily explained in few words… they easily charm and they talk and write paragraphs on just a glimpse and their adoration’s are on a different level when compared with men around my age and in their 30s .
That is beautifully sexy and shows off your curves with just a little bare flesh. Classy and erotic at the same time! Thanks for sharing!
 
I am not attracted to older guys just because they are older, but I do like the ones that are mature and confident. Maturity and confidence in a guy is hard to find in my age group. My company has a client that I work with who has those traits. He is 46, funny, charming, and very attractive. He prefers to come into our office for our meetings, and I will never complain about that!
 
Very few younger women have enough confidence in themselves to acknowledge that an older man's admiration pleases them. Many react with a show of indifference or irritation that they believe is more "ladylike". You are an exception, a breath of fresh air!
I disagree.

I'm 62, currently have 2 lovers 20 years younger than me, recently one 30 years younger and one young lady I see from time to time is 22, 40 years younger than me.

I'm very self confident and make no secret of it if I find a younger woman attractive (not in a creepy way). A lot of women see me as harmless, but enough others are interested in a silver fox (or I would be if I didn't shave my head!).
 
I am not attracted to older guys just because they are older, but I do like the ones that are mature and confident. Maturity and confidence in a guy is hard to find in my age group. My company has a client that I work with who has those traits. He is 46, funny, charming, and very attractive. He prefers to come into our office for our meetings, and I will never complain about that!
If i knew you were admiring me i would do the same
 
Started liking Older men since last couple of years, it may be that one experience of a much older charming elegant man who knew how to talk charm and play the long game of knowing measuring someone of my age and very well knowing im marrued. Always look around to see if an Older man is eyeing me when Im out for shopping or anything for that matter. It’s more than something about older men to me, which can’t be easily explained in few words… they easily charm and they talk and write paragraphs on just a glimpse and their adoration’s are on a different level when compared with men around my age and in their 30s .
So beautiful in that outfit..
 
Started liking Older men since last couple of years, it may be that one experience of a much older charming elegant man who knew how to talk charm and play the long game of knowing measuring someone of my age and very well knowing im marrued. Always look around to see if an Older man is eyeing me when Im out for shopping or anything for that matter. It’s more than something about older men to me, which can’t be easily explained in few words… they easily charm and they talk and write paragraphs on just a glimpse and their adoration’s are on a different level when compared with men around my age and in their 30s .
This shade of pink and outfit compliments you perfectly 🙌🏽
 
My wife openly tells me that older men turn her on. She’s not shy about it. Guys in their 60’s are her fav!

I’m 46, and I’ve noticed that a lot of younger women hit on me all the time. It’s wild!! I’m like, do they know I’m almost twice their age?!?!

Not sure what it is, but women definitely like older guys
 
I don’t believe there really are any young ladies interested in talking to a fun, Dominant 40 M. Nope. They don’t exist…
 
I always thought it was a fairly common interest until I shared it with other girls and got very concerned looks. I can find young guys “nice” or whatever but am exclusively attracted to significantly older men. It’s pretty much a pre-req if I were to have a relationship because it’s the only thing that gets me going- I can’t even picture a fulfilling heterosexual relationship with a same age couple (for myself.)
Not sure why but I have always been this way and decided to accept it instead of feeling ashamed and trying to pray it out of me LOL. I looooove traditional masculinity and fear we are seeing less and less of it in the milennial/Gen Z males… I always end up crushing on Gen X guys instead.
Mid-40s is about as beautiful as they come.
It’s definitely multi-layered with me, I guess, I don’t like guys because they’re old, but them being older somehow makes them far more attractive to me… guys my own age are like nondescript, irrelevant entities I don’t even perceive as “male” because they do nothing for me in terms of attraction. Confidence, assuredness, wisdom, and just the Daddy type body language is the way to my heart… don’t personally care for super shy or nervous/feminine guys, I like assertion and natural dominance, someone who isn’t “politically correct,” an older guy who makes eye contact with me, who looks at me over his sunglasses when I’m crossing the street, who wouldn’t feel pervy or immoral to have a young little thing on his arm, who is proud of it instead. Sigh. Clearly this is my favorite subject but I’ll stop here so I don’t type a whole novel ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I am curious is it the whole dominance thing? The I treat you like a toy, or is it the confidence mind that younger women like?

I would not mind a younger woman, but I am a man that will treat with respect, not dominance i will lead my house, but not dictate it.
 
Started liking Older men since last couple of years, it may be that one experience of a much older charming elegant man who knew how to talk charm and play the long game of knowing measuring someone of my age and very well knowing im marrued. Always look around to see if an Older man is eyeing me when Im out for shopping or anything for that matter. It’s more than something about older men to me, which can’t be easily explained in few words… they easily charm and they talk and write paragraphs on just a glimpse and their adoration’s are on a different level when compared with men around my age and in their 30s .
very sexy pictures
 
I always thought it was a fairly common interest until I shared it with other girls and got very concerned looks. I can find young guys “nice” or whatever but am exclusively attracted to significantly older men. It’s pretty much a pre-req if I were to have a relationship because it’s the only thing that gets me going- I can’t even picture a fulfilling heterosexual relationship with a same age couple (for myself.)
Not sure why but I have always been this way and decided to accept it instead of feeling ashamed and trying to pray it out of me LOL. I looooove traditional masculinity and fear we are seeing less and less of it in the milennial/Gen Z males… I always end up crushing on Gen X guys instead.
Mid-40s is about as beautiful as they come.
It’s definitely multi-layered with me, I guess, I don’t like guys because they’re old, but them being older somehow makes them far more attractive to me… guys my own age are like nondescript, irrelevant entities I don’t even perceive as “male” because they do nothing for me in terms of attraction. Confidence, assuredness, wisdom, and just the Daddy type body language is the way to my heart… don’t personally care for super shy or nervous/feminine guys, I like assertion and natural dominance, someone who isn’t “politically correct,” an older guy who makes eye contact with me, who looks at me over his sunglasses when I’m crossing the street, who wouldn’t feel pervy or immoral to have a young little thing on his arm, who is proud of it instead. Sigh. Clearly this is my favorite subject but I’ll stop here so I don’t type a whole novel ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Feel free to type as much as you like.
 
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