Love yourself

[MiaBabe23]

So this is just a thread to appreciate those who deserve so much appreciation here but rarely seem to realize that
Similar to other threads yes, slap my ass if need be
But just feel like encouraging others to join in the adulation-fest and get people to appreciate them en masse
So will mention at least one person each day who seems to be needing it rn - please do nominate whoever you know needs it!

 

[Noone45]

slap my ass

You really mean it

 

[MiaBabe23]

First up, one of Lit’s finest guys who just doesn’t realize it - aren’t the best ones always modest? - @LustfulIntentions2
His thread has soo many feel-so-good images. Always makes everyone feel so welcome, and is so good-hearted and picks up our spirits with ease. Sexy and sharp. And a really good friend to so many
Yum

 

[MiaBabe23]

You really mean it

Maybe not ha

 

[Noone45]

Maybe not ha

Ok sorry

 

[MiaBabe23]

I’m gonna nominate Mia herself!

She was one of the first people to make me feel comfortable here. I’m usually a very shy person but she helped me to just say fuck it! If it wasn’t for her I’d be sitting back watching all of you bitches have fun. Even when I reached out to her in a PM she was so kind and always has been. A truly sweet, fun and naughty soul.

Thank you Dannie, you’ve made me blush and smile

 

[DannieB]

I made Mia blush!!!

 

[MiaBabe23]

I made Mia blush!!!

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[MiaBabe23]

Next up is @DannieB
One of my favorite gfs on here, she’s sassy, she’s witty and has such a kind heart
She helps lift the guys’ spirits when needed, and she’s incredibly patient, comforting me about my lovesick laments even when dealing with her own bs
And she knew when I’d had too much whiskey

 

[DannieB]

Aw, shucks girl!

 

[LustfulIntentions2]

First up, one of Lit’s finest guys who just doesn’t realize it - aren’t the best ones always modest? - @LustfulIntentions2
His thread has soo many feel-so-good images. Always makes everyone feel so welcome, and is so good-hearted and picks up our spirits with ease. Sexy and sharp. And a really good friend to so many
Yum

Well, this is incredibly kind and a lovely little pick me up

I admit to being a touch embarrassed by being all in my feelings last night, and also bad at taking compliments, but this was nice to hear. Thank you

 

[MiaBabe23]

Well, this is incredibly kind and a lovely little pick me up

I admit to being a touch embarrassed by being all in my feelings last night, and also bad at taking compliments, but this was nice to hear. Thank you

You shouldn’t feel embarrassed, we all do it!
Thank you for taking the compliments

 

[MiaBabe23]

Someone who really seems to need it atm, my good friend @Great_Scot
- and yes, will be doing @Megan82 next -
We all know Scot - thinks so well of others he thinks less of himself, (perhaps an entry requirement here?!), he’s always so kind and reassuring, witty and fun, and of course cheeky - hence introducing us to the joys of the mini kilt!
He’s a great friend, and makes the place warmer having him here

 

[JackKingOff]

I will nominate @Azuldrgon i have seen him interact over many years with many people, even myself under a different name at one point. He is encouraging and supportive to all. Wanting to see those who want to, get / be, better succeed in their efforts.

 

[MiaBabe23]

Someone else who needs and deserves adulation rn is lovely @Megan82
Megan’s another of my favorite girls on here - makes me laugh, makes me smile, she’s got such an open heart, and a lovely mix of cheekiness and compassion. She also seems to see the best in people again and again, making her a star in my eyes

 

[Renwolf76]

This thread is so nice

 

[Bassytian]

It's good to see another thread like this. While I do enjoy posting in some of the sexier threads, I love ones like this too. I have recently came out of almost two weeks of a depressive episode and I realized I still have a lot of self-hatred, low self-esteem, and other demons that I must confront and destroy.

 

[MiaBabe23]

Perhaps should resurrect this thread a bit
Think reading above that @Bassytian seems to deserve some hugs
I barely know him, but what posts I’ve seen seem to be kind or humorous; it’s always enjoyable to have someone like that, all the more so when in spite of fighting those unjustly harsh views of the self

 

[Azuldrgon]

I will nominate @Azuldrgon i have seen him interact over many years with many people, even myself under a different name at one point. He is encouraging and supportive to all. Wanting to see those who want to, get / be, better succeed in their efforts.

Thank you sir.

I want to nominate the OP for starting this thread to remind us to self-care.

 

[Bassytian]

Perhaps should resurrect this thread a bit
Think reading above that @Bassytian seems to deserve some hugs
I barely know him, but what posts I’ve seen seem to be kind or humorous; it’s always enjoyable to have someone like that, all the more so when in spite of fighting those unjustly harsh views of the self

Thanks, that was very kind of you to say. I see your posts from time to time and I could say the same about you, kind, humorous, or thoughtful.

I literally just posted something similar to this in another thread. I was at work today when a lady came in and was acting very rudely to a coworker. I thought about how hot that would make me if I were in his shoes, but then I started thinking "If I get mad, upset, or whatever when some stranger says that shit to me, then why is it okay for me to say even worse to myself?" That's been on my mind all day, I don't have an answer for it.

 

[MiaBabe23]

Thanks, that was very kind of you to say. I see your posts from time to time and I could say the same about you, kind, humorous, or thoughtful.

I literally just posted something similar to this in another thread. I was at work today when a lady came in and was acting very rudely to a coworker. I thought about how hot that would make me if I were in his shoes, but then I started thinking "If I get mad, upset, or whatever when some stranger says that shit to me, then why is it okay for me to say even worse to myself?" That's been on my mind all day, I don't have an answer for it.

That’s a very good question. Perhaps we have a natural instinct to resist when someone says something unfair, but internalize all the criticism and bring it out in weaker moments?
Definitely should focus on the positives instead

 

[willlph]

Thanks, that was very kind of you to say. I see your posts from time to time and I could say the same about you, kind, humorous, or thoughtful.

I literally just posted something similar to this in another thread. I was at work today when a lady came in and was acting very rudely to a coworker. I thought about how hot that would make me if I were in his shoes, but then I started thinking "If I get mad, upset, or whatever when some stranger says that shit to me, then why is it okay for me to say even worse to myself?" That's been on my mind all day, I don't have an answer for it.

That is deep .

 

[Bassytian]

That’s a very good question. Perhaps we have a natural instinct to resist when someone says something unfair, but internalize all the criticism and bring it out in weaker moments?
Definitely should focus on the positives instead

That's probably accurate, like we hold it all in and then repeat back to ourselves with our own inner voice. I've been trying to focus more on the positives, I've let go of a lot of guilt over things that quite frankly wasn't my fault, or anyone's. However, I've come to find out years of self-hatred isn't easy to reverse. I'm willing to take the time to do it, I don't want to die with this crap eating away at me. I have chosen life, a happy one, it's going to take some time and work to obtain it.

That is deep .

Lol, I think about a lot of things at work, my current job is very monotonous so my mind tends to wander. Some thoughts are very philosophical while others involve trying to make a dirty joke out of something a coworker said. My mind is a very strange place...

 

[willlph]

Lol, I think about a lot of things at work, my current job is very monotonous so my mind tends to wander. Some thoughts are very philosophical while others involve trying to make a dirty joke out of something a coworker said. My mind is a very strange place...

I can relate Lol . My mind wanders all the time . I was listening to a radio show late one night driving for work and the host was
Interviewing someone about a homeless thrift store and next thing you know I was pretending I was being asked questions by the host and I was trying to help the homeless get gently used sex toys and went thru how we sanitized them and distributed them . I can relate to the plight of the homeless and don’t want to take anything away from their struggle but my mind went there without my permission

 

[MiaBabe23]

That's probably accurate, like we hold it all in and then repeat back to ourselves with our own inner voice. I've been trying to focus more on the positives, I've let go of a lot of guilt over things that quite frankly wasn't my fault, or anyone's. However, I've come to find out years of self-hatred isn't easy to reverse. I'm willing to take the time to do it, I don't want to die with this crap eating away at me. I have chosen life, a happy one, it's going to take some time and work to obtain it.


Lol, I think about a lot of things at work, my current job is very monotonous so my mind tends to wander. Some thoughts are very philosophical while others involve trying to make a dirty joke out of something a coworker said. My mind is a very strange place...

You’ll get there, I’m sure. You sound suitably determined