Cock Talk

[aussiegeekygal]

According to some research, a man needs to blow his wad on a regular basis to keep a happy, shiny, good-as-new prostate. But is there a female equivalent to this?
**Jumps on soap box about just how truly under represented women are in scientific studies**
Women don't have prostates.
We know (very little) about estrogen's role in cardiovascular and osteopathic health. I'd be willing to put money on orgasms increasing estrogen, but again... It hasn't been studied

Is there a specific physical benefit to a female orgasm?
Colloquially; yes.

How often do you need to orgasm to stay normal?
Normal is subjective.
No-one NEEDS to orgasm. It's not a biological imperative. Unlike eating and sleeping, one will not die if they don't cum.

When you can’t orgasm due to circumstances, do you have a go-to method of dealing with it?
Acceptance and another go later?

Do cold showers work?
Cold water is proven to be very regulating to our sensory systems

Are your orgasms generally more intense when masturbating or having sex?
They're different. I really enjoy sex orgasms mainly for all the additional simulations; touch, intimacy, eye contact, the feel of some one else's breath, etc.

If in a sexless relationship, do you masturbate on the sly, or just go to town on yourself in the bed next to your partner?
I masturbated on my own. Masturbating next to someone really isn't "sexless". There's still passive participation there...

Do you masturbate in the same position every time, or do you mix it up?
Mix it up.

Have you ever masturbated in nature?
Yes

Are you too reliant on masturbation?
No

 

[Chatomatic]

https://pics.me.me/one-testicle-hangs-a-little-lower-than-the-other-so-42056892.png

I had no idea!

And it isnt always the same one hanging lower!!

 

[Endless_Night]

But is there a female equivalent to this?

Benefits, yes. Cancer prevention?

Is there a specific physical benefit to a female orgasm?

Hormone production, strengthens the pelvic floor, and I think I remember reading it’s good for the cardiovascular system.

How often do you need to orgasm to stay normal?

I mean, Ideally? Once a day or more, but the stars rarely align for that in my universe.

(More like the regularity of the surface explosion on T Coronae Borealis. )

When you can’t orgasm due to circumstances, do you have a go-to method of dealing with it?

Ignore. Ignore. Ignore.

My ability to ignore is pretty amazing.

Do cold showers work?

Based on recent personal research - temporarily. But they’re supposed to be great for the immune system!

Are your orgasms generally more intense when masturbating or having sex?

Are we including phone sex as sex?

If in a sexless relationship, do you masturbate on the sly, or just go to town on yourself in the bed next to your partner?

Privacy. Definitely.

Do you masturbate in the same position every time, or do you mix it up?

I am a creature of habit. Besides, what works, works.

Have you ever masturbated in nature?

Nope.

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Are you too reliant on masturbation?

Nope.

No-one NEEDS to orgasm. It's not a biological imperative. Unlike eating and sleeping, one will not die if they don't.

I said this to someone recently. A male. His response:

“No, you only know that YOU won’t die.”

Umm. Okay.

 

[Endless_Night]

So it may just be that this is a sensitive topic for me but it does no good and actually feels kind of shitty to have someone say they can't imagine it. You don't have to imagine it and unfortunately I don't either. It is a lived experience.

I’ve experienced this when trying to talk about the difficulties of my specific type of sexual submission on the board.

Invariably, there is push back on how it shouldn’t be that way or suggestions on how to fix.

It. Is. Maddening.

I end up feeling defensive. Which not only do I loathe, but also shuts down my openness to further discussion.

*solidarity chest bump*

 

[LadyLascivious1]

Ignore. Ignore. Ignore.

My ability to ignore is pretty amazing.

My ability to focus and tune out things is pretty legendary. But I do notice I’m less patient and more cranky even when I successfully ignore.

So there are clearly side effects of successfully ignoring for me

I said this to someone recently. A male. His response:

“No, you only know that YOU won’t die.”

Umm. Okay.

I wonder if I could guess in one try who said this?

 

[LadyLascivious1]

So it may just be that this is a sensitive topic for me but it does no good and actually feels kind of shitty to have someone say they can't
imagine it. You don't have to imagine it and unfortunately I don't either. It is a lived experience

Invariably, there is push back on how it shouldn’t be that way or suggestions on how to fix.

It. Is. Maddening.

I end up feeling defensive. Which not only do I loathe, but also shuts down my openness to further discussion.

I’m so glad you both spoke up about feeling this way. Sometimes I read certain replies one way and they bother me, but I don’t want to assume the person they’re responding to automatically feels the same way about it as I do. And no one should feel defensive when they’re being authentic and vulnerable.

I appreciate you both sharing everything you do.

 

[Photog1rl]

I love you, lady

These discussions have left me in equal states of "yuck" and rage this morning.

I see you and share your pain

I’ve experienced this when trying to talk about the difficulties of my specific type of sexual submission on the board.

Invariably, there is push back on how it shouldn’t be that way or suggestions on how to fix.

It. Is. Maddening.

I end up feeling defensive. Which not only do I loathe, but also shuts down my openness to further discussion.

*solidarity chest bump*

I’m so glad you both spoke up about feeling this way. Sometimes I read certain replies one way and they bother me, but I don’t want to assume the person they’re responding to automatically feels the same way about it as I do. And no one should feel defensive when they’re being authentic and vulnerable.

I appreciate you both sharing everything you do.

I appreciate all of you for your comments on this. Being seen and understood means a lot. I know I'm an über over sharer and I own that but the defensive feeling is not something I enjoy.
Communication can be challenging in this format but if I assume everyone has good intentions and speak up when it feels bad it is best for me.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Switching hands is always novel, but doesn’t get me off.

This doesn’t work for me at all. My left hand is like the nerdiest virgin from another planet. You would think he never touched a dick before! Inept, he’s totally inept.
Now my right hand, he’s a filthy whore.

Unlike eating and sleeping, one will not die if they don't cum.

But may kill.

Are we including phone sex as sex?

Only if you’re talking about one of those really old phones that you have to crank, and ask Mable to connect you to Clearview 537.

“No, you only know that YOU won’t die.”

This wasn’t me was it?

I wonder if I could guess in one try who said this?

I wonder if it was me too. I hope not!

 

[LadyLascivious1]

I wonder if it was me too. I hope not!

You would not be my guess if that helps?

 

[Love_Is_Blonde]

According to some research, a man needs to blow his wad on a regular basis to keep a happy, shiny, good-as-new prostate. But is there a female equivalent to this?

Is there a specific physical benefit to a female orgasm?

Well I thought that’s why women in the late 19th century would visit their doctor to treat their female hysteria, with symptoms such as anxiety, shortness of breath, fluid retention, nervousness, fainting, sleeplessness…you name it. He’d kindly “manually stimulate then to orgasm”. Thank goodness those doctors could help cure those ills!

How often do you need to orgasm to stay normal?

Sometimes it’s a lot. Like when I’m stressed, it’s a lot. Other times it’s not as much, but I’d be game- I just won’t be the one coming up with the idea.

When you can’t orgasm due to circumstances, do you have a go-to method of dealing with it?

Take a walk. Distract myself. Go do something else. Cook. Clean. Do work. Put on music. Go for a drive. Put together furniture. Do laundry. Put away laundry. Declutter the house. Tell the kids to clean their rooms. Clean my own room…

Do cold showers work?

No. Now I’m horny AND pissed off.

Are your orgasms generally more intense when masturbating or having sex?

Usually when masturbating. But there were times when sex has been mind blowing but that hasn’t been for a very long time. (But I remember )

If in a sexless relationship, do you masturbate on the sly, or just go to town on yourself in the bed next to your partner?

I’m discreet.

Do you masturbate in the same position every time, or do you mix it up?

Depends on the time and privacy I have. When I had more of each, I was able to do different things. I don’t have much time or privacy now so it doesn’t vary much right now.

Have you ever masturbated in nature?

Yes

Are you too reliant on masturbation?

No. Just reliant enough.

 

[Apisto42]

According to some research, a man needs to blow his wad on a regular basis to keep a happy, shiny, good-as-new prostate. But is there a female equivalent to this?
**Jumps on soap box about just how truly under represented women are in scientific studies**
Women don't have prostates.
We know (very little) about estrogen's role in cardiovascular and osteopathic health. I'd be willing to put money on orgasms increasing estrogen, but again... It hasn't been studied

Agreed

Is there a specific physical benefit to a female orgasm?
Colloquially; yes.

How often do you need to orgasm to stay normal?
Normal is subjective.
No-one NEEDS to orgasm. It's not a biological imperative. Unlike eating and sleeping, one will not die if they don't cum.

I think I might die if I don’t get a nut fairly soon. Why don’t you send me some tiddies to help things along?

When you can’t orgasm due to circumstances, do you have a go-to method of dealing with it?
Acceptance and another go later?

Do cold showers work?
Cold water is proven to be very regulating to our sensory systems

Are your orgasms generally more intense when masturbating or having sex?
They're different. I really enjoy sex orgasms mainly for all the additional simulations; touch, intimacy, eye contact, the feel of some one else's breath, etc.

If in a sexless relationship, do you masturbate on the sly, or just go to town on yourself in the bed next to your partner?
I masturbated on my own. Masturbating next to someone really isn't "sexless". There's still passive participation there...

Do you masturbate in the same position every time, or do you mix it up?
Mix it up.

You could add a log of activities you’re doing to your self exploration thread.

“Day 34: ankles strapped in to bar, winched myself to hang, dropped the lube though, might need help.”

Have you ever masturbated in nature?
Yes

It’s the best.

Are you too reliant on masturbation?
No

 

[Endless_Night]

My ability to focus and tune out things is pretty legendary. But I do notice I’m less patient and more cranky even when I successfully ignore.

So there are clearly side effects of successfully ignoring for me

Oh, I’m not saying lack of doesn’t make me cranky, impatient, and monstrous to be around.

More they’re less side effects and more my continuous state at this point.

I’m so glad you both spoke up about feeling this way. Sometimes I read certain replies one way and they bother me, but I don’t want to assume the person they’re responding to automatically feels the same way about it as I do. And no one should feel defensive when they’re being authentic and vulnerable.

I appreciate you both sharing everything you do.

I should probably add that as a general rule, I don’t mind clarifying questions or even discussion if the subject is on the table. It’s the rush to critique and judge I find galling.

What’s particularly boggling (in my case) is the culprits are so often other people into power exchange. People, who by any logical dictate, should be less captious.

 

[Endless_Night]

“No, you only know that YOU won’t die.”

I wonder if I could guess in one try who said this?

This wasn’t me was it?

It was not you!

You would not be my guess if that helps?

But I totally thought you meant him, too!

 

[hotwords229_A]

It was not you!


But I totally thought you meant him, too!

I’m just happy to be innocent for once.

 

[hotoldrguy]

I’m just happy to be innocent for once.

maybe not guilty but innocent?

 

[drobert44]

Oh, I’m not saying lack of doesn’t make me cranky, impatient, and monstrous to be around.

More they’re less side effects and more my continuous state at this point.


I should probably add that as a general rule, I don’t mind clarifying questions or even discussion if the subject is on the table. It’s the rush to critique and judge I find galling.

What’s particularly boggling (in my case) is the culprits are so often other people into power exchange. People, who by any logical dictate, should be less captious.

Who would be in a power exchange with a lady Litster? What a fool....

 

[hotwords229_A]

maybe not guilty but innocent?

As a lamb!

 

[hotoldrguy]

As a lamb!

https://i.pinimg.com/originals/13/a4/6e/13a46ef8570ec3b506fddfc8d2f60086.png

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I should probably add that as a general rule, I don’t mind clarifying questions or even discussion if the subject is on the table. It’s the rush to critique and judge I find galling.

What’s particularly boggling (in my case) is the culprits are so often other people into power exchange. People, who by any logical dictate, should be less captious.

I concur

If you go back and read the commentary, you'll notice there's A LOT of focus on the men/partners in the comments. That is what made my blood pressure rise a little yesterday.

 

[Apisto42]

I concur

If you go back and read the commentary, you'll notice there's A LOT of focus on the men/partners in the comments. That is what made my blood pressure rise a little yesterday.

I never talk about the men in my life.

 

[OrdinaryPerson]

All horned up and no place to blow
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According to some research, a man needs to blow his wad on a regular basis to keep a happy, shiny, good-as-new prostate. But is there a female equivalent to this? Is there a specific physical benefit to a female orgasm?

I don't know if there's a female equivalent of a prostate but I've had times where I just really needed an orgasm. The benefit is not being cranky or constantly thinking about it...

How often do you need to orgasm to stay normal?

Sometimes once a week, sometimes once a day. Sometimes more. Sometimes less.

When you can’t orgasm due to circumstances, do you have a go-to method of dealing with it?
Do cold showers work?

Be cranky and feel sorry for myself.
Cold showers would make me crankier. I hate being cold.

Are your orgasms generally more intense when masturbating or having sex?

It can both be really good. The solo orgasms feel more focused... But sex... Sex just feels so good everywhere.

If in a sexless relationship, do you masturbate on the sly, or just go to town on yourself in the bed next to your partner?

I'm not in a sexless relationship and I don't hide that I masturbate but my fragile ego couldn't handle masturbating next to my partner and him being unmoved so I'd rather not do it when he's around.

Do you masturbate in the same position every time, or do you mix it up?

Mostly same position. I like being comfy

Have you ever masturbated in nature?

Nope

Are you too reliant on masturbation?

I'm not sure what this means so I'll say no?

 

[StillRain]

@StillRain created hoyboyanal, so we should probably leave it up to her.

Your generosity in my hot boy anal dreaming, knows no limits.

Now if you could just be a little more generous and make this a reality.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I’ve been through the desert with a cock with no name

https://humornama.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Funny-Dick-Meme-for-Boys.jpg
Every group of guys everywhere will jokingly name their penis and try to out-ridickulous the previous guy’s name.

But in all seriousness . . .

Have you (or your partner) named your cock?
Have you ever known someone who named theirs?
What name would you give yours (or your partner’s) assuming you had to in order to save someone’s life?
Have you ever named your car?
Have you, or ever known someone who, had a tattoo put on your/their cock? (On or around?)
What do you prefer to refer to “it” as? (Cock, dick, penis, schlong, etc.)
Do you view someone who genuinely names their cock as a red flag? (P.s.—you might want to)

 

[hotoldrguy]

Have you (or your partner) named your cock?
My late wife called it "Sammy Super Sperm"
Have you ever known someone who named theirs?
Not that any have admitted to
What name would you give yours (or your partner’s) assuming you had to in order to save someone’s life?
Oscar
Have you ever named your car?
I named one: The Green Hornet (an AMC Hornet that was green) Named another" The Silver Bullet (silver Taurus before they started making them look like little submarines)
Have you, or ever known someone who, had a tattoo put on your/their cock? (On or around?)
Nope
What do you prefer to refer to “it” as? (Cock, dick, penis, schlong, etc.)
Cock
Do you view someone who genuinely names their cock as a red flag? (P.s.—you might want to)
I have never run into someone that does but it sounds a bit off...

 

[Endless_Night]

Have you (or your partner) named your cock?
Nope.

Have you ever known someone who named theirs?
Oh, sure. A few girlfriends have shared that experience.

-Little Johnson (His last name was Johnson. )
-Thor
-Apple (Lacrosse slang. He played.)

What name would you give yours (or your partner’s) assuming you had to in order to save someone’s life?
Umm, they might have to die?

Have you ever named your car?
Yes.

Have you, or ever known someone who, had a tattoo put on your/their cock? (On or around?)
Gah! Wouldn't that be hideously painful?

What do you prefer to refer to “it” as? (Cock, dick, penis, schlong, etc.)
Appendage.

Do you view someone who genuinely names their cock as a red flag? (P.s.—you might want to)
Possibly? I associate it as an age thing.