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[hotwords229_A]

From the Harvard Ejaculation Study:

“The scientists found no evidence that frequent ejaculations mark an increased risk of prostate cancer. In fact, the reverse was true: High ejaculation frequency was linked to a decreased risk. Compared to men who reported 4–7 ejaculations per month across their lifetimes, men who ejaculated 21 or more times a month enjoyed a 31% lower risk of prostate cancer. And the results held up to rigorous statistical evaluation even after other lifestyle factors and the frequency of PSA testing were taken into account.”

I wish they had classes like this in my college. I would have done a lot of volunteer work.

Since the results are what I want them to be, I believe it!

 

[Ricardus]

just seemed like an odd set of questions for cock talk
I do appreciate your answers though

That's what I thought. The photo at the start of the post is of a woman, and it begins by saying, "Men need to cum frequently for prostate health. Do women have an equivalent of that?" So it reads like that is introducing all the following questions, as though they are being addressed to women.

Cocks need stroking too!

Well, yes, but see above: it reads like you're posing the questions to women specifically.

 

[hotoldrguy]

Nope.

My hand told me it was true.

Cocks need stroking too!

Ok so after the first question, the rest of the questions are for both sexes? I am old, easily confused and have only had one cup of coffee

 

[RosewoodTulip]

According to some research, a man needs to blow his wad on a regular basis to keep a happy, shiny, good-as-new prostate.

Wanking for science

But is there a female equivalent to this? Is there a specific physical benefit to a female orgasm?

Not sure. Does wonders for my mental health though.

How often do you need to orgasm to stay normal?

I've never been "normal" but the need ebbs and flows. Some days I feel like I'll lose my mind if I don't and others I can just enjoy the ride even if I don't reach the destination.

When you can’t orgasm due to circumstances, do you have a go-to method of dealing with it?

I really enjoy edging and denial so I find ways of keeping the embers a glow until I can really stoke the fire

Do cold showers work?

Nope

Are your orgasms generally more intense when masturbating or having sex?

Been a while since I last got laid but, seeing as I'm the only person who ever bothered to learn what I like, I'd say during masturbation

If in a sexless relationship, do you masturbate on the sly, or just go to town on yourself in the bed next to your partner?

I'd prefer not to answer

Do you masturbate in the same position every time, or do you mix it up?

I like to mix it up. Different toys, different techniques, different places

Have you ever masturbated in nature?

Yes lots of fun

Are you too reliant on masturbation?

Its that or nothing and I had nothing for a very long time. Would I prefer someone else there to give me an orgasm? Yes of course. But for now it's just me, myself and I

 

[Photog1rl]

According to some research, a man needs to blow his wad on a regular basis to keep a happy, shiny, good-as-new prostate.

I had heard this and appreciate the study you shared.

But is there a female equivalent to this? Is there a specific physical benefit to a female orgasm?

Orgasms help with cramp relief and I believe headache but now I’m intrigued. There must be more reasons.

How often do you need to orgasm to stay normal?

Once a week or I am noticeably needy. More often is preferred.

When you can’t orgasm due to circumstances, do you have a go-to method of dealing with it?

I just deal with it and get needier and needier.
Sometimes I will lean into it and help other people cum and just build the tension more.

Do cold showers work?

If I went in the shower then I’d have a time and place to cum.

Are your orgasms generally more intense when masturbating or having sex?

Solo orgasms are usually more intense and multiple.

If in a sexless relationship, do you masturbate on the sly, or just go to town on yourself in the bed next to your partner?

Both. I will often masturbate after sex because I didn’t orgasm during. Sometimes he wants to be involved but usually I am on my own. Why hide that.

Do you masturbate in the same position every time, or do you mix it up?

Same position if I’m using a toy and solo . If I’m being directed or playing with an online partner the position and activity can vary.

Have you ever masturbated in nature?

Yes

Are you too reliant on masturbation?

I don’t think reliant is the correct word but there are times when I prefer masturbation over intercourse with my partner.

 

[UnquietDreams]

According to some research, a man needs to blow his wad on a regular basis to keep a happy, shiny, good-as-new prostate. But is there a female equivalent to this? Is there a specific physical benefit to a female orgasm?

Increase in endorphins, so it can help with pain relief. Also, female orgasms increase the white blood cell count, improving immunity response. (My ex was an Advanced Patho professor. You learn all sorts of interesting things.)

How often do you need to orgasm to stay normal?

First, tell me what normal means.

When you can’t orgasm due to circumstances, do you have a go-to method of dealing with it?

Forbearance. I love a good come as well as the next guy, but I also love the build up, the hunger, the need that builds when I abstain. A purgatory of lust, neither heaven nor hell, but I enjoy it, especially if I have a partner in the same state. I am not into denying a woman's orgasm (well, except at the moment, when playing that way. Only good girls get to come...), but if I am in a distance situation, and my partner doesn't get to come, I choose not to either.

Do cold showers work?

Neither as showers nor a way to reduce ardor.

Are your orgasms generally more intense when masturbating or having sex?

Generally, when having sex. Though that is a bit of a memory at this point of my life.

If in a sexless relationship, do you masturbate on the sly, or just go to town on yourself in the bed next to your partner?

I was in a sexless relationship. I had to masturbate on the sly. Even when my ex admitted to masturbating, usually thrown into my face in an argument, the idea of me jerking off caused a fight, that I was "cheating" on her, somehow, with myself. Well, in her mind, not with myself but with whoever I was looking at or thinking about, even when it was her. And it often was. I tried talking to her about it, but it escalated into arguments rather than discussions of needs and resolutions. It was incredibly disfunctional.

Do you masturbate in the same position every time, or do you mix it up?

Oh, no, I mix it up.

Have you ever masturbated in nature?

Yes, but not often. I love to have sex outside, and that caries over into masturbation at times (though I don't enjoy it as much).

Are you too reliant on masturbation?

I was in a sexless marriage for a lot of time, including the last seven years before I left. I have not yet lept into the dating pool since then. So...no.

just seemed like an odd set of questions for cock talk

It has been my experience that any questions in Cock Talk are both odd and normal for here at the same time...

 

[Lmizzler]

Come on down to the Paradise Clity where the skin is pink and there's folds aplenty...

Oh won't you find that g-spot! Yeeeeah-yeaah!

This needs a Voca!

 

[hotoldrguy]

How often do you need to orgasm to stay normal?
usually once or twice a week
When you can’t orgasm due to circumstances, do you have a go-to method of dealing with it?
I live alone so not an issue
Do cold showers work?
Never thought of that as an option. Thought it was more of a joke thing than a real thing
Are your orgasms generally more intense when masturbating or having sex?
I have not had sex in so many years, I do not really remember. Anyone want to volunteer? For science?
Do you masturbate in the same position every time, or do you mix it up?
Sometimes sitting, sometimes standing. Not a big fan of lying down
Have you ever masturbated in nature?
Nope
Are you too reliant on masturbation?
It has been my only option

 

[UnquietDreams]

Been a while since I last got laid but, seeing as I'm the only person who ever bothered to learn what I like, I'd say during masturbation

That is the part that both baffles me and makes me incredibly sad. For me, that joy of learning and discovery is so amazing, so much of what makes sex enjoyable. Asking a woman to show me how to make love to her, what she wants, needs, fantasizes, desires...all of that is such a wonder and a joy to me. Maybe it is just me. I had a person on here tell me that she had never had a partner who was so interested in knowing her, what made her tick. I would think that, given where we are, that would be even more prevalent, but I don't know.

 

[lavendersilk]

All horned up and no place to blow

I don't need to ejaculate to have a good time.

According to some research, a man needs to blow his wad on a regular basis to keep a happy, shiny, good-as-new prostate.

Where are you getting this research at?

But is there a female equivalent to this? Is there a specific physical benefit to a female orgasm?

It can be cathartic and it helps me relax. From what I've heard... it can be a great way to bond with your partner.

How often do you need to orgasm to stay normal?

 I've gone months without an orgasm. Depression, anxiety, try and try and try but it just won't... cum... pardon the pun there. Basically I've found that if I wake up horny and get an O in I have a better day and if I get another before bed I sleep better.

When you can’t orgasm due to circumstances, do you have a go-to method of dealing with it?

I am petpetually horny. I think about sex a lot. I have to distract myself during the day so I don't get too aroused. But, I haven't flicked my bean in a public restroom since my early twenties.

Do cold showers work?

For the duration of the shower.

Are your orgasms generally more intense when masturbating or having sex?

I have different orgasms from maturbation than I do with a partner. I used to think I enjoyed my self-induced orgasms more, but it is better with someone.

If in a sexless relationship, do you masturbate on the sly, or just go to town on yourself in the bed next to your partner?

N/A

Do you masturbate in the same position every time, or do you mix it up?

I have experimented with different techniques but ultimately I do what is easiest based on my time frame.

Have you ever masturbated in nature?

No. Would love to though.

Are you too reliant on masturbation?

Maybe. It's hard to get much done on the weekends if I'm being honest.

 

[AngelicaS1780]

From the Harvard Ejaculation Study:

“The scientists found no evidence that frequent ejaculations mark an increased risk of prostate cancer. In fact, the reverse was true: High ejaculation frequency was linked to a decreased risk. Compared to men who reported 4–7 ejaculations per month across their lifetimes, men who ejaculated 21 or more times a month enjoyed a 31% lower risk of prostate cancer. And the results held up to rigorous statistical evaluation even after other lifestyle factors and the frequency of PSA testing were taken into account.”

I wish they had classes like this in my college. I would have done a lot of volunteer work.

Since the results are what I want them to be, I believe it!

Interesting. My husband, who had/has a very low sex drive, was diagnosed with prostate cancer at 49. However, he also grew up within five miles of a uranium processing facility that caused major radioactive contamination of the area. He has been cancer free for the past six years.

 

[Ricardus]

Interesting. My husband, who had/has a very low sex drive, was diagnosed with prostate cancer at 49. However, he also grew up within five miles of a uranium processing facility that caused major radioactive contamination of the area. He has been cancer free for the past six years.

Perhaps all of those things are linked. Really sorry to hear you've had all of that to deal with, but I hope he continues to do well.

 

[RosewoodTulip]

That is the part that both baffles me and makes me incredibly sad. For me, that joy of learning and discovery is so amazing, so much of what makes sex enjoyable. Asking a woman to show me how to make love to her, what she wants, needs, fantasizes, desires...all of that is such a wonder and a joy to me. Maybe it is just me. I had a person on here tell me that she had never had a partner who was so interested in knowing her, what made her tick. I would think that, given where we are, that would be even more prevalent, but I don't know.

I maybe should have added that I have met some wonderful people here who know exactly what works for me. It's just in person where it hasn't happened.
And I agree, I like to know what the person I'm with needs and making sure they have it gives me a lot of joy

 

[BongoGal]

Do cold showers work?

By now, everyone knows about 'shrinkage'. A dip in a cold pool does make a cock shrink down to its tiniest as well as make the scrotum pull up tight against (into?) the body. Guys, let's say you jumped right out of a chilly pool and onto a room temperature mattress in a quiet and private room. Compared to, say, right after a hot shower, would it take a lot longer to go from zero to ejaculation if you decided to masturbate? Does it take a while to get that thing working again?

 

[lavendersilk]

Orgasms help with cramp relief

Yes! This!

 

[hotwords229_A]

That's what I thought. The photo at the start of the post is of a woman, and it begins by saying, "Men need to cum frequently for prostate health. Do women have an equivalent of that?" So it reads like that is introducing all the following questions, as though they are being addressed to women.

Well, yes, but see above: it reads like you're posing the questions to women specifically.

How can you talk about cocks without mentioning vaginas?

If I went in the shower then I’d have a time and place to cum.

This is probably the best answer!

It has been my experience that any questions in Cock Talk are both odd and normal for here at the same time...

By now, everyone knows about 'shrinkage'. A dip in a cold pool does make a cock shrink down to its tiniest as well as make the scrotum pull up tight against (into?) the body. Guys, let's say you jumped right out of a chilly pool and onto a room temperature mattress in a quiet and private room. Compared to, say, right after a hot shower, would it take a lot longer to go from zero to ejaculation if you decided to masturbate? Does it take a while to get that thing working again?

Yes. My balls need to warm up and stop hiding to get everything moving again. It doesn’t take long, but definitely needs a minute to warm up.

 

[dontneedone]

By now, everyone knows about 'shrinkage'. A dip in a cold pool does make a cock shrink down to its tiniest as well as make the scrotum pull up tight against (into?) the body. Guys, let's say you jumped right out of a chilly pool and onto a room temperature mattress in a quiet and private room. Compared to, say, right after a hot shower, would it take a lot longer to go from zero to ejaculation if you decided to masturbate? Does it take a while to get that thing working again?

Maybe a few extra seconds. But in similar situations like this I can get hard again pretty quick.

If it would take me five minutes to jerk off, this would take me 6 1/2.

 

[BongoGal]

How can you talk about cocks without mentioning vaginas?

Very easily?

 

[Ricardus]

Orgasms help with cramp relief and I believe headache but now I’m intrigued. There must be more reasons.

These are interesting. I have known people for whom that was true and others for whom they made it worse.

I just deal with it and get needier and needier.
Sometimes I will lean into it and help other people cum and just build the tension more.

That's an interesting thought. So if you're in a situation where you can't release yourself, you'll sometimes make a point of talking to a friend online who can, and use that to intensify your own need for later?

If I went in the shower then I’d have a time and place to cum.

If that's the case, that means you have the basic opportunity at least once a day, hopefully

Both. I will often masturbate after sex because I didn’t orgasm during. Sometimes he wants to be involved but usually I am on my own. Why hide that.

This is so strange to me. I can't imagine leaving a partner in that state and not feeling a deep need to take care of her myself. In this scenario, he is still there, so there hasn't been some sudden emergency he had to deal with.

So first, I can't think why I couldn't take care of her myself, given that we've just been having sex. But if there were some reason, how could you not even be involved? Are you saying he just rolls over and leaves you to get on with it, laying next to you but not even paying attention, talking to you, anything?

I can get not hiding that but at the same time, it just seems so surreal to be masturbating in the same room as someone who knows what you're doing and is ignoring it.

 

[MindYaBitness]

All horned up and no place to blow
https://64.media.tumblr.com/77a6a86f556bd69d446e49e828cc735c/6e91356937d3c44e-79/s540x810/76c925479bee7468349f99e53301c47a829beb2b.jpg

According to some research, a man needs to blow his wad on a regular basis to keep a happy, shiny, good-as-new prostate. But is there a female equivalent to this? Is there a specific physical benefit to a female orgasm?
How often do you need to orgasm to stay normal?
When you can’t orgasm due to circumstances, do you have a go-to method of dealing with it?
Do cold showers work?
Are your orgasms generally more intense when masturbating or having sex?
If in a sexless relationship, do you masturbate on the sly, or just go to town on yourself in the bed next to your partner?
Do you masturbate in the same position every time, or do you mix it up?
Have you ever masturbated in nature?
Are you too reliant on masturbation?

*I feel like I should preface my answers by saying I have a natural mix of hormones that makes me a touch hypersexual. My OBGYN said that she doesn't know if at she should be jealous or pity me

According to some research, a man needs to blow his wad on a regular basis to keep a happy, shiny, good-as-new prostate.

Last year my spouse came home from his urologist with a prescription for bi-weekly orgasms. Best script I've ever seen!

But is there a female equivalent to this? Is there a specific physical benefit to a female orgasm?

Yes, endorphins & oxytocin are released, immune system is boosted, etc. Plus, I'm not an angsty bitch if I get them regularly.

How often do you need to orgasm to stay normal?

Once or twice a day. Three if I can manage.

When you can’t orgasm due to circumstances, do you have a go-to method of dealing with it?

Call my mom. I adore her, but she is the best boner killer that ever lived.

Do cold showers work?

Nope. Then I just start imagining who is love to have in that shower with me

Are your orgasms generally more intense when masturbating or having sex?

With someone in person or on cam, definitely a bit more intense than just me & my imagination.

If in a sexless relationship, do you masturbate on the sly, or just go to town on yourself in the bed next to your partner?

On the sly. He likes watching me, so it's sometimes a together thing, but usually I'm sneaking around to get my quota.

Do you masturbate in the same position every time, or do you mix it up?

Usually same position, though I've switched it up out of necessity or boredom before

Have you ever masturbated in nature?

Once or twice

Are you too reliant on masturbation?

Somewhat. My partner is addicted to his work, and his drive doesn't match mine. I could stand there stark naked, wet & ready and he'd bolt the moment duty calls. If not for masterbation & online play, I'd spontaneously combust from sheer frustration. I don't have much of a choice.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Very easily?

To me, they go hand in hand. Or cock in hand. Or cock in vagina.

 

[Wand3rlust]

That is the part that both baffles me and makes me incredibly sad. For me, that joy of learning and discovery is so amazing, so much of what makes sex enjoyable. Asking a woman to show me how to make love to her, what she wants, needs, fantasizes, desires...all of that is such a wonder and a joy to me. Maybe it is just me. I had a person on here tell me that she had never had a partner who was so interested in knowing her, what made her tick. I would think that, given where we are, that would be even more prevalent, but I don't know.

This is not uncommon...

I've never had a partner who truly listened to me.

 

[UnquietDreams]

This is not uncommon...

I've never had a partner who truly listened to me.

Then I am truly sad for them.

 

[Wand3rlust]

Yes! This!

That's why sex and orgasm when you are menstruating is so good. I always enjoyed it.

Some men are so squeamishly pathetic.

 

[justanotherguy80]

That's why sex and orgasm when you are menstruating is so good. I always enjoyed it.

Some men are so squeamishly pathetic.

Sex during menstruation generally needs to be a bit different. I’m not squeamish, but I’m not going full Saltburn either.

It’s definitely not off the agenda though and I’m not put off by it at all.