Cock Talk

[UnquietDreams]

Do you need a foreskin to dock "correctly"?

At least one of the two. That is what does the "docking." Needs to be long and stretchable.

 

[lavendersilk]

Do you need a foreskin to dock "correctly"?

Yes. You have to be uncircumcised.

 

[Photog1rl]

Now I need to google both docking (although I’ve got a good idea) and frotting. Thanks Cock Talk

Has your male partner ever admitted to sucking a cock or being curious about it?
No-he has never talked or shown any interest.

How would (or did) you feel if he did?
I’d be ok with it. I’m a pleasure seeker and would support this for him as well.

Are you aroused by guy on guy action, but don’t want your guy involved in it?
No. Guy on guy sometimes arouses me. It depends on my mood but if my guy wanted it-all good! A mmf threesome is a huge fantasy of mine. My only desire would be that we all enjoyed each other.

Why does it seem like most women don’t want guy on guy?
I think that women feel like they can compete with other women but not with a man so they risk losing their partner to a man.

If in a ‘two guys and a girl’ threesome, do you only want the guys paying attention to you, or are you interested in seeing them plow each other too? (And none of that “whatever makes us all happy” garbage. I’m asking what you and only you want. )
All of it! Please and thank you. Pleasure trifecta…mmm now my mind is wandering

If your guy wanted cock, would you overthink yourself to death wondering all kinds of stuff, or would you be happy that you have a guy who is comfortable enough with you to be open?

No overthinking for me. I love it when my partner shares his sexual wants and needs with me.

 

[vagrantx]

Your responses are quite enlightening to me.

Always happy to be of service

Why does it seem like most women don’t want guy on guy?

Au contraire! In hentai there are two major genres; yaoi and yuri. The first is gay men, the second is gay women. Yaoi is mass-ive-ly popular with women. This can also be seen in written fan-fiction on sites like Ao3 where people write, for lack of a better word, an extreme amount of gay male love scenes from their favorite IPs, and the readers are almost exclusively women.

I don't think actual filmed gay male sex is as popular, though I have nothing but anecdotes to back that up.

But on a serious note - you and you SO should come over to Manchester gay pride on Saturday - I'm in the parade with my wife and you can both come and see the sights.

I hope you have loads and loads of naughty fun

 

[hotwords229_A]

Au contraire! In hentai there are two major genres; yaoi and yuri. The first is gay men, the second is gay women. Yaoi is mass-ive-ly popular with women. This can also be seen in written fan-fiction on sites like Ao3 where people write, for lack of a better word, an extreme amount of gay male love scenes from their favorite IPs, and the readers are almost exclusively women.

It certainly has its fandom, it just seems like the average Sally Housecoat isn’t into it. There are a lot of guys in relationships who are curious but their wife/girlfriend is not. Or so I’ve heard.

 

[UnquietDreams]

It certainly has its fandom, it just seems like the average Sally Housecoat isn’t into it. There are a lot of guys in relationships who are curious but their wife/girlfriend is not. Or so I’ve heard.

Gay romance is a very popular e-book genre among women, including Sally Housecoat. Many women don't claim to be into porn, but they will read the ever living fuck out of it, especially if they can do so on their phone.

 

[Wand3rlust]

Ladies:
Has your male partner ever admitted to sucking a cock or being curious about it?

single, so not overly applicable. However all the guys I've been with would baulk at the thought of another cock near them. Delicate little flowers that they were...

How would (or did) you feel if he did?

i dont yuck somone eels's yum. As long as its clear I'm the primary.

Are you aroused by guy on guy action, but don’t want your guy involved in it?

im aroused by people being aroused, i think. I wouldnt want to be left out though

Would you like to see your partner with a cock in his mouth?

Single.

Why does it seem like most women don’t want guy on guy?

no idea

If in a ‘two guys and a girl’ threesome, do you only want the guys paying attention to you, or are you interested in seeing them plow each other too? (And none of that “whatever makes us all happy” garbage. I’m asking what you and only you want. )

All about me. Yep. 100 oer cent. But I'd want that in any group situation.

If your guy wanted cock, would you overthink yourself to death wondering all kinds of stuff, or would you be happy that you have a guy who is comfortable enough with you to be open?

oh I'd over think. Cos i do that about evrything.

What do you want to know about guy on guy?

In the hotboyanal scenario, do @hotwords229_A and @deefalttwunnyfor have a preference about who does what or would it be one big love in?

 

[hotwords229_A]

In the hotboyanal scenario, do @hotwords229_A and @deefalttwunnyfor have a preference about who does what or would it be one big love in?

@StillRain created hoyboyanal, so we should probably leave it up to her.

 

[hotwords229_A]

i dont yuck somone eels's yum. As long as its clear I'm the primary.

So if your visual entertainment is the driving force of the blowjob, then you’re cool with it?
Or would you be sitting there thinking, “this is time that could be spent on my body!”

 

[Ricardus]

i dont yuck somone eels's yum.

This is the greatest typo in ages, given what you're talking about

 

[Wand3rlust]

im aroused by people being aroused, i think. I wouldnt want to be left out though

So if your visual entertainment is the driving force of the blowjob, then you’re cool with it?
Or would you be sitting there thinking, “this is time that could be spent on my body!”

That's the important part

 

[aussiegeekygal]

This is the greatest typo in ages, given what you're talking about

 

[Ricardus]

So thoughtful of you to realize I might have missed that!

 

[RosewoodTulip]

Ladies:
Has your male partner ever admitted to sucking a cock or being curious about it?

Currently eternally single but my ex wasn't interested at all

How would (or did) you feel if he did?

Wouldn't bother me at all. People should always be free to explore their sexualities and curiosities

Are you aroused by guy on guy action, but don’t want your guy involved in it?

Very aroused. I'd totally support it too because it's something I could never give him. I'd need complete honesty though.

Would you like to see your partner with a cock in his mouth?

Sure, if that's what he wanted

Why does it seem like most women don’t want guy on guy?

Dunno. Maybe they don't like to share or could maybe feel threatened by them getting fulfillment from someone else

If in a ‘two guys and a girl’ threesome, do you only want the guys paying attention to you, or are you interested in seeing them plow each other too? (And none of that “whatever makes us all happy” garbage. I’m asking what you and only you want. )

I've never had any kind of third party sex but I'd be up for either scenario. MMF porn is some of my favourite and everyone making everyone else happy sounds great but I'd never expect anyone to do something they were uncomfortable with

If your guy wanted cock, would you overthink yourself to death wondering all kinds of stuff, or would you be happy that you have a guy who is comfortable enough with you to be open?

Oh good question. My overthinking skills are legendary and I am also very anxious and insecure but I'd like to think I'd be ok with this. I'm pretty open minded and have only recently started to think about same sex attraction for myself so I'd like to think I could support his needs.
A healthy sex life surely needs good communication and trust to work no matter who wants to do what to who so as long as those things are strong a little self exploration is a good thing I think.

 

[UnquietDreams]

Now I need to google both docking (although I’ve got a good idea) and frotting. Thanks Cock Talk

You're welcome, love!

 

[UnquietDreams]

If in a ‘two guys and a girl’ threesome, do you only want the guys paying attention to you, or are you interested in seeing them plow each other too? (And none of that “whatever makes us all happy” garbage. I’m asking what you and only you want. )

The one ‘two guys and a girl’ relationship I was in, the guy would try his very best to pretend I wasn't there. Woulnd't look at me, wouldn't talk, wouldn't even respond to direct questions -- nothing. Considering that my cock was stroking against his through his girlfriend's vaginal wall, that was just hilarious...

 

[Bry1313]

Have you ever sucked a cock? If so, what was the circumstance?

No lollipop action

Do you want to blow a dick, or ever at least considered it?

Never say never but it hasn’t been high on my list of to do’s

Do you trust your partner enough to talk to her about it, or will it be a deal crusher?

Not much to discuss

Do you feel the same about sucking a dick today as when you were (let’s say) in your twenties?

Yeah

Is your desire to suck a dick out of pure curiosity, or do you want to do it with your partner?

I think only way would be in a MMF 3some or group, so with my partner

Have you ever sucked, or tried to suck, your own cock?

I can barely touch my toes.

How sexually open minded are you, in your opinion? What would others say?

Relatively so, if I’m asked to do something I’ll try almost anything once

What do you want to know about guy on guy?

I’ve got nothing

 

[lavendersilk]

No lollipop action

Never say never but it hasn’t been high on my list of to do’s

Not much to discuss

Yeah

I think only way would be in a MMF 3some or group, so with my partner

I can barely touch my toes.

Relatively so, if I’m asked to do something I’ll try almost anything once

I’ve got nothing

Why did I think you had this expression while writing this?
https://media.tenor.com/jmYGxzxLqGMAAAAM/whatever-shrug.gif

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

Guys:
Have you ever sucked a cock?

I haven't

Do you want to blow a dick, or ever at least considered it?

I have considered it. I'm sure I will before I expire

Do you trust your partner enough to talk to her about it, or will it be a deal crusher?

I did. The divorce is almost final. Not sure that correlation-causation applies though

Do you feel the same about sucking a dick today as when you were (let’s say) in your twenties?

I'm more open to it now than I was in my early 20s that's for sure

Is your desire to suck a dick out of pure curiosity, or do you want to do it with your partner?

Curiosity. Doing it with an F partner is absolutely the desired scenario

Have you ever sucked, or tried to suck, your own cock?

I could successfully get the head in my mouth in my teens. I tried it just last night and the closest I could get to it was like 2-3" away. So close, yet so far

How sexually open minded are you, in your opinion? What would others say?

I'm pretty GD open

What do you want to know about guy on guy?

Nothing. Porn has taught me everything I could possibly ever need to know. Porn is real life-adjacent, right?

 

[Apisto42]

Curiouser and curiouser . . .
https://64.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ma5kumLiTO1qd2wajo1_640.jpg

There are a lot of guys (straightish even) who fantasize about sucking on a cock. More than I ever thought there would be. These are guys who (apparently) aren’t really bi, who only want a relationship with a woman, but still wonder about cock.

We can also say that a lot of these guys are in relationships with women who are not at all into it.
(Based on intense research )


We’re gonna split this one up into two categories:

Ladies:
Has your male partner ever admitted to sucking a cock or being curious about it?
How would (or did) you feel if he did?
Are you aroused by guy on guy action, but don’t want your guy involved in it?
Would you like to see your partner with a cock in his mouth?
Why does it seem like most women don’t want guy on guy?
If in a ‘two guys and a girl’ threesome, do you only want the guys paying attention to you, or are you interested in seeing them plow each other too? (And none of that “whatever makes us all happy” garbage. I’m asking what you and only you want. )
If your guy wanted cock, would you overthink yourself to death wondering all kinds of stuff, or would you be happy that you have a guy who is comfortable enough with you to be open?

Guys:
Have you ever sucked a cock? If so, what was the circumstance?
Do you want to blow a dick, or ever at least considered it?
Do you trust your partner enough to talk to her about it, or will it be a deal crusher?
Do you feel the same about sucking a dick today as when you were (let’s say) in your twenties?
Is your desire to suck a dick out of pure curiosity, or do you want to do it with your partner?
Have you ever sucked, or tried to suck, your own cock?
How sexually open minded are you, in your opinion? What would others say?

What do you want to know about guy on guy?

(I fully suspect the “Guys” portion of this to go mostly unanswered )

This deserves more than one word flippant answers, so I’ll cum back to them.

There's a term called gold-star lesbian, someone who's never ever been with a guy. I hate it. People who use it have this tier-system of gay women, where gold-star lesbians will only ever get with other gold-star lesbians; if you've ever been with a man you're "tainted". Neither me nor my partner adhere to this idea, so we've talked about past and previous mistakes and ideas. Also she's a lot more bi than I am so she doesn't have the same aversion as I do. Which is fine!!

God damn, people are shits.

Is docking real??? A real thing?

I don’t even know what this is. Seems like something drunk sailor boys might do though.

 

[Apisto42]

I haven't

Hey sailor boy

I have considered it. I'm sure I will before I expire

I did. The divorce is almost final. Not sure that correlation-causation applies though

I'm more open to it now than I was in my early 20s that's for sure

Curiosity. Doing it with an F partner is absolutely the desired scenario

I could successfully get the head in my mouth in my teens. I tried it just last night and the closest I could get to it was like 2-3" away. So close, yet so far

I blame age and tacos for not being able to do so anymore.

I'm pretty GD open

How open we talking? Is this starter plug or baseball bat?

Nothing. Porn has taught me everything I could possibly ever need to know. Porn is real life-adjacent, right?

right on.

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

Hey sailor boy

https://i.giphy.com/media/v1.Y2lkPTc5MGI3NjExY3ViMW1icHNpaWMwNzZnaHMza2Rkbm5xMWpwOHN6MTRvZ3NmbXl5dyZlcD12MV9pbnRlcm5hbF9naWZfYnlfaWQmY3Q9Zw/Uv2zkUpGfcMF0k7KAz/giphy.gif

I blame age and tacos for not being able to do so anymore.

Tacos are the cause of, and solution to, a lot of life's problems

How open we talking? Is this starter plug or baseball bat?

I feel like there is A LOT of middle ground between those two things. If it were a scale, I'd say wayyyyyyyy closer to the starter

 

[hotwords229_A]

Guys:
Have you ever sucked a cock? If so, what was the circumstance?

I have not.

Do you want to blow a dick, or ever at least considered it?

Kinda. I haven’t decided if it’s a real desire or just a fantasy at this point. But yeah, I’ve thought about it.

Do you trust your partner enough to talk to her about it, or will it be a deal crusher?

Currently single. But it will be the first thing I say, even before introducing myself.

Do you feel the same about sucking a dick today as when you were (let’s say) in your twenties?

No. In my twenties I would never have considered it. I had a conversation with a girlfriend at the time who asked me if I could get off to a guy blowing me. I told her I didn’t think I could even get hard in that situation. And I meant it. I really felt that way. She was skeptical.

I no longer feel that way. She was way more mature than me obviously.

Is your desire to suck a dick out of pure curiosity, or do you want to do it with your partner?

Partner. And, honestly, an audience. The fantasy is doing it in front of a group of horny women.

Have you ever sucked, or tried to suck, your own cock?

Yes. A lot. No dice.

How sexually open minded are you, in your opinion? What would others say?

Reasonably open minded. Half prude, half in the mood to get rude in the nude.
Others would probably agree.

What do you want to know about guy on guy?

I am more interested in the answer most women won’t give (probably) for fear of being called a somethingaphobe. I am interested to hear from the women who are not into it to figure out why. I used to think it was because it could, in a way, make for a type of “feminization” of the guy and most women want manly men. But now I think it has more to do with her wanting the attention on herself more than the 2 guys with each other.

I think the points made about competing and jealousy and concerns about what he might pursue when she isn’t around are all valid points.

I’m often more interested in the answers people won’t give over the ones they will.
Anyone who wants to answer but is afraid of backlash, feel free to PM me.

I can’t be offended.

(I fully suspect the “Guys” portion of this to go mostly unanswered )

This is kind of a dick thing to say.

 

[summer_reine]

Ladies:
Has your male partner ever admitted to sucking a cock or being curious about it?

He was adamantly against it.

How would (or did) you feel if he did?

It would have been really hot to watch/join in.

Are you aroused by guy on guy action, but don’t want your guy involved in it?

I am. I'm single but would be fine with Mr Imaginary and I enjoying it together.

Would you like to see your partner with a cock in his mouth?

Mr Imaginary would look hot af

Why does it seem like most women don’t want guy on guy?

Does it? I'd be far more insecure in a fmf situation since she's new and likely hotter than me. To the responses saying women might feel threatened.. If he enjoys guys more than girls I definitely think we should both learn that asap.

If in a ‘two guys and a girl’ threesome, do you only want the guys paying attention to you, or are you interested in seeing them plow each other too? (And none of that “whatever makes us all happy” garbage. I’m asking what you and only you want. )

Both! We all need a breather now and then. Mr Imaginary in the middle of a mmf train is a long standing fantasy.

If your guy wanted cock, would you overthink yourself to death wondering all kinds of stuff, or would you be happy that you have a guy who is comfortable enough with you to be open?

Both *shrug*

 

[RosewoodTulip]

Currently single. But it will be the first thing I say, even before introducing myself.

I can just imagine this scenario...
You see a lovely lady and make your approach
"Hey, I have a fantasy about sucking cock. Name's hotwords"
And then finger guns obviously

I used to think it was because it could, in a way, make for a type of “feminization” of the guy and most women want manly men. But now I think it has more to do with her wanting the attention on herself more than the 2 guys with each other.

I can honestly, hand on heart say those two things are not a factor for me but I know some women who think it's a turn off for a man to be bisexual/bicurious. I would hate for someone to feel they couldn't be honest with me for fear of rejection.
And I'm a total pleaser in bed so being the main focus of attention over my partner(s) isn't a priority