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[likes2watchU]

I'm wondering if it's going to take a fall to get her attention.

Truth is, I'd prefer first of all that she take her phone with her. She sucks at that, too.

I dearly hope not, but getting old isn't easy. Loss of mobility and acknowledging that it means you're closer to the end of the road than the start is very difficult for most of us. Whether we're the one aging or the one watching our parents age - it's not easy... and often not a kind process either. I wish you both the best outcome possible.

 

[SmokingFap]

Just so glad to see @Lilianna23 back here.

 

[Missk_2022]

Mom has a good lightweight cane which would suffice for most occasions. I also got her a lovely twisted wood walking stick for walking and for Necessary Poke Administration. They both rest in the corner near the front door and both get ignored. I'm wondering if it's going to take a fall to get her attention.


Truth is, I'd prefer first of all that she take her phone with her. She sucks at that, too.

Omg .....we have the same mom.....

Stubborn

If her name starts with a c....I will be freaked out

 

[Wonderer67]

Looks like Calm before the storm here in New Jersey. Around 11:00 a.m. we expect severe thunderstorms 30 to 40 mph winds with gusts to 60 mph. The storm moved over Pennsylvania but we're on the east side which is the strongest. We have a 30% chance of tornadoes today until I think 3:00 p.m.. so it's going to be a wonderful morning. Hope everyone else is safe and dry.

I just did something quite dumb.

I’m supposed to watch my neighbors dog and cats this weekend, so I walked over to their house, about a quarter of a mile away through a wooded road.

Tree limbs were coming down left and right. Some of those guests were really powerful. NOT SMART! (but I lived to tell the tale.)

 

[Greylag]

Omg .....we have the same mom.....

Stubborn

If her name starts with a c....I will be freaked out

Only reason my mum takes her stick is because it’s white and people know she is almost blind! As to everything else I just accept it, dumb or otherwise!

 

[likes2watchU]

I just did something quite dumb.

I’m supposed to watch my neighbors dog and cats this weekend, so I walked over to their house, about a quarter of a mile away through a wooded road.

Tree limbs were coming down left and right. Some of those guests were really powerful. NOT SMART! (but I lived to tell the tale.)

Yes, but how are you getting back??

*runs away for lunch nap* (my 1 smart decision of the day so far)

 

[Wonderer67]

Yes, but how are you getting back??

*runs away for lunch nap* (my 1 smart decision of the day so far)

I’m back now. Have a great nap.

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

Looks like Calm before the storm here in New Jersey. Around 11:00 a.m. we expect severe thunderstorms 30 to 40 mph winds with gusts to 60 mph. The storm moved over Pennsylvania but we're on the east side which is the strongest. We have a 30% chance of tornadoes today until I think 3:00 p.m.. so it's going to be a wonderful morning. Hope everyone else is safe and dry.

Stay safe. Better days are coming soon your way.

 

[Wat_Tyler]

I dearly hope not, but getting old isn't easy. Loss of mobility and acknowledging that it means you're closer to the end of the road than the start is very difficult for most of us. Whether we're the one aging or the one watching our parents age - it's not easy... and often not a kind process either. I wish you both the best outcome possible.

Thank you. Of course, some of the things I fuss about are some of the things that I begin to consider as I'm not getting any younger, either. We'll see what happens.

 

[Wat_Tyler]

Omg .....we have the same mom.....

Stubborn

If her name starts with a c....I will be freaked out

J


You're safe.


They've been doing it their way all of their lives, and now we're peering in on them and they rebel. We should paddle their canoes, ground them, and send them to bed without supper.


Of course, that punishes us, so . . . .

 

[Wat_Tyler]

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/EUB4gR0X0AAOQkF.jpg

 

[Missk_2022]

I just did something quite dumb.

I’m supposed to watch my neighbors dog and cats this weekend, so I walked over to their house, about a quarter of a mile away through a wooded road.

Tree limbs were coming down left and right. Some of those guests were really powerful. NOT SMART! (but I lived to tell the tale.)

Be Careful.... i am not gonna say it....

 

[Missk_2022]

J


You're safe.


They've been doing it their way all of their lives, and now we're peering in on them and they rebel. We should paddle their canoes, ground them, and send them to bed without supper.


Of course, that punishes us, so . . . .

It is a slippery slope...

I love my mom... she is very independent and soo smart. It is so hard to see her not be as sharp and have the "old people" problems. And sometimes she gets in the way of her own happiness and it breaks my heart.

She told me that she was 52 when her mom died and I started to cry..

She is feeling her mortality

 

[subdudeme13]

Now that fuckin song is stuck in my head….

I sing Bruce Springsteen songs to get rid of ear worms. Glorry Days, Pink Cadillac or Born in the USA. For some reason that works for me. Was never a hug fan but i guess it is a Jersey Shore thing.

So sad news….

My mom fell last nite. Broken hip. She has to get surgery this morning or she will not walk again.

My sister is with her last nite and again this morning. I will be taking over later and tomrrow.

I am that Wonderer67. They can work miracles these days. My father broke his when he was 80. He didn't play tennis again but he was walking great. He lived to 93.

 

[subdudeme13]

Good morning. I don’t wish to be ungrateful but my tea was 4c and I don’t see it. Don’t worry I will make my own to save the pain!

Where exactly are you located, if I may ask?

 

[Wat_Tyler]

It is a slippery slope...

I love my mom... she is very independent and soo smart. It is so hard to see her not be as sharp and have the "old people" problems. And sometimes she gets in the way of her own happiness and it breaks my heart.

She told me that she was 52 when her mom died and I started to cry..

She is feeling her mortality

I wonder about mine. She'll say something sometimes, and other times, I think that she thinks she's going to live forever. Who knows what we'll wind up with?

 

[subdudeme13]

And here in oh we are dry dry dry dry

I see in Harrisburg, near where I lived at one time, they had a church roof ripped off by a tornado.

 

[likes2watchU]

I’m back now. Have a great nap.

It. Was. Awesome.
I could have slept the whole rest of the afternoon!
But alas, I need to work. Pesky paycheck requirements.

 

[Greylag]

It is a slippery slope...

I love my mom... she is very independent and soo smart. It is so hard to see her not be as sharp and have the "old people" problems. And sometimes she gets in the way of her own happiness and it breaks my heart.

She told me that she was 52 when her mom died and I started to cry..

She is feeling her mortality

There are times when we all feel our own mortality. The trick is getting on with life despite it.

 

[Greylag]

Where exactly are you located, if I may ask?

I live in Dumfries and Galloway....SW Scotland.

 

[subdudeme13]

I live in Dumfries and Galloway....SW Scotland.

I was wondering because of how tea is served in the states. They give you a cup of water and a bag.

 

[Wat_Tyler]

It dawned on me that school is fixin' to start up here again soon. I signed up for a welding class. Something I never learned to do, so I'ma gonna fix that.


e/t/a: Debby seems to have blown her windy ass outta town.


https://static.summitracing.com/global/images/prod/xlarge/ARO-2010371_xl.jpg

 

[Greylag]

I was wondering because of how tea is served in the states. They give you a cup of water and a bag.

Only place you get that would be a mobile snack van. Overc here you get it in a pot with milk on the side. We usually share a pot and add hot water to make sure its weak enough lol

 

[subdudeme13]

Only place you get that would be a mobile snack van. Overc here you get it in a pot with milk on the side. We usually share a pot and add hot water to make sure its weak enough lol

I have been a few places where you get a pot. I have a ceramic tea pot I made in high school. It is perfect for 3 or 4 cups from 2 bags. I know people are particular about how they brew there tea. My sister wants the bag dipped in the water and my wife wants it in the cup and pour the hot water on it.

 

[cole4258]

Happy Friday!!!! Glad this week is over.