Is the biggest cock the top?

[Swuck]

I am a smaller guy at 5’8”, 155lbs with an average size cock. I am a total bottom with men and prefer them to be larger than me. Most of my tops have had equal sized or larger cocks but there are a few that were smaller.

 

[CdKimMajick]

My girlfriend has told me more than once that the person with the biggest cock is entitled to be the top. Of course she would think so since she has a big cock.

Does her argument have any merit? Is there a psychological advantage to having a big cock that makes someone want to top the person with the smaller cock? Or does the person with the smaller cock acquiesce at the sight of a bigger cock and bend over meekly for their fucking?

When I see her cock I automatically want to bend over or open my mouth but maybe that's just me. Or is it the size? Is there such a thing as Big Dick Energy?

Every since my first bi encounter no matter the size of the cock I prefer bottom. Rarely do I switch.

I would say it would be who prefers what not cock size. If you like bottom but have a big cock take bottom same with your g/f. I don't think size should determine this issue

 

[DaddysSissySlut24]

My girlfriend has told me more than once that the person with the biggest cock is entitled to be the top. Of course she would think so since she has a big cock.

Does her argument have any merit? Is there a psychological advantage to having a big cock that makes someone want to top the person with the smaller cock? Or does the person with the smaller cock acquiesce at the sight of a bigger cock and bend over meekly for their fucking?

When I see her cock I automatically want to bend over or open my mouth but maybe that's just me. Or is it the size? Is there such a thing as Big Dick Energy?

No. Not necessarily. In my experience it's the orientation of the people involved. I'd rather not top but if it were size-based? Well...I'm just gonna shut up right here and now lest I be accused of boasting or worse, disinformation.

 

[TrailerHitch]

This is easily one of the most ridiculous topics on this subject area. Look if you have a large cock and want to be a bottom be a bottom, if you have an average to smaller cock and want to be a top be a top. Same as if you have a average to small cock and want to be a bottom then be a bottom, if you have a large cock and want to be a top be a top.

Reading the posts here it seems there is someone out there for everyone and only YOU can decide who that is. To me how the owner of the cock uses that cock is more important than the size. A guy with a small cock that is not skilled may make it more painful than a guy with a large cock that is skilled, and vice versa.

 

[artgorden]

I have never been with a man who's dick was smaller than mine, and I always bottom.

 

[SPARTAN047]

No. I don't believe this stereotype at all, and I'm a sissy bottom who wants to be fucked hard and used even by several cocks much bigger than mine. (In reality they hurt a lot, I prefer sissy clitties or average ones.)

It's not about size, though I think propaganda has made people believe that big cocks fuck, small clitties stay limp and get fucked, but they never do the fucking. And porn. I LOVE that fantasy, but it's not true.

It's all about what you really want to be. I've had men with much bigger cocks than mine bend over and ask me to fuck them, and there were average guys I met who wanted to be tops only.

I've heard of the occasional woman who doesn't let her husband's huge cock in her pussy since it hurts, and she only lets average guys fuck her since it feels nice and doesn't tear her open. She would tease and taunt her hubby saying that if only he had an avg cock, he'd get to fuck her too, not that machine like fuck stick which leaves her pussy so gaping and sore that she can't walk or fuck for weeks. It's a very hot role reversal, and I say, whatever floats your boat!

Maybe your girlfriend says that since she happens to have a big cock and the mentality of a top, too, so she would naturally say that big cocks should be tops. And you happen to love bottoming for a sexy trans girl so maybe you believe that ideology fits as well.

Humans are very flexible and adaptable. If I saw a trans girl bigger and taller than me with a nice big fat cock, strong legs and a muscular arse, I'd worship her from head to toe, even her feet, suck her cock dry and let her fuck me like a dirty whore. That doesn't mean I don't have thoughts of topping sexy t-gurls. If I saw even a Domme trans girl bent over doing exercises, squats, or just getting something from her fridge, totally naked with her arse in the air, that pretty little arsehole winking at me and begging to be licked and fucked, I'd have very primal and caveman/woman thoughts of bending her over and fucking her so hard that her legs shake and she can't stand up for months.

I do love pretty and sexy arses, preferably in thongs or naked to look at and see that little arsehole winking at me, begging to be filled with cum. I suppose it's just how they present themselves, bending over or being on all fours is something like a bottom would do. I wouldn't be able to resist that sight at all.

Even if she was a top, I wouldn't be thinking straight (pun intended) in the slightest. I'd be walking over to her naked with my clitty swinging around, slap her arse hard enough to leave a mark, grab her by the waist, bend her over and ignore her protestations, lube her up with my spit or actual lube until I could finger-fuck her with at least two fingers, and gag her with her own panties before I mount her with her arse in the air, just like she might've mounted me all those times before, and slam my clitty so hard into her she screams. Then I'd remind her that even small sissy clits can actually fuck hard enough if they're horny, for hours, while I hold her down. She'd probably be my bitch for a little while, whether I can last long or not. I've actually done this to guys who wanted to be made into my bitch, though not very often.

And then she can tie me up, mount me and punish me for forgetting my place as her sub, LOL, or just enjoy the hard fuck she might not have received in a while. It's so amazing to think of a trans Domme girl mounted and fucked hard by a sissy until her arsehole is dripping cum and then she takes her revenge, LMAO.

...God, I can't take this much more, I need to go look at porn and wank again for the fourth time.

https://www.redgifs.com/watch/mysteriousnexttenrec#rel=user:onceuponoftime;order=new

 

[GentlemanJedi63]

No. I don't believe this stereotype at all, and I'm a sissy bottom who wants to be fucked hard and used even by several cocks much bigger than mine. (In reality they hurt a lot, I prefer sissy clitties or average ones.)

It's not about size, though I think propaganda has made people believe that big cocks fuck, small clitties stay limp and get fucked, but they never do the fucking. And porn. I LOVE that fantasy, but it's not true.

It's all about what you really want to be. I've had men with much bigger cocks than mine bend over and ask me to fuck them, and there were average guys I met who wanted to be tops only.

I've heard of the occasional woman who doesn't let her husband's huge cock in her pussy since it hurts, and she only lets average guys fuck her since it feels nice and doesn't tear her open. She would tease and taunt her hubby saying that if only he had an avg cock, he'd get to fuck her too, not that machine like fuck stick which leaves her pussy so gaping and sore that she can't walk or fuck for weeks. It's a very hot role reversal, and I say, whatever floats your boat!

Maybe your girlfriend says that since she happens to have a big cock and the mentality of a top, too, so she would naturally say that big cocks should be tops. And you happen to love bottoming for a sexy trans girl so maybe you believe that ideology fits as well.

Humans are very flexible and adaptable. If I saw a trans girl bigger and taller than me with a nice big fat cock, strong legs and a muscular arse, I'd worship her from head to toe, even her feet, suck her cock dry and let her fuck me like a dirty whore. That doesn't mean I don't have thoughts of topping sexy t-gurls. If I saw even a Domme trans girl bent over doing exercises, squats, or just getting something from her fridge, totally naked with her arse in the air, that pretty little arsehole winking at me and begging to be licked and fucked, I'd have very primal and caveman/woman thoughts of bending her over and fucking her so hard that her legs shake and she can't stand up for months.

I do love pretty and sexy arses, preferably in thongs or naked to look at and see that little arsehole winking at me, begging to be filled with cum. I suppose it's just how they present themselves, bending over or being on all fours is something like a bottom would do. I wouldn't be able to resist that sight at all.

Even if she was a top, I wouldn't be thinking straight (pun intended) in the slightest. I'd be walking over to her naked with my clitty swinging around, slap her arse hard enough to leave a mark, grab her by the waist, bend her over and ignore her protestations, lube her up with my spit or actual lube until I could finger-fuck her with at least two fingers, and gag her with her own panties before I mount her with her arse in the air, just like she might've mounted me all those times before, and slam my clitty so hard into her she screams. Then I'd remind her that even small sissy clits can actually fuck hard enough if they're horny, for hours, while I hold her down. She'd probably be my bitch for a little while, whether I can last long or not. I've actually done this to guys who wanted to be made into my bitch, though not very often.

And then she can tie me up, mount me and punish me for forgetting my place as her sub, LOL, or just enjoy the hard fuck she might not have received in a while. It's so amazing to think of a trans Domme girl mounted and fucked hard by a sissy until her arsehole is dripping cum and then she takes her revenge, LMAO.

...God, I can't take this much more, I need to go look at porn and wank again for the fourth time.

https://www.redgifs.com/watch/mysteriousnexttenrec#rel=usernceuponoftime;order=new

I would have assumed the largest cock must be the top, but watching gay porn and going through personal ads has changed that point of view. It amazes me how some guys with big, beautiful thick cocks are total bottoms, oral and anal, and there is nothing hotter than seeing those hard cocks bounce when they are getting fucked by average guys.

 

[Escierto]

Maybe you can have big dick energy without actually having a big dick.

 

[bobb64]

I'M A TOTAL BOTTOM AND PREFER SMALLER COCKS I DON'T WANT ANY THAT ARE BIGGER THAN MINE.

 

[Escierto]

I'M A TOTAL BOTTOM AND PREFER SMALLER COCKS I DON'T WANT ANY THAT ARE BIGGER THAN MINE.

Why is that exactly?

 

[bobb64]

Why is that exactly?

it's what i prefer, i don't like big cock.

 

[Escierto]

it's what i prefer, i don't like big cock.

Ok, how big are you?

 

[Badxxxwifey]

Biggest cock in the room makes the rules XD

 

[SPARTAN047]

I would have assumed the largest cock must be the top, but watching gay porn and going through personal ads has changed that point of view. It amazes me how some guys with big, beautiful thick cocks are total bottoms, oral and anal, and there is nothing hotter than seeing those hard cocks bounce when they are getting fucked by average guys.

Totally, the contrast makes it very exciting.

 

[drobert44]

Not at all; I once fucked a sissy packing 9"

 

[drobert44]

Not at all; I once fucked a sissy packing 9"

But I loved sucking his/her cock

 

[P0peye]

My first time having sex with another person was with my best friend Larry whose cock was much bigger than mine was. His cock was over 8 inches and THICK! while my little penis was and still is barely 3 inches long. It seemed only right that I should become his subordinate cocksucker.

 

[tristantrotsky]

My first time having sex with another person was with my best friend Larry whose cock was much bigger than mine was. His cock was over 8 inches and THICK! while my little penis was and still is 011barely 3 inches long. It seemed only right that I should become his subordinate cocksucker.

There does seem to be a natural 'rightness' to the smaller cocked man bending his knee in submission and paying oral homage to the alpha-male by sucking the bigger cock, although I concede that in reality that is not always the case.

 

[P0peye]

It just seemed that his bigger cock made him more masculine and more virile than I was. He definitely wanted to dominate me! And I liked letting him. He liked teasing me about my small penis. He would stroke his thick cock using both hands while I would jerk off with my thumb and fore finger.

 

[bobb64]

Ok, how big are you?

6"

 

[Busy54]

It just seemed that his bigger cock made him more masculine and more virile than I was. He definitely wanted to dominate me! And I liked letting him. He liked teasing me about my small penis. He would stroke his thick cock using both hands while I would jerk off with my thumb and fore finger.

agreed. I have a smaller cock and have bottomed for only men with larger cocks… it seems natural to submit to a man with a larger cock…. It makes it feel “right” the natural order of things

 

[Samantha47]

There does seem to be a natural 'rightness' to the smaller cocked man bending his knee in submission and paying oral homage to the alpha-male by sucking the bigger cock, although I concede that in reality that is not always the case.

How I am

 

[SPARTAN047]

There does seem to be a natural 'rightness' to the smaller cocked man bending his knee in submission and paying oral homage to the alpha-male by sucking the bigger cock, although I concede that in reality that is not always the case.

THis is EXACTLY what I think of when I submit to a man or a trans chick with a bigger cock than me. Not that it's hard to beat my size.

agreed. I have a smaller cock and have bottomed for only men with larger cocks… it seems natural to submit to a man with a larger cock…. It makes it feel “right” the natural order of things

I always think that myself when I get on my knees or bend over to take a bigger cock in my mouth or arsehole, yes, it feels 'right'. Not neccesary though! I do love to dominate bigger men and trans girls with huge fat tits and arses sometimes, but it's not my natural state.

 

[Samantha47]

Not at all; I once fucked a sissy packing 9"

Oh my God that's awesome

 

[DickandDoof]

I have never been with a man who's dick was smaller than mine, and I always bottom.

I’m a switch, but I confess that the first thing I want to do when I see a man with a big cock, especially a black man, is get down on my knees and start servicing him. It’s like that cock has me hypnotised. It tells me what to do and I have no resistance. I know who’s the master and who’s the slave.