Planetary Nebula ❤️❤️❤️
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UnquietDreams
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Fuck, that broke me.
Mr_bogey
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I feel destroyed... I can't stop crying.
The_spirit_of_oz
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Fuck it’s true then 
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This is terrible news. We were friends and talked frequently. She was so easy to befriend and get along with. Just a cool, fun, pure soul. I'll always miss her.
(Btw, if this is a Brianna-fake-out I will leave here forever.)
(Btw, if this is a Brianna-fake-out I will leave here forever.)
Saltfountain
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It's not
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I apologize. I totally didn't mean to sound insensitive or anything.
UnquietDreams
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It's rough to not know what to trust, I get that.
I've seen the obituary online, just to verify.
__Nathan1968
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This really is heartbreaking news.
Photog1rl
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Sending love to you MrT. It is heartbreaking.
AngelicaS1780
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Such sad news. She was always so lovely and kind to me. And so damn funny.
Just a beautiful person inside and out.
Just a beautiful person inside and out.
LupineOne
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vagrantx
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We are born weak, gentle, but in death we are stiff, hard. In nature, plants are tender and filled with sap, but when they die they wither and dry. As such, the stiff and unbending are disciples of death, while the gentle and yielding are the disciples of life.
- Lao Zi
Nebs was a disciple of life
- Lao Zi
Nebs was a disciple of life
CthuluLives
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I still can't believe I had to make this thread, can't believe I won't be looking for her or what she was gonna send me next, picture or positive words. She shared ADHD stories with me after I was diagnosed, she helped pick me up of the floor many times, I saw her joy and enthusiasm spread whre she went, the reactions when she appeared, her love for life and those in her life. I find myself crying again right now that ill never get another message from her or anything personal again, never get to feel her presence on this board..
Will always love you Queen
Will always love you Queen
Sexy_Singer
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Ironically, I first chatted with Nebs about the Brianna fiasco. RIP Nebs.
OrdinaryPerson
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Thanks for making the thread and letting us all know. It's nice to have a place to remember her.I still can't believe I had to make this thread, can't believe I won't be looking for her or what she was gonna send me next, picture or positive words. She shared ADHD stories with me after I was diagnosed, she helped pick me up of the floor many times, I saw her joy and enthusiasm spread whre she went, the reactions when she appeared, her love for life and those in her life. I find myself crying again right now that ill never get another message from her or anything personal again, never get to feel her presence on this board..
Will always love you Queen
LIDiver
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Lit is certainly dimmer today but all of us who were even briefly in Nebber’s presence have been brightened by her.
She was, make that, IS! a fun, intelligent, sexy, adventurous, sympathetic, empathetic, whack-a-doodle soul who’s wondrous light made us all better people.
And this went beyond Lit, as those of us who
were lucky to have known some of her in real life, she cheered up her personal world too.
I used to tease her about her bizarre (but cool) name and how Planetary Nebula was not fitting a moniker for the amount of people that cherished her. So she reluctantly let me call her Stardust.
And now her stardust is bouncing around the cosmos making the gods that may be laugh, think, cringe, and yes, I’m sure, she’s already flashed some of them.
Cheers to you, KP, my dear silly friend….
She was, make that, IS! a fun, intelligent, sexy, adventurous, sympathetic, empathetic, whack-a-doodle soul who’s wondrous light made us all better people.
And this went beyond Lit, as those of us who
were lucky to have known some of her in real life, she cheered up her personal world too.
I used to tease her about her bizarre (but cool) name and how Planetary Nebula was not fitting a moniker for the amount of people that cherished her. So she reluctantly let me call her Stardust.
And now her stardust is bouncing around the cosmos making the gods that may be laugh, think, cringe, and yes, I’m sure, she’s already flashed some of them.
Cheers to you, KP, my dear silly friend….
deefalttwunnyfor
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Fuck today. I was just wondering the other day where she'd been. She was the first to message after my disastrous last summer and kept checking in. I'm gonna miss her so much. Worst day on lit ever?
LupineOne
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I think so.
Mr_bogey
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After wallowing in my own funk for a bit, I decided to do a deep dive on all the PMs b/t Nebs and I. As I did so, I began to realize something --- Nebs would not have wanted us to mourn her, she would want to be celebrated.
Seeing the classic Nebs "I don't wanna" gif and nebzilla made me realize that there was soooo much joy she brought to us. I think we should remember that.
Like @Saltfountain , I'm going to share a little bit of Nebs too. This is from a little over a year ago and was only sent after much begging, whining, pleading and promises. She had recently taken up the guitar and I had to hear her play. So here is Nebs with the opening riff to (appropriately) Tom Petty's Mary Jane's Last Dance
https://voca.ro/1iGUbLJWs5de
Seeing the classic Nebs "I don't wanna" gif and nebzilla made me realize that there was soooo much joy she brought to us. I think we should remember that.
Like @Saltfountain , I'm going to share a little bit of Nebs too. This is from a little over a year ago and was only sent after much begging, whining, pleading and promises. She had recently taken up the guitar and I had to hear her play. So here is Nebs with the opening riff to (appropriately) Tom Petty's Mary Jane's Last Dance
https://voca.ro/1iGUbLJWs5de
RosewoodTulip
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The best thing about Nebs, other than her humour, her messages, her pics...
Was that she was everyone's friend. I never once saw her involved in any drama. Never once saw her be angry, or passive aggressive, or even snarky. If she liked you, she liked you. Full stop.
I loved the way she'd write someone's name in bold capitals if she hadn't seen them in a while, making her joy obvious for everyone to see.
I loved how she made sure everyone was included with whatever was going on. As an awkward introvert I am especially grateful for that one.
Her enthusiasm and positivity really was infectious and I'd like to honour her in trying to carry some of that energy forwards with me.
Was that she was everyone's friend. I never once saw her involved in any drama. Never once saw her be angry, or passive aggressive, or even snarky. If she liked you, she liked you. Full stop.
I loved the way she'd write someone's name in bold capitals if she hadn't seen them in a while, making her joy obvious for everyone to see.
I loved how she made sure everyone was included with whatever was going on. As an awkward introvert I am especially grateful for that one.
Her enthusiasm and positivity really was infectious and I'd like to honour her in trying to carry some of that energy forwards with me.
