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@Endless_Night, hold onto your thigh highs. I have facts. Behold! Research:

The word peg, where did it even come from?

Etymology: From Middle English pegge, from Middle Dutch pegge (ā€œpin, pegā€), from Old Dutch *pigg-, *pegg-, from Proto-Germanic *pig-, *pag- (ā€œpeg, stakeā€), from Proto-Indo-European *bak-, *baįø±- (ā€œclub, pointed stick, pegā€).

Marquis de Sade describes a pegging act in his 1795 book Philosophy in the Bedroom.

There is a depiction of pegging in the William S. Burroughs 1959 novel Naked Lunch. The dildo used in the scene is called a Steely Dan III, and is the source from which the musical group Steely Dan* takes its name.

Bend Over Boyfriend (1998) seems to be what did the trick though.

A flick that forced the word peg on a journey from noun to verb, real to slang, and from pirate gear to the reason #724 of why I divorced my first husband, ā€œBend Over Boyfriendā€ (or, BOB) showcased the sexual act of a woman penetrating a man’s anus with a strap-on dildo.

Quite the hot seller, BOB became fodder for The Daily Show. Adding giggle fuel to the fire, and promoting the idea, as online newspaper Eye Weekly succinctly put it, that "fucking your boyfriend in the ass is fun.ā€

Dan Savage would finalize the coining of the phrase in his column Savage Love. Initially, he called the act "BOBing" but his readers subsequently voted on the winning term, "pegging.ā€

And here we are.

Seems we’ve needed a word for ā€˜a big stick’ ever since words were invented.

Proto-Indo-European linguistics… I believe this was the club women over head/drag them off by hair era of human history.

*sweet reveries*

Could see where the latent misandry might come from tho… šŸ˜‚

ANYHOO

It’s a Dan Savage-ism! Of course it is! I’m so jelly. He came up with the word ā€œmonogam-ishā€ too. Literary genius.

*bwa ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha 🤣

But lesbians . . . ?!

Yes, please!
 
@Endless_Night, hold onto your thigh highs. I have facts. Behold! Research:

The word peg, where did it even come from?

Etymology: From Middle English pegge, from Middle Dutch pegge (ā€œpin, pegā€), from Old Dutch *pigg-, *pegg-, from Proto-Germanic *pig-, *pag- (ā€œpeg, stakeā€), from Proto-Indo-European *bak-, *baįø±- (ā€œclub, pointed stick, pegā€).

Marquis de Sade describes a pegging act in his 1795 book Philosophy in the Bedroom.

There is a depiction of pegging in the William S. Burroughs 1959 novel Naked Lunch. The dildo used in the scene is called a Steely Dan III, and is the source from which the musical group Steely Dan* takes its name.

Bend Over Boyfriend (1998) seems to be what did the trick though.

A flick that forced the word peg on a journey from noun to verb, real to slang, and from pirate gear to the reason #724 of why I divorced my first husband, ā€œBend Over Boyfriendā€ (or, BOB) showcased the sexual act of a woman penetrating a man’s anus with a strap-on dildo.

Quite the hot seller, BOB became fodder for The Daily Show. Adding giggle fuel to the fire, and promoting the idea, as online newspaper Eye Weekly succinctly put it, that "fucking your boyfriend in the ass is fun.ā€

Dan Savage would finalize the coining of the phrase in his column Savage Love. Initially, he called the act "BOBing" but his readers subsequently voted on the winning term, "pegging.ā€

And here we are.

Seems we’ve needed a word for ā€˜a big stick’ ever since words were invented.

Proto-Indo-European linguistics… I believe this was the club women over head/drag them off by hair era of human history.

*sweet reveries*

Could see where the latent misandry might come from tho… šŸ˜‚

ANYHOO

It’s a Dan Savage-ism! Of course it is! I’m so jelly. He came up with the word ā€œmonogam-ishā€ too. Literary genius.

*bwa ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha 🤣



Yes, please!
Fantastic job on the research! šŸ‘šŸ‘šŸ‘šŸ‘
 
Have you ever pegged or wanted to peg anyone else?

No and no.

How would you react if your partner wanted to try pegging?

I would try it with her.

Would it affect your opinion of a guy who was into pegging? Or are you afraid, as a guy, that it would affect other’s opinion of you?

No.

Do you think pegging is a gateway drug for cock? (Not a totally serious question, but kind of)

Not necessarily.

Would you be interested in seeing your partner pegged or having her watch you pegged?

Yes.

Is pegging a power exchange or simply a good prostate pounding?

I think it’s a power exchange.

If a guy asked you for anal, shouldn’t he be willing to offer his own ass to you too?

Sounds fair.

On a scale of 1-37, how funny is a guy taking it in the ass?
Depends on the position.
 
Masturbation

Do you masturbate?

How often?

Do you do mutual?

Do you masturbate with your partner?

HYE been caught masturbating by your partner?

Do you use toys or objects? If so please share.

Do you like to watch masturbation?

Do you like to be watched while masturbating?

HYE masturbated on cam with another?
 
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@Endless_Night, hold onto your thigh highs. I have facts. Behold! Research:

The word peg, where did it even come from?

Etymology: From Middle English pegge, from Middle Dutch pegge (ā€œpin, pegā€), from Old Dutch *pigg-, *pegg-, from Proto-Germanic *pig-, *pag- (ā€œpeg, stakeā€), from Proto-Indo-European *bak-, *baįø±- (ā€œclub, pointed stick, pegā€).

Marquis de Sade describes a pegging act in his 1795 book Philosophy in the Bedroom.

There is a depiction of pegging in the William S. Burroughs 1959 novel Naked Lunch. The dildo used in the scene is called a Steely Dan III, and is the source from which the musical group Steely Dan* takes its name.

Bend Over Boyfriend (1998) seems to be what did the trick though.

A flick that forced the word peg on a journey from noun to verb, real to slang, and from pirate gear to the reason #724 of why I divorced my first husband, ā€œBend Over Boyfriendā€ (or, BOB) showcased the sexual act of a woman penetrating a man’s anus with a strap-on dildo.

Quite the hot seller, BOB became fodder for The Daily Show. Adding giggle fuel to the fire, and promoting the idea, as online newspaper Eye Weekly succinctly put it, that "fucking your boyfriend in the ass is fun.ā€

Dan Savage would finalize the coining of the phrase in his column Savage Love. Initially, he called the act "BOBing" but his readers subsequently voted on the winning term, "pegging.ā€

And here we are.

Seems we’ve needed a word for ā€˜a big stick’ ever since words were invented.

Proto-Indo-European linguistics… I believe this was the club women over head/drag them off by hair era of human history.

*sweet reveries*

Could see where the latent misandry might come from tho… šŸ˜‚

ANYHOO

It’s a Dan Savage-ism! Of course it is! I’m so jelly. He came up with the word ā€œmonogam-ishā€ too. Literary genius.

*bwa ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha 🤣



Yes, please!
This is amazing! ā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļø
 
Masturbation
Pro-wanking and pro-wanker. @StillRain
Do you masturbate?
For a long time and shortly.
How often?
Yes
Do you do mutual?
Yes
Do you masturbate with your partner?
Same time? Isn’t that mutual?
HYE been caught masturbating by your partner?
Yes. Good times ensued.
Do you toys or objects? If so please share.
I objectify the shit out of myself. Probably should talk to a therapist about that.
 
Marquis de Sade describes a pegging act in his 1795 book Philosophy in the Bedroom.
So Marquis Mark brings it to the public’s attention . . .
Bend Over Boyfriend (1998) seems to be what did the trick though.
. . . but Bend Over Boyfriend really sticks it in and breaks it off?

I’m surprised it’s as recent as 1998. Considering today how many guys admit to taking it like a man, one must assume there are even more out there. For it to become that popular in 26 years is pretty impressive considering we have millions of years of ā€œdon’t drop the soapā€ jokes preceding it.

This is the kind of research that this thread desperately needs. ā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļø
from pirate gear to the reason #724 of why I divorced my first husband,
What?! 😳
 
Masturbation

Do you masturbate?
Who me? 😳
I would never touch the Devil’s horn!
How often?
Constantly. So, technically, only once.
Do you do mutual?
I mean, I’m not against it, but if she’s there I’d rather touch her.
Do you masturbate with your partner?
See above.
HYE been caught masturbating by your partner?
Not to the extent where I'm wearing headphones, watching hot spit-roasting videos and screaming ā€œYeah! Give it to me, fuck me in the ass!ā€ Only to turn around and see she has entered the living room with her Bible studies group. I want that to happen, but it has yet to happen. šŸ˜Ž
Do you toys or objects? If so please share.
I’m not much of a toy guy. Using hers on her, yes. For me, not so much.
Do you like to watch masturbation?
Yes, a hot gif. But it takes too long otherwise.
Do you like to be watched while masturbating?
Not necessarily. But also not not necessarily. It isn’t something I would do intentionally, but if it happened I would think it was hot.
 
Masturbation

Do you masturbate?
Yes. Not well, perhaps, but yes.
How often?
Varies. I have masturbated multiple times in a day, or even more than once in a session. And I have gone for a while between as well. I've not been of a mood, so it has been quite a while right now.
Do you do mutual?
I have, and love it.
Do you masturbate with your partner?
See above?
HYE been caught masturbating by your partner?
There is a great quote by Alonzo Bodden on why boyfriends don't like to give a woman the keys to their place: "Ladies, we aren't afraid you will walk in on us making love to another woman. We are afraid you will walk in on us making love to ourselves."

That said, no. That said, I have walked in on my partners masturbating at least twice, and told them not to stop. We progressed from there, once to mutual, once to something similar.
Do you toys or objects? If so please share.
I have, and I don't share my toys. That is very unhygienic!

Oh, what do I own? Sorry, yes. I have recently delved into toys. I have a couple of sleeves when I am looking for that, I have some frenulum vibrators, and have a Vector+ that I don't quite have dialed in yet. And I have posted at least one review in the Sex Toy review thread, and I am working on another.
Do you like to watch masturbation?
Very, very much so. One, with a partner, I want to find out what she enjoys -- I want to learn how to make love to her. From a recording, I love to watch and to listen. Good audio is vital for me. I have become very much into auralism, and listening to a woman masturbate and orgasm is incredibly powerful to me.
Do you like to be watched while masturbating?
I had a partner who liked to watch me masturbate, but usually as a tease to her rather than to completion. And I had a partner who enjoyed me recording audio while I masturbated, not just telling her what I was doing, but also what I was imaging doing with and to her -- very vocal. I loved that, and she seemed to as well.
HYE masturbated on cam with another?
Not on cam, no. Simultaneously on audio, sending them back and forth in real time, and that was about as sexy a thing as I have experienced.
 
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So Marquis Mark brings it to the public’s attention . . .

. . . but Bend Over Boyfriend really sticks it in and breaks it off?

I’m surprised it’s as recent as 1998. Considering today how many guys admit to taking it like a man, one must assume there are even more out there. For it to become that popular in 26 years is pretty impressive considering we have millions of years of ā€œdon’t drop the soapā€ jokes preceding it.

This is the kind of research that this thread desperately needs. ā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļø

What?! 😳

Yep.
Never underestimate the power of a Dan Savage neologism!

Only if you send a slot for me to file it in.

*whispers* Amber, if you need someone to hold your hand while you file the restraining order, i got you
 
Masturbation
Yes
Do you masturbate?
Does Dolly Parton sleep on her back?
How often?
3-4 times a week is pretty average
Do you do mutual?
I have
Do you masturbate with your partner?
N/A
HYE been caught masturbating by your partner?
It's happened before, yes. Nothing too crazy to report
Do you toys or objects? If so please share.
I've used a couple. Tenga Eggs were a little weird. Never used a fleshlight and I feel like I might be missing out
Do you like to watch masturbation?
Not especially, there's almost always something more arousing to see
Do you like to be watched while masturbating?
Only if I'm in the right frame of mind.
HYE masturbated on cam with another?
Yeah, super fun with an encouraging partner
 
Do you masturbate?
Yes. I go through phases of when I do more than others. Right now I'm in a little bit of a lull. But I am about to ovulate and that usually gives me ideas.

How often?

Sometimes a couple times a day. Sometimes a couple times a month. There's no regularity to it. I started writing about it a few years ago when I decided to actually give it a decent attempt. I tried to masturbate once a day back then just to see if I could build the habit. It worked.

Do you do mutual?

Not nearly as often as I would like. That's mostly because when I'm naked with someone I'm usually more interested in sex.

Do you masturbate with your partner?

Again, not nearly as often as I would like.

HYE been caught masturbating by your partner?

Yes

Do you toys or objects? If so please share.

Yes. Mostly toys. Vibrators, wands. I like clitoral stimulation and riding a stainless steel wand.

Do you like to watch masturbation?

I have to be curious about the person. Yes.

Do you like to be watched while masturbating?

It doesn't happen often. I think I would love it.

HYE masturbated on cam with another?

yes
 
Masturbation

Do you masturbate?
Yes.
How often?
When the mood takes. Sometimes twice a day. Sometimes twice a week.
Do you do mutual?
Yes.
Do you masturbate with your partner?
N/A
HYE been caught masturbating by your partner?
No.
Do you toys or objects? If so please share.
Yes. I have a collection. I use them in conjunction with each other depending on mood and need.
Ive been single a long time. Don't judge me.
If I could find something to simulate groping my boobs, giving me hugs and bring me brekkie, I'd be a very satisfied lady.
Do you like to watch masturbation?
If it's someone I have a connection with then yes.
Do you like to be watched while masturbating?
I never have. Maybe in person? I dont know.
HYE masturbated on cam with another?
No. Audio, yes.
 
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