**Confessions of a Wife**

I agree absolutely.

It's such a shame really but I understand why people keep things to themselves. Maybe because fantasy has the possibility of being ruined by reality.

Have you been afraid to share anything with your partner? (Assuming you are with someone...)
 
I have for sure. I have always been on the adventurous side of sex. And the start of any relationship always begins that way. However, in my experience after the initial candle settles, the rest is a slow burner.

Same...I think this is because of familiarity and a fear of rocking the boat.

I once fucked a young Japanese woman, but before sex she was nervous and wanted to chat about it, which I thought was healthy. We spent a couple of hours talking about fantasies and experiences. There was no jealousy or surprise because we had just met earlier that week. It was great hearing her stories and telling mine. Unfortunately in LTR's some people become possessive or think that discussing a fantasy for the first time is a sign that s/he is looking elsewhere or bored. If people would just accept their partners as human and ever-changing life would be a lot smoother.
 
Same...I think this is because of familiarity and a fear of rocking the boat.

I once fucked a young Japanese woman, but before sex she was nervous and wanted to chat about it, which I thought was healthy. We spent a couple of hours talking about fantasies and experiences. There was no jealousy or surprise because we had just met earlier that week. It was great hearing her stories and telling mine. Unfortunately in LTR's some people become possessive or think that discussing a fantasy for the first time is a sign that s/he is looking elsewhere or bored. If people would just accept their partners as human and ever-changing life would be a lot smoother.
Yeah I agree.

I'm surprised that we as a society are open to so many things but open sex relationships are still not.

I'm not saying I want one. I'm just talking as society is open to so much more these days I'm surprised this subject isn't bad common.

You are right when you say in relationships jealousy occurs and probably stops people from sharing thoughts.

I suppose it's a case of " am I not enough"
 
Well,

I'm one of those women who have no interest in football except the big tournaments. Then I find myself unwilling wrapped up in the emotion and heartbreak.

Feeling sad today that England just couldn't get over the line.

I even made some photos that I thought I would share if England won.

We didn't sadly, but the photos remain in my gallery and I must delete them soon, before my husband sees them.

I will post one soon
 
Yeah I agree.

I'm surprised that we as a society are open to so many things but open sex relationships are still not.

I'm not saying I want one. I'm just talking as society is open to so much more these days I'm surprised this subject isn't bad common.

You are right when you say in relationships jealousy occurs and probably stops people from sharing thoughts.

I suppose it's a case of " am I not enough"

Exactly, people take it personally instead of accepting that someone can have varied sexual fantasies. Ego is a powerful force. My partner knows I have appetites and I accept that she does too. We don't have an open relationship but I wouldn't be against it, as I'm a bit of a libertine.
 
Exactly, people take it personally instead of accepting that someone can have varied sexual fantasies. Ego is a powerful force. My partner knows I have appetites and I accept that she does too. We don't have an open relationship but I wouldn't be against it, as I'm a bit of a libertine.
It's about understanding each other.

I've cheated once. And if in honest, I'm ever so tempted to do it again.

I'm not advocating cheating, and I used to think it's the lowest of the lowest.

However, I can see why people do cheat now.

Before, I couldn't. Now it makes sense.

I'm pretty sure my husband has cheated. I have my suspicions because we don't have a sex life.

In fact, we had sex last night. It was unimaginative, boring and I felt like I was going through the motions.

If I'm completely honest, I don't find my husband attractive anymore. That sounds bad and sad. 😞
 
I think you should maybe walk away! I hope theres no kids involved to avoid any messy divorce etc, but if u cant be happy then why stay now!

Also can we see at least one photo
 
This has the threat of turning into the ramblings of a crazy woman....

But...

I can't stop thinking about how it felt to make another man cum. To be the reason he had an orgasam. I just can't shake that thought.

I never thought I would cheat and was disappointed with myself for ages after. However, I just kept thinking about it and I get these deep rooted feelings of .....desire, sex, lust.
 
Maybe go to male strip joint and get ur kicks in hehe or an escort in a hotel somewhere far away for one night or just tell the hubby u need sex
 
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