Cock Talk

[deefalttwunnyfor]

Oh, no one was asking that. Dear God, if I was unclear, please let me restate. In fact, I think the true way to end sadness at Lit is to post boobs. Or PM them to me.

You greedy turd, PM them to me too!

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

I'm fucked by a coven of witches

Abomination and Aunt May have come a long way

 

[morelikeasong]

I feel very welcome in S&S, but I absolutely see how it could feel like a club/clique. I don’t think that’s a bad thing, it’s just a fact. Humans form groups, it’s in our nature. Some people have a harder time breaking into established groups than others. There are a lot of factors that go into it like personality, time commitment, sense of humor, internet literacy, etc.
I try to be welcoming in all the spaces I’m in, but I’m sure I also naturally show preference toward my friends.

 

[OrdinaryPerson]

I feel very welcome in S&S, but I absolutely see how it could feel like a club/clique. I don’t think that’s a bad thing, it’s just a fact. Humans form groups, it’s in our nature. Some people have a harder time breaking into established groups than others. There are a lot of factors that go into it like personality, time commitment, sense of humor, internet literacy, etc.
I try to be welcoming in all the spaces I’m in, but I’m sure I also naturally show preference toward my friends.

I don't think there is anything wrong with people having friends on here. And for the most part I think everyone is friendly to everyone with something meaningful to say. I never thought oh I can't reply to someone on a thread because I'm not a part of their group of friends.

Yes, there's lots of people that do know each other very well on s&s and that can be very obvious depending on who is around. It can be hard for a new person to get a thread I think if they don't understand the long running jokes. But I don't think anyone only responds to their friends there. The proof is all the new people that have been regulars at one time or the other on the thread for the last year.

If someone doesn't get a response, I think it's because they are not posting anything interesting, funny, or thoughtful. Or they have burned so many bridges with people who post on there that enough people don't want to respond to them anymore that they can feel a difference.

 

[Amanda330]

I at no point questioned your experience. I think I was as neutral as I could be-I truly don’t dislike the thread-but i do not understand how you can not see that some folks are not treated the same as others.

I never said you questioned my experience? Also, I'm pretty sure I admitted lit is a very individualized experience and you vibe differently with different people. But I also think that our behavior impacts our experience and how we are accepted.

If you watch the thread or look back at the thread you will see that some folks get more likes or responses than others. Some people get absolutely none over and over again. They choose to be there and they are presumably not complaining however they are not included.

Occasionally my posts get no likes and that's fine. Lol. I don't post to get likes. I post because I have too much shit to say - as evidenced here. Also, there are always responses that that get more likes than others in every thread.

What I am saying is that S&S is not the inclusive garden or Eden of Lit. I am also not saying it needs to be. There is no judgement of your experience but it is not universal.

I didn't feel judged and I wasn't judging you - I hope that was clear.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

When taking or receiving sexy selfies, what is typical . . .

Do you tend to post them in a thread or in a PM?

Almost never in threads. Occasionally in PMs when requested…and I want to
Also, I hadn’t taken a selfie in years before I came back to Lit.

Do you post naked pics, or sexy teasing pics more often?

I never post naked pics in the forum and only rarely post pictures at all. I’m more of a private exhibitionist for a variety of reasons. One part of it is that I like the direct interaction. Authentic reactions are incredibly hot…which is why public nudes can be “easier” or less intimate a lot of the time.

I’m a huge fan of the art of the tease though. And anticipation.

Are your PM pics more revealing than the public ones?

Yes, but PMs are a pain in the ass to share pictures. If I’ve shared them that way, it means I think you’re worth the effort.

Do you share your naked pics at the drop of a hat, or are you more discriminating?

I’ll share my boobs in PM with people I like…or that make a really funny joke I’m more laid back about it now than when I started hanging out in the forum a couple of years ago.

Anything more than boobs and I get extremely selective.

How often do you/have you shared naked pics on Literotica? Regularly, Blue Moon, when needed, only when requested, never?

Never. I’ve posted a couple cleavage shots and some teasing pictures. Themes and threads where the flow that day/night is just magical and fun are much more likely to get me to post and be more lax in my mental public pic filter. I think the holiday ornament theme from Salty and a recent B&W theme have prompted the most skin from me. Still not naked and only a hint of nipple though.

What is the sexiest pic you ever took—don’t post it, describe it in hot ‘n sexy words?

I think that’s a very ephemeral and vacillating thing for me. It depends on my mood. The ones that have ranked high over time are ones that I associate with a particular person or a hot as hell memory.

Do you like getting pics in your PM, solicited, unsolicited, or only from people you have a connection with?

Only solicited and those are great. Once we’ve established a connection and an intimate enough relationship, I want to see all the pictures, videos, and audio they are willing to share. And I will reciprocate and love every minute of it.

Why are guys SO willing to share dick pics?

I think it’s often the single thing they associate most with their own sexuality, so it’s their way of peacocking. Plus a high percentage of men are very visual and people tend to see the world as they are.

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

If someone doesn't get a response, I think it's because they are not posting anything interesting, funny, or thoughtful.

This doesn't make sense. Sometimes my nudes don't get any likes, but I'm pretty sure that's because there's a cabal of lesbians that are hiding my posts so they can maintain the female dominance on this site

 

[Lord Pmann]

All this has been going down (heehee) on hotwords thread and he's dead silent. Just sitting and masturbating to his uber successful thread.

And then he just simply "likes" Lady L's post.

Well-played you magnificent bastard.

 

[Lord Pmann]

This doesn't make sense. Sometimes my nudes don't get any likes, but I'm pretty sure that's because there's a cabal of lesbians that are hiding my posts so they can maintain the female dominance on this site

Dude, if a girl doesn't like your Pic or post, it's simply because she's a lesbian or hates men. But give me one night with her and I'll have her loving dick in no time.

*secret exclusionary hi five*

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

I think it’s often the single thing they associate most with their own sexuality, so it’s their way of peacocking. Plus a high percentage of men are very visual and people tend to see the world as they are.

Hey! That's... incredible accurate. Carry on

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

Dude, if a girl doesn't like your Pic or post, it's simply because she's a lesbian or hates men. But give me one night with her and I'll have her loving dick in no time.

*secret exclusionary hi five*

https://y.yarn.co/456daf0b-d7b6-45bc-a516-c9ca046ee18b_text.gif

 

[Photog1rl]

Dude, if a girl doesn't like your Pic or post, it's simply because she's a lesbian or hates men. But give me one night with her and I'll have her loving dick in no time.

*secret exclusionary hi five*

Most definitely the only reasons or they are blind and couldn’t see.

 

[UnquietDreams]

I don't think there is anything wrong with people having friends on here. And for the most part I think everyone is friendly to everyone with something meaningful to say. I never thought oh I can't reply to someone on a thread because I'm not a part of their group of friends.

Yes, there's lots of people that do know each other very well on s&s and that can be very obvious depending on who is around. It can be hard for a new person to get a thread I think if they don't understand the long running jokes. But I don't think anyone only responds to their friends there. The proof is all the new people that have been regulars at one time or the other on the thread for the last year.

If someone doesn't get a response, I think it's because they are not posting anything interesting, funny, or thoughtful. Or they have burned so many bridges with people who post on there that enough people don't want to respond to them anymore that they can feel a difference.

Looking at it from someone who came to it relatively recently, S&S is a complex ecosystem. There are layers to it, amidst the core posters and the inside jokes. To say "it is this," or "it is this" is probably too simple, as it all depends on the viewers perspective. Some of it is easy to access, with patience, intuition, and the ability to look back and learn the topography. But some of it is far too dense for even that. There are personality types that thrive in the way it moves and changes. But honestly, if you aren't willing to put in at least some work, it is not easy.

It can be inclusive, but I don't think you can say by nature it is inclusive.

 

[Photog1rl]

@hotwords229_A has there been a discussion about circumcision? I know there was a map of %’s of circumsized men posted on the cock map thread but has the chance to diacuss it here passed?

Edited to fix my ding dong typos.

 

[OrdinaryPerson]

Looking at it from someone who came to it relatively recently, S&S is a complex ecosystem. There are layers to it, amidst the core posters and the inside jokes. To say "it is this," or "it is this" is probably too simple, as it all depends on the viewers perspective. Some of it is easy to access, with patience, intuition, and the ability to look back and learn the topography. But some of it is far too dense for even that. There are personality types that thrive in the way it moves and changes. But honestly, if you aren't willing to put in at least some work, it is not easy.

It can be inclusive, but I don't think you can say by nature it is inclusive.

I don't think it is inclusive, nor is it any more exclusive than anywhere that friends might gather. I think there's nothing wrong with that. Most long time posters on the playground keep coming back here because their friends are here.

I merely mean S&s is not an impenetrable clique of people that purposefully only respond to their friends. And lots of "new" people have become friends on that thread. It's also just not a warm and fuzzy thread where people will only say nice things to you. So of course only some people will feel comfortable.

 

[OrdinaryPerson]

This doesn't make sense. Sometimes my nudes don't get any likes

This actually doesn't make any sense

 

[LadyLascivious1]

You missed my penance boobs and nudes

What were you doing penance for?!

And were there whips and chains? Asking for me

*my autocorrect changed “penance” to “pregnancy” at first and I laughed my ass off

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

*my autocorrect changed “penance” to “pregnancy”

That's my very fertile department

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

This actually doesn't make any sense

You're telling me. It's either the lesbos or because I set a timer on certain pics to delete after 5 minutes. Probably the former though, because I'm certain that everyone sits on the edge of their seat to see whether the great, might, and proportionately hung default has posted

 

[UnquietDreams]

I don't think it is inclusive, nor is it any more exclusive than anywhere that friends might gather. I think there's nothing wrong with that. Most long time posters on the playground keep coming back here because their friends are here.

I merely mean S&s is not an impenetrable clique of people that purposefully only respond to their friends. It's also not a warm and fuzzy thread where people will only say nice things to you.

Because of its size (no cheap joke there for me) and the way it...changes? evolves? something like that...at such speed, it is a fascinating place to watch and play. It is one of my two main points on Lit (the other being the Music Challenge thread, which moves and works far differently). But I can also see where it would feel adamantine for a new person, especially one who doesn't read the room and tries too hard too quickly. Even in the time I have been there, I have watched such attempts crash and burn hard. There is a subtlety there that isn't necessarily apparent when you first watch it all. As I said, it is a complex system.

 

[morelikeasong]

You're telling me. It's either the lesbos or because I set a timer on certain pics to delete after 5 minutes. Probably the former though, because I'm certain that everyone sits on the edge of their seat to see whether the great, might, and proportionately hung default has posted

Can you post so I can get off the edge?

 

[UnquietDreams]

I'm certain that everyone sits on the edge of their seat to see whether the great, might, and proportionately hung default has posted

I'm all for the edging.

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

Can you post so I can get off the edge?

As long as you land on my hungry face, sure

 

[OrdinaryPerson]

You're telling me. It's either the lesbos or because I set a timer on certain pics to delete after 5 minutes. Probably the former though, because I'm certain that everyone sits on the edge of their seat to see whether the great, might, and proportionately hung default has posted

I know I do

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

I know I do

Atta girl

Buuuuuuuuuut, can you explain why there's no like on my post in the ol' soft cock thread then? #busted