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By your definition every group of female friends is cliquey when it excludes men. When the truth is we want a safe space to discuss everything from the dreaded episiotomy to bottom surgery without guys chiming in with opinions that have zero true understanding of our lived experience. Lord knows @hotwords229_A doesn't need more period talk & lactation horror stories in his thread 😂
 
By your definition every group of female friends is cliquey when it excludes men. When the truth is we want a safe space to discuss everything from the dreaded episiotomy to bottom surgery without guys chiming in with opinions that have zero true understanding of our lives experience. Lord knows @hotwords229_A doesn't need more period talk & lactation horror stories in his thread 😂
He’s gonna be sad when he sees the entrance requirement for friendly vag club.
 
By your definition every group of female friends is cliquey when it excludes men. When the truth is we want a safe space to discuss everything from the dreaded episiotomy to bottom surgery without guys chiming in with opinions that have zero true understanding of our lives experience. Lord knows @hotwords229_A doesn't need more period talk & lactation horror stories in his thread 😂
It’s not my definition, it’s the Oxford dictionary. I just used the word appropriately. 🤷🏻
 
Yeah, typically not a nice thing to accuse people of being a part of. So why, without context, would you accuse her of being cliquey just because she talks to people offline?
I made a simple joke, and it hit a nerve. I have to ask why?
 
I made a simple joke, and it hit a nerve. I have to ask why?
No nerve, I'm just sad for you. I've seen you around, tried to be kind. I try to assume the best and answer your queries honestly. I truly believe that an ounce of mutual understanding is worth a pound of being right.

However, you don't appear to have questioned in good faith or tried to look beyond your own view to see why ladies like to congregate, (or as an amigovio calls it, hens like to cluck) Instead, you have an agenda, an angle, a point to prove. You need me to be wrong in order to validate your inner sense of right and wrong. I can't help but wonder what the familial relationships were that formed you, or groups/teachings that you subscribe to that make you this way.

We are a social species, we hunger for connection. You won't find it, particularly with women, with this type of parlay.

so you think I’m right handed now? 😂
Of course not, I would never make assumptions about a stranger on the internet. Aren't we going by Webster's definition today? I was just using the 3rd & 4th most common.

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One man’s opinion and not the only definition
Don’t all of them involve laughter or mirth on some level. If you can find a definition of a joke where you comment achieved it, I’ll grant you credit. So far it’s earned none laughs though.

Oh wait………


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No nerve, I'm just sad for you. I've seen you around, tried to be kind. I try to assume the best and answer your queries honestly. I truly believe that an ounce of mutual understanding is worth a pound of being right.

However, you don't appear to have questioned in good faith or tried to look beyond your own view to see why ladies like to congregate, (or as an amigovio calls it, hens like to cluck) Instead, you have an agenda, an angle, a point to prove. You need me to be wrong in order to validate your inner sense of right and wrong. I can't help but wonder what the familial relationships were that formed you, or groups/teachings that you subscribe to that make you this way.

We are a social species, we hunger for connection. You won't find it, particularly with women, with this type of parlay.


Of course not, I would never make assumptions about a stranger on the internet. Aren't we going by Webster's definition today? I was just using the 3rd & 4th most common.

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You’ve been nothing but kind to me and I appreciate it. I was merely pointing out that the play ground can be cliquey.
 
You’ve been nothing but kind to me and I appreciate it. I was merely pointing out that the play ground can be cliquey.
I don't think it's cliquey. I think there are people who connect because of shared interest with the goal of friendship. There's nothing wrong with that.

Maybe you would feel less alone if you listened more and offered opinions that seem to be a bit misguided a bit less.

The people here are fun and lovely, for the most part. It's human nature to want to make connections based off lived experience. Calling that "cliquey" makes it seem like we are being exclusionary... Which just isn't the case.
 
You’ve been nothing but kind to me and I appreciate it. I was merely pointing out that the play ground can be cliquey.
Just because you can stretch a dictionary definition beyond its usual context doesn't really make it clever. And I thought it was a joke rather than pointing out something. As an impartial observer, it looks more like doubling down.
 
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