Cock Talk

[Wriggle]

I use as an acknowledgement
When I love it
If it blows me away - either from shocking me or absolutely pleasing me.

Wows are my favourite

 

[Photog1rl]

I typically don’t post on public threads, but I do love sharing in private conversations with people I have already developed some sort of connection with. I don’t know if that is validation. Is it?

I don’t think of that as validation or at least not in the same way. When I am sharing in private it is because I want that person to see what I am choosing to share just with them. It is part of our connection or relationship(used loosely not to define anything). It can be validating (at least for me) because it usually met with a positive response or sharing that let’s me know that the desired impact was achieved.

I never thought of it that way. I get really turned on by it because someone else is. It’s more the exchange of something arousing with the one person I am sharing with, not the likes of a bunch of strangers I don’t know.

Absolutely this!

Sorry for the ramble. I don’t know if any of that made any sense. . I guess what I am trying to say is I get super turned on by it under very specific circumstances.

I am a total rambler-clearly-so no judgment here

The whole subject is facinating.

Me too!

I enjoy the “wow”

Wows are my favourite

Omg the wows are my most stressful. I overthink in an instant. I have even been known to send a PM and check in.
This isn’t usually about my photos but on my comments in threads-it will drive me crazy.

 

[Photog1rl]

You have a massive fanclub/following PG.

I will acknowledge that I do have a lot of people that follow me but what does that really signify? There are some folks that regularly like my photos and engage with me and this definitely provides some comfort when posting but it doesn’t mean I’m immune to feeling apprehensive about posting or that it isn’t still a pushing of the boundaries when I share.

This is not a woe is me response but a high number of followers does not equate to a high number of meaningful interactions.

 

[Amanda330]

The trick is not to pay attention to the reactions.

Teach me how to do this? Lol. And you know you pay attention. We have discussed this.

I post because I'm a tart!

SAME! That's why I like you and your sexy legs, BG. A tart just like me.

I use as an acknowledgement
When I love it
If it blows me away - either from shocking me or absolutely pleasing me.

I dislike liking anything. But sometimes I just agree. If it's a pic I ALWAYS love it because everyone deserves some love for being vulnerable and sharing themselves.

 

[Wriggle]

Teach me how to do this? Lol. And you know you pay attention. We have discussed this.

Don't make me shush you again
I have no idea how many reactions or who reacted to my last nudie post (I think it was red kisses)
I know you it.

SAME! That's why I like you and your sexy legs, BG. A tart just like me.

ING all the tarts

I dislike liking anything. But sometimes I just agree. If it's a pic I ALWAYS love it because everyone deserves some love for being vulnerable and sharing themselves.

Is basically an agree.

I even the men sharing themselves. Everyone who shares should feel comfortable and happy doing so.

 

[Wriggle]

I will acknowledge that I do have a lot of people that follow me but what does that really signify? There are some folks that regularly like my photos and engage with me and this definitely provides some comfort when posting but it doesn’t mean I’m immune to feeling apprehensive about posting or that it is still a pushing of the boundaries when I share.

This is not a woe is me response but a high number of followers does not equate to a high number of meaningful interactions.

But they actually like you and are attracted to you.

The meaningful reaction is probably because of sex brain making drool think.

 

[Amanda330]

Don't make me shush you again
I have no idea how many reactions or who reacted to my last nudie post (I think it was red kisses)
I know you it.

Edited to add - this is what I wanted to say in the first place - you shush me one more time and I won't be MandaPanda anymore. I'll be murder panda.

I loved it because... I love you. And it's a fab pic!

ING all the tarts

Is basically an agree.

I know but it just feels less enthusiastic to me. I dislike it.

I even the men sharing themselves. Everyone who shares should feel comfortable and happy doing so.

 

[LostHorizon]

I don’t think of that as validation or at least not in the same way. When I am sharing in private it is because I want that person to see what I am choosing to share just with them. It is part of our connection or relationship(used loosely not to define anything). It can be validating (at least for me) because it usually met with a positive response or sharing that let’s me know that the desired impact was achieved.

Exactly. It’s the interpersonal connection of the exchange. The visual stimuli is secondary to the “desired impact” of the other person that is achieved as result of it. If that makes any sense. Sharing in that experience as much as possible is the turn on for me.

I imagine this is why some women enjoy tributes. Knowing that their picture brought a man to orgasm and pleasure. That’s what they have told me about it anyway.

 

[Apisto42]

This surprises me. I don’t find it stressful at all. Maybe a little nerve-wracking, but in a good way. Fun!

The reactions are great because you now know that the people you were hoping to see it saw it.
I enjoy the “wow” reaction because I don’t know if it’s a good wow, or a bad wow, or just a regular wow.

It seems like it’s just good, clean, sexy fun.

Eh, the public ones it’s kind of like “too much? Fit the theme? Funny?”. Whereas in pm, there’s more … freedom? Sexy, funny, no worries about what might be seen?

 

[Photog1rl]

I know but it just feels less enthusiastic to me. I dislike it.

Some folks hate the like reaction actively. They feel it is passive aggressive.
I use it when I agree with something but I try to every photo of someone sharing themselves. Like you and @Wriggle said everyone should feel comfortable and get pumped up when they share!

 

[Apisto42]

Some folks hate the like reaction actively. They feel it is passive aggressive.
I use it when I agree with something but I try to every photo of someone sharing themselves. Like you and @Wriggle said everyone should feel comfortable and get pumped up when they share!

I feel like the reaction is stronger, like an exclamation in regular writing. Of course these days, everyone uses ! for saying even things like “Good Morning!” I think in some attempt to portray excitement about being at work.

If someone posts a picture, I’ll generally use a , but for other things I have no issue with the like reaction.

 

[Photog1rl]

I feel like the reaction is stronger, like an exclamation in regular writing. Of course these days, everyone uses ! for saying even things like “Good Morning!” I think in some attempt to portray excitement about being at work.

If someone posts a picture, I’ll generally use a , but for other things I have no issue with the like reaction.

I probably overuse the heart reaction and the exclamation mark but it is who I am-enthusiastic and all in!

 

[Wriggle]

Edited to add - this is what I wanted to say in the first place - you shush me one more time and I won't be MandaPanda anymore. I'll be murder panda.

Woah woah woah.

You shushed me last
I don't do it unless you make me blush.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Some folks hate the like reaction actively. They feel it is passive aggressive.
I use it when I agree with something but I try to every photo of someone sharing themselves. Like you and @Wriggle said everyone should feel comfortable and get pumped up when they share!

Now I feel weird “liking” a post!

I actually wish there was a dislike button as well as a only and not just the , because sometimes you want to give someone a loving “I understand” over the “I want to put my penis in your vagina”especially when they are having a difficult time.

I would totally accept if only my posts had a dislike button. I want the truth!

 

[Wriggle]

The smiling love is totally inappropriate sometimes when I just need to send love.

 

[Bry1313]

I ended up with 5 pics in the pms (2 from the same poster)

But, it occurred to me, by saying I would be happy to see them I can no longer call them unsolicited.

I’m still at zero, I really need to stop benchmarking myself on you

 

[Wriggle]

Bry, mate
60% were chickens and the word penis.

2 were very sexy though and deffo not male.

 

[Bry1313]

Edited to add - this is what I wanted to say in the first place - you shush me one more time and I won't be MandaPanda anymore. I'll be murder panda.

Hush you, don’t be threatening nice people.

 

[Bry1313]

Bry, mate
60% were chickens and the word penis.

2 were very sexy though and deffo not male.

My last PM was a PM suggesting they were gonna try and get ball pics for a ball-alogue from other dudes. I’ll keep their identity secret to respect everyone’s privacy here.

 

[Amanda330]

Hush you, don’t be threatening nice people.

Wow. I'll threaten whoever I want to threaten. And they'll like it.

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[Wriggle]

Hush you, don’t be threatening nice people.

I like murder panda.
She's feisty.

 

[Wriggle]

My last PM was a PM suggesting they were gonna try and get ball pics for a ball-alogue from other dudes. I’ll keep their identity secret to respect everyone’s privacy here.

I saw a thread where someone was asking for posters' penii so they could make a video for the penis lovers of lit.

I didn't participate in that one.

 

[Amanda330]

I saw a thread where someone was asking for posters' penii so they could make a video for the penis lovers of lit.

I didn't participate in that one.

Shocked.

 

[Photog1rl]

I saw a thread where someone was asking for posters' penii so they could make a video for the penis lovers of lit.

I didn't participate in that one.

There had been talk of trading cards.
Photo on the front. Stats on the back.

 

[Amanda330]

There had been talk of trading cards.
Photo on the front. Stats on the back.

But can you imagine if men did that to women?

What kind of stats?