Cock Talk

If only they would . . .

What fantasy do you have that your partner just isn’t into?
So many things.....soooooo many things.
Have you ever done something sexual for your partner that you weren’t really into, but you know they are?
No, that has yet to happen.
What fantasy does your partner have that you just can’t work yourself up to try?
Not so much.
Do you tease them about their fantasy, or do you like to be teased about yours? (Friendly tease), or is it never brought up?
Seldom ever brought up. But I would enjoy it if it was more of a conversation on occasion.
Do you have a fantasy that is based on things that are out of your control? Like, being captured and stripped by Amazon women, forced femdom, etc? Something that you wished would happen, but you can’t make happen?
Nothing that cums comes to mind immediately but I like the idea of being captured with PLP and the Amazon Women.
When you have that itch that can’t be scratched, how do you satisfy it on your own?
I thought that is why most of us were here on Lit?
Does it cause you concern if your partner has a fantasy that you don’t share?
It hasn't happened yet, but I don't think it would concern me if it did. I know we are each unique and have our own tastes.
 
What fantasy do you have that your partner just isnEngland?
Uh, all of them. Anything outside of missionary with the lights dim freaks him out a bit. So bringing up anything is a bit dicey, I know I'll get shot down, but I'm never going to stop trying

Have you ever done something sexual for your partner that you weren’t really into, but you know they are?
Yes, but it's lame: white lingerie. He loves that shit, and it just makes my skin crawl. I'm an adult women, who loves sex. White makes me feel like I'm being infantilized, or like he's got a virginity fetish he's not fessing up to. But, I wear it once in awhile.

What fantasy does your partner have that you just can’t work yourself up to try?
None that I'm aware of. I've tried to pull anything from the dark corners of his mind, and there just isn't any. The closest I've gotten to him sharing a fantasy is "there's several of you and one of me". I can't clone myself, and won't entertain a threesome, so we're at an impasse, I guess 🤷‍♀️

Do you tease them about their fantasy, or do you like to be teased about yours? (Friendly tease), or is it never brought up?
he's never brought it up again after I broached the topic.

Do you have a fantasy that is based on things that are out of your control? Like, being captured and stripped by Amazon women, forced femdom, etc? Something that you wished would happen, but you can’t make happen?
I have tons of fantasies that aren't attainable in real life. Wife sharing/swapping, persuasion/coersion, clandestine quickies with a Lit amigovio, group sex, etc. I've got hundreds of not-going-to-happen scenarios tucked away in my mental spank bank. It keeps me sane.

When you have that itch that can’t be scratched, how do you satisfy it on your own?
Either reach into the aforementioned spank bank, or reach out to an amigovio for some online fun

Does it cause you concern if your partner has a fantasy that you don’t share?
Nope, short of anything illegal, I'd just be over the moon that he had a fantasy he'd be willing to share. Hell, I'd be likely to do it even if it gave me the ick, just to fister an environment that would encourage
 
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What fantasy do you have that your partner just isn’t into?
Technically I don't have a partner. At least not one full time. So I'll use the next best thing. A situationship partner...

Probably a MMF threesome... I could probably talk him into it if I tried though. I just don't want to push someone's boundaries and convince them to do something they aren't comfortable with.
Have you ever done something sexual for your partner that you weren’t really into, but you know they are?
When I was married my ex used to love having anal and for me it was just... not something I loved. However, when we did a lot of foreplay and if he really focused on turning me on I'd get to a point that I really enjoyed it. Those orgasms were amazing.
What fantasy does your partner have that you just can’t work yourself up to try?
None. We're pretty evenly matched at the moment. He likes similar things to me.
Do you tease them about their fantasy, or do you like to be teased about yours? (Friendly tease), or is it never brought up?
We tease each other about pretty much anything and everything. Sexually we are very much on the same page. The real issue is that he lives in another country so we don't get as much time together as I'd like.
Do you have a fantasy that is based on things that are out of your control? Like, being captured and stripped by Amazon women, forced femdom, etc? Something that you wished would happen, but you can’t make happen?
No. But I don't mind bindings if I consent to it.
When you have that itch that can’t be scratched, how do you satisfy it on your own?
Online play . This is my preference over anything else tbh. But if they aren't available then I'm happy to take care of my own needs as often and creatively as possible. Porn also helps in a pinch.
Does it cause you concern if your partner has a fantasy that you don’t share?
Not at all. It's an opportunity to broaden my own sexual horizons.
 
I like the idea of being captured with PLP and the Amazon Women.
Join the club! Seriously, she should start some kind of guided tour, fantasy sex camp.
I know I'll get shot down, but I'm never going to stop trying
Keep fighting the good fight! 🙂
Yes, but it's lame: white lingerie. He loves that shit, and it just makes my skin crawl. I'm an adult women, who loves sex. White makes me feel like I'm being infantilized, or like he's got a virginity fetish he's not fessing up to. But, I wear it once in awhile.
Is there any possibility of negotiation? If you want me to keep wearing white lingerie like a Vestal Virgin then I’m gonna need you to put on this Roman Warrior costume?
group sex
Okay, now if he wants many of you and you’re willing to do group sex . . . can’t we work with that?
I feel like a car dealer! What am I going to have to do to get you in this car? 🤣
I kinda feel like that post should have carried a Please Don't Shoot the Messenger tag. 😂
Especially with what we shoot in this thread! 🤣
Darn it. I clicked on it expecting to see you dressed as a dominatrix. 😛 whip in hand!
One day. One day. 😛
 
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