Cock Talk

Who stole your Lit virginity?
Not someone from the forum. I met him in the chats, we exchanged email addresses and then we gchat for a while. His name was Carlos.
What Literotica thread opened you up more than expected and really let the perv in you out to play?
Not really a thread, but just exploring the different boards. I was always a voyeur but navigating around here, talking to people gave me the confidence to leave the game threads and start posting in the Variations thread and explore my exhibitionist side.
What Lister taught you some important (hopefully good) lesson about sex, online sex, or intimate relationship stuff that changed you?
I’ll state the obvious and name Carlos of course. He has to be one of the most kinkiest person I encountered here. The bewildering stories he told me will always stay with me. Then there was this lister on the boards who taught me the dynamics of lit-relationships. He’s not here anymore and I sure miss talking to him. And then there is one who has been a positive influence since we started talking and will not be named.
What have you learned, in general, about sex and relationships from your time here?
Most friendships and relationships here fizzle out in 2 months or less even if you’ve taken a stand for them. I have 3 people here that I love and trust and that’s enough for me. Some of the most popular, good looking people over here can have the ugliest of personalities. I made the mistake of getting involved with someone here, who once ran a very popular thread here, they gaslighted me. But it did give me the strength to put that person in their place.
Be vocal with your RL partner about how you want things sexually. And most importantly, guard your heart and trust your instincts.
What is something that has caused more confusion in you from your time on Lit?
Straight folks pretending to be bi. Why?
What sexual desire were you unaware of before coming here?
The need to be watched (if that makes sense).
What is something you thought you would never do that you have done on Lit?
Exhibitionism and sharing an orgasm with someone online.
Are you more guarded or less guarded (sexually) since your time on Lit?
Less guarded for sure.
Do you remember your first real interaction on Lit? Tell us:
This cop I used to talk to here (or were they even a cop?!)
What would you most like to know or ask that I didn’t think of in these questions?
How has your presence on lit impacted you as a person.
 
If only they would . . .


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What fantasy do you have that your partner just isn’t into?
Have you ever done something sexual for your partner that you weren’t really into, but you know they are?
What fantasy does your partner have that you just can’t work yourself up to try?
Do you tease them about their fantasy, or do you like to be teased about yours? (Friendly tease), or is it never brought up?
Do you have a fantasy that is based on things that are out of your control? Like, being captured and stripped by Amazon women, forced femdom, etc? Something that you wished would happen, but you can’t make happen?
When you have that itch that can’t be scratched, how do you satisfy it on your own?
Does it cause you concern if your partner has a fantasy that you don’t share?
 
I do miss the days when you could just punch a girl to let her know that you liked her. 🄰
That was flirting??? So my bad flirting goes all the way back to the playground? I mean, you're not supposed to kick a kids legs out from under him & lean an elbow on his neck? Or, run and tell your big brothers so they can? Who knew!
 
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If only they would . . .


What fantasy do you have that your partner just isn’t into?
Hah. Most of them. She’s a hell of a fuck, but fairly vanilla.
Have you ever done something sexual for your partner that you weren’t really into, but you know they are?
No, everything she ever wanted I was into.
What fantasy does your partner have that you just can’t work yourself up to try?
None.
Do you tease them about their fantasy, or do you like to be teased about yours? (Friendly tease), or is it never brought up?
NA
Do you have a fantasy that is based on things that are out of your control? Like, being captured and stripped by Amazon women, forced femdom, etc? Something that you wished would happen, but you can’t make happen?
One thing I learned from lit is that being submissive or not at least partially in control is not my thing.
When you have that itch that can’t be scratched, how do you satisfy it on your own?
Write.
Does it cause you concern if your partner has a fantasy that you don’t share?
No, and that was never an issue for me. Everyone has different fantasies and that’s a great thing.
 
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