Interesting. And I'd say completely true on the hole. I came here to understand my own personal sexuality. I've certainly not been open to, ah, approaches of another nature.
I've been pretty open, and it's led to some fun interactions. However, everyone has their hard limits that they're not going to compromise. For example, I don't need to be open to, or engage in, incest play in order to know that I'd be repulsed by it. However, partners have introduced things into our chats/cams that I wouldn't have considered on my own & surprisingly found erotic. To each their own.
I also wondered what the Shenanagator’s club was. @hotwords229_A, your answer did not clarify things at all*nods*
I think of it as e-sex. E-boning is icky.
Enny was so flustered by that situation she freaked out and left the board for two weeks when the behind the scenes PMs started flying.
And what, pray tell, is the Shenanagator's club?
#alwayscurious
I’ve found that to be true as well and I don’t mean in regards to hard limits. I would never want anyone to do things they’re not comfortable with, but I have been surprised that more people aren’t open to being a bit more adventurous.
I giggled out loud at this Freudian slip
It was a (now defunct) thread in the Playground from long ago. It wasn’t like an actual club or anything, just like a hangout thread. I guess I made it sound better than it was.I also wondered what the Shenanagator’s club was. @hotwords229_A, your answer did not clarify things at all
I’ve had a couple of PM group chats that might fall into this category. At their best it can be like a private thread where witty banter, stories, and more personal pictures flow.
There was a kik one that I was added to years ago.
I never joined kik, but it seems to be the message app that attracts a more hardcore group of people. I don’t know if that’s true, but any time I’ve seen a “hit me up on kik” note, the implication was “let’s fuck”.
I had one close call. As a former paramedic, there was no way in hell I was going to the ER. I've got one ride or die friend who I trust to help me. However, with tongs, a mirror, and furious coughing, I got it taken care of my own. She was the first friend I told of the incident and we laugh about it even now. Potential-Akward-ER-OBGYN-visit friends are the best.
I have always wondered this. We'll probably never know. The first rule of Sexy Cabal Club is you don't talk about Sexy Cabal Club!
I wonder many sperm you have to sacrifice to become a member?
Apparently it's a lot, because I've really been doing my best to join, yet I've received no invitations.
I’m curious what aspect was too much?
Former EMT here. Equally would avoid going to the ER for anything avoidable, especially if it were gossip worthy
I wonder if there is an exhibitionist fetish where you purposely get “into situations” that require some embarrassing medical attention.I’m curious what aspect was too much?
Former EMT here. Equally would avoid going to the ER for anything avoidable, especially if it were gossip worthy
It also means I’m almost unflappable and very calm under pressure.
I've actually been here a lot longer than I've been posting in the forum. A litster who is no longer around was my first.
Definitely Sex and Shenanigans and the Chaos. It took me a bit to feel comfortable enough to start posting in anything but the LAY or Name a Litster threads. Once I did though... well, I have yet to shut up.
Not necessarily regarding sex... Just lit in general, really... But I would also have to say that @Mr_bogey and @Bry1313 were friends with me pretty early on - I joined lit and posted for a while and for various reasons took a couple years off and just came back in January - they were both solid when I needed help or guidance on how to deal with certain guys who were not respectful of my boundaries. They've both been great friends and resources when I'm struggling with something on lit and need advice.
That sometimes you go into something thinking that because it's online it won't mean as much and you can keep things light and fun but the feelings are very real and you need to be careful who you trust with that part of yourself.
Hmm. Maybe wondering if I share too much of myself and trying to figure out where that boundary is and how to hold to it.
None.
Met someone in person and traveled with them on multiple occasions. I was very scared when I met him the first time but it was one of the best things I ever did for myself. He's become a life long friend.
Less. Much less. I grew up in a very sheltered home and my mom would turn movies off if kissing got a bit too intense. I don't remember having the sex talk ever... It's been a very good way to safely explore that part of myself with other like minded people who for the most part are extremely supportive and friendly.
My actual first interaction? No. Very early on though the man I've traveled with messaged me and we became friends very quickly.
Hmm... Do you feel like lit has boosted your confidence in yourself? What do you want to get out of lit? Are you looking for genuine connections to people?
So much context switching and so many people. It was like sex and shenanigans back in the day (before I had kids).
This is something that I've very much been focusing on since my separation and follow on relationship: removing the need to context switch so much.
It's definitely a thing, I don't know what the name for it is, not sure if I want to know, but it is a thingI wonder if there is an exhibitionist fetish where you purposely get “into situations” that require some embarrassing medical attention.
That’s got to be a thing, right?
I can relate to that. The PM and Skype threads I mentioned are a max of 3-4 people so it’s not overwhelming to me. The specific people and personality types are probably a significant aspect as well. There aren’t any expectations or major imbalances.
Agree. I love this thread. And others that you can have proper conversations in. The fast moving fast posting ones have their place. But I can only keep up for so long. Then I have to leave, and take a break from them.
i snorted out loud on this autocorrect.
One of the recent posts in that thread made me reflect. I have multiple pictures of my boobs with a toy in between them, but zero with tacos. I might need to have a taco picnic and pictures date in the future
I only lasted through the this-paired-nether-region-thing-is-actually-going-to-happen PMing. After that, I was goooooone.Enny, what was in those PMs?!
Good Lord.I giggled out loud at this Freudian slip
This^.
