Cock Talk

[OrdinaryPerson]

Damn.



Not embarrassed. Nope.

You're so adorable

 

[LadyLascivious1]

As it turns out, quite twisted

That article still leaves a lot of questions. Like what happens with those dick spikes when the corkscrew is removed?!

I have a lot of fetishes it seems

Feel free to list them out

 

[LadyLascivious1]

Damn.



Not embarrassed. Nope.

It turns out watching you get embarrassed, blush, and ready to bolt is one of the only sports I truly enjoy

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I'm fairly certain I can blame my dad's side for any and all inherited sexual address. That side of the family tree is chalk full of kinky weirdos!

My mum (and sisters) are all pretty out there.

When my grandfather died we bought a bouquet of vibrators for my gran #assholes

 

[LadyLascivious1]

My mum (and sisters) are all pretty out there.

When my grandfather died we bought a bouquet of vibrators for my gran #assholes

 

[MindYaBitness]

My mum (and sisters) are all pretty out there.

When my grandfather died we bought a bouquet of vibrators for my gran #assholes

My favorite aunt was what we call a "sex worker", she thought I didn't know . As a kid I overheard a conversation where one of my other aunts was trying to talk her out of her line of work. Her response, "honey, I enjoy it, and I'm good at. Maybe you should try it, loosen you up a bit"

 

[MindYaBitness]

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Yes, I'll be your Valentine

 

[Endless_Night]

A kink is just really being into something that may or may not be "vanilla". A fetish "is an intense sexual attraction to either inanimate objects or to body parts not traditionally viewed as sexual", according to the DSM-V. We're all a little kinky. Some are more twisted than a ducks dick. However, very few are truly fetishists

An object. This would really clear things up.

I get thrown into confusion when I see definitions like this: "A form of sexual desire in which gratification is strongly linked to a particular object or activity or a part of the body other than the sexual organs"

But if DSM-V says so.

Booyah.

 

[Wand3rlust]

A kink is just really being into something that may or may not be "vanilla". A fetish "is an intense sexual attraction to either inanimate objects or to body parts not traditionally viewed as sexual", according to the DSM-V. We're all a little kinky. Some are more twisted than a ducks dick. However, very few are truly fetishists

So...

Liking being sucked off a LOT - kink
Needing a shop vac to do it - fetish.

 

[Endless_Night]

O.M.G.



We didn't even talk about sex in my family.

When my grandfather died we bought a bouquet of vibrators for my gran #assholes

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[MindYaBitness]

So...

Liking being sucked off a LOT - kink
Needing a shop vac to do it - fetish.

Yes, exactly

 

[MindYaBitness]

O.M.G.



We didn't even talk about sex in my family.

My family was pretty open about it, not in a weird way, but my mom fostered an environment where it was comfortable to talk about sex, sensuality, maturation, etc. I credit her for purity culture skipping me. And, I've become "that mom" that my kid's friends come and ask questions that theyre too embarrassed to talk to their own parents about

 

[TS_Woody]

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A picture of your desk at work?

 

[TS_Woody]

My family was pretty open about it, not in a weird way, but my mom fostered an environment where it was comfortable to talk about sex, sensuality, maturation, etc. I credit her for purity culture skipping me. And, I've become "that mom" that my kid's friends come and ask questions that theyre too embarrassed to talk to their own parents about

So like Dr. Ruth?

 

[LadyLascivious1]

An object. This would really clear things up.

I get thrown into confusion when I see definitions like this: "A form of sexual desire in which gratification is strongly linked to a particular object or activity or a part of the body other than the sexual organs"

But if DSM-V says so.

Booyah.

You’re such a cute rule follower

O.M.G.



We didn't even talk about sex in my family.

My mom was pretty naive and conservative on the sex front, but my dad was not at all. I credit/blame him for the fact that my sister and I think sex is one of the most interesting subjects and absolutely fit for dinner time conversation

My family was pretty open about it, not in a weird way, but my mom fostered an environment where it was comfortable to talk about sex, sensuality, maturation, etc. I credit her for purity culture skipping me. And, I've become "that mom" that my kid's friends come and ask questions that theyre too embarrassed to talk to their own parents about

That’s me in my family and friend circle for adults and kids. I have gotten “emergency” 3am calls to talk people through anal sex or sexy toy gone wrong situations

 

[TS_Woody]

You’re such a cute rule follower


My mom was pretty naive and conservative on the sex front, but my dad was not at all. I credit/blame him for the fact that my sister and I think sex is one of the most interesting subjects and absolutely fit for dinner time conversation


That’s me in my family and friend circle for adults and kids. I have gotten “emergency” 3am calls to talk people through anal sex or sexy toy gone wrong situations

Hence the dildo and vibes kept in a jar by the door

 

[Endless_Night]

You’re such a cute rule follower

RULES ARE IMPORTANT


I mean, so I hear.

 

[morelikeasong]

my confidence in myself. Sometines off the scale. Sometimes none.

This is very relatable

 

[Guyblue82]

This is very relatable

So quantum confidence......

Confidence all over the place...until observed

 

[morelikeasong]

What Literotica thread opened you up more than expected and really let the perv in you out to play?

Hmm. Maybe Sex & Shenanigans.
I was new to the boards and poking around. Posting in some random threads I’d find. Sharing some pics. Slowly dipping my toes in the water. Then I found s&s and I started to feel much more comfortable fucking around and flirting with everyone and talking about stuff.

What Lister taught you some important (hopefully good) lesson about sex, online sex, or intimate relationship stuff that changed you?

I can’t tag him for certain reasons but years ago I met someone on here who knows more about me than maybe anyone. At least in certain areas. Over the years he helped me explore all sorts of things I was curious about and has even been my sounding board as I navigated relationships that came after him.

What have you learned, in general, about sex and relationships from your time here?

I’m not sure I can say yet. There’s an element I’m exploring now that I think is going to teach me something. Let’s circle back in a year.

What is something that has caused more confusion in you from your time on Lit?

Similar to what @Wand3rlust said… figuring out how to navigate my confidence/self esteem ebbs and flows.

What sexual desire were you unaware of before coming here?

I’m sure there’s lots, since the past 6 years I’ve learned so much about what makes me tick sexually. But maybe face sitting?

What is something you thought you would never do that you have done on Lit?

Give someone my address

Are you more guarded or less guarded (sexually) since your time on Lit?

Far less guarded

Do you remember your first real interaction on Lit? Tell us:

I was in my mid 20s and posted a personals ad saying I was looking to send sexy photos to a older, dominant guy in exchange for dirty talk. The ad instructed the guys to send me a PM with a fantasy of theirs (so I could get an idea for what they liked and how they described). Holyyyyy shit. I was so unprepared at the time for the volume of responses I got to that. So I can’t tell you exactly what the first interaction was out of the many but I’m sure you have an idea.

What would you most like to know or ask that I didn’t think of in these questions?

Do you regret crossing any of the boundaries that you set for Lit?

 

[aussiegeekygal]

"honey, I enjoy it, and I'm good at. Maybe you should try it, loosen you up a bit"

I think I'd probably enjoy sex work, too. I've thought about being a Silicon Valley/DC domme. I had the chance to get into escort work in my twenties but I didn't have the sexual confidence to really own that work back then.
I got it now

That’s me in my family and friend circle for adults and kids. I have gotten “emergency” 3am calls to talk people through anal sex or sexy toy gone wrong situations

Sounds very Samantha Jones and the retrieving of a diaphragm from your best friend

So quantum confidence......

Confidence all over the place...until observed

I like this analogy. It's so true!

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I was in my mid 20s and posted a personals ad saying I was looking to send sexy photos to a older, dominant guy in exchange for dirty talk. The ad instructed the guys to send me a PM with a fantasy of theirs (so I could get an idea for what they liked and how they described). Holyyyyy shit. I was so unprepared at the time for the volume of responses I got to that. So I can’t tell you exactly what the first interaction was out of the many but I’m sure you have an idea.

Holy suffering duck shit.
You poor innocent soul. That's a hell of a baptism.

 

[morelikeasong]

Holy suffering duck shit.
You poor innocent soul. That's a hell of a baptism.

I could write a whole essay about the lessons learned from that one single post

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I could write a whole essay about the lessons learned from that one single post

Oh, please do. I'd pay to read it.

 

[Love_Is_Blonde]

What Literotica thread opened you up more than expected and really let the perv in you out to play?

I remember the truth or dare threads and the AMA threads. PLP and Miles’ podcast and interview thread. At first, they seemed just lighthearted, but once I participated, I realized how much of myself I was sharing. It was a leap of faith, a thrill and also scary.

What Lister taught you some important (hopefully good) lesson about sex, online sex, or intimate relationship stuff that changed you?

Hmmm…I’ll have to get back to you on that

What have you learned, in general, about sex and relationships from your time here?

whew those feelings can be strong

What is something that has caused more confusion in you from your time on Lit?

Some of the social dynamics here I don’t understand.

What sexual desire were you unaware of before coming here?

The thrill of being a little scared. Exhibitionism. A desire to please.

What is something you thought you would never do that you have done on Lit?

Have an Am Pics thread. Lit is daunting at first. I remember not knowing how to post a comment. Fast forward a while and I had a picture thread. It is easy to get sucked in to Lit.

Are you more guarded or less guarded (sexually) since your time on Lit?

I’d say less guarded within my relationship.

Do you remember your first real interaction on Lit? Tell us:

I remember a few Litsters that I’d noticed like @BlackCaramelCreme, @Indie, and a few others.

What would you most like to know or ask that I didn’t think of in these questions?

When friendships go south or people vanish from Lit, do you forgive? Do you carry that with you or let them go?