Cock Talk

[hotwords229_A]

I am not a sexy guy, so humor is my main method.

If I know anything about women and I don’t, it’s that they love a guy who can make them laugh.

 

[Wand3rlust]

If I know anything about women and I don’t, it’s that they love a guy who can make them laugh.

 

[deft]

Or continually roll their eyes

 

[Wand3rlust]

Or continually roll their eyes

Oh. *stares @deft *

 

[__Nathan1968]

Do you Lirt too much?

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Lit flirting, or Lirting, can get out of control and send confusing messages. I’m not talking about serious aggressive flirtation, just the Lit-usual kind.

Do you take Lit flirting in stride, or does is bother or confuse you?

I take it in stride much the way I did calculus.

If you see someone you like or connect with flirting with others, do you overthink it and assume they like those other people more than you? Or do you like their flirtatious nature?

If I’ve connected with someone, it’s likely because of their flirtatious nature. However, I clearly overthink things when that same nature is projected at someone else.

If someone says something flirty to you, do you automatically think “here we go” or is it just Lit-business as usual?

It’s usually received by the same receptors in my brain reserved for emails from Nigerian princes needing to move money into the US.

When you see someone, let’s say that perverted fuck hotwords, flirting with all kinds of people on Lit, do you think A) “Well, he must have some relationship with them”, B) “He would flirt with a doormat if he was horny enough” or C) “What a charming , good natured, sexy guy. I should send him some nudes”?

If it’s someone I’m interested (flirtee or flirter) I usually assume, with suspicion, A. Otherwise, B.

When you see a guy who can’t (jokingly and harmlessly) flirt with another guy on Lit is that unattractive to you, or do you think “Now that’s a man”?

As a man, I have no issue jokingly flirting with friends, or strong acquaintances. I’m unlikely to jokingly flirt with men I don’t know. But, in fairness, I also am unlikely to flirt with women I don’t know.

Are you good at flirting? Or do you avoid it like the plague? Why?

I gained most of my flirting skills from my goldfish while we were out riding our bicycles. He got all of his bicycling skills from me, I got all of my flirting skills from him.

What is your favorite type of flirting?
How do you differentiate between your real flirting and you fun flirting?

I’m kind of like Ducky in Pretty in Pink. Except if I’m really flirting, instead of riding my bicycle past your house multiple times a day, I might make memes about you.

Fun flirting is usually just a quick thirsty or funny comment.

 

[Apisto42]

Do you Lirt too much?

Probably

Lit flirting, or Lirting, can get out of control and send confusing messages. I’m not talking about serious aggressive flirtation, just the Lit-usual kind.

Do you take Lit flirting in stride, or does is bother or confuse you?

In stride. I’m often the one to say “oh, in retrospect that was probably too much”

If you see someone you like or connect with flirting with others, do you overthink it and assume they like those other people more than you? Or do you like their flirtatious nature?

I assume they’re like me and just like to flirt and have fun.

If someone says something flirty to you, do you automatically think “here we go” or is it just Lit-business as usual?

I plan the wedding and where we’re going to spend vacations.

Lol. Lit is just fun. Not here for the feels.

When you see someone, let’s say that perverted fuck hotwords, flirting with all kinds of people on Lit, do you think “Well, he must have some relationship with them”, “He would flirt with a doormat if he was horny enough” or “What a charming , good natured, sexy guy. I should send him some nudes”?

He’s the neighborhood bicycle. Everyone has had a ride. Good dude.

When you see a guy who can’t (jokingly and harmlessly) flirt with another guy on Lit is that unattractive to you, or do you think “Now that’s a man”?

Dudes need to take a chill pill. But also if you pay attention to long time posters you get a feel for who can run with it and who runs from it.

Are you good at flirting? Or do you avoid it like the plague? Why?

I just try to be funny. I’m usually making myself smile, if it is received well, that’s a bonus.

What is your favorite type of flirting?

Witty, word play, boobs.

How do you differentiate between your real flirting and you fun flirting?

Yes

 

[Deleted member 6592667]

If I know anything about women and I don’t, it’s that they love a guy who can make them laugh.

It's true. What's up ladies?
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[hotwords229_A]

I’m usually making myself smile, if it is received well, that’s a bonus.

This is a big one. Some of my best posts have gotten no response from anyone, yet I thought they were hilarious. Still count them as successes.

 

[Bry1313]

Do you take Lit flirting in stride, or does is bother or confuse you?

I try to take almost anything here in stride, you have to be very inner circle to be able to bother me, so lucky inner circle.

If you see someone you like or connect with flirting with others, do you overthink it and assume they like those other people more than you? Or do you like their flirtatious nature?

I want people I like to be their natural selves. If they were flirts before I liked them, then I’m fine with them flirting after I like them. If I’m curious, I’d just ask privately, but otherwise stay yourself.

If someone says something flirty to you, do you automatically think “here we go” or is it just Lit-business as usual?

I never think “here we go” I’m hopelessly oblivious, also I rarely assume I’m the favorite unless someone hits me over the head with it.

When you see someone, let’s say that perverted fuck hotwords, flirting with all kinds of people on Lit, do you think “Well, he must have some relationship with them”, “He would flirt with a doormat if he was horny enough” or “What a charming , good natured, sexy guy. I should send him some nudes”?

He’d flirt with a doormat but he’s damn good at flirting with that doormat.

When you see a guy who can’t (jokingly and harmlessly) flirt with another guy on Lit is that unattractive to you, or do you think “Now that’s a man”?

The excessively straight male is just an exhausting personality type on here. I think they tell on themselves when they get weirded out by flirting from other men, it means they only have one thing in mind when engaging in conversation here. Men need to be more like @SalaciousMonkey22 who is the perfect Lit man. Love you boo.

Are you good at flirting? Or do you avoid it like the plague? Why?

Neither?

What is your favorite type of flirting?

Silly flirting, if we are both laughing, we are definitely having fun.

How do you differentiate between your real flirting and you fun flirting?

Isn’t flirting supposed to be fun?

 

[Bry1313]

This is a big one. Some of my best posts have gotten no response from anyone, yet I thought they were hilarious. Still count them as successes.

Yeah, mine too

 

[hotwords229_A]

He’d flirt with a doormat but he’s damn good at flirting with that doormat.

I’m hoping to work my way up to a ShopVac, but I’m not sure I’m ready for that kind of commitment.

 

[UnquietDreams]

This is a big one. Some of my best posts have gotten no response from anyone, yet I thought they were hilarious. Still count them as successes.

Same here. I want to reply to it "oh, come on, that was good!"

 

[Bry1313]

I’m hoping to work my way up to a ShopVac, but I’m not sure I’m ready for that kind of commitment.

Too risky if the shop vac wants to take it to the next level. The doormat is a safer partner for sure.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

Do you Lirt too much?

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Lit flirting, or Lirting, can get out of control and send confusing messages. I’m not talking about serious aggressive flirtation, just the Lit-usual kind.

Do you take Lit flirting in stride, or does is bother or confuse you?

I mean…have you met me?

If you see someone you like or connect with flirting with others, do you overthink it and assume they like those other people more than you? Or do you like their flirtatious nature?

So much context matters here. In general, I never assume anyone likes anyone more than me . And I don’t form a lot of close enough bonds to really care anyway.

When I do start to form those bonds there are usually periods of insecurity where I’m not yet sure they like me as much as I like them, where I can and do overthink everything. But then I get to the sweet spot again where I’m assured of our mutual love and don’t care again. As long as I’m regularly (and more often than anyone else ) told I’m pretty.

If someone says something flirty to you, do you automatically think “here we go” or is it just Lit-business as usual?

I’ve never in my life had a conversation with anyone anywhere and thought “here we go”. I love getting to know folks that’s the only goal I ever have. If I’m going anywhere with anyone it’s only after a lot of those conversations.

When you see someone, let’s say that perverted fuck hotwords, flirting with all kinds of people on Lit, do you think “Well, he must have some relationship with them”, “He would flirt with a doormat if he was horny enough” or “What a charming , good natured, sexy guy. I should send him some nudes”?

Now, here, I know most of the people in the circles I’m in well enough to assume they know what I’m about. And I pay attention enough to know what I think they want folks to know about their relationships. I don’t PM a lot in general and I’ve never thought “I should send nudes”

When you see a guy who can’t (jokingly and harmlessly) flirt with another guy on Lit is that unattractive to you, or do you think “Now that’s a man”?

I’ll flirt with anyone who’s fun to flirt with.

Hey @Bry1313 .
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Are you good at flirting? Or do you avoid it like the plague? Why?
What is your favorite type of flirting?
How do you differentiate between your real flirting and you fun flirting?

I think I’m pretty good at it. I pay attention to cues. Have a sense of boundaries. Am funny as fuck.

I’m much more serious when I’m seriously into someone. Still funny but will engage more deeply in conversation.

 

[Bry1313]

When I do start to form those bonds there are usually periods of insecurity where I’m not yet sure they like me as much as I like them, where I can and do overthink everything. But then I get to the sweet spot again where I’m assured of our mutual love and don’t care again. As long as I’m regularly (and more often than anyone else ) told I’m pretty.

You are the prettiest man on Lit and don’t listen to anyone who says otherwise

 

[hotwords229_A]

I’m much more serious when I’m seriously into someone. Still funny but will engage more deeply in conversation.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

Do you Lirt too much?

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Lit flirting, or Lirting, can get out of control and send confusing messages. I’m not talking about serious aggressive flirtation, just the Lit-usual kind.

This is such a ridiculous Lit word and an equally fun topic. I love it.

Do you take Lit flirting in stride, or does is bother or confuse you?

I’m 100% here for it. Lit is supposed to be fun and the flirting and banter are some of the things I enjoy most.

If you see someone you like or connect with flirting with others, do you overthink it and assume they like those other people more than you?

No, I assume they’re having fun and it’s not about me at all. If I’m in some type of relationship with someone, I probably know them well enough to read the situation. If I saw something that made me uncomfortable, I would bring it up and sort it out.

Or do you like their flirtatious nature?

I want them to be themselves and if it includes being flirty I appreciate that aspect of them.

If someone says something flirty to you, do you automatically think “here we go” or is it just Lit-business as usual?

I don’t really have any expectations either way. I take it at face value and see where it goes organically.

When you see someone, let’s say that perverted fuck hotwords, flirting with all kinds of people on Lit, do you think “Well, he must have some relationship with them”, “He would flirt with a doormat if he was horny enough” or “What a charming , good natured, sexy guy. I should send him some nudes”?

For Hotwords specifically, I pull up a chair and watch enthusiastically Then consider sending boobs.

But aside from my voyeuristic and exhibitionist nature, I never assume public flirting inherently means anything specific. There could be interest there, but I tend to think the majority of public flirting means there isn’t as much going on in private.

When you see a guy who can’t (jokingly and harmlessly) flirt with another guy on Lit is that unattractive to you, or do you think “Now that’s a man”?

The former. I love to laugh and don’t take things too seriously. Someone who gets uptight or defensive about friendly same sex interaction is likely just not someone that I’d have a lot in common with.

Plus, I’m a pervert and enjoy guy on guy flirting

Are you good at flirting? Or do you avoid it like the plague? Why?

I think I’m good at it because I enjoy it. If I flirt with someone it’s because I like them. As people. It’s not necessarily romantic or sexual at all. I enjoy them and love interacting and bantering with them.

What is your favorite type of flirting?

Witty banter, sexual innuendo, authenticity, some thirst traps, good natured teasing and laughing

How do you differentiate between your real flirting and you fun flirting?

There isn’t a difference. I’m genuine in that I am interacting with people I like. Some might extend into private conversations. A few might become friends. Occasionally a couple might turn sexual. I don’t know where things will go, but I’m going to enjoy the experience.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

I enjoy people who can banter. With me. With others. And sometimes, with themselves and a vacuum.

I like perverted fucks
I post nudes for him to find from time to time.

I kinda like it but I'm a pervert.

reasons why you’re my people

I am partial to dudes who are comfortable enough in their masculinity to interact with other dudes in a sexually charged environment without making it awkward.

I love seeing guys support eachother. It's very attractive, signals that they don't take themselves too seriously & are secure in their masculinity. Very, very sexy.

I love guys flirting simply because I think it shows a higher level of being comfortable with their sexuality.

The excessively straight male is just an exhausting personality type on here.

My first reaction is to bolt. I am an excellent bolter. That said, there are a few people who can flirt in my direction without sending me running. People I know well who flirt without intent.

When I banter and flirt with you it’s often because of your embarrassed, blush, bolt reaction. I find it delightful

Hot Boy Anal!

Yes, please!

Isn’t flirting supposed to be fun?

Exactly!

When there's an orgasm, I reckon it's real. Lol.

Best (and most concise) rule of thumb I’ve heard!

 

[aussiegeekygal]

but I tend to think the majority of public flirting means there isn’t as much going on in private.

This is true in my experience, too

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[Deleted member 6568729]

Do you take Lit flirting in stride, or does is bother or confuse you?

I'm a big flirt. I don't think much about it when others flirt with me as long as it's not gross or offensive.

If you see someone you like or connect with flirting with others, do you overthink it and assume they like those other people more than you? Or do you like their flirtatious nature?

I'm a pretty insecure girl. So I might think that initially and let it get to my head. But then I remind myself I just need to trust in the people I connect with. It doesn't really matter who else they talk to as long as I feel special when we're together. Those I'm close with know my insecurities and give me all the reassurance I need.

If someone says something flirty to you, do you automatically think “here we go” or is it just Lit-business as usual?

I don't think much of it unless they end up in my inbox.

When you see someone, let’s say that perverted fuck hotwords, flirting with all kinds of people on Lit, do you think “Well, he must have some relationship with them”, “He would flirt with a doormat if he was horny enough” or “What a charming , good natured, sexy guy. I should send him some nudes”?

Option C. I love fun and flirty banter on here and it is not always an indication of what i have going on or not going on with anyone, so i assume the same of others

When you see a guy who can’t (jokingly and harmlessly) flirt with another guy on Lit is that unattractive to you, or do you think “Now that’s a man”?

I love it when boys flirt proudly and loudly.

Are you good at flirting? Or do you avoid it like the plague? Why?

eh. Idk. I guess I'm okay

What is your favorite type of flirting?

Just being silly and having fun. Not taking things too serious.

How do you differentiate between your real flirting and you fun flirting?

I guess my real flirting leaves the threads. We get to know each other. I flirt more with people just for fun than I do for real.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Total business as usual (unless it's one of these suped up horny newbies ).

We were all there once.

For Hotwords specifically, I pull up a chair and watch enthusiastically Then consider sending boobs.

Winning!

Option C.

 

[morelikeasong]

This is something I wonder and hope doesn’t happen, but I’m concerned that it does. And, obviously, it does.

I don’t think there’s need for concern. Jealousy is a natural human emotion. People feel it for different reasons, triggered by different things. But it’s how they handle it that matters, right?

But maybe that’s just my defensiveness as a jealous person

 

[hotwords229_A]

Do you take Lit flirting in stride, or does is bother or confuse you?

The only thing that bothers me are words like Lirt. Disgusting!

If you see someone you like or connect with flirting with others, do you overthink it and assume they like those other people more than you? Or do you like their flirtatious nature?

I like their flirtatious nature and feel like maybe there is a bit of a challenge there to outflirt the other flirters?

If someone says something flirty to you, do you automatically think “here we go” or is it just Lit-business as usual?

On the boards, business as usual. In a PM, one that comes out of nowhere, maybe here we go, or maybe even possibly uh-oh!

When you see someone, let’s say that perverted fuck hotwords, flirting with all kinds of people on Lit, do you think “Well, he must have some relationship with them”, “He would flirt with a doormat if he was horny enough” or “What a charming , good natured, sexy guy. I should send him some nudes”?

I have to confess, I have touched Hotwords’s dick. And I liked it.
Anything he does is okay by me.

When you see a guy who can’t (jokingly and harmlessly) flirt with another guy on Lit is that unattractive to you, or do you think “Now that’s a man”?

I wouldn’t know. Being 100% straight and a very manly man I can’t even imagine responding to one of those “lister above you” threads and another guy was there! Yuck! I would totally go back five people to find the one woman and quote her, ‘cause that’s how straight I am.

Are you good at flirting? Or do you avoid it like the plague? Why?

I may be better at devious innuendo than actual flirting. I have a flirtatious nature, but I may actually use that as a type of defense mechanism to cover my horrific social awkwardness. I have a weird ability to have dominance and strength in social situations that I use to pretend that I’m not completely awkward and confused at all times. As defense mechanisms go, it kind of works.

What is your favorite type of flirting?

Sexual, naked, strip, boobs.

How do you differentiate between your real flirting and you fun flirting?

Real flirting ends with oral!

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

I like their flirtatious nature and feel like maybe there is a bit of a challenge there to outflirt the other flirters?

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[MischiefMakerAlways]

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Real talk, you're a natural and I'm a bit green with envy, sir.