Cock Talk

[Sgts19]

Cock talk, eh? I will share something about which I've found nothing posted in the forums.

Over the past year or two I observed that my ejaculation loads were getting smaller and weaker, to the point where I was embarrassed (I have a couple of long-standing acquaintances with whom I trade videos). I figured "Well I guess it sucks to be in my sixties" but nevertheless I mentioned the issue to three doctors in the context of getting my prostate checked. None would address the question except that I eventually learned that I have a slightly enlarged prostate. A couple of months ago I saw an ad somewhere for Ageless Male, a testosterone supplement (read the warnings on the packaging!). I tried that and my load volume is back, lovely and thick and white, and it's easier to reach orgasm with my wife. However the muzzle velocity is definitely gone. Apparently some of the muscles down there that push the load out weaken with age. Unfortunately I find Kegel exercises really boring so here I am with my much happier one-eyed friend.

The getting older stuff is real fun isn't it

 

[cypressknee]

Mine talks to me often…like “why are you ignoring me?”

 

[hotwords229_A]

Do you Lirt too much?

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Lit flirting, or Lirting, can get out of control and send confusing messages. I’m not talking about serious aggressive flirtation, just the Lit-usual kind.

Do you take Lit flirting in stride, or does is bother or confuse you?
If you see someone you like or connect with flirting with others, do you overthink it and assume they like those other people more than you? Or do you like their flirtatious nature?
If someone says something flirty to you, do you automatically think “here we go” or is it just Lit-business as usual?
When you see someone, let’s say that perverted fuck hotwords, flirting with all kinds of people on Lit, do you think “Well, he must have some relationship with them”, “He would flirt with a doormat if he was horny enough” or “What a charming , good natured, sexy guy. I should send him some nudes”?
When you see a guy who can’t (jokingly and harmlessly) flirt with another guy on Lit is that unattractive to you, or do you think “Now that’s a man”?
Are you good at flirting? Or do you avoid it like the plague? Why?
What is your favorite type of flirting?
How do you differentiate between your real flirting and you fun flirting?

 

[Deleted member 6592667]

Do you Lirt too much?

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Lit flirting, or Lirting, can get out of control and send confusing messages. I’m not talking about serious aggressive flirtation, just the Lit-usual kind.

Do you take Lit flirting in stride, or does is bother or confuse you?

Take it in stride, baby. In giving I try to just be fun and funny. And read the room of course. That's the key.

If you see someone you like or connect with flirting with others, do you overthink it and assume they like those other people more than you? Or do you like their flirtatious nature?

I try not to make assumptions really. I mean I flirt and goof off all over the place. I like different people. I assume that's how it is for everyone.

If someone says something flirty to you, do you automatically think “here we go” or is it just Lit-business as usual?

It means we're a couple and we're in love now obviously. Nah for real I'll just give it back and whatever.

When you see someone, let’s say that perverted fuck hotwords, flirting with all kinds of people on Lit, do you think “Well, he must have some relationship with them”, “He would flirt with a doormat if he was horny enough” or “What a charming , good natured, sexy guy. I should send him some nudes”?

Look if you want nudes just ask for nudes.

nah, usually I assume people are just openly flirty. Thats kinda what this place is for.

When you see a guy who can’t (jokingly and harmlessly) flirt with another guy on Lit is that unattractive to you, or do you think “Now that’s a man”?

Well I'd probably lean towards the latter personally. I'm pretty open about also liking dudes.

Are you good at flirting? Or do you avoid it like the plague? Why?

I guess I'm okay at it? We'd have to ask people who know me.

What is your favorite type of flirting?

Usually good natured jokes. And whipping it out.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Do you take Lit flirting in stride, or does is bother or confuse you?
Take it in stride. That's what I see the boards as. One big place to flirt to your heart's content.

If you see someone you like or connect with flirting with others, do you overthink it and assume they like those other people more than you? Or do you like their flirtatious nature?
They may like the other person. They may just be super flirty. I enjoy people who can banter. With me. With others. And sometimes, with themselves and a vacuum.

If someone says something flirty to you, do you automatically think “here we go” or is it just Lit-business as usual?
Depends on where the flirting is occurring. On a thread; business as usual. In a PM; I'm more cautious.

When you see someone, let’s say that perverted fuck hotwords, flirting with all kinds of people on Lit, do you think “Well, he must have some relationship with them”, “He would flirt with a doormat if he was horny enough” or “What a charming , good natured, sexy guy. I should send him some nudes”?
I like perverted fucks
I post nudes for him to find from time to time.

When you see a guy who can’t (jokingly and harmlessly) flirt with another guy on Lit is that unattractive to you, or do you think “Now that’s a man”?
I am partial to dudes who are comfortable enough in their masculinity to interact with other dudes in a sexually charged environment without making it awkward. Like when Lunation and default detailed how two men could play with one another whilst us thirsty, thirsty birds watched on in delight ... That's my kind of man.

Are you good at flirting? Or do you avoid it like the plague? Why?
I tend to think I'm good at it. I've certainly got the legs for it

What is your favorite type of flirting?
Witty banter and well composed thirst traps that leave the right things to the imagination

How do you differentiate between your real flirting and you fun flirting?
They're the same thing. I think it's the expected outcome that differs...

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

Do you Lirt too much?

https://gifdb.com/images/thumbnail/awkward-flirt-wink-by-a-lady-yk9dtrf6e0m6fput.gif

Lit flirting, or Lirting, can get out of control and send confusing messages. I’m not talking about serious aggressive flirtation, just the Lit-usual kind.

Do you take Lit flirting in stride, or does is bother or confuse you?

You assume I can pick up on it happening. My basic opinion is that Lit should be the flirtiest part of the internet; it's basic premise is sexual, right?

If you see someone you like or connect with flirting with others, do you overthink it and assume they like those other people more than you? Or do you like their flirtatious nature?

I own no one, they can do as they please. So long as we have clearly communicated our specific relationship (for lack of a better word), live and let live. I do assume that the attraction, fun, flirting, etc. is better with anyone other than myself though. I think a flirtatious attitude is sexy and charming.

If someone says something flirty to you, do you automatically think “here we go” or is it just Lit-business as usual?

Again, you assume I can pick up on this. Probably a vastly different experience for women vs. men, but to me, I thoroughly enjoy flirtatious behavior.

When you see someone, let’s say that perverted fuck hotwords, flirting with all kinds of people on Lit, do you think “Well, he must have some relationship with them”, “He would flirt with a doormat if he was horny enough” or “What a charming , good natured, sexy guy. I should send him some nudes”?

Mr. Hotwords, and everyone else for the matter, only get nudes if they specifically ask for them. I don't dare assume anyone wants to see me naked or clothed, so I always wait for the request. When I do pick up on flirting, I admire the skill with which people perform it. I voyeuristically enjoy watching the flirting unfold.

When you see a guy who can’t (jokingly and harmlessly) flirt with another guy on Lit is that unattractive to you, or do you think “Now that’s a man”?

If a guy gets up tight about being jokingly or harmlessly flirted with, that's a red flag to me. It's the internet, no one is forcing their way into your home, calm down dude. You know?

Are you good at flirting? Or do you avoid it like the plague? Why?

Pretty sure I'm terrible at online flirting. I don't avoid it, I'd like to think practice makes perfect, but I don't avoid it. Why do I think I'm bad at it? Because I have very limited results of moving from general flirting to something more substantial.

What is your favorite type of flirting?

There are different types?!

How do you differentiate between your real flirting and you fun flirting?

They're the same thing. It's part of my personality.

 

[MindYaBitness]

Do you take Lit flirting in stride, or does is bother or confuse you?

99% of the time I don't realize I'm being flirted with. I love good conversation, amusing banter, etc. I just assume that if we're talking in the threads, it's all good fun. I had one guy ask "so, do you not know when someone is trying to flirt with you?" No, no I don't. So he signed his messages with "~I'm flirting with you" just be clear

If you see someone you like or connect with flirting with others, do you overthink it and assume they like those other people more than you? Or do you like their flirtatious nature?

How could any of my amigovios like someone more than me? All joking aside, if I'm attracted to someone, it's as much personality as looks. I obviously enjoyed their flirty banter before, I'm not going to ask them to change that just because we connect. Plus, it's a bit of a turn on, in a way.

If someone says something flirty to you, do you automatically think “here we go” or is it just Lit-business as usual?

"Flirting with me is like punching water; it's pointless and you look stupid doing it"-Taylor Tomlinson

I always assume it's just fun conversation, in he threads or PM. Unless they get dick-pic happy, then I know somethings up

When you see someone, let’s say that perverted fuck hotwords, flirting with all kinds of people on Lit, do you think “Well, he must have some relationship with them”, “He would flirt with a doormat if he was horny enough” or “What a charming , good natured, sexy guy. I should send him some nudes”?

Unfortunately, while I do post PG13 pics once in awhile, no comment or message has ever made .e feel the need to send nudes. My apologies.

I just think they're a fun person. This is Lit, the place where you can do & say provocative things without fear of recourse. So, if someone is being funny & charming, I just assume that's who they are.

When you see a guy who can’t (jokingly and harmlessly) flirt with another guy on Lit is that unattractive to you, or do you think “Now that’s a man”?

I love seeing guys support eachother. It's very attractive, signals that they don't take themselves too seriously & are secure in their masculinity. Very, very sexy.

Are you good at flirting? Or do you avoid it like the plague? Why?

I'm terrible. I'm assumed to be flirting when I'm not, and if I am trying to flirt it often misses the mark. I often feel like the only sober person in a room full of drunks when it comes to male/female interactions. I blame it on my child bride status & literal nature.

What is your favorite type of flirting?

Be amusing, and I enjoy an interesting guy who can be fun & talk about a variety of topics. If you can effectively flirt with my intellect, my chonies evaporate.

How do you differentiate between your real flirting and you fun flirting?

Good question, I don't really know. I would maybe say that all flirting in the threads is just fun flirting. In PM, you get to know a person and decide if you want to take it a step further. If you sense they're of the same mind, then the flirting has a purpose, an end goal in mind.

 

[hotoldrguy]

Do you take Lit flirting in stride, or does is bother or confuse you?
no one really flirts with me much, but I take it is stride if they do.

If you see someone you like or connect with flirting with others, do you overthink it and assume they like those other people more than you? Or do you like their flirtatious nature?
It's Lit so there is a lot of flirting going on, so no overthinking.

If someone says something flirty to you, do you automatically think “here we go” or is it just Lit-business as usual?
I think flirting is a natural part of Lit. I enjoy th rare cases I am flirted with but do not make anything out of it except Lit fun.

When you see someone, let’s say that perverted fuck hotwords, flirting with all kinds of people on Lit, do you think “Well, he must have some relationship with them”, “He would flirt with a doormat if he was horny enough” or “What a charming , good natured, sexy guy. I should send him some nudes”?



When you see a guy who can’t (jokingly and harmlessly) flirt with another guy on Lit is that unattractive to you, or do you think “Now that’s a man”?
It is all in fun. I think it is too bad when people get that inhibited on Lit

Are you good at flirting? Or do you avoid it like the plague? Why?
I am terrible at flirting. Was never good at it IRL either. Probably because I am an introvert. Although I have no problem posting my nude pics


What is your favorite type of flirting?
any type I can get

How do you differentiate between your real flirting and you fun flirting?
If I was going to do any real flirting, I would do it through PM's not on the board.

 

[SassySheDevil]

POP QUIZ:

You find a pair of x-ray glasses, do you use them or destroy them?

Uh. Duh. Use them.

Someone used x-ray glasses on you, would you appreciate them telling you and apologizing, complimenting you, or just not telling you at all?

I'm not sure on this one. It might depend on who it was. The creepy guys. Just don't tell me and move along.

Which Lister would you trust with a pair of x-ray glasses?

Trust as in. Don't care if they have glasses?

Would you use x-ray glasses on people for your own sexual gratification, or just out of pure curiosity to see what’s going on under their clothing?

Both. I am always curious what is underneath. But also. I'm a perv.

Let’s assume that x-ray glasses work only on a certain material of clothing, do you never wear that material again, or roll the dice and maybe give an anonymous stranger a thrill?

Again. Both. On the days when I'm feeling more secure. Sure. Let it show. Those insecure days. Cover it up.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Taboo & You



***Nothing crazy or illegal please, thanks!***

What is a “taboo” subject you would like to approach with your partner but just can’t bring yourself to mention?

I'm not sure I can really think of anything. I'm not afraid to talk to my husband about anything though.

Has your partner ever suggested something to you that seems taboo?

No. He's pretty Vanilla.

Have you ever tried something that was taboo to you and then it became part of your regular rotation?

The closest thing I can think of is Anal. I remember a time when I just thought it was too naughty to even talk about it.

Does pushing your taboo limits excite you or terrify you?

In most cases. It excites me. The things that terrify me are things I'm afraid I might not be good at.

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

What is a “taboo” subject you would like to approach with your partner but just can’t bring yourself to mention?

I Want to try almost all the things. She, well, let's just say she doesn't.

Has your partner ever suggested something to you that seems taboo?

Nope, so vanilla... Like, generic, dollar store vanilla.

Have you ever tried something that was taboo to you and then it became part of your regular rotation?

No, because of all of the above.

Does pushing your taboo limits excite you or terrify you?

Excites! Let's do something crazy, try something wild, find out limits, then continually push them!

 

[SassySheDevil]

Do you Lirt too much?



Lit flirting, or Lirting, can get out of control and send confusing messages. I’m not talking about serious aggressive flirtation, just the Lit-usual kind.

Do you take Lit flirting in stride, or does is bother or confuse you?

I'm honestly not sure how to answer this one either.

If you see someone you like or connect with flirting with others, do you overthink it and assume they like those other people more than you? Or do you like their flirtatious nature?

i'm jealous as fuck. Not proud of it. But I still let my mind overthink everything.

If someone says something flirty to you, do you automatically think “here we go” or is it just Lit-business as usual?

I usually would think "Business as usual" Most of the people that flirt with me now, or even in the past. Flirt the same way with all women. I take it all with a grain of salt. I can smile about it, but I know deep down it doesn't mean anything.

When you see someone, let’s say that perverted fuck hotwords, flirting with all kinds of people on Lit, do you think “Well, he must have some relationship with them”, “He would flirt with a doormat if he was horny enough” or “What a charming , good natured, sexy guy. I should send him some nudes”?

For you. I've talked to you long enough now to know that that is just your personality. You are nice to everyone. You definitely don't come up as the person who is so thirsty you'd flirt with a door mat. I can think of at least a million others who'd pop in my head before you. I don't send pics unless the person knows about them and wants them. You are definitely the good natured, sexy guy though.

When you see a guy who can’t (jokingly and harmlessly) flirt with another guy on Lit is that unattractive to you, or do you think “Now that’s a man”?

Truth be told. I love guys flirting simply because I think it shows a higher level of being comfortable with their sexuality.

Are you good at flirting? Or do you avoid it like the plague? Why?

No. I suck.

What is your favorite type of flirting?

The casual simple type to make me smile, and giggle and have fun. The kind that actually seems like it is truly for me and not just a cut and paste from the last girls flirting.

How do you differentiate between your real flirting and you fun flirting?

I've never really thought about this.

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

You find a pair of x-ray glasses, do you use them or destroy them?

Finder's Keepers.

Someone used x-ray glasses on you, would you appreciate them telling you and apologizing, complimenting you, or just not telling you at all?

I don't particularly care, but if they have a genuine compliment, I'd love to hear it. IF I felt I was in a safe space, I would probably be a nudist, despite my insecurities.

Which Lister would you trust with a pair of x-ray glasses?

Since I don't care who sees me, I don't have a trust issue. However, for the sake of some others, I know some folks I WOULDN'T trust with them.

Would you use x-ray glasses on people for your own sexual gratification, or just out of pure curiosity to see what’s going on under their clothing?

It would be both. There are a few ladies I'd ogle more than others. And there are some dudes I'm curious about what they're packing (BDE).

Let’s assume that x-ray glasses work only on a certain material of clothing, do you never wear that material again, or roll the dice and maybe give an anonymous stranger a thrill?

If it doesn't cost me anything extra, I'll get the see-through clothing. It's not hurting me, though they may want to gouge their eyes out.

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

And sometimes, with themselves and a vacuum.

This feels oddly specific, but I can't put my finger on it...

When you see a guy who can’t (jokingly and harmlessly) flirt with another guy on Lit is that unattractive to you, or do you think “Now that’s a man”?
I am partial to dudes who are comfortable enough in their masculinity to interact with other dudes in a sexually charged environment without making it awkward. Like when Lunation and default detailed how two men could play with one another whilst us thirsty, thirsty birds watched on in delight ... That's my kind of man.

That was a fun night/week. We need more of those

 

[Apisto42]

Do you take Lit flirting in stride, or does is bother or confuse you?
Take it in stride. That's what I see the boards as. One big place to flirt to your heart's content.

If you see someone you like or connect with flirting with others, do you overthink it and assume they like those other people more than you? Or do you like their flirtatious nature?
They may like the other person. They may just be super flirty. I enjoy people who can banter. With me. With others. And sometimes, with themselves and a vacuum.

If someone says something flirty to you, do you automatically think “here we go” or is it just Lit-business as usual?
Depends on where the flirting is occurring. On a thread; business as usual. In a PM; I'm more cautious.

When you see someone, let’s say that perverted fuck hotwords, flirting with all kinds of people on Lit, do you think “Well, he must have some relationship with them”, “He would flirt with a doormat if he was horny enough” or “What a charming , good natured, sexy guy. I should send him some nudes”?
I like perverted fucks
I post nudes for him to find from time to time.

When you see a guy who can’t (jokingly and harmlessly) flirt with another guy on Lit is that unattractive to you, or do you think “Now that’s a man”?
I am partial to dudes who are comfortable enough in their masculinity to interact with other dudes in a sexually charged environment without making it awkward. Like when Lunation and default detailed how two men could play with one another whilst us thirsty, thirsty birds watched on in delight ... That's my kind of man.

Are you good at flirting? Or do you avoid it like the plague? Why?
I tend to think I'm good at it. I've certainly got the legs for it

What is your favorite type of flirting?
Witty banter and well composed thirst traps that leave the right things to the imagination

How do you differentiate between your real flirting and you fun flirting?
They're the same thing. I think it's the expected outcome that differs...

Your emojis are broken. I was expecting a thirst trap you know.

 

[Wand3rlust]

Do you take Lit flirting in stride, or does is bother or confuse you?

it confuses me. I'm not good at it, and I wouldn't know if it was happening.

If you see someone you like or connect with flirting with others, do you overthink it and assume they like those other people more than you? Or do you like their flirtatious nature?

I find that really hard. If they have time, then why do they not want to spend it with me. Talking to me. I am envious of those who can flirt around and be OK with it all. I don't understand how to do it or be OK with it.

If someone says something flirty to you, do you automatically think “here we go” or is it just Lit-business as usual?

Depends who it is.

When you see someone, let’s say that perverted fuck hotwords, flirting with all kinds of people on Lit, do you think “Well, he must have some relationship with them”, “He would flirt with a doormat if he was horny enough” or “What a charming , good natured, sexy guy. I should send him some nudes”?

I never know what to think. I figure they must like in some way the people they flirt with, otherwise its not being honest. I don't send nudes.

When you see a guy who can’t (jokingly and harmlessly) flirt with another guy on Lit is that unattractive to you, or do you think “Now that’s a man”?

Some guys need to chill out. Its all fun.

Are you good at flirting? Or do you avoid it like the plague? Why?

I dont think im good at it. And I presume that no-one flirts with me, when there are so many other people to flirt with.

What is your favorite type of flirting?
How do you differentiate between your real flirting and you fun flirting?

I don't get this.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Your emojis are broken. I was expecting a thirst trap you know.

It's elsewhere

 

[deefalttwunnyfor]

I don't send nudes.

https://i.giphy.com/media/v1.Y2lkPTc5MGI3NjExdmltaTFhdHNkMzVqeHk2c216czJseXljcHV3Mm1pcGs2cDV3NTd5biZlcD12MV9pbnRlcm5hbF9naWZfYnlfaWQmY3Q9Zw/3oz8xZvvOZRmKay4xy/giphy.gif

Some guys need to chill out. Its all fun.

Until feelings or nudes are involved. Then all bets and clothes are off

I don't get this.

So what my boy hotwords is saying is about your favorite flirting is:
do you like someone hitting on you on threads? do you prefer a PM? do you like a well though out PM? Do you like an unsolicited dick pic? How do you want someone to come onto you?
Then, he asks how do you differentiate between real and fun flirting. Like if someone is really catching feelings. Do you ghost them? Do you act oblivious? Do you ask for their social security number and mother's maiden name and steal their identity?

 

[Wand3rlust]

So what my boy hotwords is saying is about your favorite flirting is:
do you like someone hitting on you on threads?

probably wouldn't notice, unless they were being blatant.

do you prefer a PM?

not out of the blue. Thats not flirting. Thats creepy.

do you like a well though out PM?

always.

Do you like an unsolicited dick pic?

No. And I've never had one

How do you want someone to come onto you?

Hmm. Make me laugh and intrigue me. Make an effort. Be different. Be yourself.

Then, he asks how do you differentiate between real and fun flirting. Like if someone is really catching feelings. Do you ghost them? Do you act oblivious?

I assume that none of it is serious with me.

Do you ask for their social security number and mother's maiden name and steal their identity?

And zipcode and inside leg measurement. And any other vital statistics that may be.... relevant.

Thank you for the idiot guide.

 

[morelikeasong]

Do you take Lit flirting in stride, or does is bother or confuse you?

In stride. I love to flirt.

If you see someone you like or connect with flirting with others, do you overthink it and assume they like those other people more than you? Or do you like their flirtatious nature?

Overthink it, almost always. As much as I want my freedom and want anyone I chat with to have theirs, I still get jealous. Can’t help it! I’m usually pretty good at swallowing it () or laughing it off though. Don’t think I’ve ever made a big deal out of it.

If someone says something flirty to you, do you automatically think “here we go” or is it just Lit-business as usual?

Business as usual. I generally assume no one is actually flirting with any intention, until they make that clear.

When you see someone, let’s say that perverted fuck hotwords, flirting with all kinds of people on Lit, do you think “Well, he must have some relationship with them”, “He would flirt with a doormat if he was horny enough” or “What a charming , good natured, sexy guy. I should send him some nudes”?

I think I lean to “he would flirt with a doormat if he was horny enough”
But also… I probably would too? So no judgement

When you see a guy who can’t (jokingly and harmlessly) flirt with another guy on Lit is that unattractive to you, or do you think “Now that’s a man”?

I love when guys flirt with each other. It shows confidence and just a general good nature.

Are you good at flirting? Or do you avoid it like the plague? Why?

I think I’m okay at it. In person, with a couple drinks, if I think I look cute… I’m incredible at it.
I love it always though. Drunk or not. I just don’t know that I’m as good at it on a normal day

What is your favorite type of flirting?

I love good banter. I like a flirt on the threads that turns into a PM. Even better, a conversation about something completely unsexy that somehow makes it’s way to flirting.
The best way to flirt with me is to know something about me. To notice me. Patience and persistence. And be smart & funny. Not too much to ask for a good flirt, right?

How do you differentiate between your real flirting and you fun flirting?

How do I differentiate? I just know the difference.
How should someone else differentiate if I am real flirting with them or fun flirting? Good question

 

[Endless_Night]

Lit flirting, or Lirting, can get out of control and send confusing messages. I’m not talking about serious aggressive flirtation, just the Lit-usual kind.

I'm going to skip the specific question and just say I find all the Lirting a positive minefield.

My first reaction is to bolt. I am an excellent bolter. That said, there are a few people who can flirt in my direction without sending me running. People I know well who flirt without intent.

I'm not much of a deliberate flirt, unless I'm in relationship. Or just out of one, apparently.

I'm not entirely sure I believe that last one. I think the ex might have been projecting.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I like perverted fucks
I post nudes for him to find from time to time.

I love the adventure and discovery.

You assume I can pick up on it happening.

This is a problem I have too. I once got a pm from one woman telling me another woman was flirting with me on Lit. When I went back and read our interaction, I was like “Oh yeah”. I felt like an idiot.

Plus, it's a bit of a turn on, in a way.

I totally get this.

Unless they get dick-pic happy, then I know somethings up

I assume most dick pics are up!

I am terrible at flirting. Was never good at it IRL either. Probably because I am an introvert.

Hmmm.
I am certainly an introvert too, but I sometimes think I use my flirtatious nature to cover for my discomfort in social situations.

Trust as in. Don't care if they have glasses?

Yes. Or, maybe, want them to have the glasses.

No. He's pretty Vanilla.

I remember a story that didn’t sound very vanilla.

Nope, so vanilla... Like, generic, dollar store vanilla.

This seems to be a recurring theme in Lit Lister Marriages.

You definitely don't come up as the person who is so thirsty you'd flirt with a door mat.

This is true. No matter what that doormat says. She is a lying whore!

No. I suck.

Are you flirting with me?

The casual simple type to make me smile, and giggle and have fun. The kind that actually seems like it is truly for me and not just a cut and paste from the last girls flirting.

You are stunning!
(Sorry, I couldn’t help it! )

That was a fun night/week. We need more of those

Hot Boy Anal!

Your emojis are broken. I was expecting a thirst trap you know.

She makes you hunt for it!

I don't send nudes.

This is, by far, the meanest thing anyone has ever said to me.

And I presume that no-one flirts with me, when there are so many other people to flirt with.

As much as I want my freedom and want anyone I chat with to have theirs, I still get jealous.

This is something I wonder and hope doesn’t happen, but I’m concerned that it does. And, obviously, it does.

I think I lean to “he would flirt with a doormat if he was horny enough”
But also… I probably would too? So no judgement

 

[hotwords229_A]

I find all the Lirting a positive minefield.

That what makes it exciting. You never know when it might explode!
But at least you find it positive.

 

[Endless_Night]

That what makes it exciting. You never know when it might explode!
But at least you find it positive.

That wasn't quite my meaning with positive.

 

[UnquietDreams]

Do you take Lit flirting in stride, or does is bother or confuse you?

It took me a bit to get used to it, but then I started taking it in stride. I am sort of nervous and shy before I get comfortable, and it took me a while to get comfortable. Now I am better with it.

If you see someone you like or connect with flirting with others, do you overthink it and assume they like those other people more than you? Or do you like their flirtatious nature?

You can sometimes tell if there is some deeper connection with certain pairs or groups. Others, you can tell there is just a lot of flirting that has gone on, and it is just that. Sometimes I get envious of the connections and feel left out, if I'm being honest. It isn't really rational, because I flirt as well, but it doesn't make less a real feeling.

If someone says something flirty to you, do you automatically think “here we go” or is it just Lit-business as usual?

I assume it means nothing to them.

When you see someone, let’s say that perverted fuck hotwords, flirting with all kinds of people on Lit, do you think “Well, he must have some relationship with them”, “He would flirt with a doormat if he was horny enough” or “What a charming , good natured, sexy guy. I should send him some nudes”?

Are you asking me to send you nudes?

I flirt, mostly with people I have some level of connection or interaction with. With people I don't know yet, I will usually interact in some way first. If they are showing nudity, for example, I will compliment them before I flirt. I am not sure why, as flirting is usually how people on here connect, but it is how I work. And I will almost never extend a flirtation to PM. I assume it will be not wanted. I will PM with questions for people on occasion, or conversations, but I don't attempt to extend flirting. I have had conversations that were flirty, but I was not the instigator. And writing that out, there may be a level of insecurity there.

When you see a guy who can’t (jokingly and harmlessly) flirt with another guy on Lit is that unattractive to you, or do you think “Now that’s a man”?

I flirt with guys as well. Probably not as much as I flirt with certain woman on here, but I do both compliment and flirt with guys as well.

Are you good at flirting? Or do you avoid it like the plague? Why?

I think I am, but I am pretty sure that most people think they are good at flirting. They may just be humoring me.

What is your favorite type of flirting?

I am not a sexy guy, so humor is my main method. I try to be smart, clever, and subtle, rather than straight up thirsty as well. I don't always succed at the smart or clever parts, but I try.

I had one person with whom the flirting became something quite a bit different. It started in one of the "do you want to see the person above you naked" threads. And I made a poetry joke, and she responded with another. That went on several times before she PMed me, and we had a long thread that I joked was a seduction, with me sending her classic poems along with the history of the poem or the poet, and connecting it to paintings and other forms of art, written more in the form of an 18th century letter. It was enjoyable and fun, and she seemed to love it. But that was an outlier.

How do you differentiate between your real flirting and you fun flirting?

The smell of desperation? Heh.