Sex & Shenanigans

What is your favourite word for sexy time in your household …. Or you have used in the past?
It's usually just cuddling that devolves into.... more.
If we just carry on, it'll be a lovely sapphic dreamscape.
But every so often one of us goes "ta fram lƄdan."
"Bring out the box."
That's where we keep our gear.
 
I'm the only member of my family who still has their tonsils. Anyone else in the thread?
Still do too, first surgery to remove anything is next week.

Ok so … has anyone ever had sexy time at home after being particularly aroused by something that happened here?
Solo, yes. Some gorgeous women and brains here.

I found this whole conversation fascinating.

I live with a deep conviction that what people think of me really isn't my business. Sure, my ego would love a chance to explain myself, but I'm not the center of the universe and things like this happen often. If I'm written off, so be it.

If someone upsets me, it's a reflection of ME. A lot will depend on what happened, but I truly believe people are doing the best they can with what they've got. I get to choose how I interact with people. I'm always willing to listen and learn.

We tend to look at each other with such narrow lenses and it gets in the way of meaningful relationships.
It's not so much what people think of me, it's that I want them to know I meant no harm. If I've had a negative impact on someone, I want to remedy that as best I can; it doesn't matter if I was right/wrong. I can't tell you the last time someone offended me though.

Does masturbation count?
Speaking for myself, but is there anything else? šŸ˜†

Hahaha

Let me tell you about the conception of my second child 🤣
Go on...

What is your favourite word for sexy time in your household …. Or you have used in the past?
Where kids are present to hear the conversation? "Alone time"
 
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