Pretty complicated since I got on Lit. Exploring my bi-curious side here and it’s doubling the prospective fantasy opportunities. Throw in Trans and it adds another level of complexity.A riddle wrapped in a mystery inside an enigma . . . and there’s a clit in there somewhere too!
Some of us get off pretty easily and others require costumes, music, fireworks and mind reading skills.
How sexually complicated are you?
Married so not looking for partners IRL, but it’s fairly easy to find a compatible chat partner. All have been very nice.Do you find compatible partners easily, or is it a needle in a haystack situation?
If anything, I’m finding myself not as kinky as many on Lit. I’m older so I have had many sexual experiences that perhaps a younger person may not have had. I attribute that to growing up in a sexually more open era rather than any sexy physical characteristics I may have, lol.Do you have a kink (or kinks) that you find very few people share?
No, sex is better.Is masturbation a better path to orgasm than sex? If so, how do you and your partner make that work?
Yes. Communication is key. We agree we want a threesome, for example, but IRL, it would be hard to find a safe partner.Are you open with your partner about what you need sexually? If not, why not?
Yes, now that I’m more mature I do. I’m not jealous of past lovers. My main goal now is her orgasm, not mine. Complete opposite of when I was younger.Do you (generally) understand what your partner (present and past) needs, or are you just firing in all directions hoping something sticks?
Being bi-curious, to me doesn’t mean I’m into guys per se, more into a nice cock and cum. I appreciate a handsome man but it doesn’t turn me on sexually, I wouldn’t want to kiss or cuddle a man. On the other hand, a hot trans girl would really get me aroused.Do you have a kink that attracts the exact kind of person you are not into?
Interesting question. My spouse and I are mature enough to know the difference between lust and love, so hopefully there wouldn’t be jealousy in a group situation. I think that a lot of my kinks: group sex, threesomes, cum eating and doing a trans girl would probably be better off as fantasy because of possible STDs rather than emotional issues.Do you have a kink that is better off as a fantasy due to the complicated nature of it? (Like how I want to be captured by a tribe of hot Amazon women who strip me naked and use me for their visual and sexual pleasure? Hard to make that one happen).
Edging is always nice.If you could get your partner to understand one thing about giving you an orgasm, what would it be?