BDSM Bucket List

[Princess_Scarlet]

Which position?

I’d be pinned down and spread wide

 

[seekingAlpha]

Bucket list? I have a spreadsheet and it seems for every item I complete I seem to add at least 2 more. I make it a point to record ideas as they come into my mind so I do not forget them. It is a living document that serves as an archive and roadmap at the same time. I have allowed subs to add activities to it as well.

 

[Primalex]

I’d be pinned down and spread wide

Thought so. It's going to be more difficult to find someone for the other position.

 

[cookiecat]

Thought so. It's going to be more difficult to find someone for the other position.

I've thought a lot about cuckquean in the last several months. I've been introduced to swinging - which is interesting but doesn't really satisfy my subby, bottom, masochist desires. I can't really monkey around with a random vanilla guy and get all whipped up about it. If I do some mental gymnastics, I can put myself in to a humiliating mindset where it becomes more arousing. In a one on one situation, I do it because my guy wants it.

We haven't explored a more-some situation, but in the one you describe, in some weird way, it turns me on to be the one pinning down the receiving girl because it keeps my pussy empty. I have to watch her getting what I crave, leaving me feeling all the crazy feels - wet, excited, super sad I wasn't worthy of cock, then super super happy I did the thing he wanted me to do and in my mind, he is insanely proud of me and perhaps loves me even more because of it.

 

[Wonderer67]

I know I’ve stated this in the past. I’m a submissive male and very much in love with my wife. But i would really like to dominate a woman. (My wife sez this is a hard no).

Being submissive, I think I have some perspective on what would work and be a good mind fuck for a submissive female.

 

[DeepAchingNeed]

Man o' man!! Every day there's so much stuff posted - oral, rope, cmnf, femdomme, things that make us uncomfortable, wax... It's fun to look at, think about, obsess over.

Sometimes I see things and think - yup! That! I have to try that thing and I add it to my list of things I'd like to try.

Do you have anything on your sex / kink / bdsm bucket list? Care to share?

Do you think you'll make it happen??

I find that because I very intentionally am aware of and focused on the specifics of each relationship from which any actions are being taken, there are no two events or activities that are the same. The energy, the substance, the entire experience is its own thing, every single time. In being awake, aware, and fully present and open in each and every moment, everything as an expectation or previously held memory of erased and set-aside. All that is real and true is each moment as it arrives, and my (our) thorough commitment and determination to be full present to one another and that experience. By this standard there remains an unlimited and ever expansive treasure trove of literally everything for me to intimately know and experience. As someone whose selective preferences always tend toward "all of the above", this represents me perfectly

I have a friend that always liked to remind people that while they may really enjoy sucking cock, they never sucked HIS cock before, so it offered them an opportunity to be teach-able and present in a new way to what his body's response was to what they might do in such an undertaking. Similarly, you might have eaten or pounded any number of exquisite and delectable passes, but you have no idea what awaits you as mine unless/until that feast and delicacy is in front of you. Just as would be the case if my mouth or hands were coaxing from you the most divine climax (or edging) in the magnificent exploration of becoming familiar with every inch of you... And even if you had sampled and participated in such bliss and enjoyment, it was not THIS moment... every single "right now" is new. Every. Experience. Is. New.

 

[masterslave00]

It's on my bucket list too... Some other things:

• threesome with mother and daughter (I am fucking them both right now, but they don't know)
• spit roasted by two women (if the two above did it that would be amazing

I am sure there is more, but...

Sounding is now off the list - finally done it. I've enjoyed it, but not sure if I want to do it too often. The discomfort afterwards was worse than I expected...

 

[BiBunny]

I want to try suspension bondage, but there aren't too many people I'd trust to rig my fat ass up like that. I'm not really into bondage as a rule, but the idea of kinda just hanging there is interesting.

 

[HusbandNextD00r]

I want to try suspension bondage, but there aren't too many people I'd trust to rig my fat ass up like that. I'm not really into bondage as a rule, but the idea of kinda just hanging there is interesting.

Yes! I've been fascinated with suspension for years. Although, for me it isn't sexual in nature. I feel that it is about the endurance of pain and the psychological preparedness I would need to reach before taking on the experience.

 

[Purple_Fronds]

I want to try suspension bondage, but there aren't too many people I'd trust to rig my fat ass up like that. I'm not really into bondage as a rule, but the idea of kinda just hanging there is interesting.

Have you tried a sex swing not exactly the same but might get you on the way?

 

[Wonderer67]

Right now my bucket list is just to be able to cum.

I have been denied since early May and will be released in a few weeks on my birthday by my wife.

 

[Purple_Fronds]

1950s housewife play where I'm a housewife and my domme businesswoman wife comes home for me to cook her dinner and serve her any way she likes

Never thought about this before, but sounds deliciously sweet and hot

 

[Stan_the_skin]

Pee play ? hhhmmm I'd like that.

 

[Secret_Kink_Couple]

I want to be tied up, blindfolded and teased with toys by another woman while hubby watches us. Then when they finally let me go I'd love for it to end in a crazy, kinky threesome until we are all satisfied. Hopefully to end with a repeat performance on demand....

 

[lowcollar]

Eat my cum out of my Mistress' ass. Definately on top.

 

[Meduus]

Barbwire

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

Barbwire

Ouch !!

 

[Meduus]

Ouch !!

I hope so

 

[OldGoodPup]

Placed horizontal,on my back, head hanging off the edge of a table at waist height. My balls, in a parachute are stretched tight. One of them is clamped, gently, do the ache in my belly keeps me limp. I am on display for my Miss and her friends. They giggle at my predicament. They take terms approaching and sitting on my face, teasing meet.
Then my Miss climbs onto me sitting on my belly. She asks, rhetorically, "Are you ready? Arch for me." I do. Her lover approaches and stands before her. As they kiss and caress, he slips into my throat. I am nothing but a platform for their lovemaking while my Miss's friend titter and applaud.

 

[lowcollar]

1. Dressed in pink, shaved and an all day slave.
2. Tied to the toilet, my head is pissed on; then I am pegged.
3. Having Madame fart whilel I have my tongue in her arse.